Do Women Watch Porn at all ??

mysteries1984

ElleEm wrote: »

VivThomas!

You are on FIRE! Wish I could refresh my memory but work probably won't appreciate it...actually, I'm not really a fan of her stuff...but I thought in the context it was worth mentioning

44leto

ElleEm wrote: »

In porn, there is a lot of focus on the man's pleasure. He may grope her breasts for a sec, go down on a her for two mins while she is forced to gag on him for a half hour before he forcefully pounds on her for a while. He tends to jizz on her body/ face while she feigns appreciation.

Rarely do you see a woman being TRULY brought to orgasm. I would just like to watch porn that depicts the sort of sex I like to have.

I'm not looking for gazing into each other's eyes and storylines and stuff, I just want to see actual, decent, orgasm inducing sex!!!

Great post and thanks that does answer my question.

ElleEm

mysteries1984 wrote: »

Haaaaa, yes, that's it...I tried Googline 'Vivienne Richards' just there but I'm in work so it's a good thing it didn't throw up results...delighted someone knows what I'm on about

Went straight onto Youporn and wrote in "Lesbian" and it came up- Viv Thomas!

It's still a bit to fake and staged for me, although you do sometimes see a real orgasm.

Jen Pigs Fly

Women do watch porn, where do you think we get all our skills hahaha

mysteries1984

ElleEm wrote: »

Went straight onto Youporn and wrote in "Lesbian" and it came up- Viv Thomas!

It's still a bit to fake and staged for me, although you do sometimes see a real orgasm.

Damn work getting in the way of my porn research...but yep, still fairly staged despite the occasional actual climax.

It's good that it's out there, it's a little bit different from the norm and I'm sure some people love it...the first time I saw it I was pleasantly surprised...I think it was a couple on the beach in the sand. I should stop now

ElleEm

mysteries1984 wrote: »

Damn work getting in the way of my porn research...but yep, still fairly staged despite the occasional actual climax.

It's good that it's out there, it's a little bit different from the norm and I'm sure some people love it...the first time I saw it I was pleasantly surprised...I think it was a couple on the beach in the sand. I should stop now

Haha!! Calm yourself down, woman!!!

mysteries1984

ElleEm wrote: »

Haha!! Calm yourself down, woman!!!

Right, out for a smoke and some fresh air...who would have thought popping on boards before lunch would have this effect?

saa

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

Women do watch porn, where do you think we get all our skills hahaha

Shhh no womens magazines provide us with all we need to know, how to please your man in bed, how to drop a dress size for your man, how to cook a romantic meal for your man, how to pretend you're not actually bat **** crazy for your man

Bad Panda

YES THEY DO...

..''because women....are....dirty."

Jen Pigs Fly

saa wrote: »

Shhh no womens magazines provide us with all we need to know, how to please your man in bed, how to drop a dress size for your man, how to cook a romantic meal for your man, how to pretend you're not actually bat **** crazy for your man

every time I read a 'women's magazine with sex tips I find myself thinking 'ehhh no true, not true, not true' etc. I just don't think the tips are correct. Stuff like 'men love being fed, try food play' eh no thanks, I'd rather just ride him silly and be done with it.

I find porn can help a lot especially when you want to learn the basics, I learnt my best moves by watching porn because I was able to see what the girls in the videos were doing and then try it myself later

And by trying the more acrobatic moves you can loose weight and tone up during! Win win!

Please Kill Me

chin_grin wrote: »

Every. Single. One? You sure? :pac:

Stiffler2 wrote: »

I would bet my life on it

Don't bother with it myself. I don't see the point!

--Kaiser--

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

every time I read a 'women's magazine with sex tips I find myself thinking 'ehhh no true, not true, not true' etc. I just don't think the tips are correct.

I find porn can help a lot especially when you want to learn the basics, I learnt my best moves by watching porn because I was able to see what the girls in the videos were doing and then try it myself later

So that's why you have so many X's in your username

Bad Panda

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

every time I read a 'women's magazine with sex tips I find myself thinking 'ehhh no true, not true, not true' etc. I just don't think the tips are correct. Stuff like 'men love being fed, try food play' eh no thanks, I'd rather just ride him silly and be done with it.

I find porn can help a lot especially when you want to learn the basics, I learnt my best moves by watching porn because I was able to see what the girls in the videos were doing and then try it myself later

And by trying the more acrobatic moves you can loose weight and tone up during! Win win!

God no!

Also, marry me.

Jen Pigs Fly

--Kaiser-- wrote: »

So that's why you have so many X's in your username

:P

Jen Pigs Fly

Only thing about porn that I hate is the overly fake, plastic looking people in it who have like no emotions.
I do find it funny though because sometimes the pornstars may make a funny face or may roll their eyes to heaven briefly, men wouldn't notice but a woman would haha we're more perceptive.

Dudess

Depends on the porn. I like watching explicit ridin' but not really nasty hardcore stuff.

Gummy Panda

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

saa wrote: »

Shhh no womens magazines provide us with all we need to know, how to please your man in bed, how to drop a dress size for your man, how to cook a romantic meal for your man, how to pretend you're not actually bat **** crazy for your man

every time I read a 'women's magazine with sex tips I find myself thinking 'ehhh no true, not true, not true' etc. I just don't think the tips are correct. Stuff like 'men love being fed, try food play' eh no thanks, I'd rather just ride him silly and be done with it.

I find porn can help a lot especially when you want to learn the basics, I learnt my best moves by watching porn because I was able to see what the girls in the videos were doing and then try it myself later

And by trying the more acrobatic moves you can loose weight and tone up during! Win win!

But guys like being fed.

/imagines riding while eating half a chicken and drinking goblets of wine

Jen Pigs Fly

Gummy Panda wrote: »

But guys like being fed.

/imagines riding while eating half a chicken and drinking goblets of wine

Yea but from experience mixing food and sex isn't that fun and I end up having to clean up the mess

2ndcoming

Bit surprised by all this talk of straight girls watching lesbian porn, I mean, does anyone know any straight guys that watch gay porn?!

I have heard of straight girls watching gay porn though, which doesn't really surprise me, makes more sense if you think about it.

44leto

I know they do watch it, genital depilation (shaving) is all the rage among teenage girls, when they asked one why she was getting it done, she said, "because I know all the boys have been watching porn, and they know what to expect".

I really don't know about this trend, these days, a young persons first experience with sex is porn, which is never about respect or relationships. I don't know what the long term effects of this will be.

Perhaps future couples will turn up at their doctors asking why they can't get pregnant and the doctor will say because you are meant to come inside the vagina, not on your wifes face.

Jen Pigs Fly

2ndcoming wrote: »

Bit surprised by all this talk of straight girls watching lesbian porn, I mean, does anyone know any straight guys that watch gay porn?!

I have heard of straight girls watching gay porn though, which doesn't really surprise me, makes more sense if you think about it.

I personally would prefer lesbian porn or straight porn over gay porn, don't know why, I think it's because if there's a girl I know what it feels like and can imagine it's me or something.
I'm 100% straight but I do enjoy a bitta the auld lesbian porn. :rolleyes:

mysteries1984

2ndcoming wrote: »

Bit surprised by all this talk of straight girls watching lesbian porn, I mean, does anyone know any straight guys that watch gay porn?!

I have heard of straight girls watching gay porn though, which doesn't really surprise me, makes more sense if you think about it.

I don't really watch gay porn, it doesn't do anything for me. Although I have watched it in the past. I watch lesbian porn quite a lot and I'm straight, although yep, I don't know any straight men that watch gay porn...

Helix

AeoNGriM wrote: »

My gf is a very not-shy lass when it comes to a bit of namby pamby. She regularly watches porn, girl-on-girl mostly. Yes, that translates over into the real world.

*sigh* I'm a VERY lucky man..............:cool:

most girls who watch porn tend to prefer girl on girl porn actually, from what ive noticed

Helix

44leto wrote: »

I really don't know about this trend, these days, a young persons first experience with sex is porn, which is never about respect or relationships. I don't know what the long term effects of this will be.

these days? it's been like that for bloody decades ffs

ElleEm

Helix wrote: »

most girls who watch porn tend to prefer girl on girl porn actually, from what ive noticed

It's cos girls tend to treat another girl's body with proper attention.

Logical Fallacy

44leto wrote: »

I know they do watch it, genital depilation (shaving) is all the rage among teenage girls, when they asked one why she was getting it done, she said, "because I know all the boys have been watching porn, and they know what to expect".

I really don't know about this trend, these days, a young persons first experience with sex is porn, which is never about respect or relationships. I don't know what the long term effects of this will be.

Perhaps future couples will turn up at their doctors asking why they can't get pregnant and the doctor will say because you are meant to come inside the vagina, not on your wifes face.

Yeah, and us kids born in the 80's were first exposed to sex and female fun lumps through Baywatch...needless to say that losing my virginity was a severe disappointment as her norks didn't bounce around in slow motion.

Jen Pigs Fly

ElleEm wrote: »

It's cos girls tend to treat another girl's body with proper attention.

Exactly, there's a lot less rough treatment and really bad scripted dirty talk ...

syklops

Stiffler2 wrote: »

I must say I am shocked & appalled.
I did know of course that they preferred to read books over watching a visual.

A message to all women who don't watch porn - you're letting your man down

Your letting your nick down. You sound like your about 14 and have never had a girlfriend. You are shocked and appalled? Grow up.

Ectoplasm

Helix wrote: »

most girls who watch porn tend to prefer girl on girl porn actually, from what ive noticed

Not me. Lesbian porn just does nothing for me. Overall though, give me a dirty story over fake squeaky orgasms anytime. There have been times when I've watched mainstream porn and thought 'Why are you making orgasm noises?' There is no way that that particular activity is doing anything for you...

--LOS--

christ OP you are seriously prudish, not only the fact that you think not many girls watch porn but that you think they'd be just into watching 2 guys getting off together

yes I watch porn, all kinds of porn and it has definitely nothing to do with watching the guys in it, quite the opposite.

44leto

Helix wrote: »

these days? it's been like that for bloody decades ffs

I can tell you it wasn't, its only come about with broadband and the internet. Yes we could get videos but our ma's usually wouldn't let us watch them,, Mas:rolleyes:,,.

I don't know what I would have done when I was a teen with a lap top and I.N porn, probably pull the stomach out of myself 24/7.

ElleEm

EMF2010 wrote: »

Not me. Lesbian porn just does nothing for me. Overall though, give me a dirty story over fake squeaky orgasms anytime. There have been times when I've watched mainstream porn and thought 'Why are you making orgasm noises?' There is no way that that particular activity is doing anything for you...

Sometimes they make those noises while they're not even being touched by the guy and you're like "Shhhhhh"!!!

joseph brand

My wife watches porn. It's called The Jewellery Channel. She has a fetish for sparkly stuff.

mysteries1984

44leto wrote: »

I don't know what I would have done when I was a teen with a lap top and I.N porn, probably pull the stomach out of myself 24/7.

You're doing it wrong

Logical Fallacy

44leto wrote: »

I can tell you it wasn't, its only come about with broadband and the internet. Yes we could get videos but our ma's usually wouldn't let us watch them,, Mas:rolleyes:,,.

I don't know what I would have done when I was a teen with a lap top and I.N porn, probably pull the stomach out of myself 24/7.

Believe it or not people are pretty good and understanding that what they might see on a screen does not equal real life.

If not there would be a whole lot more people running around dropping anvils on each other, stabbing each other, blowing up cars etc.

And that's just cartoons.

smash

Ok, who wants to make a porno?

Jen Pigs Fly

smash wrote: »

Ok, who wants to make a porno?

Not tonight I've a headache

:pac:

smash

I've got Chloroform Nurofen plus, you'll be grand!

44leto

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Believe it or not people are pretty good and understanding that what they might see on a screen does not equal real life.

If not there would be a whole lot more people running around dropping anvils on each other, stabbing each other, blowing up cars etc.

And that's just cartoons.

But the thing about video violence, most are not driven to that by powerful urges. But we are driven toward sex and nearly all of a teens first sexual experience is porn. A lot of male oriented porn seems violent and exploitable, its not about respect or relationships, it objectifies a women.

Its as I said above I am not sure about its long term effect, there maybe none, I don't know, but intuitively I would not let a teen son or daughter of mine watch it. I would not allow them liberal unsupervised access to the internet. Would you?

smash

44leto wrote: »

its not about respect or relationships

These days a lot of sex is not about relationships!

Jen Pigs Fly

smash wrote: »

I've got Chloroform Nurofen plus, you'll be grand!

You can always depend on the kindness of strangers
:pac:

smash

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

You can always depend on the kindness of strangers
:pac:

Sharing is caring

44leto

smash wrote: »

These days a lot of sex is not about relationships!

True and probably true for most sexual encounters, but that is what it is, more of an exuberant ****, but there is a level of each partner at least having some respect for each other, that seems absent in porn.

Logical Fallacy

44leto wrote: »

But the thing about video violence, most are not driven to that by powerful urges. But we are driven toward sex and nearly all of a teens first sexual experience is porn. A lot of male oriented porn seems violent and exploitable, its not about respect or relationships, it objectifies a women.

Its as I said above I am not sure about its long term effect, there maybe none, I don't know, but intuitively I would not let a teen son or daughter of mine watch it. I would not allow them liberal unsupervised access to the internet. Would you?

Why are not we not driven to violence by powerful urges. The desire to kill and eat the flesh of what we have killed and take it's **** and call it ours is as old as the desire to ****.

Personally i don't have kids, i will never have kids, so thankfully worrying about a childs sexual education is not something I have really thought about. That said, i wouldn't allow a child unsupervised access to anything, however, if i had a kid who was of the age where they were likely to be exposed to porn i would sit them down and explain to them that porn isn't real, nor is it indicative of the sex that a lot of people would enjoy. I would explain to them about the awkward middle ground inhabited by a lot of people as they try and figure out their partners wants and likes.

That said, if that child asked me what kind of sex made it, i would have to say it was the kind of hardcore naughty stuff that would make a porn film seem tame.

So yeah, you can understand why i don't want kids. Lying to them destroys them, the truth destroys them further.

smash

44leto wrote: »

True and probably true for most sexual encounters, but that is what it is, more of an exuberant ****, but there is a level of each partner at least having some respect for each other, that seems absent in porn.

Before civilisation it was the same. Sex for please and reproduction was all it was.

Who cares if respect seems absent in porn? It's there to get you off, not leave you with a fuzzy feeling in your stomach. If you want that, go and watch The Notebook or Dear John or something equally as shít. Plus, bear in mind that there's literally thousands of porn genres so move on until you find something you like.

Stiffler2

44leto wrote: »

Yeah I'm a """guy""" and i hardly ever watch it, there is something repetitively stupid about it, it all seems boring routine and unexciting.

I much prefer a well made erotic film, that seems more tangible. After I seen "Bare" for the first time, I thought they must have put viagra in my popcorn and they overdosed me.

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foxyboxer

Gentlemen, if you want to excel at making love to a lady friend , simply watch another lady having sex with her.

Now you can argue (if caught) that you are only trying to enhance your..ahem..education.

44leto

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Why are not we not driven to violence by powerful urges. The desire to kill and eat the flesh of what we have killed and take it's **** and call it ours is as old as the desire to ****.

Personally i don't have kids, i will never have kids, so thankfully worrying about a childs sexual education is not something I have really thought about. That said, i wouldn't allow a child unsupervised access to anything, however, if i had a kid who was of the age where they were likely to be exposed to porn i would sit them down and explain to them that porn isn't real, nor is it indicative of the sex that a lot of people would enjoy. I would explain to them about the awkward middle ground inhabited by a lot of people as they try and figure out their partners wants and likes.

That said, if that child asked me what kind of sex made it, i would have to say it was the kind of hardcore naughty stuff that would make a porn film seem tame.

So yeah, you can understand why i don't want kids. Lying to them destroys them, the truth destroys them further.

But we don't see a random stranger and want to take an axe to them, but we do see what we are sexually attracted to and want to **** them.

I agree with the rest of your post.

Logical Fallacy

44leto wrote: »

But we don't see a random stranger and want to take an axe to them, but we do see what we are sexually attracted to and want to **** them.

I agree with the rest of your post.

Simply because over time societies laws have let us know we will be punished and moral codes have let us know it is wrong.

When you see a person you are sexually attracted to do you think "I'd love to skull **** her till she gags whether she likes it or not?"

Doubt it.

smash

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

When you see a person you are sexually attracted to do you think "I'd love to skull **** her till she gags whether she likes it or not?"

Yes.

No wait....