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Things you want to say to husband/boyf/ex's/friends/family/people *MOD NOTE POST #1*
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Dear, Past "Friends"!
Not so much of a walkover now am I???
I'm glad I realised that I'm way too nice for people that don't deserve it.
Hope you've got the message loud and clear.
C.
Dear K,
You nearly had me. Then you changed and showed your true colours. Why spread all those lies about me and start practically forcing yourself on me and blame it down to alcohol! Pretend to be "yourself" around me then go bitch about me behind my back and feed gossip to the others?? The most annoying thing is your a guy and that kind of attitude is not the least bit attractive.
C.
PS. I preferred when you were overweight That whole Jersey Shore thing you have going on is "lame". Your an adult now - grow up!
Dear J.
How dare you make me feel so f**kin bad about enjoying myself for one night and especially when it was my 21st. How manipulative of you! You know how much I have worked the past 6 months and all the things I have had to deal with. The first night I enjoyed myself for a very very long time and you had to undo it the next day - by making me feel like absolute crap with guilt, and for what reason? something so petty - its actually funny how petty it is and childish - you must of sat up all night to think of something you could make me feel bad about. Of all people - You really surprised me.
Thank god I'm away from you and your pettiness - I'm not going to live by your rules and sinister evil behaviour any more, and I'm loving it!
Who have you got now?
Good luck with it,
C.
Dear N.
I thought you were a friend that I could tell and you would understand - DEPRESSION. Its not an excuse for me to be cold, not tell you anything and seem bitchy. Thanks for your "support".
Your loss, when you grow up and realise - and stop playing victim.
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(Ok first of Im a guy who doesn't often post in here because Im a guy and nothing really relates to me.. how ever at this point in time i need to say this. )
I never premeditated what I said, I needed to say it. I don't expect anything to come of it how ever saying it has let it almost given me exceptance to how I feel. I never expected you to said I never felt so warm then at that moment.
I want to contact you I really do, how ever my gut instinct say no... You know me well enough to know I follow that over what any one else will says including my brain..
I just needed to say this
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Dear me,
You can do it, stop putting yourself down
You're affecting everyone with your negativity, get out of bed at a reasonable hour and do something! Because even I'm sick of hearing your ****. The only person to blame for all this is you. But it's reversible, if you act now. You'll always have the support there, so stop worrying!
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My Dearest Daddy,
You always told me I didn't appreciate you enough- then start humming "You'll never miss your mother 'til she's buried beneath the clay".
You were absolutely spot on. I just never imagined that you would leave us so soon, or that there would be such a void left in my life.
The past year or so of our relationship we fought like cat and dog. With the benefit of hindsight I know now why: I am you. I have your temper, you mannerisms, but most of all your stubborn nature. This horrifies and amuses me in equal measure.
If I could turn back the clock, well...
When you dropped me to secondary school and asked for a kiss at the gates? I wouldn't worry about looking 'cool'. When you told me stories about your childhood, instead of turning up the volume on the radio, I would have given you my full attention. Instead of getting frustrated by your pushing me to go to college, get a job, whatever, I would have realised that you never wanted to pressurize me... You were just so proud of me you thought the world needed to know what I can do.
My last words to you would change- I told you to "F off and die", and funnily enough, you had a heart attack a few hours later. The first time you ever did what I told you to. Knowing what I do now, I'd tell you that you were great, you were the best, and I was so lucky and blessed to have you for my father.
Love, eternally,
Your Little Girl x
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Dear so called friend
Bitta bad form you sorting a house out without me downstairs in a house where I can bloody well hear ye!! Cop on and get off your high horse! Your a hypocrite and so two faced it's not even funny. I hope your boyfriend finds out what a lying cheating slut you are
As for us being friends? P*ss the f*ck off.
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S,
I love you more than you will ever know despite how much I tell you.
I can't wait to be your fiancee and then your wife.
You're my whole life and I don't know what I'd do without you.
You make me laugh til my face and ribs hurt. You make me smile til my cheeks ache.
You give me butterflies.
You're my bestest friend in the whole world!
Every second we spend together is just bliss
Love you forever,
Your pre-fiancee
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Daddy,
We've been through a lot together, haven't we.
I'll never forget the day I found out about your illness. It was the summer after my Leaving Cert. I'd just gotten my results - far better than you, Mammy, or anyone else (most of all myself) had expected, far better than I deserved too - and you were so proud. It was before college, before I had ever fallen in love, before I realised how complicated life could be. I remember it as being the least stressful, most carefree few months of my life.
And then I saw you downing a cocktail of pills one morning. I asked you about it, and she told me to ask your mother, who told me the name of your condition, and said you'd be on medication for life for it, but that I shouldn't worry about it.
This was fine, I didn't think too much of it, until I happened to be in the library later that day and decided to look it up in a medical encyclopedia. This was when I realised that you had terminal cancer, and I honestly see that moment as the instance when my innocence was shattered, and I realised that my big strong father wasn't actually invincible. You hear of bad things happening to other people ... well, illness and death hadn't touched my family yet, and although it seemed possible in theory, I just never really could get my head around it ... until it actually happened.
Everything has changed so much. I won't go through the details of that long, strange day. But, when I got home, you popped your head into my bedroom. I said, "Daddy, I know that it's cancer." Your face ... I think you'd been in denial yourself until I asked, although at that stage it was a few months since your diagnosis. I asked what the doctors were saying, and you told me. 2-5 years. Five years was the max, and you'd be gone then.
Your daughter, my little sister, was only two. I remember getting so angry at you, asking you why you'd gone and had her at your age, if you were only going to go away and leave her without a father, that it wasn't fair, etc. I was just in shock, looking for someone to get angry at ... and I guess you were the obvious target! I'm sorry.
Anyways I grew up, and I did it fast. I dealt with it. I am proud to say that I have supported you, that I was at your bedside at the worst of times, when my mother and siblings couldn't do it. I was there that day in hospital, when you had been in the worst agony for days on end, and you begged me to help you end it all ... I told you to man the f*ck up and get over it, and then somehow the two of us thought that this was the funniest thing in the world, and we laughed and laughed through the pain and tears.
And you did it. You suffered through all the treatments and operations, which have caused you so much more pain than the cancer ever has. You did it for me, and for us, for your family. And it'll be nine years next month since you were first diagnosed ... you have surpassed all the doctors' expectations.
Years ago, I came to terms with the fact that you are dying. I've never said it to you, but I am OK with it. Well, someone has to be, because someone is going to have to hold things together once you're gone. But it'll be OK. I know Mammy is going to fall to pieces - you're her life, much as she gives out to you! But we'll all support her, and she has her friends and family, and her faith. As you know, I'm not at all religious - but I am happy that she has such strong faith, as it will help her a lot, when the time comes.
Anyways I want to thank you for what you said when I came to visit last weekend. I was going to the shop, you insisted on coming for the walk. We'd a chat about the medical side of things ... I know you were holding back, you didn't tell me everything. I think that the consultant must have told you that the end is coming soon. You didn't say it in those words. But what you did say is, that you're OK with it now. You're not afraid of dying. You got much longer out of it than anyone could have hoped for, but you're ready to go now, when it happens.
It meant so much to me, you saying that. There have been times when I've almost wished it would just happen - that your pain would end - and I've felt so guilty. I know now that, when the time comes, you will have been at peace with it, and ready for it. Thank you for this.
We have never held back with the "dying" jokes - sure you can't avoid the subject, considering the hours and days and weeks we spent in hospital together, you in bed, me minding you, such a strange reversal of roles. The medical staff and other patients used to be horrified at the stupid jokes we'd come out with, about "when" the time came. But we never really accepted it before, we never really discussed it seriously. We needed that chat last weekend.
The illness has changed you, but strangely, in a good way. You're much "softer" and happier than that distant strict parent I knew as a child. You're generous with the hugs, and rarely have a negative thing to say to any one of us. You have left us with so many happy memories, and you have had such a positive impact on all of our lives. You are such a brave strong man, and I respect and admire you more than you'll ever know. I think you have a fair idea though.
You don't need to worry about how we'll cope when the time comes. We'll be devastated, but we'll support each other, and we'll be OK. Your spirit will carry on in all of us for as long as we live, and that's what will give me comfort.
No matter how much of a brat I was at times, you always adored me. There is nothing that I could do that would ever make you love me less. You have shown me true unconditional love, and thinking about it, this is something that so many people have never or may never experience in their lives. I'm incredibly lucky to have had you with me and there for me all of this time. I'm convinced that any strength of character that I have, comes directly from you.
You're some man for one man!
Thank you for everything.
I love you.
Always your girl. xx0 -
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