I need a girlfriend/help.

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Samich wrote: »

Ok, so I'll change it to meeting some women, and I actually feel ok with my body but just being honest by thinking it's not a good body?

its about personality mate,you could have an head like an arse and still pull some stunners.

Thatnastyboy

Samich wrote: »

That's the problem, I don't know how to get chatting or what to talk about even?

Just talk a bit of sh!t, everyone likes sh!te-talk.

Get yourself a good wingman tbh, someone who can talk to women, get them to stir up some conversation and get one of those costumes that disguises you as a hedge, so you can stand nearby and watch & listen to what theyre doing and saying, and take notes, lots of notes, everyone loves notes.

Swallow your nervousness, get a few greasers into ya and just enjoy yourself, a lot of the time youll pull when you arent actually trying your heart out.

nicechick!

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Ok Dr. Phil :rolleyes:

ok to be honest I wanted to say!! nothing worse then a needy, low self esteem fella looking for a girlfriend who thinks is going to make the world a perfect place.... oh how wrong they are...

biggest turn off and trust me you can see them a mile off.... as the girls would say ''the smell of want'' of that one ... ehhh crude but eh

Thatnastyboy

WindSock wrote: »

I think you mean pedal stool.

Buh?

Samich

Maddux Gigantic Racist wrote: »

its about personality mate,you could have an head like an arse and still pull some stunners.

I'm afraid that is not true.

zanador

Samich wrote: »

Ok, so I'll change it to meeting some women, and I actually feel ok with my body but just being honest by thinking it's not a good body?

Women don't care about bodies so much. As others have said it's all about the confidence and the craic

fonecrusher1

Samich wrote: »

That's the problem, I don't know how to get chatting or what to talk about even?

Heres a goodin! Walk up to a girl in a bar & say quite loudly... Here, ya ridin or whaaa???(emphasise the "Whaaa?" bit) She & her friends will laugh at how vulgar your approach is & before you know it you'll be drinking wine from her bum back at her place.

Samich

nicechick! wrote: »

ok to be honest I wanted to say!! nothing worse then a needy, low self esteem fella looking for a girlfriend who thinks is going to make the world a perfect place.... oh how wrong they are...

biggest turn off and trust me you can see them a mile off.... as the girls would say ''the smell of want'' of that one ... ehhh crude but eh

Ok, I'll reply to that by saying even if I was to get talking to a girl for a while I wouldn't be able go in for the kill as I wouldn't want to be seen as just after some hole.

Samich

zanador wrote: »

Women don't care about bodies so much. As others have said it's all about the confidence and the craic

I doubt my face is anything special either

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Samich wrote: »

I'm afraid that is not true.

it is,when we get older we get more mature,i think we fall in love with people we least expect.

TheZohanS

Drop a couple of yokes* and head out to a club for a dance. Won't take too long for you to pull.



*I do not condone the use of drugs unless your dealer has good shìt

Samich

Oh another thing to add is I'm always thinking sure why would a girl get with me when there's looooads of men hotter than me with better bodies who would get with them. I don't think I''m ugly, just not goodlooking.

zanador

Samich wrote: »

I doubt my face is anything special either

It's not you that has to like it

Act confident even tho you're dying inside - it gets easier with practise

Samich

zanador wrote: »

It's not you that has to like it

Act confident even tho you're dying inside - it gets easier with practise

I do try, but how can a person be confident? :P

nicechick!

Samich wrote: »

Ok, I'll reply to that by saying even if I was to get talking to a girl for a while I wouldn't be able go in for the kill as I wouldn't want to be seen as just after some hole.

That was crude of me, what I'm saying is most girls will pick up on your self esteem issues and the fact that'd you'd like a girlfriend thus putting them off... as being chicks we dwell on everything thus doubting the true reason of creating a romantic relationship i.e you decided you wanted a girlfriend and she was it... instead of meeting a girl of like and seeing what happens

basically your looking for a girlfriend for the wrong reasons!! just to make yourself feel better about yourself because you think you'll be happier for it... no way to start any romantic relationship - women/girls will pick up on this

Don Juan DeMagoo

zanador wrote: »

It's not you that has to like it

Act confident even tho you're dying inside - it gets easier with practise

Jeez man, sorry to hear. Hope things get better 4 u

El Weirdo

TheZohan wrote: »

Drop a couple of yokes and head out to a club for a dance. Won't take too long for you to pull.

I remember making a post like that when you were a mod and you deleted it.

Samich

@nicechick

I'll change it to meeting some women, I have no female contact now or ever.

Columbia

I think above all you need to work on your confidence, and for this I suggest you take up a sport if you haven't one already, or get better at it if you have

Doing a sport will give you a lot more confidence, and will benefit you in most areas of your life, relationships included. It can be anything from GAA to ultimate frisbee, depending on your personality. I've yet to meet someone who didn't enjoy playing ultimate frisbee though.

Once you're feeling a bit better in yourself you might take a look at your wardrobe and get your female friend's advice on what you wear. Women have odd opinions on what looks good, things men can't predict. Only a couple of weeks ago I learned that my girlfriend of four years doesn't think that guys wearing sunglasses on cloudy days look like complete douchebags.

Forget about being good looking for now. Just looking clean is a good enough start :P

TheZohanS

El Weirdo wrote: »

I remember making a post like that when you were a mod and you deleted it.

Yeah I'm all about fight the powah these days.

Topper Harley

So you're looking to pull? I've one word for you: Coppers.

Sure it's a bit of a kip, but if you're hammered enough you'll fit right in and have a bit if Dutch courage.

zanador

Don Juan DeMagoo wrote: »

Jeez man, sorry to hear. Hope things get better 4 u

Ha, I used to be painfully shy, now am happy in any social situation.

OP hold your head high and pretend you're confident - it really works, I promise!

El Weirdo

Columbia wrote: »

Once you're feeling a bit better in yourself you might take a look at your wardrobe and get your female friend's advice on what you wear. Women have odd opinions on what looks good, things men can't predict.

Yeah, get her to go shopping with you to help you pick up some new clobber. Birds fucking love that shopping and dressing people lark. Perfect excuse to spend the day with her.

kneeelix

Advice isn't my strong suit but this guy seems to know a few things...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPDUuJUlMZE

nicechick!

Samich wrote: »

@nicechick

I'll change it to meeting some women, I have no female contact now or ever.

Change your social settings a bit! Nothing wrong with going to clubs but if your unsure about how to talk to girls as such

Join a club tag rugby something that will have you interacting with team mates and of course with girls not with the intention of flirting but to meet people that have similar interests etc you'll find it much easier to interact with girls as you have a similar hobbies/interests the more you interact with the girls your confidence will grow

Killer Pigeon

Well, you could go to one of those chubby-chaser websites.

Mr Benevolent

Cill Dara Abu wrote: »

Ok Dr. Phil :rolleyes:

Sure you mean Dr. Phyllis?

chucken1

OP..Go to your local garage and buy bulbs for the car. Works a treat!!

Samich

Killer Pigeon wrote: »

Well, you could go to one of those chubby-chaser websites.

Nah yore ma is one of the seldom birds I've done

HazDanz

Get a black leather jacket, a white t-shirt, denim jeans and a Porsche 550 Spyder.

Job done.