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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Cadyboo


    Hi ladiess, haven't been on this in a while. Hope you are and bumps are all doing well. Really in the Christmas mood, have decorations up and Christmas fm is constantly on. Going to start my wrapping later on as Im off work with my back and hip, joys of it.:(
    Had my big scan yesterday 21 weeks and everything is looking very good. Think I am experiencing some serious kicks that are making me jump a little. And as we could see babys thigh bone yesterday very clearly Id say they will be a little soccer player but hopefully baby will wait until when they come out and not too much inside me. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,816 ✭✭✭Suucee


    Dreaded hormones affecting me too. Couldnt sleep the other night then got all worked up and started to cry cause i was wrecked. And that add on tv3 about temple street hospital made me ball.
    Think i need a good sleep. so tired. Cant get comfortable at all at night. twisting and turning. hips are so sore from lyin on them and cant sleep on my back (heard your not supposed to anyway).
    But on the plus side halfway there. Have 3D scan on sat and will get to see my wee man or woman . Cant wait.


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I had my checkup this morning - having the Big Scan on the 4th of January :). Not finding out the gender but looking forward to seeing my baba all grown up - last time was for only a minute at 11 weeks during a very quick scan.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Ah girlies you're all having/already had your scans, so jealous my next hospital isn't until Jan 16th & not even 100% sure if that will be a scan.

    Suucee that's brill that you're having your 3d scan, they're amazing, so clear! a tip I was given before mine was to have a fizzy drink half an hour or less before the scan so baba is moving lots :)

    Neyite that's great that your next scan is so soon :)

    Cadyboo, sorry to hear you're having bother with your hips. I had a few weeks of constant pain with my back so I feel your pain!
    Hopefully it'll ease off and you wont be in such constant pain.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Cadyboo


    Ah girlies you're all having/already had your scans, so jealous my next hospital isn't until Jan 16th & not even 100% sure if that will be a scan.

    Cadyboo, sorry to hear you're having bother with your hips. I had a few weeks of constant pain with my back so I feel your pain!
    Hopefully it'll ease off and you wont be in such constant pain.

    WEll if it is not a scan maybe you would think of going for a private one? Anyone hoping to go or have gone for 3d/4d scan? I am in two minds about them. Would love to go but then am afraid of them too, ha ha (think baby looks alieny in them)

    Thanks for that, it is easing off a bit but then I am relaxing and not doing too much. Hopefully it will feel a bit better, have been going to yoga once a week and going for little walks so they are probably helping too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    I wish I was having a scan soon, I had mine at 12 weeks, and although that was great, i still have 17 weeks to wait till its born :(

    and i know i could pay for one, but we cant afford to pay for one.. so will have to make do with hearing the heart and getting the guts kicked outa me till then :D


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I'm not getting a 3d /4d scan done. Happy enough to have plenty of pics from our scans (1 public and 2 private) in addition, a friend says that the use far more soundwaves on those scans than the normal ones and as she works in that area she and the Doctors are not convinced that they are not harmful, whereas the standard ultrasounds are in use so long and proven unharmful.

    Caprilicious - I probably wont get more scans apart from my big one in Jan. Hows your doppler working out?

    I'm still not getting kicks or flutters yet, but the Doctor says thats normal on a first baby - not until about 20 -23 weeks. I guess I'm impatient.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Cadyboo, no I don't think I'd go for a private scan this time.
    Combination of being short on funds and I suppose I'm not as impatient this time!

    Last time I was only dying to see baba and find out the sex asap, this time I'm that little bit more chilled out and don't mind waiting!
    I've been very luck in the hospital to receive a scan on each of my visits.
    I have a feeling that they may well scan me this time anyway as I had placenta previa last time & I think they'll want to see if that's the case this time around too.

    The 3D scan I had was brill, I thought that other babies looking alien-y in them too, but didn't think that when I seen my own baby. I could see she had her daddy's button nose :)

    Neyite I haven't used the doppler much at all really. I find at night time when I'm bed I can feel baba and his/her heartbeat so the novelty has worn off the doppler a bit :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭cocoemma


    I slipped up last night.. I haven't smoked in four months, since i found out.. and last night i was stressed, was p*ssed off and had a tantrum.. ended up i had a smoke then :( i feel guilty now.. and i'm craving for another one...i've been so good.. grr...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Ah no, though you've been doing great staying off them this long.

    Just tell yourself its only a few short months really before you can have them again -5 or so months then you can enjoy them guilt free!

    Don't keep beating yourself up over it though or you'll only stress more and want them even more!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭cocoemma


    Ah no, though you've been doing great staying off them this long.

    Just tell yourself its only a few short months really before you can have them again -5 or so months then you can enjoy them guilt free!

    Don't keep beating yourself up over it though or you'll only stress more and want them even more!


    Thanks Caprilicious, I feel so guilty.. like i didn't even enjoy it, it tasted like the first time I ever smoked so it just goes to show that my lungs cleared and healed a bit ya know.. This morning then I woke up less bloated and my tummy round and less pronaunced and i'm feeling parniod so it's deffo not NOT worth it.. I don't even have an excuse,, I certainly won't do it again, I so ashamed and you know -I-ABSOLUTLY-HATE-SEEING-PREGNANT-WOMEN smoking tut tut.. never again.. thanks for your kind words though...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,816 ✭✭✭Suucee


    Seriously need sleep . Is any one else finding they have turned in to an insomniac. Took ages to fall asleep last night then Woke up at 3.50 and at 4.30 gave up trying to go back to sleep and decided to go down stairs and watch a bit of tv. Was off work today lucky enough and finally fell back asleep around 7.00.
    On the plus side 3d scan tomorrow so excited. Glad i'll get to see my lil baba again. Had a scan in oct and not due back to hospital until Jan 19th. Been to the docs twice since and is nice to hear the heart beat but cant wait to see him/her again.
    Deff wont get any sleep tonight i'd say.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    No probs cocoemma. I'm not a smoker myself but I've seen how difficult it can be for the likes of my husband and sister trying to give them up.
    I think you've done really well to stay off them so far & hopefully it will have put you off having them again til after baby is born :)

    Suucee the lack of sleep is a killer. Fingers crossed I haven't got it too bad *yet* this time, though find I'm wide awake til 1-2am most nights so early mornings can be tough!
    I was the same last time though, got so fed up of counting sheep at all hours of the morning :D

    Best of luck with your scan tomorrow! I hope you get really clear pics :):):)

    You have me all tempted to get a scan now, after all my talk of not getting one! I'm itching to see how this little baby is coming along.

    I think after the miscarriage last time I've found it that bit more difficult to connect with this pregnancy and get excited, just in case things went wrong. I still find myself worrying a bit, I'm hoping my next scan in January will give me more peace of mind and reassurance :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,816 ✭✭✭Suucee


    Our little woman is perfect. Cant wait to meet her now. She was wiggling around like mad during ordinary scan while everything was being checked then by the time the sonographer started to do the 3d she fell asleep. She tried to poke her to wake her. Just a lil poke on my tummy nothing much at all but really disturbed my lil woman. I was thinking leave her alone. After seing that gona be so protective of my bump now. My mum got choked up when i pulled a dress out of the bag after showing her the pics. she has said girl a long for some reason.
    Hope every one is keeping well. I'll be on a high now for a few days. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    oh my god worst night ever!!!!!!!

    To start with out ESB is gone since 3pm yest, and wont be back till about 3pm today so the frickin house is like an igloo.

    then last night i was boiling water on a camping stove to make tea and a hot water bottle and the f**king gas nearly went on fire so.

    Then to top it all off I had the worst nights sleep ever!!! Between him and his bloody snoring, and the most almighty pain in my ribs. I couldnt get comfy and still have a pain in my side and my back. I think i must have eventually fallin asleep on my back cuz its really sore today (even tho yes i know im not meant too but i tried cushions to no avail to help me sleep on my side)

    is this normal?? ive had no back or rib pain up to now. 24+1 today, now i just feel sh1te!

    booo to the esb and boooooooooooooooo to mondays :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    how are we all doing in the run up to xmas ladies??

    Im 25+1 today, and nearly sh1t myself yesterday when I realised that in 15 weeks we will have a baby :eek: its all going so fast!!!!!!!!!
    Ive nothing got, apart from 7 bibs, 3 vests and 2 babygrows :rolleyes: I dont know why but i still feel its a bit early to be shopping for baby clothes?
    We are going to test run some buggies on Thursday while the shops have sales on..

    Feeling good tho, not as tired, or emotional.. Little bit more uncomfortable in the evenings, but i guess thats to be expected. The only real pain in the ass i have, is trying to put my shoes on every morning, or shaving my legs in the shower... I refuse to go into labour with hairy everything!!!! Its going to be undignified enough without worrying about people thinking to them selves "god this ones a minger" hahaha (yes i do know the likelyhood of this happening is nil, and ill be more interested in getting my baby out, but how and ever :P)

    Im just happppy and thankful to the baby jebus that ive only three more days of work till the holidays.. and we got a nice little bonus today too.. makes mondays all the better.. if only we got a bonus every monday :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,816 ✭✭✭Suucee


    Oh staticdoor i wish i had ur patience. I cant stop buying. Every shop i go in to i have to have a "quick look" in the baby section and rarely come out empty handed. I have my cot and buggie paid for and will have them both after xmas. I've some clothes, sheets and blankets got and even have nappies and wipes.
    I seriously need to STOP buying.

    But like yourself also feeling pretty good most of the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 537 ✭✭✭angelll


    Doing fine here,finding out the sex tomorrow evening at a private gender scan :D. I'm so excited,seeing are we getting another boy (have 2) or will it be a little lady. Have all my christmas shopping done amazingly,got some great toy bargains back in sept/oct. Bought a second hand buggy last week for €100,it's a m&p pliko pramette so it has the carrycot & car seat. Have a cot,sterilser and a few bottles so not doing too bad at all that way. Haven't bought a stitch yet though,will see after tomorrow :)

    As for health i'm on panadol most days,had a wisdom tooth out the other day so hopefully that pain will stop soon :(,had v bad pain for 3 weeks leading up to it coming out and it's still tender now but not too bad. Getting cramps in my stomach when i walk too far (like 20 mins!) but will see if all is ok tomorrow,think it'll prob just be a big baby and my stomach muscles mightn't be great.

    Static hope you got your esb back!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭cocoemma


    Hi Ladies, Merry Christmas :D Hope your all enjoying Christmas....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Happy Christmas all (belated, I know!) hope you all had a lovely relaxing one :)

    Angell, how did you get on with your gender scan? I've my fingers crossed that we'll find out the gender at my hospital scan in a few weeks, I loved finding out last time :)
    That was a great deal for the pliko, they're a v versatile pram with so many different combo's on it pram/buggy/moses basket etc

    Staticdoor, I was the same, finally got over susperstition and bought 2 x packs of vests for my hospital bag (no haven't started packing it yet, not THAT organised :D)

    I am only dying with indigestion. Its mad I never had it anywhere near as bad when pregnant with my daughter. When I did it was when I ate onions only.
    I'm eating rennies/gaviscon like they're going out of fashion. It feels like someone has set the back of my throat on fire, so uncomfortable :( fingers crossed it'll ease off soon.


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I got flutters and movements for christmas from baba :D. Couldnt possibly have had a better gift this year. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,171 ✭✭✭Ms2011


    I am only dying with indigestion. Its mad I never had it anywhere near as bad when pregnant with my daughter. When I did it was when I ate onions only.
    I'm eating rennies/gaviscon like they're going out of fashion. It feels like someone has set the back of my throat on fire, so uncomfortable :( fingers crossed it'll ease off soon.

    I'm dying with indigestion aswell Cap, I find some foods make it worse than others or if I let myself get too hungry and then have a big meal :rolleyes: It usually hits at night and is so bad sometimes I feel like vomiting, just another joy of being pregnant that they don't tell you about ;)

    Aren't those first flutters amazing Neyite, wait until you can actually see them from the outside, I could sit and watch my belly dance all day :D

    With just another week until I hit my third and final trimester I am starting to feel very pregnant. Everything feels like a chore, getting out of bed, tying shoes, getting in and out of the car, getting off the couch.........I could go on :p
    I'm so ready to get this baba out and get back to normal or as normal as life will be from then on :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    i too am feeling shockin pregnant.. as you said everythings a pain in the butt!! But then about an hour ago, i felt something, like as if i can feel either a bum or a head... its very very strange, then it will flip and i cant feel it any more... so weird, but so cool.

    but yeah, im done with it now, and Im not even due till april 1st haha, i just wanna meet my baby now!!!!!!

    I bought loads of clothes yesterday too :rolleyes: but i could resist, some beautiful suits for three frickin euro in pennys!!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 537 ✭✭✭angelll


    It's another boy :D I'm delighted,will have three little men. Went to mothercare yesterday and got some good bargains,especially 2 packs of long sleeved vests,found them invaluable before,must have a look in penneys next week! Anyway scan showed that i'm now jumped a week ahead on my dates so looks like it'll be another big one! I was 2 days ahead on the hosp scan in oct. My second little man was not so little at 9lbs,5oz :eek: , won't scare the first timers with the amount of stitches i had,lol. Hope everyone is well,i hear ye on the indegestion,keeping my gaviscon v close!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Aw Angell that's lovely that you found out the sex! wow anything over 9lb has my eye's watering at the thoughts!!

    Will definitely be keeping the gaviscon/rennies close at hand!

    Ms2011 I'm the same, it was mental in work a few days ago so I was an hour or two late going to lunch............oh the indigestion :(
    I so agree Pennies has some brill bargains! I don't get in often (me and crowds don't mix!), but the odd time I do get in I normally stock up on any bigger size stuff they have on sale. I'm so thankful now for all the little jeans/trousers I got for my little girl Spring last year that fit her now & were all €1-2 per pair!

    Neyite that is so lovely feeling those flutters and Christmas day too, makes it all the more precious :)

    Static I love that feeling when you can identify a part that baby is poking out :) this little baba doesn't seem to be as active (yet) as their big sister was, I'm looking forward to feeling a bit more movement.

    I'm feeling very pregnant some times too. I have to get used to not being able to bend over ladylike to pick stuff up from the floor, bump now means having to stand legs apart and squat down, I feel (and look!) like a pensioner when I do it!
    Can still see my toes though so all good :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Cadyboo


    Hi everyone, hope all your christmases went well.
    This thread has been too quiet.;)
    Congrats on finding out the sex Angel, 3 boys!! Your house will be mad, ha.
    I know how you all feel about feeling pregnant, finding it tough putting on the shoes alright, never mind when Im bigger. Finding myself short of breath also, anyone else have the same feeling??
    I have bought a few baby gros and vests in the last few days its so exciting!!:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    today and yesterday ive felt awful drained and breathless, and himself says i look very pale.. its prob just his diplomatic way of tellin me i look sh1t :)

    I also had to buy a little stool to help put my shoes on.. I just got one of those little stools that kiddies use for getting onto the loo when being potty trained. Three quid in guineys.. great job.

    im starting to feel like a little fish in a big pond tho. I had a read of the newborn thread, where everyones giving their 2 cents worth on the correct way to make up a bottle.. its times like this i wish me mum was still alive.. I miss all this advice straight from the horses mouth kinda thing. WHO KNEW there were so many diff ways and so much diff advice on bottle making up!!!! Feeling a little thicker haha

    Our antenatal classes start on the 12th of Jan, do they tell you all this stuff at them? or at least give you a few tips?? Ive not changed a nappy in 18 years (was ten when youngest sister was born)... will it all just come flooding back??

    really really hope this stuff is second nature stuff :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Cadyboo


    Staticdoor my friends who have had babies lately all make their bottles up as they are needed. I think that will be very tough. It was never done like that when my sisters had theirs. They made up a batch and used them as needed, then made another. My bro in law has said his sister was doing hers the new way and was wrecked! He suggested she change to the old way and the baby in thriving and she had more of a routine for herself.
    I am doing the ante natal classes also but it doesnt say anything on the itinery about the normal day to day things but friends have said the nurses are very good and will answer any of your questions when you have the baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    I did it the old way too and have a thriving toddler who was never sick as a result of her bottles.

    I did try the new way for a few days but was exhausted and had a very frustrated baby screaming at me when her bottle was due but we had to wait for it to cool.

    Personally I think once the preparation area/bottles etc are sterilised and kept hygienic it reduces the majority of the risk involved with preparing in batches.

    Static that's gas having the little stool, I have one of those in work for stuff I can't reach :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 537 ✭✭✭angelll


    Cadyboo my sis in law had their first in sept and she was doing it the old way too but the poor little guy didn't take to it at all so she had to go back to doing it the other way. Now she takes up the bottle with the boiled water in it and the milk powder in a little container with the exact amount of scoops and when he wakes for a feed she just mixes it up and it's fresh straight away :) I did the bottles in the fridge with my second but that was almost 5 yrs ago now so will be doing it her way this time around. I want a little stool!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    ah thanks ladies... so basically, i can boil the water, put the right amount in the bottles and seal it while hot, then as needed add the formula and shake, but dont keep the water more than 24 hours??

    i was speaking to my aunt and apparently my mum never ever heated a bottle for us, they were all room temp, which she herself followed.. (sounds like a plan to me, at least you can go places without having to get the bottle heated)...

    Feeling a little more relaxed now. Had a major freak out last night.. basically a "oh my f**king god we will have a baby in 12 weeks time kinda thing". it all got a bit too scarey (the whole family was over for dinner, and NON STOP baby talk :rolleyes:)....

    Is it wrong that i crave a conversation that doesnt revolve around being pregnant or babies.. does that make me a bad person?:o

    Cant wait to use my xmas present from himself.. He got us 2 nights away in the presidential suit of a very fancy hotel, and a mum to be spa treatment.. and I cannot wait to just go and forget most of the world for a whole weekend before our world gets knocked upside down :D

    Hope everyones feeling good... last day of 2011 huh... jaysus it flew!!! Was looking for something non alcoholic for meself for tonight with a cork to pop... doesnt seem to exist around here tho haha, can of coke for meeeeee :D

    Happy and safe new year Ladies.. Have a lovely evening xx


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2 elainen73


    hi all. im new to here and was wondering if someone could tell me if its normal to have only 2 scans throughout my pregnancy. i always went private and jst can not afford private care this time round this is my 4th pregnancy with 5th baby please god. i had scan at 14 weeks and next one will be 32 weeks. is this normal its just i thought i would have gotten another scan at 20-24 weeks?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭staticdoor71


    Well i had my first scan at 12 weeks, and as far as I know, unless they feel something is wrong, thats all ill be getting. Im going public in Mayo general


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭Cadyboo



    Feeling a little more relaxed now. Had a major freak out last night.. basically a "oh my f**king god we will have a baby in 12 weeks time kinda thing". it all got a bit too scarey (the whole family was over for dinner, and NON STOP baby talk :rolleyes:)....

    Is it wrong that i crave a conversation that doesnt revolve around being pregnant or babies.. does that make me a bad person?:o



    Happy and safe new year Ladies.. Have a lovely evening xx

    I am the exact same. I don't mind choosing to talk about pregnancy and babies while on this but everytime anyone calls or group of girls meet it is all baby talk! It is great sometimes. But do they not realise that it is all I think about so would love to blank it out for an hour or so.;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 537 ✭✭✭angelll


    elainen73 wrote: »
    hi all. im new to here and was wondering if someone could tell me if its normal to have only 2 scans throughout my pregnancy. i always went private and jst can not afford private care this time round this is my 4th pregnancy with 5th baby please god. i had scan at 14 weeks and next one will be 32 weeks. is this normal its just i thought i would have gotten another scan at 20-24 weeks?

    In Limerick you get one at 14 weeks and one at 32. I went for a private scan a couple of weeks ago,only costs €120 and was well worth it imo. Happy New Year everyone!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2 elainen73


    Thanks for replies girls. Am going to ring tues for app for private scan. Too long of a wait till 32 weeks. Happy new year!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Congratulations Elainen73 on your pregnancy :) I agree it is such a big gap between scans.
    That said, on my last pregnancy and this I was told I would only get the booking one and one further at 32 weeks, but I always seem to get more scans.

    The private one is the way to go though to give you peace of mind. Plus its lovely getting to see baby :)

    Staticdoor, I'm the same, I'm not into talking baby stuff 24/7, that's what I have the boards forums for :D
    That said, I do find I get less questioning this time compared to my last pregnany. The novelty has worn off for the family now ;)

    Happy new year ladies, hope ye all had a good one. So lovely thinking we'll all get to meet our wee baba's in a short few months!

    My boss was talking about advertising for my maternity cover soon to give me plenty of time to train someone in. Brought it all home that its only a few short months really!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 110 ✭✭Shuwaaah


    Hi all, glad to see everyone is doing so well, it's been a while since I've been on! 24 weeks and i feel SO pregnant, the difference in the last week alone is crazy.
    I've got the whole 'pregnant woman' way of getting up off the couch or out of the car, crossing my legs aint as easy as it used to be, boobs are leaking at night, bump has gotten HUGE, a couple of stretch marks have started to appear and baby starts kicking every time i get up to go to the bathroom at night. Ànd I wouldn't change any of it for the world, April can't come quick enough. :D

    We had our scan before christmas and we're having a boy, the sonographer told us she was 100% sure of the sex, so we ended up buying a few bits in the sales.

    Reading the posts about how to make bottles up reminds me of how little I know, I don't know how to do ANYTHING. At all. Only held a baby properly for the first time a few weeks ago and was terrified I'd drop her. Everyone's telling me it's different when you have your own and that you pick it up as you go along, so I'm praying thats true. It's my first so I just hope I'm not in the hospital for too long and can get home quickly with the baba.

    Hope everyone had a nice Christmas and wanna wish you all a happy new year. it's gonna be a good one ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Shuwaaah congrats on finding out you're having a boy! Great to hear all is going well with you :)
    That was great being able to pick up a few bits too :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 110 ✭✭Shuwaaah


    Shuwaaah congrats on finding out you're having a boy! Great to hear all is going well with you :)
    That was great being able to pick up a few bits too :)

    Yeah, so hard not to get carried away, so much stuff out there! My mum is mad to get us a Moses basket or changing table, not sure if we really need either, as we have a carrycot with the pram, and people are telling us Moses baskets are more hassle than they're worth as they creak and wake the baby up (but part of me wants one anyway), and i wasn't that pushed about the changing table until i saw one for fifty euro that doubled up as a bath too.
    If i had money to buy all this stuff id be dangerous :-P

    How are you getting on cap?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭cocoemma


    Hi Ladies, Happy New Year to ya'll :D... I had a very sober Christmas and New Year but i really enjoyed myself...

    Hope you all are doing well... I'm like yourselves picking up bits and pieces, I hit some shops but I think the sales a brutel this year.. I picked up some baby grows and bibs etc.. we dont know the sex yet so im just going neutral.. I've decided not to get anymore now untill we find out, we have the big scan the 18th I CAN'T WAIT FOR THAT..

    I bought some baby books as well, you know a guide to bringing baby home etc.. Cause I dont have a CLUE... I'll check the name later and let you's know if the 1st time mammies want read :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    I'm getting on great Shuwaaah thanks :) I had a moses basket but gave it away, it was handy for my little girls day time naps in the living room, but I don't think it'd be safe this time around with a curious toddler around wanting to mooch in and see who/what was in the basket!

    As for the changing table, a lot of people will say they're a waste of money (myself included til I got one) but I found it a godsend for my back being able to change baby standing upright, but so so handy for storing all the nick nacks that go with changing nappies creams/wipes etc.
    If you have a the room for it, I'd recommend one!

    Cocoemma you're getting your scan 2 days after me, so exciting isn't it?! I'm counting down the days :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭macy10


    Hi,

    I am 21 weeks pregnant and for the past week both my hips have been aching at night, preventing me from sleeping. I have tried using a pillow to place between my legs but with little relief. I also have a pain in my nether region!! (dull muscular pain, not sharp). I'm wondering if any of you are suffering from this or ladies who've already gone through pregnancies do you know what thisis? Will it go away or remain throughut the pregnancy? I can cope with my bladder getting me up at night but tjis pain is really preventing me from ssleeping.

    Also, do any of you know where I could purchase a breastfeeding nightdress. Saw one on TV with poppers/clasps on the right and left hand side (not buttons down the front)

    Thanks for any help


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭Play Bunny


    hi macy it could be spd pain or the start of it, im sufferng this time round again myself, im due in june
    http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnancy/antenatalhealth/physicalhealth/pelvicpain/
    that link may be of help, my pain is usually in the day or if i over do it on housework but i know towards the middle/end i did suffer something wicked but every case is different..u should see a physio at ur hospital its free, and do pelvic floor excersises, but on a brighter note it goes after birth.


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Am 21+4 today. Had the big scan today and it was great. :D

    Baby's head, face, spine, kidneys, heart and bones /hands feet are all fine. We didnt want to know the gender so the sonographer zoomed away at that point.

    We were not worrying about it, but nice to get the reassurance all the same. Kicking mostly at night, we got a nocturnal one here. - strong enough for dad to feel it faintly from the outside. :)

    I'm feeling very stretched at the mo, even though I have a small bump, and looking at it, I'm wondering how baby can get any bigger, because I feel all stretched out and will have to survive on hourly morsels of food soon because nothing else will fit. Galaxy Minstrels count as morsels, right? :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,171 ✭✭✭Ms2011


    Neyite wrote: »
    Kicking mostly at night, we got a nocturnal one here. - strong enough for dad to feel it faintly from the outside. :)


    Gonna have a night owl myself I think, as soon as he senses I'm falling asleep at night (which is getting harder by the day) he starts his tap dancing routine :rolleyes::D

    How great that your OH can feel the kicks now, I think that is really when it hit my OH that there is really somebody in there lol!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 110 ✭✭Shuwaaah


    My wee man is always kicking at night too, as soon as i lie down he starts. Was lying in bed awake this morning and he was kicking the living daylights out of me for ten minutes straight, i think he's training to be in Riverdance or something!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,880 ✭✭✭caprilicious


    Neyite that's fantastic that your scan went so well :)
    I'm feeling the same about my tum, I was huffing and puffing like a horse on its last legs last night and worse again in work.
    It felt like the baby was squeezing every last breath out my lungs! If it wasn't for the fact I'd already seen my tum stretched much bigger, I'd wonder was it physically possible to stretch any more!

    Just to reassure ye, my little girl would do the whole of riverdance three times a night when in my tum, but thankfully sleeps great :D
    Just in case ye are worried about nocturnal babies when they're out!!

    This baby seems a little lazier, definitely doesn't kick as much (yet) as my little girl did.

    Macy, I had that on my last pregnancy, never in both sides of my hips at once though, normally alternating sides.
    I found it did ease after a few weeks though, I think it was just growing pains as everything pushed out in my tum :) Hopefully it'll ease off soon for you.


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I was reading one of those horoscope inserts that came with the papers for the New Year. Dont ever believe them, but my May horoscope under the heading Love and Sex had the following memorable quote...

    "In mid May you will learn some new night-time skills, which will bring an added dimension to your relationship"

    er...getting up multiple times in the night to feed a days-old baby? Mystic Meg might want to polish up her crystal ball :pac:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭macy10


    Play Bunny,

    I read your reply and researched that spd/pelvic girdle pain link, and I'm almost 100% sure that's what I have. Really thought i'd just been spending too much time in bed over the holidays and gave myself hip sore! I was really frightened and upset reading about it, esp since mine has only started. Really hoping it doesnt get much worse. Can barely sleep at night. Is there any help/physio you can get to help with pain?

    Thanks


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