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Loyalty in a relationship

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  • #52
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    UglyBolloxFace wrote: »
    I was out tonight having the craic. I have a girlfriend (albeit long distance for the time being) but I got chatting to a girl tonight and we really hit it off.

    We were able to chat about absolutely anything, and were getting on great.

    But the one thing I would never do is cheat on my girlfriend - I just am not like that, let alone attempt to deal with the guilt the next day.

    This girl tried several times to get me to go back to her apartment, even trying several times to grab a hold of my crotch (!), but I stood my ground and said no.

    And to be completely honest, I am damn proud of myself - I was hammered but still knew that I couldn't do anything like that (cue Meatloaf song).

    A lot of you may call me "ghey" and a "wimp" but I feel on top of the world right now - not because I said no to that girl (let's be honest it should be a given anyway) but because I actually felt great saying no and great knowing that I have a girl in my life whom I absolutely love to bits.

    Have any of yee been in this situation before? How did it turn out for ye?

    Fair play for not giving in and staying loyal to your long distance GF.
    Resisting temptation can be difficult but worth it.
    No harm in looking at the menu, so long as you don't sample the goods.


  • #53
    orourkeda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,918 ✭✭✭✭orourkeda


    I have enough trouble trying to satisfy one


  • #54
    wiger toods
    Closed Accounts Posts: 813 ✭✭✭wiger toods


    Hey uglybolloxface, fair play man, you oul wan asked me to tell you she's proud of you.:pac:


  • #55
    jaffacakesyum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    UglyBolloxFace wrote: »
    I was out tonight having the craic. I have a girlfriend (albeit long distance for the time being) but I got chatting to a girl tonight and we really hit it off.

    We were able to chat about absolutely anything, and were getting on great.

    But the one thing I would never do is cheat on my girlfriend - I just am not like that, let alone attempt to deal with the guilt the next day.

    This girl tried several times to get me to go back to her apartment, even trying several times to grab a hold of my crotch (!), but I stood my ground and said no.

    And to be completely honest, I am damn proud of myself - I was hammered but still knew that I couldn't do anything like that (cue Meatloaf song).

    A lot of you may call me "ghey" and a "wimp" but I feel on top of the world right now - not because I said no to that girl (let's be honest it should be a given anyway) but because I actually felt great saying no and great knowing that I have a girl in my life whom I absolutely love to bits.

    Have any of yee been in this situation before? How did it turn out for ye?

    I haven't read the thread so this has probably (hopefully!) been said already but, what do you want, a ****ing medal?

    You didn't cheat on your girlfriend. Well done you :confused:


  • #56
    TheMilkyPirate
    Registered Users Posts: 6,017 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    Kiera wrote: »
    Bring it on :D

    :pac:


  • #57
    BraziliaNZ
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Once you cheat a couple of times, you don't feel any guilt and it's fine. It's good for a man sometimes, to have a bit of strange, good for the relationship.


  • #58
    colc1
    Registered Users Posts: 91 ✭✭colc1


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    Once you cheat a couple of times, you don't feel any guilt and it's fine. It's good for a man sometimes, to have a bit of strange, good for the relationship.

    I think theres too much about monogamy...it just complicates the vast majority of guys whether they act on it or not dont want to be with just one woman...sexually I mean if that wasnt obvious.... Why arent open relationships more common I dont get it....

    Sure as long as youre being honest its just physical?? I think monogamy is often...arguably always a control mechanism and satisfying for people's egos... Not kidding sorry for going off topic slightly but it still relates to loyalty in a relationship as the thread is titled....

    I dont get the OP point really either sure we've all been in that situation....it happens (especially when you're in a relationship unfortunately).


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