First love

godscop

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Biggins

Your getting old. Youthful dreams are returning to remind you of that.

No freaking way...so did i..

TheMilkyPirate

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

It happens alot, i think it's quite normal nobody ever really forgets there first love or loses some feelings for them.

PI?

token56

I see my hands every day so I'm always reminded.

Biggins

First love is the greatest thing in the world - and the worst.

"Greatest" because when it happens, it can be earth-shattering.
"Worst" because when it ends, it can be the ultimate heart breaker so far.

Thats why for many, for many years to come, memories of it still tug at the heart strings.

Flashes of past memories of it now, perhaps indicate that your longing to return to an age if innocence that your missing in your more aged and complicated world.

Cherish the memories - I hope ultimately they are good ones.

Notorious97

she any use?

godscop

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

johnny_knoxvile

token56 wrote: »

I see my hands every day so I'm always reminded.

your ex had hairy palms??

Biggins

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Sykk

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

*tear*

NothingMan

I remember the first girl I said I love you to, but the first girl I really thought I loved was just a friend. That was horrible, but onwards and upwards.

godscop

Cheers biggins you have made me feel better..;)

Johnny Bitte

Biggins, you so deep. I never knew!

OP, wrong place for this trust me. They are coming and when they get here they will make horrible horrible comments about her : (

Run away my good man!

Sanjuro

The_Goose135 wrote: »

Biggins, you so deep. I never knew!

That's what she said.

squod

I dreamt about yor ma.

orourkeda

squod wrote: »

I dreamt about yor ma.

I dreamt ON your ma.

orourkeda

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Oddly, I met mine about 2 weeks ago. I hadnt seen her in ages and then she told me she's living in Melbourne and was home on hols. Thats the end of that.

allanb49

Biggins post's here made me smile, Thanks.

squod

orourkeda wrote: »

I dreamt ON your ma.

How desperate are you ! She's dead about about ten years.

Jamiekelly

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Easily the smartest and most insightful thing said on AH (which isn't a challenge but still...) Well said!

rainbowdrop

squod wrote: »

How desperate are you ! She's dead about about ten years.

Extreme necrophilia ftw

:pac:

Snakeblood

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

My first love was in uhhh. 4th class. I was also in 4th class*, in case anyone's going to call the police. If I dreamed about her now, I'd be pretty unsettled.

*Not a teacher.

Interceptor

And don't tell your current partner you've been dreaming about your ex - thats ALWAYS a recipe for disaster...

'cptr

squod

Betcha they were both dreaming of a big black cock

mikerowsopht

Oddly I also had a wet dream about my first lass
twas over 10 yrs ago now
But I found her on facebook and sent her a poke
she is fine ass

Lu Tze

Anybody else misread the title as "Fist Love"?

Anyways - biggins has pretty much nailed it in the posts above for me

godscop

I was thinking of facebook but dont think it would be a good idea..........

Jamiekelly

godscop wrote: »

I was thinking of facebook but dont think it would be a good idea..........

Well it has been quite some time since you were with her so I don't think it will be in any way awkward. If she is in a relationship then it could get tricky. But if you never try then you never know. I say go for it. You have nothing to lose good luck

godscop

Thats the problem jamie i would have so much to lose.

fufureida

Im with my first love right now...he was the only guy I ever went out with and we been together for 4 years now!

alwaysadub

I often think about my first love and wonder what he's up to and should i try find out.
But it's all in the past, and there's a reason we're not still together, so i know i'm better off not knowing about him.

upandcumming

Biggins wrote: »

First love is the greatest thing in the world - and the worst.

"Greatest" because when it happens, it can be earth-shattering.
"Worst" because when it ends, it can be the ultimate heart breaker so far.

Thats why for many, for many years to come, memories of it still tug at the heart strings.

Flashes of past memories of it now, perhaps indicate that your longing to return to an age if innocence that your missing in your more aged and complicated world.

Cherish the memories - I hope ultimately they are good ones.

Slurry...

Dudess

Lu Tze wrote: »

Anybody else misread the title as "Fist Love"?

Yes.

Sir Gallagher

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Wow, what a genuinely sweet and heartfelt post, good man.

OutlawPete

I dedicate this to my first true love (not Jon Bon Jovi, he was my second )

I STILL LOVE YOU BABY!!! \o/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRgCoPhj3ek

Lily10

What is a first love? The first person you have sex with or the first person you loved? That label has always confused me.

alwaysadub

Lily10 wrote: »

What is a first love? The first person you have sex with or the first person you loved? That label has always confused me.

Your first love is the 1st person you loved.
Your first time is the 1st person you shagged.

Least it is in my book anyway!

jonnyfingers

Is your first love the one you still stalk on Facebook????

She really should change her password..............

ZzubZzub

When I think about my first love, I realise.... He wasnt actually a love. I was young... Impressionable... Thought it was love!! But no. (was with him for 3/4 years. I swear I'm not a bitch! Cause that sounds harsh.......)

My REAL first love recently asked me to get back with him 2 days ago. EHHHHHHHHHHHH...............no. He already put my heart in shatters!

Pherekydes

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ?

Not really. I think about mine all the time. What she's doing in work? When she'll be home? What'll I make for her dinner?

Princess Peach

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

I read this and thought, you're a bit romantic. I like you.

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

And then I thought serves you right (coming from a woman scorned.)

Leelaa22

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

No I dont think thats odd, happens to me too and other people I know.
Only problem is if its a good dream I miss them and feel sad for the day, if its a nightmare Im pissed off with them and angry for the day.
don't worry them dreams don't mean anything

stovelid

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Tip: get the sheets to a launderette quickly in case your ma is the forensic type.

AnonoBoy

The restraining order and ankle monitor are a constant reminder of my first love.

Kimono-Girl

Cleeo wrote: »

When I think about my first love, I realise.... He wasnt actually a love. I was young... Impressionable... Thought it was love!! But no.

+1

i think we've all been there...i have to add naive to the list though

op maybe you are only dreaming of her because of guilty feelings on your part?


cause personally the only time i think of my first love,is when the topic arises, such as this thread....maybe its because it ended so badly for me or maybe its just because im over it and i can discuss it and forget about it, it means nothing to me now, either way you need to move on man its been 10 years!

Jaxxy

I wasn't in love with my first love either. I told him I was, I thought I was at the time but years experience and hindsight has told me I wasn't really. Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever been in love with any of my boyfriends.

I've never been in love! :eek:

camomile

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

What was so great about her? Anything in particular? Ever look her up?

Mr Benevolent

I'm indebted to my ex for breaking up with me, I'dve never met my current girlfriend. She's approximately 32 times better then the ex.

NothingMan

Confab wrote: »

I'm indebted to my ex for breaking up with me, I'dve never met my current girlfriend. She's approximately 32 times better then the ex.

I wanna see that equation.

godscop

camomile wrote: »

What was so great about her? Anything in particular? Ever look her up?

I bumped into her a few weeks ago. She was great fun. She had beautiful tits ..Im married now to the love of my life and have 2 beautiful kids.