Finding myself

scholar007

You hear all the time about people going off to "find themselves" - Usually tossers who have mammy and daddys dosh to spend. I don't, but if I did - where should I go?

robbie_998

a ditch

seanybiker

Where did you last remember seeing yourself?

hondasam

Where ever it was you lost yourself. Retrace your steps.

Johro

Dirty fuckers. Makes ya go blind ya know..

El Weirdo

Behind the fridge. Always behind the fridge.

mackg

It's always the last place you look.

Celly Smunt

behind the sofa obviously




Nah but seriously,Northern Scotland.

Johro

El Weirdo wrote: »

Behind the fridge. Always behind the fridge.

Or under/in between sofa cushions. That reminds me, I haven't checked that for money lately..

scholar007

pmcmahon wrote: »

behind the sofa obviously




Nah but seriously,Northern Scotland.

Ah - a helpful answer at last and one which I would seriously consider - I hear the fishing is good up there and the ladies hospitable.......

ringadingding

A gentle Oiled finger gently delving into your love star whilst fapping off.

Wait . What ?

The Internet Explorer

They say a stitch in time saves nine, I guess we'll never know.

Latchy

Bed ...mountains can be climbed in the morning when everything looks better .

Night Y 'all

scholar007

ringadingding wrote: »

A gentle Oiled finger gently delving into your love star whilst fapping off.

Wait . What ?

I am sure there is help out there for you (or maybe not)

Kanoe

close your eyes, breath deeply. That's you breathing, you can thank me later.

guitarzero

Read up on Timothy Leary. Then do as he did - LSD, lots of it, under supervision.

Celly Smunt

scholar007 wrote: »

Ah - a helpful answer at last and one which I would seriously consider - I hear the fishing is good up there and the ladies hospitable.......

yep! both are good,go here,probably the most beautiful place i've ever been.

SteelyDanJalapeno

Got so excited, thought the title was "fingering myself"

Pretty_Pistol

guitarzero wrote: »

Read up on Timothy Leary. Then do as he did - LSD, lots of it, under supervision.

Didn't Steve Jobs say LSD helped him?

Want to "find yourself"? Go travelling and get away from your everyday life and the people in it.

guitarzero

Pretty_Pistol wrote: »

Didn't Steve Jobs say LSD helped him?

Want to "find yourself"? Go travelling and get away from your everyday life and the people in it.

From what Ive read LSD basically allows you to access your subconscious and understand the nature of who you are. Considering much of our drives, ambitions and general nature is our subconscious it would probably be a good place to start. Many people have come to profound states of understanding themselves on LSD. The danger seems to be if its done just for the sake of it - bad trips. But if you read up on Stanislov Grof and his form of therapy it sounds pretty astounding.

chucken1

scholar007 wrote: »

You hear all the time about people going off to "find themselves" - Usually tossers who have mammy and daddys dosh to spend. I don't, but if I did - where should I go?

Seriously? Any Ryanair flight to Europe takes you to a different culture.
I suggest Liverpool for a start. Great City

chucken1

chucken1 wrote: »

Seriously? Any Ryanair flight to Europe takes you to a different culture.
I suggest Liverpool for a start. Great City

Oh and then Tallin

Robdude

Don't waste your time or your money. Any aspect of 'finding yourself' can be done wherever you are.

Want to try new things? Do it.
Want to go new places? Do it.

Guess what - people travel from all over the world to get to wherever you are. Go do what they do.

astonaidan

scholar007 wrote: »

You hear all the time about people going off to "find themselves" - Usually tossers who have mammy and daddys dosh to spend. I don't, but if I did - where should I go?

Oh theres one of those idiots where Im staying, This is an actual quote from him "Oh man Ive been all over the place! Africa, London! Ive seen the world for what it is" So taking into account hes from Australia hes been to 3 places

So I get my revenge for him being a tool by hitting on the girl he wants to get with:pac:

AgileMyth

chucken1 wrote: »

Seriously? Any Ryanair flight to Europe takes you to a different culture.
I suggest Liverpool for a start. Great City

Was there once. Got robbed.

Not a man for generalisations or anything but they're all scum over there. Every single one of them.

maxfresh

field ,magic mushrooms -done

saa

Well you won't find yourself at the bottom of bottle of wine but you'll feel a little classier in the process.

Going off to find yourself is a bit of a tosser thing, to me finding yourself is living as who you are rather than who you're trying to be for others, finding your self is letting yourself be yourself

See, see how I can be a motivational speaker and find myself king size bed full of smelly fiver notes. That is where I will find myself.

Dravokivich

scholar007 wrote: »

if I did - where should I go?

Here

danniemcq

They should just look in the mirror

Snakeblood

scholar007 wrote: »

You hear all the time about people going off to "find themselves" - Usually tossers who have mammy and daddys dosh to spend. I don't, but if I did - where should I go?

maps.google.com

craggles

Saying "I want to find myself" is a great way to alert everyone who hears it that You are the biggest tool in that room by a country mile.

ldee

eat some pasta
say the rosary
sleep with a foreigner.....

that's what julia roberts thought me.....

summerskin

huh? how did julia roberts think you???

foxyboxer

Eureka!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirror

scum01

I would say to get out of Europe for a start, some of mainland Europe is very culturaly rich but I'd be surprised if it inspired anything lifechanging. Go to Asia, and get a 'culture-shock'. Do the touristy **** and then get off the beaten trail and spend some time in small towns/villages. Definately changed my outlook on things. Also your $$ will get you alot further/longer in Asia than in Europe.

mickrock

Finding yourself is an internal journey to know who you are beyond name and form.

You silly sods!

Ellis Dee

Go to India and backpack. About €600 for return air ticket and visa, maybe €150 for vaccinations and then €20 a day (more than enough; reduce that to €10 if you stay for a longer time in some nice place near a beach in Kerala).:):)

Johro

ringadingding wrote: »

A gentle Oiled finger gently delving into your love star whilst fapping off.

Wait . What ?

Apt username is apt.

DEFTLEFTHAND

Be careful, you may not like what you find.

InkSlinger67

<Standard found myself but eventually lost myself because I forgot to exchange addresses post>

scum01

I think the key is to stay away as long as you can if you get gone. Coming back to Ireland was depressing and it continues to get more and more depressing everyday. I went over 3 months without hearing the word 'recession' and without hearing people constantly complain about how bad they have it bla bla bla.

What i'm really saying is if you go to India/Germany/Asia/North Pole and find yourself, do your 'new self' a favour and dont come back!

starlit

I'm still finding myself......at home!

Uthur

Wherever you go, there you are!