is there a way of getting being blocked on facebook

ladylouise

is there to being blocked because the blocker has all the control and victim of it has no control only taken it witch is not fair .i was blocked for no reason with out warning or reason.

the blocker has all the control and one who been blocked has to taken it like ir or lump it .there no point taken it up with facebook.

its not fair to be blocked delete not blocked.its not fair.

can one help me with some real useful advice to help me.

IamtheWalrus

Did someone delete you from their friends list?

ladylouise

IamtheWalrus wrote: »

Did someone delete you from their friends list?

NOT DELETE BLOCKED INSTEAD

star-pants

Are you asking can you be un blocked?
You can't, if someone has blocked you, then you're blocked, it's their choice who they want to be friends with / have view their profile.

blubloblu

A block only affects your interactions with that person; if they don't want to talk to you, that's their right.

star-pants

Just another note, if you block someone, they can't see you and you can't see them.

00112984

Hrm, wonder why he blocked you?

Asphyxia

ladylouise wrote: »

NOT DELETE BLOCKED INSTEAD

You can't unblock yourself, if they don't want to interact with you on Facebook they shouldn't have to and you shouldn't be trying to make them either. Blocks were put in place for a reason so you just have to deal with it I'm afraid.

ladylouise

Pocketfizz wrote: »

You can't unblock yourself, if they don't want to interact with you on Facebook they shouldn't have to and you shouldn't be trying to make them either. Blocks were put in place for a reason so you just have to deal with it I'm afraid.

ITS NOT FAIR HAPPENED TWICE AND GUY DID N,T EVEN KNOW ME , CULTURE CLASH AND MISUNDERSTANDING GOT ME BLOCK WIRES CROSSED I GOT BLAMED .i said something he though i meant some thing else i can,t explain to him he won,t listen.

star-pants

ladylouise wrote: »

ITS NOT FAIR HAPPENED TWICE AND GUY DID N,T EVEN KNOW ME , CULTURE CLASH AND MISUNDERSTANDING GOT ME BLOCK WIRES CROSSED I GOT BLAMED .i said something he though i meant some thing else i can,t explain to him he won,t listen.

It may not seem fair, but it's done now, and you won't be able to contact him further if he has you blocked. You'll just have to accept that he's blocked you and move on. People block people all the time, and don't always give an explanation. It's their right to do so.

Asphyxia

ladylouise wrote: »

ITS NOT FAIR HAPPENED TWICE AND GUY DID N,T EVEN KNOW ME , CULTURE CLASH AND MISUNDERSTANDING GOT ME BLOCK WIRES CROSSED I GOT BLAMED .i said something he though i meant some thing else i can,t explain to him he won,t listen.

Well if you got blocked twice you must of had a chance to explain before getting blocked the second time anyway nothing to do with me, but if this guy doesn't even know you then just leave him be no point moaning about it. It's his right to block you just as it's yours to block anyone else.

ladylouise

i feel bad because he blocked me he hates me he does n,t even know me.
its makes me very sad and lonely.i would never block some one because i,d feel bad might want them back as friend again. all because of culture clash .he never gave me chance to explain he very moody and u can,t say any thing to him when he is in mood.he does n,t even feel bad for it it blocked my sister who done nothing to him. all because she was my sister

poisonated

I never understand why people are "friends" with people on facebook that they don't even know. That being said, I am friends with loads of people who I don't know well but I would see them out and about.

star-pants

Well if he doesn't know you, or your sister, then you shouldn't feel bad. You said he doesn't know you so what does it matter if he blocked you - he's not a friend so who cares what he thinks. Just leave him be and if he bothers to try and be friends again just say no.

ladylouise

star-pants wrote: »

Well if he doesn't know you, or your sister, then you shouldn't feel bad. You said he doesn't know you so what does it matter if he blocked you - he's not a friend so who cares what he thinks. Just leave him be and if he bothers to try and be friends again just say no.

i doubt he,ll feel bad for doing it andi,ll doubt he wnats to be freinds with me ever again and it was his fault not mine

28064212

Quick OP, what's your facebook account? I want to block you too. Does that offend you?

Seriously, what is the problem? You want to know if you can force him to talk to you? Is that your question? No, you can't do that

SerialComplaint

What would be the point of having a block feature, if the target of the block could override it? That would be pretty useless - right?

ladylouise

blubloblu wrote: »

A block only affects your interactions with that person; if they don't want to talk to you, that's their right.

no that's wrong i had facebook i made friends some his friends he blocked me i didn,t add him or interact with in any way shape make or form .now thats not on i only made friends with his friends and he still blocked me. this time for nothing at all but making frends with friends i had in common with him

FOR NOTHING BUT MAKING FRIENDS WITH HIS FRIENDS I STILL GET BLOCKED WITH OUT CONSCIENCE OR CARE

Gingersnaps

ladylouise wrote: »

no that's wrong i had facebook i made friends some his friends he blocked me i didn,t add him or interact with in any way shape make or form .now thats not on i only made friends with his friends and he still blocked me. this time for nothing at all but making frends with friends i had in common with him

FOR NOTHING BUT MAKING FRIENDS WITH HIS FRIENDS I STILL GET BLOCKED WITH OUT CONSCIENCE OR CARE

Think of it this way. If you met someone in a pub/nightclub/cafe and they weren't interested in being friends with you and they walk away. Then imagine you walk over to them again and they still don't want to be your friend. That's it. They don't want to be your friend. Their actions can seem hurtful and insensitive but that's life. Everybody has the right to choose who they want to be friends with. I'm sure there are plenty more people that would be happy to have you as a friend.

lesserspottedchloe

Firstly you should not be getting stroppy with people that were confused by your posts as they're just about legible and secondly he is fully entitled to block your access/contact on Facebook-build a bridge.I mean this in the nicest possible way

ladylouise

laylah wrote: »

Firstly you should not be getting stroppy with people that were confused by your posts as they're just about legible and secondly he is fully entitled to block your access/contact on Facebook-build a bridge.I mean this in the nicest possible way

sorry i didn,t make my clear
i did not add him as friend or had any interactrion with him

i ONLY made friends his friends only.not him in any i had nothing to do with him ,his friends accept me but he blocked me for no good reason i had nothing at all to do with him i interacted with new ones .i don,t see why he blocked me when i had nothing to do with him at all.just out blue today blocked me with out warning it does n,t seem fair,this time i truly had nothing to do with him only made friends with his friends ,he has hatred for me or set on me for no good reason.its like he does n,t want to be friends with his friends at all.i am not fighting with him at all he has set on me and grudge against me .he doesn,t like any one who doesn,t like him or said any thing against him but he can do what he likes to others and there is come back

i am no good to explain things

ladylouise

ladylouise wrote: »

sorry i didn,t make my clear
i did not add him as friend or had any interactrion with him

i ONLY made friends his friends only.not him in any i had nothing to do with him ,his friends accept me but he blocked me for no good reason i had nothing at all to do with him i interacted with new ones .i don,t see why he blocked me when i had nothing to do with him at all.just out blue today blocked me with out warning it does n,t seem fair,this time i truly had nothing to do with him only made friends with his friends ,he has hatred for me or set on me for no good reason.its like he does n,t want to be friends with his friends at all.i am not fighting with him at all he has set on me and grudge against me .he doesn,t like any one who doesn,t like him or said any thing against him but he can do what he likes to others and there is come back

i am no good to explain things

he doesn,t like me making friends with friends is the reason why he blocked me petty and childish reason

SerialComplaint

ladylouise wrote: »

sorry i didn,t make my clear
i did not add him as friend or had any interactrion with him

i ONLY made friends his friends only.not him in any i had nothing to do with him ,his friends accept me but he blocked me for no good reason i had nothing at all to do with him i interacted with new ones

This doesn't make sense. He can only block you if you are his friend.

If you were never his friend, he could never have blocked you.

ladylouise

ladylouise wrote: »

he doesn,t like me making friends with friends is the reason why he blocked me petty and childish reason

So get over it and stop stalking

ladylouise

SerialComplaint wrote: »

This doesn't make sense. He can only block you if you are his friend.

If you were never his friend, he could never have blocked you.

well he did i would n,t be written here if i understood it believe me.i never added him as freind. just other people who have him on as friend.but i never added.i am NOT fighting with him or nothing ,i just got blocked for nothing.i don,t understand it at all

i though i could not be done. i am confused by that.

carwash_2006

I don't understand! If he wasn't your even your friend why would you care - or even know - that he blocked you?

This has to be one of the strangest threads I've ever read.

3DataModem

You can block non-friends.

it is really handy ... youcan even block them so if they search for you you don't even show up in search results.

Very handy.

Irish Fire

Get a life......

ladylouise

i didn,t know people can block non friends .even i did nothing wrong but make friends with his friends i get block for nothing

carwash_2006

But why do you care?!?!

Sorry to butt in, but I don't believe you've yet answered the "why do you care question". Not trying to be an ass, but I'm genuinely curious.

EDIT: Great timing, Carwash!

ladylouise

Deleted User wrote: »

Sorry to butt in, but I don't believe you've yet answered the "why do you care question". Not trying to be an ass, but I'm genuinely curious.

EDIT: Great timing, Carwash!

i care because its hurts to be blocked by some one i did nothing at all to.just because i made friends with some of his friends.he blocked me i really did nothing wrong at all.i am very up set i am set upon in such a manner i was familar with guy by name that's all .i did nothing wrong at all.people tell get over it .i have no friends i don,t like being blocked for nothing and no reason

carwash_2006

ladylouise wrote: »

i care because its hurts to be blocked by some one i did nothing at all to.just because i made friends with some of his friends.he blocked me i really did nothing wrong at all.i am very up set i am set upon in such a manner i was familar with guy by name that's all .i did nothing wrong at all.people tell get over it .i have no friends i don,t like being blocked for nothing and no reason

But this isn't really an explanation. You shouldn't care that somebody you don't know and doesn't know you doesn't want to interact with you.

Do yourself a favour and learn that people who don't want to know you are best forgotten. Concentrate on friends you do have and forget people that don't want to know. This person probably put little or no thought into blocking you, goodness knows why they did it, but here are you wasting time and energy and upsetting yourself over something that someone else has more than likely already forgotten. For all you know they have been having problems with people on facebook and have decided to limit access to people they only know in real life.

Foreverdelayed

OP sounds like a weak troll.

ladylouise

that right little or thought who has already forgotten me he has a lot friends of people on his facebook he does n,t even know.but i had no interaction with him only his friend.no thought none just pure cold rejection he love blocking people he does n,t even know me he blocked me any way

like trash being dumped like me

Butterfly25

Am I reading this right? This thread started in October and you're still not over it??

Obviously this is a wind up!

:rolleyes:

ladylouise

Butterfly25 wrote: »

Am I reading this right? This thread started in October and you're still not over it??

Obviously this is a wind up!

:rolleyes:

no its not please its not

ladylouise

i did even try to make friend i got block any way its make no sence why i don,t know.i am very upset i didn,t even add him as friend only his freind i am still blocked

carwash_2006

I give up, if it is really bothering you that much then it sounds like you need some help. It is not normal to be this upset over someone not wanting to be friends with you when they don't even know you!!

Go talk to a professional in real life.

AMPSound

Oh god.... Here we go again...

PaulPinnacle

AMPSound wrote: »

Oh god.... Here we go again...

With that sort of attitude I'm liable to run off and block you! (after adding you... even though I don't know you... obviously :rolleyes:)

aidan_walsh

Guys, quit the attacks against the OP. If you want to comment, be constructive, not personal.

ladylouise

aidan_walsh wrote: »

Guys, quit the attacks against the OP. If you want to comment, be constructive, not personal.

thank you .you seem to be only one who understands my hurt and pain.

your nice person

t0mm13b

Oh.....

My....

Gawd....

Is this thread for real??

If you get blocked and throw a strop, that block is for a reason, you have zero control over them in blocking you... unfortunately, that is life....

if you don't like it, break off from Facebook if you're taking this personally and expand your social environment by going out and meeting REAL people instead... all too often, Facebook, despite being a social phenomenan, they are not really "friends" per se, more of a "online-friend" rather than in real life....

my suggestion is, move on, get over it, meet up with REAL people in your area, socialize, and steer clear of sites like Facebook. If you're not able for it, you shouldn't be anywhere near them...

BTW I'd like to point out that this is not a criticism or a personal attack. Far too often there's a lot of "online friends", its the friends part, that you are leaving yourself open to some form of attack especially if you do not know that person, you could end up in trouble and turns out to be a bogus character or a chancer. Its fine and dandy if its someone you knew in REAL life - that's no problem.... just concerned that a lot of people spend a inproportionate amount of time on Facebook and not knowing how to interact with others later on (this would be held true by the younger generations that are starting out in their teens now..... and weaned off BEBO, MYSPACE etc)

Duiske

If you could interact with this guy without being on his friends list, then it's possible he has just changed his privacy settings so only friends can interact with him. Maybe it's nothing personnel ?
Not sure if you have mentioned in previous post's, but have you tried sending a friend request ?

I'm not sure why you are so bothered by it though. Is it just that you want to be able to see your friends interactions with him ?

ladylouise

Duiske wrote: »

If you could interact with this guy without being on his friends list, then it's possible he has just changed his privacy settings so only friends can interact with him. Maybe it's nothing personnel ?
Not sure if you have mentioned in previous post's, but have you tried sending a friend request ?

I'm not sure why you are so bothered by it though. Is it just that you want to be able to see your friends interactions with him ?

no i just wanted to make freind belong to him which i had nothing to with him.he was not in the equation i have nothing him he just doesn,t like me.its a bit complex

t0mm13b

ladylouise wrote: »

no i just wanted to make freind belong to him which i had nothing to with him.he was not in the equation i have nothing him he just doesn,t like me.its a bit complex

Another final note @ladylouise is this, this is a constructive critique which will enable you to communicate better and not get wires crossed in future...

For goodness sake, get your grammar and spelling correct...

While not intending to sound a nazi grammar expert.... a little point should be noted on the following:

Since you are dealing with someone on Facebook, this rule applies to ALL websites, whatever you do, do not use text-speak on it, that armed with bad spellings can lead to mis-understandings and invariably getting blocked/ignored and that person will definitely get a bad vibe and say "Oh, this so and so person who posted is too lazy to use proper english etc......."

Facebook and sites like that - anyone who posts using bad spelling, grammar, text-speak are more likely to be ignored as it is frowned upon, internationally, a lot would have the grasp of basic English.... be careful... someone who has not a good grasp of English would easily misunderstood and hence "wires crossed"

Ok! Mind yourself on it...

jester77

I assume that as you had them added as a friend, then you know this person and have their phone number. Then, why don't you simply go the old school way, pick up the phone and call this friend and sort it out?

Not attacking you, but if you communicate with your friends over facebook the same way you interact here, then you realistically cannot be too surprised that some of your friends have blocked you.

ladylouise

jester77 wrote: »

I assume that as you had them added as a friend, then you know this person and have their phone number. Then, why don't you simply go the old school way, pick up the phone and call this friend and sort it out?

Not attacking you, but if you communicate with your friends over facebook the same way you interact here, then you realistically cannot be too surprised that some of your friends have blocked you.

i did NOT add him as a friend.some times when i do add people as friend they block me anyway and they would n,t not know me .it happened a few times before no explication given just blocked

jester77

ladylouise wrote: »

i did NOT add him as a friend.some times when i do add people as friend they block me anyway and they would n,t not know me .it happened a few times before no explication given just blocked

But you must have added them? You either sent the person a friend request or they sent you one, which you then have to either confirm or ignore. If you confirmed it then you added them. Or is there some other way for someone to get added to your friends list?

ladylouise

jester77 wrote: »

But you must have added them? You either sent the person a friend request or they sent you one, which you then have to either confirm or ignore. If you confirmed it then you added them. Or is there some other way for someone to get added to your friends list?

no i did not added him add him as a freind i had nothing with him he just on the same frend list only.
but i repeat i did not added him or send him message .i have no record of friend in my email. so i don,t know

how do you mean send me one i have no record of any request of friend,he is the one picking me,i had nothing to do with him high up or low down,
i was blocked unfairly for no reason the fact he got bee in bonnet about me.

i was targeted unfairly and for no reason