Things you want to say to husband/boyf/ex's/friends/family/people *MOD NOTE POST #1*

LegacyUser

Dear .xy.

It's never going to happen, is it? I don't know why you grabbed me like you did I didn't know you that long but I still think about you, I wish there were someone else to come along and replace my thoughts and hopes for them. I knew it was over before it even began, I still don't know why. And deep down I don't think I ever will.


SC

OkayWhatever

Dear Mam,

I wish I could tell you this to your face, but you'd only cry :P

You are my hero. You're the strongest person i've ever met in my life. You make me want to be you in every single way. You're so kind and generous, and you would do anything for me.

You have been a mam and a dad to me. You have been the best parentS in the world. You have supported me through everything, even if I was wrong. you have welcomed my boyfriend so well, thank you for thinking so good of him. You have no idea how much he means to me.

You have been there for me through thick and thin, you have loved me even when I shouted horrible things at you. I didn't mean any bad words I said.

Thank you for all the times you cuddled me when I had a nightmare. And when you stayed with me when I was ill. Thank you for helping me through the worst relationship of my life, and for encouraging me in my relationship now. Thank you for holding my hand when I was in pain, and for wiping away my tears. Thank you for giving me the best mammy cuddles in the world.

Thank you for helping me cope. For coming into my bedroom and helping me out of bed when I didn't have the will to live my life anymore. You have been my strength, my support and my best friend. I would not be here without you. Every single thing you have done has made me a better person.

I'm sorry for disappointing you and letting you down. I'm sorry i'm repeating 1st first year and for staying in my boyfriend's house 3 weeks ago when I said i'd be home.

You do so much for me, to put food on the table and a roof over our heads.

I don't blame you for what happened with my dad. i've come to realise that IT'S HIS LOSS, and we don't need him. Us girlies can support each other when life gets tough

You should be so proud of yourself, you have every reason to be. You make everything better and I love you with all my belly (i'd say heart but my belly's bigger hahaha remember that :P ).

Can't wait to see you in the morning, Gonna try scab a lift to work :P

Love You Lots


P.s: Thank you for making me sausages this morning after my lovely 6 hour flight, yummmm

Censorsh!t

I want to tell my boyfriend I love him, but I'm too scared.

Izzy j

Dear ex husband, what a useless excuse of a father you have become. You have been a tunnel vision workaholic for many years resulting in the break down of our marriage but to forget to turn up to your own child's graduation takes the biscuit! Well confirmation of where your priorities lie. As if I didn't know. Why o why am I still hurt and surprised by your actions. I shouldnt be surprised.

sue_1512

Kablamo! wrote: »

My Dearest Daddy,
You always told me I didn't appreciate you enough- then start humming "You'll never miss your mother 'til she's buried beneath the clay".
You were absolutely spot on. I just never imagined that you would leave us so soon, or that there would be such a void left in my life.
The past year or so of our relationship we fought like cat and dog. With the benefit of hindsight I know now why: I am you. I have your temper, you mannerisms, but most of all your stubborn nature. This horrifies and amuses me in equal measure .
If I could turn back the clock, well...
When you dropped me to secondary school and asked for a kiss at the gates? I wouldn't worry about looking 'cool'. When you told me stories about your childhood, instead of turning up the volume on the radio, I would have given you my full attention. Instead of getting frustrated by your pushing me to go to college, get a job, whatever, I would have realised that you never wanted to pressurize me... You were just so proud of me you thought the world needed to know what I can do.
My last words to you would change- I told you to "F off and die", and funnily enough, you had a heart attack a few hours later. The first time you ever did what I told you to. Knowing what I do now, I'd tell you that you were great, you were the best, and I was so lucky and blessed to have you for my father.
Love, eternally,
Your Little Girl x

"It was a sudden parting,too bitter to forget,
those who loved you dearly are the ones who cant forget.
we often sit and think of you and think of how you died,
to think you couldnt say goodbye, before you closed your eyes.
the blow was hard, the shock severe, to part with someone we loved so dear.
our loss is great, we'll not complain but trust god to meet again.
Two tired eyes are sleeping,Two willing eyes are still. the one who worked so hard for us, is resting at gods will.
our family chain is broken, nothing seems the same but as god calls us one by one. the links shall join again."

hope this has some meaning for you,it was the poem on my dads memoriam card, he died last year, didnt see him for weeks but saw him 5 mins after he died

chickenbutt

dear boyfriend, i appreciate you so much. thank you for listening to me cry and moan at 4 in the morning (damn this time difference!) when i am having a crisis about my life and the future. thank you for being one of the few people supporting me in my decisions. i don't know what i am meant to do but i know i want to be with you and i believe the rest will fall in place.

i can't wait until december 18 when we are together again... this long distance crap is such bullsh!t.

x

dear me, get your sh!t together before it's too late!

How Strange

Dear ex best friend,

We'd been best friends for almost 15 years and through thick and thin we stuck together. You supported me and vice versa. You were the person I could tell anything to and you'd never be shocked.

In hindsight you changed a few years ago. You started to have a glamorous professional career, got yourself a party loving boyfriend with influential friends (for your career). You stopped wanting to meet for quiet dinners which were originally your idea when you were teetotal and clean living. I was upset but said nothing.

Throughout our 15 years I put up with your temper tantrums and sulks because behing it all you were a very nice, decent person.

Then I got pregnant. You know when my husband said he didn't think he wanted to be in the delivery room you were the only other person I trusted well enough to consider asking. Anyway you met my son once when he was born and you've never seen him since. I asked you a few times to call over or meet for lunch but you were always too busy.

Then you text out of the blue to say you were sorry for not meeting up but you'd gotten yourself in trouble. The second time you came to see me since my son was born you came to my home in a foul, ignorant mood. You asked how I was and I said fine I had a beautiful baby boy. You said don't talk to me about f1cking babies. I almost threw you out by the scruff of your neck.

I sat there and listened to your drama for over two hours. You were hostile and rude and never had the manners or good grace to ask about us or my son. I haven't heard from you since then.

You've made no effort to meet up and I see on Facebook you've got time to go to every party in Dublin and some in
London. You've got over 1000 friends on Facebook but you've completely abandoned me. Goodbye ex friend. Im so hurt at times by what you've done and I don't think I want to consider you a friend anymore. Some things you can forgive and forget and somethings you can't. Life moves on and I suppose not everyone wants to move with you.

Ickle Magoo

Just a quick reminder to posters that this thread just does what is says on the tin - please post in the appropriate forum to give advice/chat.

Many thanks

herisson

Dear Guy that gives me the metro every morning!

i think you are cute....really cute!
you have a lovely smile and to be honest it does make comutting that much bearable and brightens up my day!

thanks

Cutie18Ireland

Dear George,
I miss you. I will never stop missing you.
I wish you didnt have to leave....
I am finding it tough without you here.
I love you with all my heart.
I hope you are happy wherever you are.
sending you lots of hugs and kisses, Your Mammy.

daenerysstormborn3

I'm not going to put so much pressure on myself between now and Christmas to lose weight. I'm still going to stick to the gym and my diet but I'm not going to put such pressure on myself coming up to the festive season. If I lose weight it'll be a bonus, if I don't I won't be so disappointed in myself. Your jaw nearly dropped onto the floor when I told you that. Thanks, that's exactly what I needed for my self esteem.

Lola92

W,

Please come home. We are all mad with worry. I know things have been tough lately especially with the boys so young but they need you, A needs you. We are all here to help in any way we can but first you need to come home, or let us come to you.

I'm praying so hard that you are all right, that it's just a little space you needed. That you will be back in the morning. You turned back at the boarding desk - no one has seen you since. What made you decide not get on the plane? Why didn't you take your phone?

I know things are hard to confusing and hard to understand. I know that you find it hard to trust. Just a call... just to know...

Please let us find you, please be okay.

Lola92

Dear whoever is up there,

You got her home safe.

Thank you.

Catxscotch

Dear ex best friends:

You were my sisters. We did everything together, and I told you about the one thing I told noone else. Then that one girl spread rumours about me and you believed her. You believed her over me. I can never forgive you for making me like this. I trust no other girls. I have no best friends, no one to confide in. It was you that ruined that with ur malicious actions, oh how quickly you turned after those lies you stupid stupid girls. Ive used facebook to stalk through your pictures..(mutual friend) and seen how much fun you guys had together without me, while I had nobody to go out with.

Now I hear you have all fallen out amongst yourselves. HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA AH AHA AH AHAHA HA AH AHA

Karma is such a bitch!!!

Lady Chuckles

Dear X,

Who the hell do you think you're talking to?? :mad::(

Ickle Magoo

Chat/advice posts deleted.

As already stated above:

This thread just does what is says on the tin - please use the appropriate forums/threads if you wish to give advice/chat to other posters.

Many thanks

binxeo

Dear J,

Thank you for all your support and kind words. You are the world to me and I could never imagine my life without you. Thank you for our daughter she is so special and amazing and I love that she looks like you. Thank you for being so understanding about me wanting to lose weight but making sure I knew I didn't have to lose it for you. I love that you love me the way I am. You are so special to me and I hope you know that.

You are my life, my world, my everything. I am so glad we found each other.:)

booboo88

Is there anything I can do/say to make you realise, it'll always be you i miss you so much, everytime we talk its like we're still in a relationship, all i want to do is cuddle you

daenerysstormborn3

Just remembered it's our anniversary on Tuesday and even though a card cannot put into words how I feel I better get my bum into town tomorrow and pick you out something with a few verses in it because I know you love them kind of cards.

Bubs99

Dear D,

We've been together over 9 years now (with a year break up inbetween) but we've been through so much.
You've stood by me through thick and thin for family issues, friends issues, work, college...I wouldn't have even passed only for you helping me with the maths.

you've saved my life litterally, so many times when I had/have the seizures and I appreciate that so much. You're family are like my family and I love you more every day.

I really dont care about marriage, all I want soon in the future is a mini me and you...your baby!

The day that hopefully happens, my life will be complete. But for now, I love you so much and you make me so happy.

Love C. xxx

ilovesleep

Dear Mam,

I know you mean well but you have to get your sons to contribute towards the household. You are supporting grown men. Even if its just 20 or 30 each a week to help. You are in arrears with bills and can't afford oil. Anytime I mention it you say they don't have it, yet amazingly they have money for the pub, their cars, and a holiday abroad to australia.

I've been hit hard and can't afford rent and I am so greatful that I have home to move back to, to ease the burden a bit, and I will contribute and help towards the household. I'd go to hell and back to help any one of ye but for the love of holy sweet god almighty I'm going to be taken advantage of so you can allow your sons to behave irresponsibly.

LegacyUser

Dear You,

I like you. I think you like me too but I could be wrong. I recently realised that I've been unclear too and I really want to talk about this. I don't take this stuff lightly. I don't think you do either. I'm a bit scared by it all.

Me.

herisson

Pixie-Fairy wrote: »

Dear so called friend!
i miss how things used to be with us! we were so close in the summer! then by the end we were ripped apart by your jealously of something that didnt happen!
i wish you could just see that i really dont fancy your secret boyfriend even though everyone knows whats going on! i genuinely dont find him attractive and i hate that he tore us apart and that you talk about me behind my back!
i wish you could see that i dont like him and that this psychotic jealously you have towards me is ridiculous!!
i miss old you!

you know what i take it back! everything i said i take it all back!

when it all breaks down dont come crying to us you wont get any sympathy!
you think you can treat us all like dirt and then come running back to us when (and it will) blow up in your face?
no love it wont work that way...i will laugh in your face when that happens

its your own fault you are the one that changed not us! i admit that i have changed a bit but i didnt completely change my whole personality
you pushed all of us away! with your fake personality and complete jealously over nothing!

i know all of you make ginger jokes at my expense..fair enough its a joke but ye will stop when it does get too much! but YOU....you do it so maliciously you have a real hate for me! but know what im glad im a red head! truely! and you know what if i wanted i can dye it again! but you will always look like a hamster!

there is no way we will be friends like we used to i just wish you would stay out of my life!

so seriously from the bottom of my heart Go fúck yourself! i dont want anything to do with ya!

Dear G

you have been such a good friend to me over the past few months
ive known you for nearly 8 years and we've been through thick and thin together! i love you so much! you are genuinely one of my best friends
i can tell you anything! when i was going through some personal stuff at the start of the summer you were there for me and gave me such good advice and i thank you so much for that! you are one of the nicest lads i have ever met in my entire life and i am so happy you are in my life!

love you loads

Pixie xxxxx

Ps. everyone agrees you are a WASTE of a gay man! we all wish you were straight

beks101

Dear Ken,

Goddammit but you're hot. You're sitting right across from me now, as I sit her glaring intently at the screen as though I'm doing something productive and not focused on the side of your head that keeps bobbing into my peripheral vision.

It's all business with you, and you're way too old for me, and probably too sophisticated too. But you make me feel like a kid in the best possible way. The phone rang at the desk the last day, and I looked around and saw you staring at me, and for about half a second, I wondered...

...but stopped myself, because it's business, isn't it? It's news, we're in with the big-shots now, hell you are the big-shot. On the front of it we have feck all in common but I want to know you. I want to hear all about your trip to Paris and be close enough to you to permanently smell that faint whiff of aftershave that sends my head in a spin.

What would you do, if you know I had this silly, girly crush on you? What would you think if you knew that despite all the professionalism and the polite Ps and Qs, I am just a silly girl with an overactive imagination and a serious soft spot for you?

Your voice enchants me and your style rocks my world. Thank God for office eye candy!

All my lust,

The Irish Girl

Jessibelle

Dear Jessibelle's brain.
If you agree to stop drifting and thinking about boys and other such distractions, for the next few hours, and let us get our work done, I'll let you watch 'Dexter' later on.
thanks for your co-operation,
Jess

Dear current object of fixation.
Please stop unknowingly distracting me. yes I am aware you are unaware of my existence and nothing will come of it ever, but still, please stop. Also, for teh record, phwoar .
Jess

LegacyUser

Dear friends, I'm not sure I can do this anymore, I'm surrounded by so many people - and yet I feel so f.ucking alone. I don't even know who I can trust anyone. I don't know who wants to help and who just feels like they 'should'. I don't want to be anyones obligation. I thought I had more than this.

But now, I have nothing.

What good am I to anyone with nothing?

Wibbs

Posts deleted, NO chat/advice thanks. Warnings throughout the thread including the very last page.

IHeartChemistry

Dear best friend who sent me this:

I want you to give me some breathing room. I understand your upset at things, but I have a lot going on. Hearing things like "Funny story, I tried to kill myself" Aren't things I need to hear. I want to be your friend, but you have to see this from my point of view. Its starting to freak me out. So, give me time, I need to sort myself out. I'll talk to you soon.

Thanks. I owe you one. I trusted you. Now you've gone and pulled this. Go to hell.

LegacyUser

Dear you,
Err that was a bit intense wasn't it?
Me.

missbelle

Dear that gal,
I'm a far happier person now that you aren't in my life, we were never really truly friends, and am glad that I have friends now that I feel an equal when I'm with them!

Dear that guy,
So glad I'm finally over you, you've had such a hold on me all these years even though we mightn't see each other that often. You just treated me like crap & I deserve better. I'd rather be on my own than feel like that again!

Dear myself,
Stop worrying about little irrelevant things, and what others think - it doesn't matter! Appreciate what you've got & who you've got, and live your life in the NOW!! Plus, give the nice guys a chance

LegacyUser

Dear d
why are you so self obsessed?. How many times was I there for you when you needed me? Listened to you ramble on about all your problems, and now that I have a problem you couldn't give a crap. You expect me to drop everything and come running no matter what's going on in my life, but you think it's perfectly okay for you not to bother turning up when you have even the most minute problem or just because you don't feel like it.

I'm really sick of it.

Don't expect me to listen to your crap anymore. It's not happening.
Me

PhysiologyRocks

Dear Self,

Toughen up.

Sincerely.

LegacyUser

I'm open to talking to you, rather than at you... you could always get in touch with me the way I... you know. Sorry about that, as well. The whole thing was just getting a bit ridiculous. I don't hate you, if that's what you're wondering. Not really sure what I think, which is why I'd like to talk.

I'm going to miss this, in a twisted way. It's driven me to the brink of insanity but... it had its moments.

Me.

Sonics2k

Why can't I get over you?

It's been a year now since I had to break up with you, and it'll be a year since I've seen you on New Years.

I've met so many wonderful women in the last year, and not one of them meant a thing to me, none of them compare to you.

I honestly can't picture a life without you. I'd give anything to see you again.

x Purple Pawprints x

I know I can be a pain but not texting me back makes me feel ignored. Especially when I know you're not asleep and I know you're playing games on Facebook. I just miss you when you're not with me and texting makes me feel closer to you. I'm sorry I complain so much.

- J xx

Edit: People here have real issues and here I am feeling sorry for myself because I feel ignored. I need to cop the f**k on.

Carter12

Carter12 wrote: »

Please God and the world,

Help me do what I have to do today, let me finish it and stick to my guns. Its been 10 years of CRAP.

Im a nice girl, people like me, I know that now. But so does he, and he knows im a softy for the sob stories.

Let me finish it so he can go back to his wife and perfect family, and I can get on with my life.

Please help me be strong.

To me.

Stop being so lazy and go for a ****ing run !! its only 4 weeks to the wedding and you have half a stone to lose.

GET OFF YOUR ARSE !!!!!

I hope Its ok to reply to my own post

YOU DID IT !!! youve lost half a stone and it wasnt very hard was it ? Go you !!! roll on the wedding this Saturday

Dear N.

Its over finally.... im sorry your wife wont have sex with you, but you married it, and I wont be your back up plan anymore

D x

LegacyUser

Dear you,

Fcuk you. We're done. Somehow I knew this would end with us hating each other, and here we are.

Once again: fcuk you.

Me.

daenerysstormborn3

Please stop taking it all out on me. I'm hurting so bad too.

flossie

Dear Floss,

Why oh why have you agreed to take on yet ANOTHER project, in addition to woerkloads you already have? Learn to say 'no, I am too busy at the moment' - they won't mind, they can see your calendar too.

And as for the pr*ck of a client, don't worry, don't take it personally.

Now listen, put this damn laptop away, pour yourself a vino form the fridge and relax (after doing some housework of course ) - it's the weekend!

See you later,

Floss.

Pembily

You really deserve all this, stop being self destructive and ruining it by eating junk and putting back on the weight! You deserve the job, the nice friends and boy as you were without for a long while! Cop on to fcuk

x Purple Pawprints x

Dear bf,

I know it's selfish and you're tired but please wake up and put your arms around me.. It's been a week since I saw you and I've missed you doing that. I feel like a right bitch but this is how I feel.

I love you. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

LegacyUser

Dear X from X

You are a mean, nasty, stubborn, rude, inconsiderate, ill mannered, head wrecking, lying donkey. I hope you know that. What did I do to deserve that head wreck of a game/mind fcuk that you introduced and played on me? Why did you do it? May I suggest marbles for you the next time you want to fcuk with ones mind. It's fragile and it's not for you to enter with empty promises, mess with and rape. You seem to have lost your marbles though. You are disgusting. Do you have a conscience at all? A workshop on manners and courtesy would be more suitable for you. I know karma exists. I've seen it. I hope some day and sometime soon it comes to bite you in the ass. Maybe then you might think twice before you mistreat another individual with your twisted behaviour.

From me

LegacyUser

Subwreck wrote: »

Dear X from X

You are a mean, nasty, stubborn, rude, inconsiderate, ill mannered, head wrecking, lying donkey. I hope you know that. What did I do to deserve that head wreck of a game/mind fcuk that you introduced and played on me? Why did you do it? May I suggest marbles for you the next time you want to fcuk with ones mind. It's fragile and it's not for you to enter with empty promises, mess with and rape. You seem to have lost your marbles though. You are disgusting. Do you have a conscience at all? A workshop on manners and courtesy would be more suitable for you. I know karma exists. I've seen it. I hope some day and sometime soon it comes to bite you in the ass. Maybe then you might think twice before you mistreat another individual with your twisted behaviour.

From me

Dear X,
It's me again. That's an absolute insult to donkeys. Donkeys are beautiful animals. You're more like a maggot. One that needs to be stepped on.

SarahBeep!

Dear N,

I'm so glad we're getting back on track,

Love,
Sarah
xxx

Storminateacup

You make me so confused..
I make the effort to be your buddy -- things go really well, all of a sudden it's WEIRD, you ignore me for two months, then try act like it's all been the same? It never can be. Were never going to be friends again.

LegacyUser

Don't look up at me with your puppy eyes and your open face with the way you raise your eyebrows like you're genuinely interested... Don't tickle me and play hit me when we're talking. Don't cuddle me... Stop putting your arm around my waist, low on my hip on that spot that makes me melt...Stop being the most amazing person I know... Stop being so good to me, and making me feel appreciated and special... Stop reading my mind, just get out of my head altogether... Don't tell me I'm hot, or remember all these little events in our time together, and so many facts about me that your like a walking encyclopedia. Stop smelling so damn good. You are killing me. This is so confusing. We are friends.
I want you around me. All the time. You make me completely nervous and completely at ease at the same time. You make me happy. We can't **** this up. What are we doing?! It has to stop. But I don't want it to.

booboo88

Wht you said yesterday, has actually floored me. I'm sorry I ever met you.
You lied over and over again.

ellieh1

Dear D,

My life is a million times better with you in it. Thank you so much for being you.

Love,
E

LegacyUser

I can't believe you've done this to me.

I don't think there's any going back from this and I don't think I'll every be able to forgive you.

I knew you'd hurt me in the end.

I deserve better than what you're willing to give me.

I think I have to leave.

Sorry.

LegacyUser

You have no idea how easily all this could have been avoided. Actually, you do, because I told you over and over. All you had to do was tell me what you wanted, what you were going to do.

If this situation had gone on another month or two I would have thrown myself in front of a train. I would never have threatened you with that, because my emotions aren't your concern, but I was losing control. I wish I hadn't lied when you thought I was really upset about this. I didn't want to burden you. What really hurt me was that you completely took advantage after that. Like the fact that you apparently hadn't damaged me gave you free rein to do whatever you liked. Since then, it's come across as though you really don't care - like everything has to be organised to suit you and if anyone else gets hurt that's just too bad. You probably feel the same way about me.

I'm not going to pretend I don't still have feelings for you, but this just never worked. I fell for something that wasn't real. As far as I was concerned this was always unrequited. Bizarrely, I still hold out hope. I really wanted to believe that things would work out, and I still do. But they won't now, or any time soon. We're not in the right place. Maybe we never will be.

I f**king hate what this situation has turned me into.