Partners having sex toys

44leto

getz wrote: »

you can tell there is a recession,my wife can no longer afford the batteries,so she has to come to me for the real thing.

That must be terrible for her, I am sorry to hear that.:D

Stiffler2

isn't it funny how men used to be judged coz they used dolls.
Now that vibrators & dildo's are widespread the doll is more accepted.

funny that way

Joey the lips

Bother me... No!

Want to see her using it on herself..... Oh yes!

Joey the lips

Joey the lips wrote: »

Want to see her using it on herself..... Oh yes!

Highly recommend that too. My GFs uses them and on occasion I get to watch them do so. This is - obviously enough - erotic and great fun. They use them together and on each other too and get all the same benefits I do.

However the benefits do not stop there. It is also educational in that watching how a girl does things to herself can teach you a lot about what she particularly likes and can help you learn how to please her even better.

There is also the increase in trust and more that also benefits the relationship. It is the sharing of intimate and vulnerable moments and can greatly benefit the strength of the relationship, trust and intimacy therein.

All in all watching and helping with their use can benefit all involved.

cruiser178

mad m wrote: »

Duracell 240 volts FTW....

Fixed

Carter P Fly

Toys can be fun but eveyone has body insecurities which you cannot be expected to just get over because it goes againt the popular opinion that guys just have to be cool about girls use of sex toys.

stupidusername

flutterflye wrote: »

Would a tight plastic vagina make a guys thing thinner?

I'm not disputing the fact that very large penis's would stretch a vagina, because tbh, I just do not know whether that happens or not.
But I pushed out two 8 pound babies, and my hooha is the same as before, if not tighter.
(God, I actually can't believe I'm saying this to strangers on the internet!)
So I don't really understand how penis's would stretch it?

As far as I can see they wouldn't stretch it exactly, but they would be more stretchable for a bigger penis. if it can stretch to accommodate a big penis, or for a baby, it means that they're defaulted to a normal size but are more easily able to stretch.

I'd imagine if you go straight from using a large dildo / penis, to having sex with a smaller penis it'd feel looser. if it wasn't straight away though I don't really see how it'd make a difference.

Deleted User wrote: »

My girlfriends regularly use them, both together and alone. I am not bothered at all.

Are you trolling?

Deleted User wrote: »

Also sex takes a lot of effort. If it does not you are not doing it right. It is quite possible to be horny but not "in the mood" for everything sex entails. Masturbation, toys, porn and more are all valid and easier outlets for "Quick relief" when one is horny but not up for actual sex.

Yes, good point.

Stiffler2 wrote: »

isn't it funny how men used to be judged coz they used dolls.
Now that vibrators & dildo's are widespread the doll is more accepted.

funny that way

I don't know that the use of dolls is more widely accepted now though.

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

Are you trolling?

Huh? First you ask am I trolling and then say I made a good point? What?

Trolling as far as I know is saying things to get people upset or angered just to enjoy their reaction. How has anything I have said been upsetting or angering? Are YOU trolling by asking perfectly innocent people if they are?

stupidusername

Deleted User wrote: »

Huh? First you ask am I trolling and then say I made a good point? What?

Trolling as far as I know is saying things to get people upset or angered just to enjoy their reaction. How has anything I have said been upsetting or angering? Are YOU trolling by asking perfectly innocent people if they are?

Talking about your girlfriends and how they use their toys on one another. sounds a little unusual to me.

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

Talking about your girlfriends and how they use their toys on one another. sounds a little unusual to me.

I never knew trolling was synonymous with being different in some way. We appear to be working off different meanings of the word, hence the confusion.

I recommend a quick look at my past posts, the ones you can see that is as I post heavily on parts of boards that do not show up in search results. I currently live with two girls and yes it is non standard for a country like Ireland, though that hardly justifies suggesting I am a troll really.

stupidusername

Deleted User wrote: »

I never knew trolling was synonymous with being different in some way. We appear to be working off different meanings of the word, hence the confusion.

I recommend a quick look at my past posts, the ones you can see that is as I post heavily on parts of boards that do not show up in search results. I currently live with two girls and yes it is non standard for a country like Ireland, though that hardly justifies suggesting I am a troll really.

it's fine if it's true, it's hardly normal, so don't know why you'd be confused as to my disbelief.

whatdoicare

whatdoicare wrote: »

Anyways a vibrator/dildo just never seems to hit those spots in the right way.....obviously it also can't do the other nice stuff that only a fella can. :P

you can get some that are shaped slightly differently to hit the right spot
anyway using them with a partner or a partner using them on you can be fun

stupidusername wrote: »

it's fine if it's true, it's hardly normal, so don't know why you'd be confused as to my disbelief.

he posts about it now and then on boards, no trolling involved
pretty cool that they can make it work

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

it's fine if it's true, it's hardly normal, so don't know why you'd be confused as to my disbelief.

Disbeleif is one thing. Calling people trolls is another. It was not warranted. Threads like this see enough trolls without attacking someone who made two long and thought out posts on the subject. I realise it is not normal and that you are not required to beleive it but it has come up in my posts before and I have never been accused of trolling for mentioning it.

stupidusername

I'm around here quite a bit, and have never noticed.

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

I'm around here quite a bit, and have never noticed.

I doubt anyone, even someone with your impressive post count, can be expected to read every post from every user in a forum like this. Also while I do mention it on occasion I usually mention it in passing as part of a larger post, as I did in this thread today. I do not tend to make a big deal of it. So it is likely you read a lot of my posts and simply missed it.

Take a quick browse over my posting history and see. Though I would guess about 60% of my posts will not show up as I post heavily in forums that the search function will not work on like Personal Issues and Relationship Advice and the Lesbian/Bi/Gay forum.

stupidusername

No, I won't be going searching your post history.

Paparazzo

As long as it's not one of those big fist ones that goes right up to the elbow I don't mind.
Or a doll. Blow up dolls are just weird. If you ever find yourself shagging a blow up doll, just stop for a second, look at it, and think about what you're doing.

Paparazzo

Your choice of course - but maybe be a little more careful about accusing other people of being trolls for no reason in future - certainly if your only reason is that they are somewhat different from normal. It was not warranted - though I would be massively surprised if you actually apologised for it.

Alas forum posting culture does attract a lot of trolls and this does create a culture where people are called trolls for no reason. However calling people trolls for no reason is not much better than actually trolling. But lets draw a line under that and lighten the mood....

Paparazzo wrote: »

just stop for a second, look at it, and think about what you're doing.

Funny - I say the same thing about Ballet sometimes

stupidusername

Paparazzo wrote: »

As long as it's not one of those big fist ones that goes right up to the elbow I don't mind.
Or a doll. Blow up dolls are just weird. If you ever find yourself shagging a blow up doll, just stop for a second, look at it, and think about what you're doing.

well if you apply the same logic to anything you do, it seems silly. even sex. or the use of a vibrator / dildo

ElleEm

It doesn't bother me in the slightest that my partner has/ uses a sex toy, as I bought it for him. He also bought me all of my vibrators. We use them together, and alone, but it doesn't negatively impact our sex life, so I don't see why there should be any issues.

skipz

Went to Amsterdam with my gf a few years back and bought a few bits and bobs in the countless sex shops there while on the puff.
Didnt spend big money on any single items but bought quite a few cheap and cheerful things.
I think we didnt leave the room for a day and a half after.

Every couple should have a few toys;)

Paparazzo

stupidusername wrote: »

well if you apply the same logic to anything you do, it seems silly. even sex. or the use of a vibrator / dildo

Oh, a blow up doll fan? Outed!

skipz

skipz wrote: »

Didnt spend big money on any single items but bought quite a few cheap and cheerful things.
I think we didnt leave the room for a day and a half after.

There can be some unusual ones out there alright. There is a couple of things the girls have that we are not even sure we are using them right or what the designer had in mind. It is not an unimpressive collection of stuff though.

stupidusername

Paparazzo wrote: »

Oh, a blow up doll fan? Outed!

I'm female. I've never even seen a blow up doll. but my point was more general than that.

Paparazzo

stupidusername wrote: »

I'm female. I've never even seen a blow up doll. but my point was more general than that.

You don't need to be a bloke to have seen a blow up doll.

Put it like this, would you rather someone walked in on you having sex with a bloke, or you having sex with a blow up doll?

Paparazzo

Paparazzo wrote: »

You don't need to be a bloke to have seen a blow up doll.

Put it like this, would you rather someone walked in on you having sex with a bloke, or you having sex with a blow up doll?

the latter if they want to join in and save me using the blow up doll:pac:

stupidusername

Paparazzo wrote: »

You don't need to be a bloke to have seen a blow up doll.

Put it like this, would you rather someone walked in on you having sex with a bloke, or you having sex with a blow up doll?

i'm confused. are there male blow up dolls now?

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

i'm confused. are there male blow up dolls now?

Yes. Theres probably a sex version of just about anything you can stick a fake penis on. Chairs and space hoppers seem to be popular for example.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

i'm confused. are there male blow up dolls now?

look up real dolls... they make male versions now too.

stupidusername

feckin hell. $4000 for a male. but it's obviously meant for a man.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

feckin hell. $4000 for a male. but it's obviously meant for a man.

did you spec him up to 14" then?

stupidusername

smash wrote: »

did you spec him up to 14" then?

:eek: no chance!

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

:eek: no chance!

There was a channel 4 show about them. You can get ones that when you squeeze their balls they cum. And you can get life size manga characters for the female dolls. Some people are strange!

stupidusername

smash wrote: »

There was a channel 4 show about them. You can get ones that when you squeeze their balls they cum. And you can get life size manga characters for the female dolls. Some people are strange!

real dolls does elf ears.

and they only go up to 6 1/4"

working fool

stupidusername wrote: »

feckin hell. $4000 for a male. but it's obviously meant for a man.

That's sexist !!!
Are u implying women wouldent spend that much ?
Although $4000 is a lot of shoes ? Lol

Dravokivich

smash wrote: »

There was a channel 4 show about them. You can get ones that when you squeeze their balls they cum. And you can get life size manga characters for the female dolls. Some people are strange!

I think I've got that recorded on my UPC box. Watched it for a bit, some of it was absolutely hilarious.

stupidusername

stupidusername wrote: »

real dolls does elf ears.

and they only go up to 6 1/4"

Only? 6 1/4" are some damn big ears.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

and they only go up to 6 1/4"

Send them an email and tell them it's sexist considering they'll do tits whatever size a man wants

Dravokivich wrote: »

I think I've got that recorded on my UPC box. Watched it for a bit, some of it was absolutely hilarious.

Did you see the guy who has like, 10 of them? He sits them around the table and shít for dinner.... and he's actually married!

stupidusername

Deleted User wrote: »

Only? 6 1/4" are some damn big ears.

it's a fetish it seems. you can also get them done in a blue (avatar) colour.

smash

smash wrote: »

He sits them around the table and shít for dinner.... and he's actually married!

I imagine many women if married to him would give him shít for dinner too.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

it's a fetish it seems. you can also get them done in a blue (avatar) colour.

Can you get gay sparkling twilight dolls?

stupidusername

there's only brunette and blonde males :mad: what if I want a ginger?!

nobody wants a ginger.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

there's only brunette and blonde males :mad: what if I want a ginger?!

Then you have issues.

Can you order them with a beer belly?

stupidusername

no beer bellies.... but you also can't specify what boob size you want. how odd. they're all 32B

smash

smash wrote: »

Can you order them with a beer belly?

Any part of your body so long as you can use it to press the "submit order" button I would imagine I am boring and only order things with my fingers though.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

no beer bellies.... but you also can't specify what boob size you want. how odd. they're all 32B

I think you're not doing it right....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:RealDoll_example.jpg

Dravokivich

smash wrote: »

Did you see the guy who has like, 10 of them? He sits them around the table and shít for dinner.... and he's actually married!

The only clip I can remember, if its the same show I'm thinking of, with when some hypnotherapist was in, trying to get this woman in a sexual state before a sex doll was being produced for her OH based on her.

All I can say is there was nothing very sexual about herself or the hypnotherapist.

:P

stupidusername

i may be looking at a different site so.

smash

stupidusername wrote: »

i may be looking at a different site so.

I'd look for it myself but don't want to be branded a complete pervert by my co-workers.