Would you date a guy (or girl) who had slept with 93 other people?

hatrickpatrick

Wouldn't put me off in the slightest, as long as she doesn't cheat on me while we're actually going out why should it matter what she does when she's single?
I always feel this argument implies that people who generally sleep around are incapable of choosing not to do so when they're in an exclusive relationship, which is highly unfair in my view.

PseudoFamous

In other news: Seven new STIs found in X-Factor contestant Frankie Cocozza.

--LOS--

would it put me off........yes big time, I wouldn't go near them tbh.
You can enjoy sex without having loads of sexual partners, after all would someone who is with their OH for years be counting how many times they actually had sex?!

df1985

I dont have a problem with someone being promiscuous, its a natural enjoyable act, if two people are up for it and safe, then why not.

But broadcasting or keeping count is pathetic.

I genuinely dont know how many people ive slept with, not because im getting that much, but because i dont attach a big badge of honour to getting laid.

Mike 1972

dark crystal wrote: »

Just reading an article there on repugnant X-Factor

Stopped reading after that

Buddinplant

he'd have to come up with a clean bill of health, signed and dated and renewed monthly, oh and his age card, cause he still looks about 12.

( I have asked guys in the past for their age card, some guys just never grow up, or grow hair...)

and i'd still say no...

kingtubby

Buddinplant wrote: »

he'd have to come up with a clean bill of health, signed and dated and renewed monthly, oh and his age card, cause he still looks about 12.

( I have asked guys in the past for their age card, some guys just never grow up, or grow hair...)

and i'd still say no...

That procedure is a little overkill if you have already made up your mind on saying no...

BOHtox

If a girl sleeps with 93 guys in her lifetime she's a slut.
If a guy does it, he's definitely gay!

phoenix833

His mammy must be so proud.


She might be the one keeping count for him

pragmatic1

Tbh yeah it would kinda put me off a girl. Thats a lot of bjs.

starlit

To be honest if you've slept with a dozen or more people you be considered promiscuous. If you've slept with just one person for a lifetime a dozen or more times its still considered sleeping with one person once....so not necessary that person is promiscuous.

stupidusername

The only people this would impress is teenage boys, and maybe he should be asking why he's trying to impress teenage boys.

pragmatic1 wrote: »

Tbh yeah it would kinda put me off a girl. Thats a lot of bjs.

It's a lot of cock.

44leto

It wouldn't bother me in the least, I just wouldn't care less.

PrettyBoy

Wouldn't really put me off sleeping with the girl (not that I know any girls that have slept with close to 93 different guys) but I really don't think I'd ever get in a relationship with her.

A mate of mine my age (23) has slept with over 100 different girls, never had a real relationship or anything but he just has to pull every night he goes out. The girls themselves aren't half bad in fairness, he's had more than a few butterfaces but a good few really gorgeous girls too. He doesn't go around telling people he's slept with all these girls but sometimes people will hear it/say it to someone and I don't believe it turns girls off, quite the opposite in fact.

holystungun9

D1cks get pu55y, FACT!

carfiosaoorl

It would definitely depend on attitude. If is was something they boasted about then definitely not. If is wasn't something they boasted about then I wouldn't know any better would I? I mean unless someone boasts about it how can you possibly know how many people they have shagged?

Immaculate Pasta

It's a no from me.

Damaged good that's why :cool:

Holsten

Nope, not a chance in hell.

Dudess

smash wrote: »

That amount would make me suspicious of STD's etc and I think it would bother me. But it's not really the quantity as much as the frequency that would get to me more. I know a girl was was recently sleeping with 5 different guys. I'm not sure if any of them knew about each other but they were each just considered her fcuk buddys and they knew that much. But on a few occasions she slept with more than one of them within a few hours of each other. Her count is well over 200 now. But she's got issues.

Yeah promiscuity doesn't necessarily mean issues, but issues can lead to promiscuity. I see nothing wrong with shagging anyone you fancy, but shagging just for the sake of it is sad. Although many of us have done the latter now and again due to alcohol in fairness.
As someone said, it looks like he's trying to impress teenage boys, and he's what age? 17 or something? Ew... skanky.

wardy2

i wait untill she is on 99 and then i shag her,
she will never forget her 100 time :cool:

blatantrereg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuiKKRqn6oE

Da Shins Kelly

Nope, wouldn't be on board with that at all.

bodhrandude

Will you shut up for gods sake, its a hole stick it in, dont complain.

cloptrop

No id never be able to trust a girl that put out with 93 men on the first night. Every time she left the gaf youd be worried she would bump into someone she found mildly attractive and ride them there and then at the side of the road.
But in all fairness now matter how much a girl that had that much cock washed , i would still smell piss off her whenever I got close .

Raditub

nah not for me either...think that persons got issues that i dont want to be dealing with in a relationship! Other than that i wouldnt care!

Dudess

cloptrop wrote: »

No id never be able to trust a girl that put out with 93 men on the first night.

Yeah, putting out with 93 men in one night is a bit much in fairness.

Jen Pigs Fly

Only if he went through a full STI check and is not in contact with any of the slut-bags he was with I might consider ...


... Only if he was gorgeous though.

later12

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

Only if he went through a full STI check and is not in contact with any of the slut-bags he was with I might consider ...

They might not be slut bags...

What if he was each girl's first time! He's the promiscuous one:pac:

Jen Pigs Fly

later10 wrote: »

They might not be slut bags...

What if he was each girl's first time! He's the promiscuous one:pac:

Any girls that have been with any of my boyfriends (ex and current) have been with before me are slut-bags
Be they exs or ONS

LH Pathe

Date?! Hell no. 3 strikes n she got baggage nevermind 93

Rich11

id go on ONE date with a girl like that.... cos id be in like flin;) hehe, and id prob keep her number....... like "slut"

travelledpengy

Go on Frankie... You ape

Katgurl

Yes i would assuming of course they didn't go around bragging or speaking disrespectfully about the partners.

I don't think promiscuity while single suggests any problem with fidelity while in a committed relationship, quite the opposite.

Some people spend all their single time wishing they were in a relationship then when they get into one, begin yearning for the freedom of single life.

Enjoy whatever situation you find yourself in and treat people around you with respect.

Dub Ste

Oooh look at me look at me!!!

93 women,so f*cking what,now go back to the obscurity from whence you came you gob****e....

antodeco

It'd be like opening the window and fuking the night!

theg81der

I was extremely promiscuous in my teens. I`ve never tried to hide it and I refuse to be embarrased about it. I`ve been with my husband since I`m 20 so no one else for 10 years now. That whole thing about vaginal tightness or lack there of is pure crap, sure think about it it doesn`t even make sense! I`d be more worried now that I`m going to have a baby, I`ve heard a lot of women say sex was never the same after.

antodeco

theg81der wrote: »

! I`d be more worried now that I`m going to have a baby, I`ve heard a lot of women say sex was never the same after.

Have sex with your husband instead, the sex will obviously be the same then.


:PAC:

theg81der

antodeco wrote: »

Have sex with your husband instead, the sex will obviously be the same then.

What are you on about!

Frank Black

theg81der wrote: »

What are you on about! He`s the only person I`m ever going to sleep with and have slept with in 10 years. We are having our first child and I`m worried that I won`t be tight anymore - which by the way I am, he`s a very very happy man!

If I was your husband, I'd be more worried that you're bragging about your vaginal tightness on the internet at 10.00am on a Wednesday morning.

smash

theg81der wrote: »

What are you on about! He`s the only person I`m ever going to sleep with and have slept with in 10 years. We are having our first child and I`m worried that I won`t be tight anymore - which by the way I am, he`s a very very happy man!

Get him a penis enlargement and you'll be sorted

theg81der

theg81der wrote: »

What are you on about! He`s the only person I`m ever going to sleep with and have slept with in 10 years. We are having our first child and I`m worried that I won`t be tight anymore - which by the way I am, he`s a very very happy man!

it was a joke about sex not being the same - have it with the same guy and it'll be the same


go get more coffee and calm down

theg81der

black francis wrote: »

If I was your husband, I'd be more worried that you're bragging about your vaginal tightness on the internet at 10.00am on a Wednesday morning.

Lol Thats just what he said 2 minutes ago! I was annoyed at that Antodeco guy, I don`t think when I`m annoyed!

sbsquarepants

Buddinplant wrote: »

he'd have to come up with a clean bill of health, signed and dated and renewed monthly, oh and his age card, cause he still looks about 12.

( I have asked guys in the past for their age card, some guys just never grow up, or grow hair...)

and i'd still say no...

Classy bird!
Also any bloke who would be willing to show ID to get a ride, is not going to be worth riding!

Dudess wrote: »

I see nothing wrong with shagging anyone you fancy, but shagging just for the sake of it is sad. .

Contradiction in terms, no?
Shagging for the sake of shagging is perfectly fine, so long as both parties understand that's what's going on. Casual sex, for it's own sake, can be amazing. Leading someone on, that's what's really sad.

cloptrop wrote: »

But in all fairness now matter how much a girl that had that much cock washed , i would still smell piss off her whenever I got close .

You're doing it all wrong man!:eek:
Don't copy everything you see on redtube, real women aren't like those ladies!

smash

theg81der wrote: »

Lol Thats just what he said 2 minutes ago! I was annoyed at that Antodeco guy, I don`t think when I`m annoyed!

What about bragging about shagging 200+ people before you were 20?

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Contradiction in terms, no?
Shagging for the sake of shagging is perfectly fine, so long as both parties understand that's what's going on. Casual sex, for it's own sake, can be amazing. Leading someone on, that's what's really sad.

She's talking about people who shag just for the sake of it to overcome personal issues.

theg81der

bluewolf wrote: »

it was a joke about sex not being the same - have it with the same guy and it'll be the same

That isn`t true thou! He said it wasn`t anywhere near as good with his ex after his daughter was born so it does worry me. I`ve never heard anyone say its as good other than when they`re stiched.........ouch!

sbsquarepants

She's talking about people who shag just for the sake of it to overcome personal issues.

That makes more sense. Still early(ish)!!:D

theg81der

theg81der wrote: »

That isn`t true thou!

right, because it was a joke...

He said it wasn`t anywhere near as good with his ex after his daughter was born so it does worry me. I`ve never heard anyone say its as good other than when they`re stiched.........ouch!

you can do plenty of exercises - there are posts around the forum saying "better than ever"

Katgurl

smash wrote: »

theg81der wrote: »

Lol Thats just what he said 2 minutes ago! I was annoyed at that Antodeco guy, I don`t think when I`m annoyed!

What about bragging about shagging 200+ people before you were 20?

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Contradiction in terms, no?
Shagging for the sake of shagging is perfectly fine, so long as both parties understand that's what's going on. Casual sex, for it's own sake, can be amazing. Leading someone on, that's what's really sad.

She's talking about people who shag just for the sake of it to overcome personal issues.

I don't think she was bragging about the 200 blokes just saying she refused to feel embarrassed about it, why should she - part of her past an she's proved the point she has no problem with commitment and physically no problems.

I don't see the big deal with promiscuity. I think the problems start when people convince themselves they're in it for the $ex but looking for something else entirely (love / validation).

Dudess

sbsquarepants wrote: »

She's talking about people who shag just for the sake of it to overcome personal issues.

That makes more sense. Still early(ish)!!:D

Well I was kinda saying that but moreso saying it's sad to shag people you don't even fancy, just to say you got "the ride". A night out without "scoring" won't kill a person.

theg81der

smash wrote: »

What about bragging about shagging 200+ people before you were 20?

I`m not sure where you get bragging from? I`m not embarrased but that doesn`t mean I`m proud of it. I wouldn`t have slept with most of these people as an adult, I was very young and I didn`t really understand why my behaviour was the way it was which I would coin as self-destructive. I was however smart enough to protect myself and never get pregnant or an STI and that I`m quite proud of.