Crushin' on someone...BIG TIME!

sapere_aude

Ugh OP can totally relate! Have a big old crush on a guy I only met recently who's been really friendly and good to me... catch is that he's had a boyfriend for the past year and they're lovely together. Really happy for him and his bf is the nicest guy.

That doesn't stop my stomach from falling through the floor when I see I've gotten a text from him though, or me being irrationally happy at the prospect of meeting up with him. Oh well - all a learning experience and I'm happy that he makes me feel that way!

OP, I do feel that there's some potential there though... when you have such chemistry with a person with whom you have so much in common he's bound to have some feelings of the same nature.... non?

brokenice

sapere_aude wrote: »

Ugh OP can totally relate! Have a big old crush on a guy I only met recently who's been really friendly and good to me... catch is that he's had a boyfriend for the past year and they're lovely together. Really happy for him and his bf is the nicest guy.

That doesn't stop my stomach from falling through the floor when I see I've gotten a text from him though, or me being irrationally happy at the prospect of meeting up with him. Oh well - all a learning experience and I'm happy that he makes me feel that way!

OP, I do feel that there's some potential there though... when you have such chemistry with a person with whom you have so much in common he's bound to have some feelings of the same nature.... non?

glad to know i'm not the only one! your story echoes my situation when i first started this thread a few months back. majorly hung up on one guy, he has a bf, the killer is the bf is lovely too, and we all get on great. obviously i'd never act upon it and just slip into the friend role.

but in the interim i met this guy, thought things were going well, were great together, then after a few months he completely breaks my heart, was gutted.

but now i find there's chemistry between myself and another, and between not being able to have the guy i like, being gutted by a guy i really liked, i sometimes wonder is it worth going into it all again?...but maybe that's the fun of it! crushes...the best/worst things in the world!!!

sapere_aude

Sorry to hear about the heart - hopefully more of a stress fracture than a clean break?

I think you definitely have to get back on the horse if you think you're capable at all at the moment. It must be incredibly rare to meet "the right person" straight off the bat. Invariably you have to work through a few unsuccessful relationships before you're capable of being the right person to the right person... I probably don't have a clue what I'm talking about though if I'm honest!

We should probably both try to get over our crushes as they could only come to fruition with unacceptable collateral damage! I'm just enjoying it too much at the moment though!

Hope your heart's on the mend!

brokenice

sapere_aude wrote: »

Sorry to hear about the heart - hopefully more of a stress fracture than a clean break?

I think you definitely have to get back on the horse if you think you're capable at all at the moment. It must be incredibly rare to meet "the right person" straight off the bat. Invariably you have to work through a few unsuccessful relationships before you're capable of being the right person to the right person... I probably don't have a clue what I'm talking about though if I'm honest!

We should probably both try to get over our crushes as they could only come to fruition with unacceptable collateral damage! I'm just enjoying it too much at the moment though!

Hope your heart's on the mend!

cheers!

Raghallaigh

More people in the same situation! Yippie! I've got a crush on this guy who works on the floor above me in our building (he doesn't work for the same company). I do get to work with him from time to time, he's a solicitor and I handle all the legal stuff in work and well I'm crushing big time.

My work makes a convinced he is into me and at our work Christmas dinner they all openly discussed it for a good 30minutes. He only comes into our office to see me, asks after me when I am out of the office etc. the only thing is I don't know if he is gay or not ... but anyway going to take the plunge next week when I go back to work and ask him out, here's hoping all goes well

brokenice

Raghallaigh wrote: »

More people in the same situation! Yippie! I've got a crush on this guy who works on the floor above me in our building (he doesn't work for the same company). I do get to work with him from time to time, he's a solicitor and I handle all the legal stuff in work and well I'm crushing big time.

My work makes a convinced he is into me and at our work Christmas dinner they all openly discussed it for a good 30minutes. He only comes into our office to see me, asks after me when I am out of the office etc. the only thing is I don't know if he is gay or not ... but anyway going to take the plunge next week when I go back to work and ask him out, here's hoping all goes well

go for it dude! sometimes the thinking and planning it out is the best part of it all!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wchBv0y4aI

Barna77

Cheese alert.....



Ah yeah, I complicate my life
:pac:

Barna77

Something's happening, happening to me...

Me thinks I'm developing a crush .... on a girl in my gym! Whaaaaaa?

She's a, she's a, she's a beauty!

This is new to me.


But....

This guy I know is coming to town


Confussion time


:pac:

L.Jenkins

Not really all that strange. Go with how you feel.

LegacyUser

hi all,

crushes are good fun I think, until they develop into something further. The last while has been the worst in my life....I fancied someone I could not be with due to his sexual preference. It happened very gradual and I didn't even see it coming! The person in question didnt make it easier they actually made it worse for me, they wanted me always for emotional support which I gave they wanted to spend every min with me, but never sexual. At one point they admitted they had strong feelings but that was it. I honestly am not over it even, it knocked my confidence and everything. I wish it never happened, but I let it I suppose.
It would be great to see the fun side of it..but I cant. Unrequited love sucks :-(

Pacifist Pigeon

*weep*

I'm tired and I want a boyfriend.

*weeps again*

Rick_

Funny, last night I was in the same mood PP (although I wasn't sure if I wanted my ex back or a new partner!)

Seeing pictures of my ex on Facebook with his new fella didn't particularly help either.