Small or Big Wedding

confused couple

We need a bit of advice from couples who are married about two-five years and have had a big wedding or small wedding. At the start we were planning a big wedding, the guest list kept getting bigger 300+, dont ask how we came to it but it did, we were afraid we would offend people.

We havent told many people about our plans to get married as we didnt want anyone elso getting involved, we have gotten some adivse from two older people in their 50's,(non relatives) they dont know each other and both suggested immediate family only.

Has anyone had any regrets about having a small wedding. We have found in the last two years we have been invited to a lot of big weddings and there is always people giving out about them, people see them as a summons in the post, the thing is if they werent invited they would be giving out as well, you cant please people.

Out of curiosity has anyone gone to a venue this year looking for a date and met with an answer of you should have booked that long ago? We have visited seven venues and only two of the venues had a team with nice people.

What are peoples views on midweek weddings?

We are so confused, we only decided we would get married two weeks ago and everything is begining to feel like a headache.

We were hoping to get married in November 2012 and now we are thinking April 2013.

drunkmonkey

Eddie Hobbs said the more you invite the more chance you have to breaking even and quite possibly making a profit.
I love mid week, people annoy me getting married in weekends and public holidays it's downright selfish, especially bank holidays.

Spear

Try the Wedding forum instead:

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=670