I need a girlfriend/help.

Samich

Ok, basically I'm an early 20's fella, absolutely awful with women.

I go out quite regularly but haven't the testicle fortitude to approach women.

I don't have a good body and have never felt a girl has been interested in me.

I have approached a few women before in clubs asking how their night is but most just shrugged me away.

There is a girl I like but don't we well, doesn't mean she likes me. I've met her once, but chat alot on facebook (me always starting the chat). I don't think she likes me, she's just very friendly I think, no hints or anything from her.

Near the end of the club I always feel depressed when I think I'm absolute failure with girls.

What do ye think of telling that one girl? Good/bad idea? Don't want to ruin the friendship or make it awkward, her friend added me on fb aswell, I hadn't met her before.

Or else I need something to take my mind off women as I'm always thinking about it.

LETHAL LADY

Hello Larry Murphy.

dave1982

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aNkF8z5A-X8/TSmAdNXD0AI/AAAAAAAAAOg/LIBEZ89FsrU/s1600/FACEBOOK-IS-EVIL-KILL-IT-WITH-LOVE.jpg

W.Shakes-Beer

Possibly wrong forum to be asking in! :cool:

Don't sweat it man.

Samich

W.Shakes-Beer wrote: »

Possibly wrong forum to be asking in! :cool:

Don't sweat it man.

Well it's not a PI issue, just wanna hear some lighthearted opinions/suggestions

niaroh1x96

Go for it!

El Weirdo

Seriously, has PI closed or something? What's up with all this stuff in AH lately?

MrStuffins

Let's see some pics and we can help ya out there cheif!

zanador

How do you feel about single mothers? But we can't tell anyone we're together

Samich

Should also have said the fb girl is gorgeous and way out of my league.

Tigger

Samich wrote: »

Ok, basically I'm an early 20's fella, absolutely awful with women.

I go out quite regularly but haven't the testicle fortitude to approach women.

I don't have a good body and have never felt a girl has been interested in me.

I have approached a few women before in clubs asking how their night is but most just shrugged me away.

There is a girl I like but don't we well, doesn't mean she likes me. I've met her once, but chat alot on facebook (me always starting the chat). I don't think she likes me, she's just very friendly I think, no hints or anything from her.

Near the end of the club I always feel depressed when I think I'm absolute failure with girls.

What do ye think of telling that one girl? Good/bad idea? Don't want to ruin the friendship or make it awkward, her friend added me on fb aswell, I hadn't met her before.

Or else I need something to take my mind off women as I'm always thinking about it.

pm me if you're real i'll coach you for free i'm 36 and i have a track record in managment and coaching.

7sr2z3fely84g5

Samich wrote: »

Ok, basically I'm an early 20's fella, absolutely awful with women.

I go out quite regularly but haven't the testicle fortitude to approach women.

I don't have a good body and have never felt a girl has been interested in me.

Try and change your negative thinking to positive,go to gym if you feel your not in shape.

Thatnastyboy

Just go and chat to women, have a laugh, dont act shy and nervous and dont be a creep!

"Don't put the pussy on a pedastal!!!" - cant remember who said that, They sure had a point though.

ballsymchugh

what you need to do is invent a special kinda suit, impenetrable to modern weapons, and that can fly and shoot people with high intensity beams of energy. then grow a bit of a goatee and the ladies will come flocking in.

you'll need a special energy source though, instead of a heart or something.

Samich

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Is your name Chris by any chance OP

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055873286&page=1247

Hmm what's that about?
And no.

Cill Dara Abu

Is your name Chris by any chance OP?

WindSock

zanador wrote: »

How do you feel about single mothers?

Start with their jabbers, then move slowly southwards.

Chuck Stone

Your dirty little man coming on here and pretending you're nice so you can attract unsuspecting ladies.

Shame on you OP.

Shame on you!

Night_Prowler

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"Don't put the pussy on a pedastal!!!" - cant remember who said that, They sure had a point though.[/QUOTE]

40 year old virgin

MrStuffins

Samich wrote: »

Hmm what's that about?
And no.

Take it from me, any girl worth her salt will wanna spend a lot of time with you. Judging from your username!

Well, I say that. I mean making you for their boyfriend!

Samich

Thatnastyboy wrote: »

Just go and chat to women, have a laugh, dont act shy and nervous and dont be a creep!

"Don't put the pussy on a pedastal!!!" - cant remember who said that, They sure had a point though.

That's the problem, I don't know how to get chatting or what to talk about even?

El Weirdo

Samich wrote: »

Should also have said the fb girl is gorgeous and way out of my league.

Well if you think like that, then she probably is. Might sound a bit harsh but if you want to get anywhere you need to work on your confidence. I'm not talking one of them pick-up artist asshat confident, just... you know... more confident than you're being.

Oh bollocks to this, it's AH... just get a boombox, whack in "In Your Eyes" by Peter Gabriel and hold it over your head outside her bedroom window.

lagente

W.Shakes-Beer wrote: »

Possibly wrong forum to be asking in! :cool:

Don't sweat it man.

aren't you the guy who put in that photo of a guys face shopped. nasty stuff that. making fun of people you don't know.

WindSock

Thatnastyboy wrote: »

Just go and chat to women, have a laugh, dont act shy and nervous and dont be a creep!

"Don't put the pussy on a pedastal!!!" - cant remember who said that, They sure had a point though.

I think you mean pedal stool.

nicechick!

Samich wrote: »

Ok, basically I'm an early 20's fella, absolutely awful with women.

I go out quite regularly but haven't the testicle fortitude to approach women.

I don't have a good body and have never felt a girl has been interested in me.

I have approached a few women before in clubs asking how their night is but most just shrugged me away.

There is a girl I like but don't we well, doesn't mean she likes me. I've met her once, but chat alot on facebook (me always starting the chat). I don't think she likes me, she's just very friendly I think, no hints or anything from her.

Near the end of the club I always feel depressed when I think I'm absolute failure with girls.

What do ye think of telling that one girl? Good/bad idea? Don't want to ruin the friendship or make it awkward, her friend added me on fb aswell, I hadn't met her before.

Or else I need something to take my mind off women as I'm always thinking about it.

You need to like yourself before you could get someone else to like/love you!! Not sure if I'm making sense... the fact that you dislike yourself so much its likely even if you do meet someone you will doubt there care/love/like for you seeing as you seem to dislike yourself that much

Stop obsessing over the ''need'' for a girlfriend!! people obsess over where they think they should be instead of just going with the flow so to speak!

IPushButtons

Cill Dara Abu

nicechick! wrote: »

You need to like yourself before you could get someone else to like/love you!! Not sure if I'm making sense... the fact that you dislike yourself so much its likely even if you do meet someone you will doubt there care/love/like for you seeing as you seem to dislike yourself that much

Stop obsessing over the ''need'' for a girlfriend!! people obsess over where they think they should be instead of just going with the flow so to speak!

Ok Dr. Phil :rolleyes:

nicechick!

IPushButtons wrote: »

That's one option!!

Samich

Ok, so I'll change it to meeting some women, and I actually feel ok with my body but just being honest by thinking it's not a good body?

zanador

WindSock wrote: »

Start with their jabbers, then move slowly southwards.

tis that kind of behaviour got me in trouble in the first place

El Weirdo

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Ok Dr. Phil :rolleyes:

No, she's right. It's all about the confidence.