Things you want to say to husband/boyf/ex's/friends/family/people *MOD NOTE POST #1*

herisson

P,

I never said any of those things. I dont even like you as a person let alone think you are the slightest bit good looking. I just cant believe that you would believe that **** stirrer, you know full well what she is like. What she has said about everyone.

J,

I know it was you. We all know the lies you spread around about everyone. Causing people to hate others, causing heart ache for others. What is your problem?!

C,

I am so so sorry i didnt listen to you about J when you told me what she was like. I should have listened to you.

MauraTheThird

I'd do anything to go back to the night. I'd have stayed. Who knows how things might have been.

beks101

Christmas,

HURRY THE HELL UP!!!!!!
Can't wait to see everyone :):):)

B x

stall_the_ball

Dear A,

Cop on and treat me right. I don't even know why we're still together. If I had any bit of sense I'd have left after the last fight but I mean it now, it's the last chance. Stop drinking and hiding things from me and invite me to do things with you every once in a while. Stop complaining that getting me a Christmas present is too expensive because you'd rather go drinking with your ex instead. Stop calling me fat, I don't like it anymore than you do. I'm trying but it's not easy.

Cop on quickly or it's over because even though you don't think so I can find someone who can make me happy and accept me for the person I am.

From me

x Purple Pawprints x

Yesterday left me reeling. I really had no idea you were feeling like that. I knew something was up but because I know things are in my head sometimes I thought this was the same and I was imagining it. I asked and you said there was nothing and for that I am a bit upset with you. How long have you kept that inside and tried to deal with it all alone? I think I need to show you what I've written about you in the past, maybe then you'll know how much I truly love you and appreciate you. Because I really do. It broke my heart to know you've been feeling so alone and unwanted babe. I really had no idea. I'm trying to let this all go and change but it's so hard to get my head around it. Since all this happened yesterday my heart is aching and I don't know how to deal with this and change. I'll work it all out, for you.

I love you so much and I promise I'll start showing you more.

Yours forever,

Me. xxxxx


Curley,

You've been with us for 13 years, me and B grew up with you. We couldn't have asked for a better pet. But you're struggling, aren't you? You can hardly walk, you have no quality of life anymore. I'm really hoping the vet can do something for you but I think we all know that it might be your time to go, petal. We all love you so much, we don't want you to suffer anymore. We had 13 wonderful years with you. Thank you for being such an amazing pet. xxx

x Purple Pawprints x

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdN5GyTl8K0

This is pretty much what I want you to know. xxxx

The Big Red Button

To my life:

I LOVE YOU

That is all!

LegacyUser

I'm 98 percent sure you lied to me again. I wish you'd stop doing this, lying doesnt save my feelings ok!! And you know what I hate how you still talk to that person who treated me like dirt right in front of you and everyone else. It hurts you socialise with them in any way. so unfair and nothing I can do about it.

M,

I miss you so much. I know you dont miss me or care. sick of feeling sad.

LegacyUser

Every year I hope it will get better. I try to stay positive. Around this time every year I tell myself, next year, next year will be better, my luck will turn and things will change. All those dreams I so desperately wish for will start to come true. For the rest of the year I put everything I can into making things change. They never do. Never.

So as this year slowly draws to a close, I can't make those promises to myself anymore. I think that faint hope just makes it worse. I spend Christmas watching my brothers and sisters and best friends swapping presents with their partners, the knowing looks they give each other, the secret smiles, the love they share. I don't even get envious or jealous anymore. How could I deny anyone that happiness. It breaks my heart but I sit and smile and pretend that I don't mind being the odd one out. I laugh and joke with you all and ignore the stabbing pain in my chest when you snuggle up together on the couch or she hugs you or he gives you a tender kiss on the forehead. It's been 28 years and not once have I had someone of my own to share Christmas with. It's silly I know but sometimes when I go Christmas shopping I'll see something and think to myself, that'd be a really sweet present for a boyfriend. Then I stop and ponder the absurdness of that ever actually happening, me having to buy a Christmas gift for a boyfriend, me.

Then it's X's birthday and he always gives her the most beautiful thoughtful present, never big or flashy or expensive but so heartfelt it always makes me smile. He loves her so much. She's so incredibly lucky. And then it's my birthday, and I just wish it will pass quickly. It only serves as a knell of another year alone. Valentines Day follows shortly, and I hear all about your romantic dinners and bunches of flowers and I listen and smile. I think valentines day is the worst actually, I know it's Hallmark c**p, but out of all the days it's the one I find most difficult for some reason. I usually have a little cry on valentines day, I try my best to ignore it, but no matter how hard I try it usually gets on top of me. I'm 28 years old and I've never once gotten a valentines card, Never.

Then it's summer and couple-y holiday photo time, you know the ones where it's the two of them curled up on a beach or in front of some monument. I look at them and smile and ask if they've had a good time. I've never even had a weekend away with someone special. I'm sure none of this even crosses your minds when you show me, like it doesn't at Christmas, or valentines or my birthday. I'd never say it to you, but sometimes I wish I could. I sometimes wonder if you really understand how lonely it gets. If you've ever really felt how I feel, then I feel awful that I would want anyone to feel that sort of loneliness.

So that's what in store for me. The same as it's been every year for the past 28 years. But this year I'm not going to allow myself to indulge in the fantasy that something will change. It has never changed. This year I just have to make peace with myself. These days will pass as they always have. I have to accept, that prepare myself, and stay strong.

"Love is pure, the only treasure".

Naid23

Dear my brain..

Just shut the fck up over analysing things please!!.. You're having fun.. Deal with it! Only 112 days til your new life- we can get through it, now leave me alone n let me sleep!!.

Thanks
Sin

Augmerson

I can only help you help yourself.

LegacyUser

Im a regular user but i wanted to go anon for this.

There are somethings i would like to talk about on here, but i cant because these people read my posts, then openly tell me about it. If i have a problem and i post it here, but they will write to me asking if i was ok etc.... even though they post in a completely different forum and im like why?? I know they like me but i really dont like them. I can do anything without them popping up talking away and if i post on that particular forum they comment sometimes comment on me not responding. The worst thing is they are the loveliest person in the world and everyone loves them. Its annoying me, i know its a public forum but ffs if i wanted to tell them i would have.

And my other friend on here reduced me to tears because they turned so horrible and started blaming me for something that was beyond my control and they he backed away and hasnt contacted me since. The truth hurts but ffs just grow up. They have to face the facts. So i dont know what to do.

Sorry i just really needed it and im hoping im not too obvious in this post xx

Maple

Dear Brad Pitt,

What in the name of jaysus were you thinking with that perfume ad?

lazorgirl

alreadygone., wrote: »

Where do I go from here?
Is there anywhere left to go?
I feel so lost, so alone and so desperate to just feel alive.
For one minute..to just feel alive.

Anything but this.
Swallowing water with each breath and drowning in this pool of self hate.
On and on and on it goes
When does it stop?

When does it just...
stop?

"We never know how strong we really are until being strong is the only option we have left"
go easy on your self

beks101

Despite myself, I still adore you.

x Purple Pawprints x

To my wonderful boyfriend,

Can you believe it's been two whole years since that day you came all the way here just to see me? When I look back on that day I smile, I didn't want it to end. I really wanted you to stay with me and I missed you when I went home.

I didn't think it was possible to love someone as much as I love you. We've been through so much together and I know things have been really hard sometimes but what we have is so special, but at the same time this past two years have been the best two years of my life.

I still want everything we talked about only now that I realise I almost lost you, I want it all even more. I'm so so sorry things have been tough lately but since we talked about it all I feel we're both strong enough and we love each other enough to at least put in one hell of a fight for our relationship. The thought of not having you in my life makes me so sad and I'm struggling to type this through the tears. What we have is so special and I'm so lucky and proud to be your girlfriend.

I love you with all my heart and I need you. I'm hoping for many more years with you.

All my love,

J xxxxx

DeltaWhite

Hurt me with the truth dont comfort me with lies

WinterSong

B,

I think I'm going to need you to be there for me in a big way. I'm sorry for constantly asking so much of you. x

Fiona

Dear ex husband

Why don't you just go take a run and jump you weasel of a man.

LegacyUser

L,

I can feel so miserable sometimes, but there’s something about you that pulls me out of it and you don’t even realise you’re doing it. Nobody makes me laugh like you do! I wish I could see you every day, your positivity is infectious.

All my love,

H

PS. I still can’t believe you iron your socks! Or that you said it’s like having ‘sunshine on your feet’

OakeyDokey

I still have a few months to get it done and I WILL!!!

x Purple Pawprints x

Tell me this, how is calling my boyfriend useless "looking out" for me??? I would never say that about anybody you were with. I'm hurt.

LegacyUser

HOW DARE YOU KEEP PUNISHING ME EVERY TIME YOU DONT GET YOUR OWN WAY!
I am not a liar, theif or racist. stop making me feel like I am one. stop using what you do as a method of putting me down, I am as equaly quaified as you. I helped you when bad things happened to you, I brought you to the doctor, I stood up for you when people said horrible things about you, I even took your side when I knew what you did was wrong and this is how you re pay me?

I have spent many nights worring on whether to go home or not. I've even considered handing in my notice because I cant deal with this. Is that what you want? my parents are old, they cant listen to an adult crying down the phone every night because each week there's a new problem that you have with some issue that i have messed up. I cant live like this.

I sat in a councilors office crying because of you . I walked out of a session an went over and helped you, and then a few days later you made me feel like dirt again.

right now your makinging as much noise as you can to make me feel bad for using the PC when you want it. bang bang bang, slam the bleedin door... jesus...stomp up the stairs...its like a child.

THIS ISNT SECONDARY SCHOOL, GROW UP AND COP ON.

LegacyUser

Dear you,

I'm sure I'll be seeing you at Christmas with your new girlfriend. The girlfriend you are madly in love with, you never loved me, you never even said you did. I loved you though, the only boy I've ever loved. There's been nobody significant since,so if I see you I will smile and do my damnedest to not let my true feelings show.

Maybe one day I'll find the happiness you have but if not least I know have the ability to love so thanks for that even though my heart is still broken almost two years on.


x

boomtown123

Dear life

Someone be there for me once please.

C.

Fluorescence

Hey you. Yeah, YOU.

Stop it! Stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it! What's with the hot and cold? The good cop, bad cop? You're driving me ****ing mental. I don't see you for ages and everything's hunkydory but then you wriggle back into my life and promptly wriggle out again. I don't know what you're trying to play here. Maybe it's payback. God knows I've earned it.

Well, I'm not doing it anymore. You can behave like an adult if you want to talk to me, but I'm not playing these games with you. Don't even talk to me about the irony of writing to you in this thread. I don't care. Just get out of my life until you grow out of your headwrecking, childish phase. When you can communicate like a normal human being without wondering about my ulterior motives (THERE ARE NONE), come back to me. There's a decent person in there somewhere, but I'm far too impatient to chip away at you to find it.

Ta,

-F

ashers22

So, I got there finally. Fair enough I went the long way round but I'm here Dad, I've got my life together. I don't want to ask if you're proud of me, I know you would look at me like I just stepped off a spaceship and questioned my methods and no, you probably wouldn't be too happy about my way of doing things but in this moment of clarity I wonder if you would approve. I love my conclusions. I'm sure there are easier ways but I doubt they're as much fun...yes, it's a terrible trait, I know, I'm an idiot but right now it's all good. Have faith in me. I need someone to have faith in me.

WinterSong

J,

I should have kissed you when I had the chance.

LegacyUser

Mate, she isn't coming back and she's doing you a favour. I've never heard so many lies out of one mouth. She thought she had us all wrapped around her little finger. The whole thing was a farce and everyone knew but you. This was only going to get worse the longer it went on and this IS a blessing in disguise. I gritted my teeth all along knowing you'd hate me if I said anything. Your bravado aside, you are one of the nicest guys I know and I always wonder why you can't find yourself a nice girl that deserves you. You will take this terribly and you will hate life but we'll be there for you. You deserve to be happy.

beks101

WinterSong wrote: »

J,

I should have kissed you when I had the chance.

And on the flip side of that - B, I wish I'd never kissed you.

I don't know what's been going on in that brain of yours but it's changed everything for the worse.

It hurts it hurts it hurts. But that's life.

I'm done now. I know my worth and I'm moving on.