I Just Got Rejected

estadio

I am an 18 year old male. I liked this girl for over 2 years. Don't know why though!. Finally after all these months i made the move and got rejected. I don't know why and to be honest don't really care why.
Its the first time I had the balls to ask the girl out, but it wasn't meant to be. She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower) but after all this waiting i got rejected.
On the bright side i will probably never see her again. Now i regret ignoring all the advice my friends gave me.

So after hours cheer me up.! Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better? I know rejection is a part of life but i am disappointed. Any advice on moving on?

Thanks

jimmycrackcorm

thanks for sharing

Saila

come again

Rented Mule

Looks like it's a night of cheap whiskey, razor blades and Country and Western music.

AckwelFoley

Rejection is a part of life.

Get used to it.

Rejection makes acceptance that much more special

squod

tl;dr etc..........

spider guardian

i'm no advocate of self-harming but the cool touch of the steel is...

actually no, just be glad you are so young and have plenty more girls to fall in love with and have your heart broken by!

El Horseboxo

Had an arsehole reject me once. Ended up going home with a pussy instead.

Wossack

Better that you asked and know then not and never...




probably a dyke anyway

Kettle316

Dont move on, stay single its awesome!!

citizen_p

No....Never
I dont think what your describing is common

SamSamSammy

probably held on too long and got into the friend zone.

AckwelFoley

What ever happened to "dont take no for an answer"?





..ooh yea.. the law.

Princess Peach

estadio wrote: »

Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better?

No

alwaysadub

Well, I've got rejected for loads of jobs... :pac:


I can't remember the last time i got rejected by a man though..... probably cos i can't remember the last time i made a move on a man!


Anyway OP,it obviously wasn't meant to be. You'll get over it and find someone else better.

PerrinV2

Check out the "you laugh you lose " section on boards
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=838

if that doesn't cheer you up I dunno what will.

finnezzia

pornography always helps.

estadio

SamSamSammy wrote: »

probably held on too long and got into the friend zone.

quiet the opposite tbh! we went to the same secondary school and i didn't become friends because of the friend zone factor.

themadchef

Awww bless.

You need to find a new faptastic woman to fixate on, one who wont let you down, reject you,or turn you away.

Nah, we're all bítches. You'll learn to love us all the same

Diapason

Light some candles, run a hot bath, throw on some soothing music, then fap until you tear the stomach out of yourself.

stovelid

Better to knocked back than to wonder what might have been.

Fair play to you. Courage will always get its reward in the end.

finnezzia

or just be a man about it and bottle it up.

TheZohanS

It happens to us all at some stage estadio, don't let it put you off though. Every knockback you get just means you're one step closer to meeting someone that you're meant to be with.

darragh16

18 year old + Rejection = 6 pack of Dutch in a field with mates!

stovelid

darragh16 wrote: »

18 year old + Rejection = 6 pack of Dutch in a field with mates!

That's just the aperitif.

Micky Dolenz

Don't worry about it man, you are only 18. When I was that age I got rejected a few times.

As you get older and more experienced, you will rarely get openly rejected as you will be able to read the signs and gauge your chances better.

So chin up son, and It's great to see you are not bitter about it.

Wagon

estadio wrote: »

I am an 18 year old male. I liked this girl for over 2 years. Don't know why though!. Finally after all these months i made the move and got rejected. I don't know why and to be honest don't really care why.
Its the first time I had the balls to ask the girl out, but it wasn't meant to be. She was not out of my league (come to think of it she was a bit lower) but after all this waiting i got rejected.
On the bright side i will probably never see her again. Now i regret ignoring all the advice my friends gave me.

So after hours cheer me up.! Did you get rejected once and end up with some one better? I know rejection is a part of life but i am disappointed. Any advice on moving on?

Thanks

**** it, you had the balls to try. And fair play! You'll be fine in a few days.

Millicent

TheZohan wrote: »

It happens to us all at some stage estadio, don't let it put you off though. Every knockback you get just means you're one step closer to meeting someone that you're meant to be with.

This is sound advice, OP.


Although I did just throw up my mouth a bit -- Zohan, ye auld romantic!

stovelid

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Don't worry about it man, you are only 18. When I was that age I got rejected a few times.

Davy Jones and Mike Nesmith always got the chicks?

alwaysadub

stovelid wrote: »

Davy Jones and Mike Nesmith always got the chicks?

Well,they were the cool ones..

Dudess

I understand it feels crap and it's difficult not to take personally - especially when you're young (not meaning to sound like a know-it-all old fogey, just that you're not as equipped to deal with it, it's a brand new quite devastating experience, etc) but it doesn't make her a bad person (unless she was a right bitch about it?) or "lower than your league" (in what way?) She's just not into you, which hurts, but she's not under any obligation to be, and she can't help how she feels, even if you were waiting that long (which won't make a difference to her). It's not a ploy to upset you - better than leading you on.

Do as others say and view it as a valuable life lesson - you'll be fine, it's a mere glitch. Promise...