Things you want to say to husband/boyf/ex's/friends/family/people *MOD NOTE POST #1*

Cutie 3.14

You hurt me. And what's worse is I know there was malice in it.

And I know you like her, I see the glances between the two of you. I'm ending it with us because I won't be made a fool of.

Karmella

Karmella wrote: »

Dear cancer,

Please do not take hold of my dad It's bad enough that you've already taken my mother.
Can't you just let him enjoy his last few years, he's already been through enough and I don't think he has the strength or will to fight you.

Thanks.

Christ .... Stage 4??? Really??? :mad:

sullivlo

Karmella wrote: »

Christ .... Stage 4??? Really??? :mad:

Sorry to hear that Karmella. Cancer really is a prick.

Mind yourself & we're here to chat to if you need to vent.

x Purple Pawprints x

Dear Karmella

I'm very sorry to read your update.

Sending hugs.

- Paws

B00!

Karmella - so very sorry! Be gentle with yourself

C - I look forward to being away from your manipulative control soon. No more feeling anxious at your texts, trying to figure out what angle you are playing. You say you're my friend, but your actions say differently. I am tired of feeling spied on, every move I make, regardless of how I try to please you, it's never enough... Is honesty such a difficult concept? .... I want this cycle of mistrust to end. Freedom sounds more like heaven to me. You exhaust me.

LegacyUser

A,

I'm finally over you.

Can I say that again?

I. Am. Over. You.

FINALLY.

And no, I don't want to be your friend!

***

To anyone who's just had their heart broken and is resisting or struggling through no contact, please keep going. The effort is worth so much more than you can imagine right now.

LegacyUser

Lets see where can I start. Your turned me down for a relationship in the past. You lead me on thinking it was only a matter of time before we became a couple. You lied to me and got caught doing this. I was their in the past when you were having a hard time and dealing with a few difficult issues. You blocked me on fb as you did not want me to find out a few things about you. You decided you did not want us to be friends anymore.

I got a message from someone we both a few weeks ago. I have been in contact with them since then. I heard a few things about you and I can't say I was supprised at what I was told.

You found out about this and out of the blue I get a message from one of your friends.

Your friend then gave me a sob story about you. I knew you were beside them when I made my replies back. I was very honest back to them. I told them the truth about a few things that happend between me and you in the past.
I even told them how I told you something recently by email. I said then to you life is to short to be falling out with people. You ignored me then even when you knew that some one in my family was not well then.

I know your worried now about a few things. You were trying to find out what my plans are now in regards to the person that contacted me. I won't be stepping in to help them out in a major way. I don't see why this person and situation are now going to become an issue for me to sort out.

You need to grow up and face up to your problems now rather than putting your head in the sand. You ignoring things and hoping they go away is just leading to your problems getting worse.
After the messages I sent your friend I went away smiling. I know it was just a matter of time before your past would catch up with you. Your bad decisions have lead you to where you are now and you have no one to blame but yourself for this.

Dear me,

You're going to be ok. There have been so many times when you thought you wouldn't be and you survived. This is just another bump that you need to address. Life is difficult for you at the best of times but that's ok too. Don't become hard inside. You don't want to be that person, even of it means living is easier.

Stop thinking about the future. You are uncertain about having a child so there's no need to let your age be this big thing now. Life hasn't turned out how you had hoped, start believing that it's better, that you are free and independent, you have wonderful friends and a job you've always wanted.

Don't concentrate on what you don't have. Don't feel sad that there isn't one man who wants to spend the rest of his life with you. You are wise enough to know that is no reflection on who you are. You are also wise enough to know your own heart and how you want so much more than ordinary.

Karmella

Karmella wrote: »

Christ .... Stage 4??? Really??? :mad:

I'm sorry you're going through this Karmella
Mind yourself x

addicted to caffeine

Dear self,

Well done on getting some specialist help for your migraines, after 17 years of ongoing pain and sickness:(. fingers are crossed that the new meds work now..

From me

B00!

S-You live such a privileged life, and don't seem to know it. You can't possibly understand mine.

M-You had no right to shame a kid, when you were the one to blame for things she never understood. All those years I beleived a liar.

K-Keep people at a distance, it hurts less.

Telluric

Dear .

It's 4 years since I first walked into your office. I remember thinking that you seemed a bit young and maybe a bit scatty. Little did I know that you'd become my anchor and the person who would keep me alive for the next 4 years of my life. Because that's what you did - you gave me the courage to keep breathing when I felt like I was suffocating every single day.

You talked some sense into me again today, like you always do. You make me see and think clearly when nothing feels very straightforward at all. Thank you for that. Thank you for all of the times when you've given me perspective when mine was so spectacularly skewed. And thank you for reminding me of what's right in this world. And what will always be wrong. My head and my heart go to war all too much of the time. And, too often, I feel so caught up between the two that I don't quite know where my allegiance should lie.

Thank you for your belief in me, when I haven't always had it in myself.

stop animal cruelty

C

In fairness u had your chance, sorry chances....ur right, I was honest....but Im not usually that bitchy!!....oops...BUT....ca n u blame me for what I think of u!?

G, aka hot guy that use work in the same building as me

I know we've never spoken or met properly, so im taking the bull by the horns n chancing u....I only ever make the first move on a guy if I really really really really like them......hope u write back cuz ur so Hot! 😘

Starkystark

Your just another d**khead that wants to rule my world!

Now go away!

ArtyC

You've gone too far this time.

I could see the flicker of sense when I pointed out how clever would it be if someone said that to your mom.

Still.

You said it to me. You absolute waster

stop animal cruelty

I really hope I don't regret this...!

sullivlo

Dear self,

I understand why you are seriously wishing that there was proper anonymity on the internet. I get that you don't mind people knowing your RL identity, but I wish you had a safe place to vent without fear of repercussions.

Also, stop buying shoes. Putting them in a box to hide them doesn't make it okay to buy new ones, regardless of how pretty they may be.

mrkiscool2

Dear D as well as everyone else who has been affected,

I have not being okay for a long time. My anger has reached a point where I am wrecking relationships (both our loving one and friendships I cherish). I never stopped to think that my isolation comes from problems I have and not the fact others simply despise me. My whole way of thinking has been clouded by this anger inside me. I need help, and tonight, hearing you break down and telling me I needed to change or we'd be over made me realise that. I love you and want to be a better man. Not just for you but for myself as well. I'll get on it today and won't stop until I am better.

With Love
M.

B00!

Dear man from the past, please leave me be. Everytime you say anything, it hurts. I know you can't understand that.

Whocanibe

Dear J.

I couldn't be happier for you. We have been friends for too many years that I care to remember. You're only a little bit of a thing, but to me you're a Giant, head and shoulders above anyone else and the strongest person I have ever met. We have been through so much together, the laughs and the tears, and I can't ever remember a time when you didn't have my back, but you were also never afraid to tell me to cop myself on, but never in a nasty way!

I'd love to give you a big bear hug, but you'd only tell me to feck off, I wish you always the happiness you feel today, I don't know anyone more deserving, and I wish everyone could be as lucky as me in having a friend like you!

I know,I know,soppy eh, :-) :-)

sullivlo

Dear mum,

I love you.

But if you don't stop trying to slam on the brakes from the passenger seat when I'm driving, I'm going to pull over and let you walk home. Lots of people sit in that passenger seat when I'm driving. You're the only one who ever tries to fake brake. It's your problem, not my driving.

Sunny Dayz

I know I haven't said it to you but you're an amazing woman. You are so caring. You put everyone else's needs and feelings before your own. You've been a rock of support for loved ones who needed it and benefitted greatly from it. You've made a difference to people's lives.

Sunny Dayz

I know I haven't said it to you but you're an amazing woman. You are so caring. You put everyone else's needs and feelings before your own. You've been a rock of support for loved ones who needed it and benefitted greatly from it. You've made a difference to people's lives.

Sunny Dayz

I know I haven't said it to you but you're an amazing woman. You are so caring. You put everyone else's needs and feelings before your own. You've been a rock of support for loved ones who needed it and benefitted greatly from it. You've made a difference to people's lives.

Makapakka

Dear self,

It's time to take care of yourself. And that means eating well. You are miserable when you eat ****. The tiredness is so overwhelming and you feel guilty then because you cannot care for A. Tomorrow is the start of the rest of your life. It won't happen overnight and that's one thing you have to remember. Please just take it easy and start treating your body with respect. Please

Me

JillyQ

Please don't mess me around again don't think I could take it with everything else that's going on.

JillyQ

Please don't mess me around again don't think I could take it with everything else that's going on.

Whocanibe

M.
Why did it take me so long to see what everyone else saw?? You didn't see that coming did you :eek:

You thought I didn't have it in me, you were so wrong! J and I have been friends too long for a backstabber like you to think you could do that to one of us. but I'm glad you tried, it showed you for what you are....Poison!! Good riddance. :mad:

addicted to caffeine

Dear Mom,

I'm pretty sure I'm driving you mad with all my questioning for the book but thank you for answering them and being so patient

With love,
ATC

ivytwine

Right well that's interesting isn't it.
I don't need support that's on conditions, or a cover up for some ulterior motive. Do you think I'd do that to your friend? Of course I wouldn't.