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What do you bring to a party?

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  • 05-12-2010 2:31pm
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    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,501 Mod ✭✭✭✭


    Hello all,

    So tonight again I'm going to a party at someone's house. It's a BYOB type thing. I usually bring some food item, a bottle of wine and then some soft drink for myself. But many people have been commenting lately asking why I bring the wine if I don't drink. I don't know why, just sort of seems like the thing to do!

    So my question to other non-drinkers is, do you bring something for the party hoster if they are a drinker (that sounds bad but you know what I mean). Or should I just turn up with the cake and Coke Zero??

    :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    Even as a lifelong t-totaller, I'll always bring wine, beer, vodka or whatever, depending on the circumstance. It's the social convention and it's a pretty good one, IMO


  • Registered Users Posts: 416 ✭✭Wingman2010


    I would alway's bring wine also even though I would be on the fanta! I guess it's a nice gesture especially if the host enjoy's a glass of vino :rolleyes:


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,501 Mod ✭✭✭✭dory


    Thanks for the replies. I don't live in Ireland and things are a bit different here, that may be why I'm getting the odd reaction. Think I'll continue my wine bringing ways so!


  • Registered Users Posts: 158 ✭✭zero_nine


    Your car comes in handy.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,835 ✭✭✭unreggd


    dory wrote: »
    many people have been commenting lately asking why I bring the wine if I don't drink. I don't know why, just sort of seems like the thing to do!

    Because you respect the fact that they drink wine, unlike most others not respecting our choice not to :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users Posts: 7 RHN Ireland


    I know this message is a bit late but I've often found that if you go to a party and bring minerals for use as mixers people appreciate it. Often people have brought plenty of alcohol but didn't bring their mixers. So bring a drink that suits yourself and a bit more for the other people.


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