Looking at a woman without checking her out?

Scanlas The 2nd

o1s1n wrote: »

Don't look away and don't make any facial expressions? So just sit there staring like a psycopath?

Er...right then. That's not creepy at all. I'd imagine those girls are just smiling nervously for fear of you stabbing them to death and wearing their skin.

Yep that's what I would have thought too. Try it and come back to me.

The girls are staring just as long as you are, if you're a psycopath so is she. The real world doesn't always turn out like you think. It feels very strange doing it, in your head you're thinking what's wrong with you woman why are you still staring, but just keep staring with no facial expressions and eventually she will smile. Try it and find out for yourself.

Remember you're not just sitting staring at her when she's not looking, of course that's highly creepy. You both catch each others eyes and you simply don't look away first and don't make any facial expressions until she does.

IrishZeus

Op, were you really sitting straight across from her breathing heavily, with one hand on the table and the other out of sight...?


If so, I commend you. If not, she's a weirdo... No... wait.... hmm...

UglyBolloxFace

slum dog wrote: »

I was walking down the aisle on the train the other day and as you inevitably do, i looked at the people as i passed by. i happened to make eye contact with a girl who was insecurely txting on her phone while i was passing by. I looked at the girl for a split second and for some reason, she through her eyes up to heaven. i was quite offended by her act as i felt she was somehow insinuating something. i came to the conclusion that she thought i was checking her out. i wondered to myself was this girl capable of differentiating between someone who just happens to look at you and someone who happens to check you out, as there is a difference or am i wrong?

Can a man look at a girl without checking her out or are men just after one thing?

C'mon OP, own up, this is what actually happened:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw

LeeHoffmann

It feels very strange doing it, in your head you're thinking what's wrong with you woman why are you still staring, but just keep staring with no facial expressions and eventually she will smile. Try it and find out for yourself.

This sounds like two dogs having a staring competition to determine who's boss :P

Shpuds

Maybe she was on boards on her phone, starting a thread about creepy men on trains?

Balmed Out

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I think only babies are better at out staring people than hot women

You like staring at babies then......

Scanlas The 2nd

Balmed Out wrote: »

You like staring at babies then......

Yes and they can't be defeated.

4leto

LOL at this thread I don't think it went the way the OP planned. OP there is some good advice here on how to check the wimmines out even if they are insecurely texting without getting rumbled and being thought a perv. First master peripheral vision, then after selecting your "checking out" target, by means of strategic manoeuvring get into a line of sigh,t while been out of hers, then ogle and enjoy. Its a skill that comes natural to man, but I suggest you first practice in mirrors or with some friends before you are allowed out again.

I realise all this advice you are getting is blowing our cover and the enemy are getting intelligence on our tactics. It will make checking more difficult for the brotherhood.

rambutman

jugger0 wrote: »

Its a very fine line, people are going to be looking at ya for 2 reasons, if you're good looking or else funny looking...

Try telling that to Jason Bourne.

Some people are just observant.

Son Of A Vidic

mackg wrote: »

Insecurely texting? I don't understand what that means.

One hand is used for texting while the other one is supporting her as she hangs from a precipe.

ash23

I hate when you catch a guy checking you out and you smile at them and they go puce and begin insecurely texting on their phone.
Why stare if you aren't gonna do something about it?

Kadongy

ash23 wrote: »

I hate when you catch a guy checking you out and you smile at them and they go puce and begin insecurely texting on their phone.
Why stare if you aren't gonna do something about it?

cos half of them have gfs tbh.

Never understand that. Just teasing yourself and maybe the girl if you do that while not open to engaging.

Most of the other half are probably storing you in their **** bank :P

The reaction in the OP is shocking. I'd be pretty irritated if that happened to me.
I've observed girls responding inappropriately to guys being normal-friendly to them. They come across as twats, and generally aren't particularly attractive physically either.

Then you get girls who encourage sexual attention, ignore guys not giving sexual attention, then complain or express contempt about the attention -usually behind their backs. Girls desperate for attention to bolster their own ego at the expense of guys providing it. Or sometimes it's worse than that and about getting favourable treatment.

There are a lot of twats of both sexes really. About 50% of people are twats.

OutlawPete

ash23 wrote: »

I hate when you catch a guy checking you out and you smile at them and they go puce and begin insecurely texting on their phone.

That was me, I was just tweeting ..

"God I hate being so cross-eyed, girls always think I'm checking them out".

Frank Black

The ability to appreciate beauty - it's an uniquely human trait, and one we should cherish.

Appeal to your better nature and continue to check out hot chicks.