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Have I outgrown them

Gannicus · 2012-01-23 19:45:03

Don't know if this is in the right place but here goes: Over the last few months I have felt more and more distant from a lot of my closest mates. I know it sounds bad but it seems like I've out grown them. Example: I'm saving to buy a place of my own and they are saying things like "would you be bothered" and "sure just…

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#52 25-01-2012 8:44am

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Big Steve wrote: »

at the moment out of about 10 or 12 of us

Do you ask all 12 if they want to do X, Y, or Z, or do you ask them by themselves? Also, do you know if any of them like specific hobbies? If not, do you know them as well as you think you do? Do you still share anything in common with any of them?

If I'm planning on doing something, I phone my mates, check what they're up to, and go from there. I'd go bowling with one of them, goto a gig with another, or maybe sit around with cans with another one.

Before you burn bridges, look and see if you get on well with some of them, and maybe just go bowling with some of them midweek?

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