I have a dilemma..

Mr.Crinklewood

Can we go to the cinema with you?

Kiera

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Texted her at half 10, she texted back straight away, I asked her had she any plans for the weekend and she said she had nothing planned but she said she really wanted to go see The Hangover 2 in the cinema.

I thought to myself, should I ask her does she want to go with me to watch it, I was unsure if I was being a little pre-mature, but like I did when I asked her for her number, I said to myself "fcuk it just ask her", so I did and she replied "I'd love to, I was hoping you would ask".

So we have arranged for me to pick her up in town at 8 o' clock on Friday night to go to the cinema:D

I am delighted and a bit scared at the same time, I really do'nt want to mess this up, she seems really sound and alot of fun.

She is sooooo into you! Have so much fun, dude. And well done on biting the bullet and asking her out

Bazzy

So op you don't know her your collecting her in your car and bringing her to a big dark room !?! To blast her with piss?

El Weirdo

Mr.Crinklewood wrote: »

Can we go to the cinema with you?

Nice ninja edit.

Chris P. Bacon

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Texted her at half 10, she texted back straight away, I asked her had she any plans for the weekend and she said she had nothing planned but she said she really wanted to go see The Hangover 2 in the cinema.

I thought to myself, should I ask her does she want to go with me to watch it, I was unsure if I was being a little pre-mature, but like I did when I asked her for her number, I said to myself "fcuk it just ask her", so I did and she replied "I'd love to, I was hoping you would ask".

So we have arranged for me to pick her up in town at 8 o' clock on Friday night to go to the cinema:D

I am delighted and a bit scared at the same time, I really do'nt want to mess this up, she seems really sound and alot of fun.

Fairplay again,you know your going to have to update this thread when your in the pictures

efb

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Texted her at half 10, she texted back straight away, I asked her had she any plans for the weekend and she said she had nothing planned but she said she really wanted to go see The Hangover 2 in the cinema.

I thought to myself, should I ask her does she want to go with me to watch it, I was unsure if I was being a little pre-mature, but like I did when I asked her for her number, I said to myself "fcuk it just ask her", so I did and she replied "I'd love to, I was hoping you would ask".

So we have arranged for me to pick her up in town at 8 o' clock on Friday night to go to the cinema:D

I am delighted and a bit scared at the same time, I really do'nt want to mess this up, she seems really sound and alot of fun.

This better be real and not like the middle eastern lesbian story! I is very suspicious of the interwebs

Cill Dara Abu

Mr.Crinklewood wrote: »

Can we go to the cinema with you?

And why do you want to come?:D

Chris P. Bacon wrote: »

Fairplay again,you know your going to have to update this thread when your in the pictures

Haha do'nt think that would be a good idea, she'll be wondering what i'm at on my phone every 2 minutes.

Elmidena

She's got mental control over you, OP! She's been subliminally controlling the situation from the beginning and now she gets a free trip to the flicks!


(it better be free....chivalry is worth mega brownie points so no making her buy her own ticket and popcorn )

squeakyduck

I really, really, really recommend going for a bit of a pint with her, either before or after the cinema. Really!

Cill Dara Abu

efb wrote: »

the middle eastern lesbian story!

Whats that?

ColeTrain

squeakyduck wrote: »

I really, really, really recommend going for a bit of a pint with her, either before or after the cinema. Really!

You mean a drink? Women drinking pints is definitely up for debate :cool:

squeakyduck

squeakyduck wrote: »

I really, really, really recommend going for a bit of a pint with her, either before or after the cinema. Really!

Or since ye are driving a coffee or something I suppose...

Absurdum

squeakyduck wrote: »

I really, really, really recommend going for a bit of a pint with her, either before or after the cinema. Really!

not before, then you'll have to piss in the middle of the movie, and people who piss in the middle of movies are arseholes

Mr.Crinklewood

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

And why do you want to come?:D


Haha do'nt think that would be a good idea, she'll be wondering what i'm at on my phone every 2 minutes.

To make sure my employee gets paid for the car light.

Cill Dara Abu

Sunshine! wrote: »

She's got mental control over you, OP! She's been subliminally controlling the situation from the beginning and now she gets a free trip to the flicks!


(it better be free....chivalry is worth mega brownie points so no making her buy her own ticket and popcorn )

I have two cinema tickets I got free off of Meteor, should I use them or would that look stingy?

squeakyduck wrote: »

I really, really, really recommend going for a bit of a pint with her, either before or after the cinema. Really!

Can't i'll be driving, and why must we go for a pint?

efb

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Whats that?

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=10731946

efb

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

I have two cinema tickets I got free off of Meteor, should I use them or would that look stingy?


Can't i'll be driving, and why must we go for a pint?

Buy the tickets, seriously.

squeakyduck

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Can't i'll be driving, and why must we go for a pint?

To talk!

Chris P. Bacon

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

I have two cinema tickets I got free off of Meteor, should I use them or would that look stingy?

Get her to buy the grub and you use the tickets!

Nah seriously buy the tickets

Elmidena

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

I have two cinema tickets I got free off of Meteor, should I use them or would that look stingy?

After all this hype and excitement do NOT go down the miserly route! Most girls tend to like to pay their way, but taking her to a film SHE wants to see and then the air being "ah I didnt mind had these things lying around anyway" will set off alarm bells in her head

Pandora2

I told you and this girl is great at dating, without being pushy she is confirming at every cut and turn that she is into you..."I was hoping you'd ask":) and so on:)

Save the freebies for a later date. stay cool :cool:and there will be one;)

I predicted you'd have a date by 11 tonight and I am rarely wrong:)

Enjoy

ColeTrain

squeakyduck wrote: »

To talk!

Fair point. Going to the cinema on the first date can be awkward but at least it's the Hangover. Feck going to the cinema on your first date to watch something like Inception.

Lady Chatterton

Buy the tickets, a tight man is a major turn off to women. (If you were unemployed, it would be ok to use the Meteor passes but you are currently employed, so don't even think about it).

kingtut

So I just read over this thread and I must say I really don't get why the OP or other men are so afraid of this situation! The worst that can happen is the girl says no (but fair play to the OP for getting her number - I know Ciara so treat her well or I'll hear all about it!!)

My opinion on these matters is just go for it! At the end of the day if it is in a petrol station or supermarket etc well you can always find another one to use if you get rejected!! I got chatty with a girl from a shop I went into a lot before I moved abroad and gave her my number and said it would be nice to hear from you sometime...

Never got a text from her but my attitude is f*ck, she is a nice girl but there are plenty more and the last time I was in the town where the shop is I popped in and we had a great chat but I did not mention her not textng.

Moral of the story, if at first you don't succeed try try again!!

OP - I can't wait for the wedding :P

emer_b

Brilliant brilliant brilliant, this is the only thread I've ever read fully. Delighted for OP.
Don't use the freebie tickets. So many impressions are made on the first few meetings and you don't want to seem like a meany bags!
Save them for 4th/5th date!

tayto lover

Jaysus i thought he'd never get there.
Well done Cille Dara Abu. Now i can get to bed.
Thought we'd never get that daughter of ours out of the house. She's not been the same since the incident with the traveller lad.

efb

ColeTrain wrote: »

Fair point. Going to the cinema on the first date can be awkward but at least it's the Hangover. Feck going to the cinema on your first date to watch something like Inception.

I did that! (imception!) then did the naughty on the way home!

kingtut

I agree on not use freebie tickets however I disagree at people saying go for a pint first. Going for a cinema first means that after the movie you can go for a drink afterwards (alcohol free for you of course ) and use the time to talk about the movie!

Find out what else she likes...

OP - Seems like she likes you a lot so but you seem very shy so during the movie I would be inclined to put your hand on her leg or brush it against her shoulder every now and then to see if she reacts, it is always a good sign if she does the same thing back!!

Wouldn't you just die if she ended up being a boardsie lol

Cill Dara Abu

Thanks for all the great advice people, most have been very helpful and funny:p

I'm off to my bed, this courting lark has me wrecked

Floodric

Sunshine! wrote: »

No way! I hadn't heard of it either but the whole damn thread is hilarious, damn that Feeky is a genius!

Also, make sure to read the tags of the thread....think my fave was "cunnilinguistics"

Heat-feeking missile