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  • 24-06-2011 2:41am
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    murpolopoliss
    Closed Accounts Posts: 44 ✭


    hello, ive been goin out with my gf for a couple of months and lately ive been thinking alot about her been with other people in the past! i hate thinking about this so i just wondering has anyone any advice on how to stop thinking like this?? Thanks :)
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    qwerty13
    Registered Users Posts: 1,272 ✭✭✭qwerty13


    Choose to STOP.

    Or it will wreck your head, and your relationship.


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    Asphyxia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,740 ✭✭✭Asphyxia


    There's not really much you can do! Why don't you try think about the positive side of your relationship instead of the past. Remember she's with you and not those other guys, they are in the past for a reason.


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    joseywhales
    Registered Users Posts: 4,036 ✭✭✭joseywhales


    move forward, achieve more, small steps.That's all you can do to be better, dwelling on jealousy doesn't help you. Concentrate on improving yourself and getting more out of life and the fear will subside.


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    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    murpolopoliss wrote: »
    hello, ive been goin out with my gf for a couple of months and lately ive been thinking alot about her been with other people in the past! i hate thinking about this so i just wondering has anyone any advice on how to stop thinking like this?? Thanks :)

    Yes, in short, grow up.

    Everyone has a past. While you might like to put your new girlfriend up on some ridiculous pedestal and in an ideal world hope that she hasn't so much as sat beside a boy on a bus, everyone has a past. You do. She does. Get over it, seriously. And if you'd like this relationship to work don't ffs ask her for numbers or bring it up in conversation. Drop it.


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    desmurphy
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭desmurphy


    murpolopoliss wrote: »
    hello, ive been goin out with my gf for a couple of months and lately ive been thinking alot about her been with other people in the past! i hate thinking about this so i just wondering has anyone any advice on how to stop thinking like this?? Thanks :)

    just think about the people you were with! unles of course you were a virgin when you met her


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