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Self Reflection ?

Seres · 2011-09-19 16:38:42

just wondering if anyone here has gone thru a self reflective period since a break-up ? just interested to know

19-09-2011 5:38pm

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Seres

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just wondering if anyone here has gone thru a self reflective period since a break-up ? just interested to know

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#2 19-09-2011 6:34pm

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Yes. If we don't analyse, disect and reflect, then we will either make the same mistakes over again, or will be blind to the warning signs of a potentially bad boyfriend. I took two years out after a very painful relationship experience which had been going bad for years. It was only after careful reflection that I knew that I was ok to move on and not eternally damaged.

I think perhaps it is easier for girls than guys as we tend to talk things through with our friends and listen to what they have to say.

Sorry if you are going through a painful time. I know it is a cliché but time really is a great healer.

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