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Disgraceful attitide or a misunderstanding?

texthimornot · 2011-05-08 19:19:09

I have recently been on 4 dates with a guy i have been friendly with since college about 6 years ago. We always kept in contact since college so we would consider him a friend even though we didnt get to meet up face to face very much since. On our first "date" we went for a few drinks and went back to his place. Despite…

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#52 10-05-2011 3:44pm

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#53 10-05-2011 9:47pm

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I don't get it,
"throwing a strop"

As far as i can read into this she didn't want sex so he stopped pressuring her, sounds like a reasonable guy. It's insulting to the guy to expect him to continue to make advances to a girl who "punish"es him. It ridiculous in fact, I'd be insulted if I was him and to top it all he was so nice about it he came up with a valid excuse for not wanting to persue a relationship.

Real reason = I don't want to be rejected again and then be "punished" because I didn't pine for your affection thanks.

This whole thing is crazy, people are saying he's a child because he doesn't want to cuddle this girl while he has an erection when he could be sleeping. Then he makes breakfast for her, is polite and surprisingly has a life to live outside of the none-relationship(going to the gym,the big child!, he shou;ld be frantically apologising for his behavior all day).
He gets "punished" for this.
Am i reading this right? Who's throwing a strop now?

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