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Girlfriend breaking up with me

grungepants · 2011-01-22 17:35:04

So my gf said that i havent been respecting her personel life ie.... Waking up her flat mates at like 2:30am -4:00am by pressing the buzzer x 2 seperate times Last night we had a fight in town about college asked me would i like a drink and i said ye and gf was all like no hes fine she explained that your supposed to by…

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#102 24-01-2011 10:54am

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A wise man once wrote "Hey OP, Piss off."

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#103 24-01-2011 10:55am

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Is it possible to train someone to take a punch?:)

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#104 24-01-2011 10:56am

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grungepants wrote: »

I'e been a dick ,living in an immature fantasy.Dreams of becoming a musician...were unrealistic.

Now i have no girlfriend.I want to train so i can get work but you can only get free training on the live register which i do not qualify for.

This is a genuine reflection on my immature delusional self.

Do you know how i can get free training in anything?

Do a FAS course. I too at one point had dreams and aspirations, then i realised they werent going to come true and i needed to grow the **** up and get a real job. So i did a course, got some certs, and now have an actual real job that pays well. None of this 'working in a gutar shop as a paving stone to being a roadie as a paving stone to being in a famous band' or 'doing a sound engineering course with pulse college will totally get me into the music biz' bull****.

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#105 24-01-2011 10:57am

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Become a writer, it's free to learn and pays well.

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#106 24-01-2011 10:57am

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grungepants wrote: »

I'e been a dick ,living in an immature fantasy.Dreams of becoming a musician...were unrealistic.

Now don't sell yourself short.

We here at AH believe you can still be a dick now and long into the future.

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#107 24-01-2011 10:58am

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Your revolution is over, Mr. Grungepants. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir.

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#108 24-01-2011 10:59am

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biko wrote: »

Become a writer, it's free to learn and pays well.

Can i do that?Do you know anything about this?I've always had a love of writing.

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#109 24-01-2011 10:59am

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grungepants wrote: »

So my gf said that i havent been respecting her personel life ie....

Waking up her flat mates at like 2:30am -4:00am by pressing the buzzer x 2 seperate times

Last night we had a fight in town about college asked me would i like a drink and i said ye and gf was all like no hes fine

she explained that your supposed to by them a drink back i was being drunk and just said "FCUK YOU FCUK YOU FCUK YOU" and then walked off

Ive spent the last day trying to call her,knock on her door,text her...

So i get in contact with her and she sais she's a bit too old for me....

HELP A.H. SOS SOS SOS

WHAT DO I SAY TO REDEEM MYSELF?

Women like that like presents, bring her a bird you killed and leave it on her doorstep.

Or is that the cat? Anyways I was up until all hours watching the american football. Where was I...

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#110 24-01-2011 11:00am

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grungepants wrote: »

Can i do that?Do you know anything about this?I've always had a love of writing.

Do you have a computer?

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#111 24-01-2011 11:00am

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Tell you what, give me her number and I'll talk to her for ya.

She's hot right?

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#112 24-01-2011 11:01am

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AnonoBoy wrote: »

Your revolution is over, Mr. Grungepants. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir.

the dude abides

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#113 24-01-2011 11:04am

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Fás, plenty of good courses for free.

Other than talk about something stupid, video it, become a YouTube hit, become a YouTube partner, and make loads of money from posting stupid shìt people will vacuum up!

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#114 24-01-2011 11:04am

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Get a job mopping the **** booths at Peep-World.
The pay is lousy and the hours are long but it beats chugging.

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#115 24-01-2011 11:05am

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grungepants wrote: »

Can i do that?Do you know anything about this?I've always had a love of writing.

Look here for a masterclass in writing:

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055716814

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#116 24-01-2011 11:06am

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Duggy747 wrote: »

Fás, plenty of good courses for free.

As far as I know, you have to have to be in receipt of a social welfare payment - which the OP is not - in order to qualify for funded training.

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#117 24-01-2011 11:08am

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grungepants wrote: »

Can i do that?Do you know anything about this?I've always had a love of writing.

To answer your first question anyway, not a chance. Your grasp of grammar in these posts is below primary school level.

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#118 24-01-2011 11:10am

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starbelgrade wrote: »

As far as I know, you have to have to be in receipt of a social welfare payment - which the OP is not - in order to qualify for funded training.

Oh, my mistake.

Well pick a subject you like (music, film, ****, writing) and teach yourself in said subject. Always makes a good hobby which you can go at your own pace.

Or, in more AH tradition, punch your boss in the face, get fired, go on the dole and THEN avail of the Fás courses :pac:

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#119 24-01-2011 11:13am

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grungepants wrote: »

The thing is she's 31 and im 21 and now she's broken up with me and we'll never be together....she was the first woman i loved.And now i want to die.

So she's 31. Chances are her flatmates are around the same age. Which means they have JOBS. They are no longer in college. They have to get up for work in the morning and you go ringing the fcuking buzzer at 3 am? Probably locked out of your head. That's a total lack of respect.

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#120 24-01-2011 11:14am

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Man up.

Post a pic or GTFO.

If you do not feel like doing any of the above. Drink your own piss, then eat her gold fish.

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#121 24-01-2011 11:15am

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Sell your gee-tars or what have you and pay for your course that way..

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#122 24-01-2011 11:15am

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Best move on and do the mother.

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#123 24-01-2011 11:16am

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Only now you know you have a problem? Where ya been the last few years?

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#124 24-01-2011 11:17am

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Oops. Wrong thread.

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#125 24-01-2011 11:19am

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"Girlfriend breaking up with me" and "I want to get my life together and leave behind my childish ways" both by OP, merged

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#126 24-01-2011 11:31am

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jackiebaron wrote: »

So she's 31. Chances are her flatmates are around the same age. Which means they have JOBS. They are no longer in college. They have to get up for work in the morning and you go ringing the fcuking buzzer at 3 am? Probably locked out of your head. That's a total lack of respect.

JACKIEBARON FCUK YOOOOOOOO for all i know you could be one of her house mates.
"That's a total lack of respect" ne ne ne ne ne.

"Girlfriend breaking up with me" and "I want to get my life together and leave behind my childish ways" both by OP, merged

Well she's broken up with me and posting here made me feel worse i need a distraction and a lifestyle change.Maybe i should sell my guitars to pay for a course...

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#127 24-01-2011 11:31am

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It's a miracle the guy can type if you ask me.

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#128 24-01-2011 11:33am

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Yeah i had a hard time reading that gibberish!

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#129 24-01-2011 11:36am

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grungepants wrote: »

JACKIEBARON FCUK YOOOOOOOO for all i know you could be one of her house mates.
"That's a total lack of respect" ne ne ne ne ne.

"Girlfriend breaking up with me" and "I want to get my life together and leave behind my childish ways" both by OP, merged

Well she's broken up with me and posting here made me feel worse i need a distraction and a lifestyle change.Maybe i should sell my guitars to pay for a course...

Don't mind Jackie, she's always like that...(think it might be her time of the month too).

If you really need help you should post here: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=82

The forum was designed for site-wide feedback and they don't allow trolls so all the advice you get will be good advice.

If that doesn't suit you; Google "I am a lone wolf, hear me roar". It's a great book and I think it'll help you a lot on your journey.

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#130 24-01-2011 11:37am

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Sheeps wrote: »

Bring her out for a meal under the false pretense that you want to apologise. Make sure the resteraunt is a fancy one and order some champaign to begin with. After desert, excuse yourself for the bathroom. Sneak out the front door, and don't ever look back.

Note to self. Find out what champaign is.

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#131 24-01-2011 11:38am

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Sprrratt wrote: »

Note to self. Find out what champaign is.

Fizzy wine with chopped scallions.

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#132 24-01-2011 11:40am

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Lumen wrote: »

Fizzy wine with chopped scallions.

So its just like champagne?

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#133 24-01-2011 11:41am

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hy1YF54rZZM

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#134 24-01-2011 11:43am

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ah bless - always a bad idea to piss off the flat mates.
put it down to experience and move on..

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#135 24-01-2011 11:44am

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grungepants wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hy1YF54rZZM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hUy9ePyo6Q

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#136 24-01-2011 11:55am

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Sheeps wrote: »

Tell her you're going to kill yourself unless she takes you back.

That's both the best, and the worst post I've read on AH!

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#137 24-01-2011 12:02pm

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Kick her in the gee!

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#138 24-01-2011 12:02pm

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Maybe tell her you will lay off the drink. But it sounds like she has made her mind up about you and your relationship. And its unlikely she will change her mind but following her around wont help your cause neither

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#139 24-01-2011 12:04pm

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hook up with her sister!

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#140 24-01-2011 12:24pm

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steve06 wrote: »

hook up with her sister!

Or failing that..... her roommates

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#141 24-01-2011 1:48pm

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grungepants wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hy1YF54rZZM

You should go to the basement of The Sweeney on Saturday nights. That song's a regular. Have you heard Rhianna and Vybz Kartel's version? Darling, they're slaying our song...

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#142 24-01-2011 1:57pm

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steve06 wrote: »

hook up with her sister!

Or her brother, that will learn her.

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#143 24-01-2011 2:32pm

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keanooo wrote: »

You should go to the basement of The Sweeney on Saturday nights. That song's a regular. Have you heard Rhianna and Vybz Kartel's version? Darling, they're slaying our song...

im gonna do a cover of it in ncad on tuesday i'll do it justice

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#144 24-01-2011 2:42pm

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0PUrNwvvBk

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#145 24-01-2011 3:49pm

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grungepants wrote: »

The thing is she's 31 and im 21 and now she's broken up with me and we'll never be together....she was the first woman i loved.And now i want to die.

Tell her you will perform anal licking.

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#146 24-01-2011 4:19pm

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Phoenix Park wrote: »

Cold piss. As a metaphor, like, for how cold hearted she has been..

Promoting a metaphor, using a simile to explain why to do this

I love it!!

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#147 24-01-2011 4:20pm

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jackiebaron wrote: »

So she's 31. Chances are her flatmates are around the same age. Which means they have JOBS. They are no longer in college. They have to get up for work in the morning and you go ringing the fcuking buzzer at 3 am? Probably locked out of your head. That's a total lack of respect.

Yes. Never mind the fact the OP is a young lad with life ahead of him.

The poor 31 year old "mature" woman going out with a 21 year old boy gets the hump. Damn the OP, damn him to hell.:rolleyes:

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#148 24-01-2011 4:41pm

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Gunsfortoys wrote: »

Damn the OP, damn him to hell.

+1

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#149 24-01-2011 4:50pm

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you should probably write a threatening letter to a celebrity

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#150 24-01-2011 4:55pm

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Feeona wrote: »

+1

Reading what you wanna read, typical woman.:p

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#151 24-01-2011 5:08pm

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i"m with sheeps

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