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Why do [some] guys cheat on their long term girlfriends - bored, or not in love?

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  • #202
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    yeah, but what the likely hood of that?

    OP was she a reallsexy woman, or was it actually all your own fault for not trying hard enough to keep him happy??


  • #203
    Tweet0004
    Closed Accounts Posts: 47 ✭Tweet0004


    Well, have not seen her, but friends have, she is apparently very funny, and pretty. But do not think, it is my fault he cheated. He made the decision and did it on his own. In that case why do more people not cheat. When i have not been happy in relationships, i try to work it out and then leave, if it is not working, i have never cheated, as i am not afraid, to be single, and move on.:)


  • #204
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Well, have not seen her, but friends have
    Male friends or female friends?


  • #205
    Scanlas The 2nd
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Well, have not seen her, but friends have, she is apparently very funny, and pretty. But do not think, it is my fault he cheated. He made the decision and did it on his own. In that case why do more people not cheat. When i have not been happy in relationships, i try to work it out and then leave, if it is not working, i have never cheated, as i am not afraid, to be single, and move on.:)

    She wouldn't necessarily have to be stunning. Take my analogy, people who go on diets love having great bodies, it doesn't mean they can't be seduced by a Big Mac in a moment of weakness. The Big Mac tastes great in the moment and they succumb to the pleasure, but afterwards they are p1ssed off they are harming the body they love.


  • #206
    cassi
    Registered Users Posts: 316 ✭✭cassi


    Zulu wrote: »
    yeah, but what the likely hood of that?

    OP was she a reallsexy woman, or was it actually all your own fault for not trying hard enough to keep him happy??

    Thats rediculous! Some of the sexiest women alive have been cheated on, for god sakes Eva Longoria and Hale Berry have been cheated on.

    Some people cheat, lack of respect and honour is what makes a cheater in my books. Some people are just assholes and will cheat for the fun. In a long term relationship not having the balls to tell your partner theres something wrong in the relationship before cheating happens is even worse.


  • #207
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    cassi wrote: »
    Some of the sexiest women alive have been cheated on...
    ...probably by hotter women!!!


  • #208
    otto_26
    Registered Users Posts: 518 ✭✭✭otto_26


    I agree


  • #209
    otto_26
    Registered Users Posts: 518 ✭✭✭otto_26


    I have found both women and men to be like all animals on this planet the same!! we all pick our noses, pick our asses, think about sex all the time! The only real reason people 2time is because they just want it with another person they fancy no deep thinking at the end of the day if your in a bad relationship you wont get with a fat old person because of it. Its just people being sleazy and wanting it.


  • #210
    Tweet0004
    Closed Accounts Posts: 47 ✭Tweet0004


    female friends


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  • #211
    Red21
    Closed Accounts Posts: 594 ✭✭✭Red21


    I think it all boils down to randyness some guys are walking hard-ons while others are hardly all that bothered about it. If you were to put men into 3 groups of high, mid and low randyness things make more sense where men and cheating are concerned, I reckon most women never fully get how randy guys in the high bracket get. The thing is that a guy could be the soundest guy in the world but if he's a horndog and good looking, staying faithful is always gonna be a challange.


  • #212
    LH Pathe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    Red21 wrote: »
    but if he's a horndog and good looking, staying faithful is always gonna be a challange.

    horndog, you said it I was out with an old pal after 13yr the reason i avoided him all tha time no interests other than sex - with me it's almost vice versa, anyhow he has 2 kids n veritable wife by now and whaddya know.. Couldn't contain himself. couldn't even disguise himself on one occasion by approaching a poor young girl waiting for her date point-blank instead of just mysteriously disappearing. A la the rest of the night

    The other old pal w/ fiancée at home just talked other fanny all night because thats their friendship - whereas the two who should have been doin the chatting of and to; just stood there in disgust watching our potentials get swarmed by the already engaged - some fairly disgusting bastards in this life that shît broke my family up


  • #213
    Tweet0004
    Closed Accounts Posts: 47 ✭Tweet0004


    Do you think once a cheat always a cheat, that it is usually that they have not really found the right person. That if they found "the one", then they would not cheat.
    IS it the relationship and level of commitment that the guy has for the partner, that he is not in love. Or, is it just his make-up.


  • #214
    alandublin33
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭alandublin33


    wouldnt bother cheating ,if things got bad or stale id just say bye now! , no point in stayin with someone if ur not happy , and if it was a long term relationship and you get on with the family etc I think ud owe it to the person to give them there p45 before u start sniffin around , and id rather be alone than bein with someone for the sake of it


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