Fellas buyin' drinks for young wans

moco

I would never take a drink from a guy I didn't know, unless he was in our group and I'd be buying him one back (like one of my fellas friends).

There was this one time that I was sitting at the bar with my friend and the bar man brought over a drink from a guy at the other side of the bar. It was embarassing and awkward as him and his friends were looking over when the bar man was giving it to me and pointing out who it was from. I smiled and said thanks because I didn't want to be rude and refuse it when he'd already bought it and didn't want to embarass him in front of his friends.

I just felt awkward after that so we finished up our drinks and left but I sent him over a drink back and waved bye as we were leaving.

AeoNGriM

So according to AH, Irish women are stuck up cnuts, who'll take drinks off ya for half the night and then shoot you down in a snobby 'I'm far too good for you' kinda way before making a pr!ck outta you in front of all her friends?

I'm fine with this assessment

i dont think i would like to have drinks bought for me, unless i knew them and buying them one back
how bizarre

scholar007

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

Was talking to a young fella who said that he approached three girls in a group in a nite club (he fancied one of them). He offered to buy her a drink - she said I'll have a vodka and red bull and so will my friends. She kept leading him on all night. By the time the night was over he didn't even have the price of a bag of chips as he had spend all his dosh (€80) on the wimmin. When the drink stopped flowing the wimmin said adios amigo! He didn't even get a peck on the cheek.

--Kaiser--

scholar007 wrote: »

Was talking to a young fella who said that he approached three girls in a group in a nite club (he fancied one of them). He offered to buy her a drink - she said I'll have a vodka and red bull and so will my friends. She kept leading him on all night. By the time the night was over he didn't even have the price of a bag of chips as he had spend all his dosh (€80) on the wimmin. When the drink stopped flowing the wimmin said adios amigo! He didn't even get a peck on the cheek.

The more fool him

foxyboxer

scholar007 wrote: »

Was talking to a young fella who said that he approached three girls in a group in a nite club (he fancied one of them). He offered to buy her a drink - she said I'll have a vodka and red bull and so will my friends. She kept leading him on all night. By the time the night was over he didn't even have the price of a bag of chips as he had spend all his dosh (€80) on the wimmin. When the drink stopped flowing the wimmin said adios amigo! He didn't even get a peck on the cheek.

I'd like to think he won't be doing that again but I think he will be if he was that dopey in the first place.

G.muny

Yeh been bought drink all night plenty of times by fellas in nightclubs, use to go out with no money expecting it in my teens but would feel bad about it now.

scholar007

G.muny wrote: »

Yeh been bought drink all night plenty of times by fellas in nightclubs, use to go out with no money expecting it in my teens but would feel bad about it now.

And, did you reciprocate?

foxyboxer

G.muny wrote: »

Yeh been bought drink all night plenty of times by fellas in nightclubs, use to go out with no money expecting it in my teens but would feel bad about it now.

Why?

AnonoBoy

foxyboxer wrote: »

Why?

Because she was young and she could.

G.muny

scholar007 wrote: »

And, did you reciprocate?

No and that still annoys me to this day if I am out and someone offers to buy me a drink which these days generally I don't accecpt as readily. But being out on dates or if I were out for the night and someone was buying me drink even after refusing and saying I would pay for myself have come across many guys that will insist or that are actually offended if you try and insist on paying for yourself.

It really annoys me that they expect you to go home with them just because they INSISTED on paying for your drink and have the utter nerve to sulk because you aren't spreading your legs for a few bottles of WKD. Like I spent money I insisted on spending on you so now you are obliged to have sex with me or else you are a bitch.

foxyboxer wrote: »

Why?

Yeah basically at the time because I could and didn't appreciate the value of money.

scholar007

G.muny wrote: »

It really annoys me that they expect you to go home with them just because they INSISTED on paying for your drink and have the utter nerve to sulk because you aren't spreading your legs for a few bottles of WKD. Like I spent money I insisted on spending on you so now you are obliged to have sex with me or else you are a bitch.

Do you like it in the convent?

G.muny

scholar007 wrote: »

Do you like it in the convent?

Its not bad, free meals

Raekwon

Yep, lots of cockteasing freeloaders out there, always has been and always will be.

I'd be inclined to place more of the blame on the numpties that fill them with free drink all night though as they are only encouraging these muppets.

sarah stooopid

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

hightower1

Dump 'er OP. You and all of us here know the score, flirtin in clubs to score drink (at least). If shes ok with that then obviously there is a major grey zone on whats kosher or not in her books.

Actualy, dump her and take some snakey pics of her in bits to post up here so we can all have a laugh. For added spice set up a fake gmail acc a week on with some guys random name and email her saying he knows her from a friend or something and facies her... link in the pics and this thread too to kick it up a notch - BAMM!

Oh , and get ready to be called "possessive" , this seems to be the label added to any male ex when the reason for dumpage involved crossing lines with the opposite sex but didnt involve physical contact.

Teyla Emmagan

I think this is very odd. All those warnings they give young women about date rape drugs - minding their drinks, bringing them to the loo with them, only drinking out of bottles etc. And you're going to go against all of that by accepting a load of free drinks from some randomer at a bar whose only interest is getting into your knickers? The stupidity of that is mind blowing. Rohypnol does happen in this country.

Just too much of a risk to take - pay for your own drinks and keep your self respect and personal security intact. And if you can't afford to, then don't go out.

Schnooks

sarah stooopid wrote: »

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

Probably a troll but can't resist - Stoopid by name etc etc etc

hightower1

Schnooks wrote: »

Probably a troll but can't resist - Stoopid by name etc etc etc

Defo, class A1 troll....

Something = sumtin
Think = tink
Mainly = manly

Hmmmm, unable to spell and use the correct case..... ether a pretty good troll or a scummer / ditz.

foxyboxer

sarah stooopid wrote: »

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

KILL IT WITH FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AnonoBoy

Ms. Pingui wrote: »

I would have thought uglier looking guys were an easier target. Maybe you're not as bad looking as you think!

No I'm just not thick.

Catxscotch

Been on boards a while now..Could someone tell me, What is a "troll"??

--Kaiser--

Catxscotch wrote: »

Been on boards a while now..Could someone tell me, What is a "troll"??

Urban dictionary is your friend

Catxscotch

Ya learn something new every day!!! As for the topic, ur girlfriend is defo cheating on you..I have been given a fair few drinks by random lads in my time, but never enough to keep me going for the whole night!!

AnonoBoy

sarah stooopid wrote: »

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

All those free drinks and no time for a dictionary. Such a waste of a fat young life.

veloc123

What happened to the good ole days when all ya had to give a woman was a big juicy c*ck and she would love forever....and by that I mean at least time enough to shag her sister..

summerskin

Back home we didn't mind buying girls the odd drink as there was a code to it...

Bottle of Becks- up for sex

Pernod- guaranteed blow

Rum and black- you can go up the back.

If they asked for anything else- rejection and walk away without buying the drink.


Ah Oldham and Manchester in the early nineties, what great, simple times.

Jaxxy

veloc123 wrote: »

What happened to the good ole days when all ya had to give a woman was a big juicy c*ck and she would love forever....and by that I mean at least time enough to shag her sister..

Sure if that was all women wanted we'd marry our dildos and never leave the gaff.

Phat Cat

Jaxxy wrote: »

Sure if that was all women wanted we'd marry our dildos and never leave the gaff.

Good luck getting pregnant by a dildo :pac:

scholar007

G.muny wrote: »

Its not bad, free meals

You no likey Dicky?

ConTheCat

I feel sorta awkard letting fellas buy me drink, there is a recession and everything so I'm sorta like ahhh if you want! Haha

LighterGuy

ConTheCat wrote: »

I feel sorta awkard letting fellas buy me drink, there is a recession and everything so I'm sorta like ahhh if you want! Haha

Translation being:
"I enjoy when fellas buy me drinks, haha"

stovelid

ConTheCat wrote: »

I feel sorta awkard letting fellas buy me drink, there is a recession and everything so I'm sorta like ahhh if you want! Haha

Admit it. You perform simple arithmetic on your fingers and you think irony is what you do to your fella's shirts.

Azureus

For the OP, dump her ass! Shes probably not totally lying, girls *do* get offered a lot of free drinks in clubs. All my girl friends and I could easily go out and not have to pay for a drink all night, but you'd have to at least chat/flirt a bit, and shes definately not letting on she has a boyfriend til its scarper time. If I accepted drinks from random lads in clubs, the boyfriend would have a hissy fit and rightly so-its not on, shows a total lack of respect for the person you're with and as much as a drink shouldnt mean you're up for it, its kinda nightclub code for 'Im interested!'.

Dudess

A guy recently stormed off in a strop on me because I politely declined his offer of a drink. I said thanks but that I had already ordered one.

saa

It's not for the drink or "the shift"

It's for attention and self validation.

Half of them yung wans already have a naggin in them before they go out.
I hate nightclubs that doesn't make me socially awkward.

Feisar

Who offers to buy girls drinks as a chat up line sorta thingy?

I've heard female mates/housemates/gf's say they get bought drinks but where are all these lads that are doing it?

Cawk n bawllz

That's what I'd like to know, chums.

I was hoping to hear from some of you lads who are inclined to buy drinks for women in nightclubs and what it is that triggers you to go and buy her that drink.

Agent Smith

sarah stooopid wrote: »

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

My IQ went up 3 points reading that

kowloon

Last time I remember buying drinks for women I don't know was when I accidentally tipped my drink, and instead of catching it managed to punch it across a table hitting all the other drinks on its way and soaking two girls on the other side.
I'm pretty sure they didn't misconstrue the drinks I bought them as any kind of social contract, at least not the type discussed here.

theTinker

sarah stooopid wrote: »

i tink tat lads that buy drinks for girls are fools its great lol.

me and my mates go out on the town all the time with **** all money and get wasted thanks to those stupid lads that buy us drinks. all ye lads giving out in this tread are just jealous that they never get drink bought for them and must always get turned down by hot girls or sumtin.

i go out with my boyfriend most of d time so i dont need to worry about money for drinks cause he looks after me lol, so i manly do it when i'm out with mi girls xx

So you think your boyfriend is stupid? nicceee.

later12

Totally depends on what kind of nightclub you're going to.

If I were in Coppers I probably wouldn't offer to buy a girl a drink immediately upon introduction. Girls there probably wouldn't like it, or it might be construed as a little presumptuous/ arrogant.

However, in a fancier nightclub or late bar, where a guy is introduced to a woman, yes, I think the custom is to say "would you like to have another drink?". I guess it's because in these places there's more of an emphasis in flashing money about

x_Ellie_x

I would never accept a drink that was brought for me by some bloke, especially one I didn't know. I think its creepy. I'd be too worried he put something in them. When this happens I always send the drinks back. Had an incident in a club once where these blokes brought drinks for me and my mates, we sent them back, the guy sent them back to us with the waitress, we returned them a second time, then one of them comes over with the drinks & insisted we take them, he was really pushy and got annoyed with us when we said no, left them on the table and walked off. It freaked us out. My mate Tessa went into the toilets with them and poured them down the sink, then we left and went some place else. We haven't been back to that club since.

KamiKazeKitten

I don't accept drinks from guys I've just met, it makes me feel a little like I'm being bought or something.
Some guys take it very personally and can get quite nasty if you don't accept though.

scholar007

KamiKazeKitten wrote: »

I don't accept drinks from guys I've just met, it makes me feel a little like I'm being bought or something.
Some guys take it very personally and can get quite nasty if you don't accept though.

Which begs the question - what are wimmin doin in a nite club if they are not on da pull? Are they just there to attract male punters in? Sounds like a conspiracy to me - You always hear of wimmin free in but never fellas - Its discrimination I tell you!

Jaxxy

scholar007 wrote: »

Which begs the question - what are wimmin doin in a nite club if they are not on da pull? Are they just there to attract male punters in? Sounds like a conspiracy to me - You always hear of wimmin free in but never fellas - Its discrimination I tell you!

Why shouldn't they go to a club if they're not on the pull?

scholar007

Jaxxy wrote: »

Why shouldn't they go to a club if they're not on the pull?

Coz they're confusing all the men there

Jaxxy

scholar007 wrote: »

Coz they're confusing all the men there

Such simple creatures.

Where To

I buy random fellas drinks the odd time I'm on the razzle.

What does this make me?:eek:

AgileMyth

Jaxxy wrote: »

Why shouldn't they go to a club if they're not on the pull?

Why would anyone want to go to a club if they're not on the pull?