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How to get out of friend zone?

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    #62
    SureYWouldntYa
    Registered Users Posts: 7,739 ✭✭✭SureYWouldntYa


    mattjack wrote: »
    If it doesn't work out PM me .

    Send me a pic first

    Mugatuu wrote: »
    Have you asked any of your friends if she has said anything to them about you? If you decide to tell her how you feel you're better off telling her in person that you have feelings for her don't text her!

    Yes and she always changes the subject
    Eve_Dublin wrote: »
    Don't text...whatever you do, don't do it by text. Then you're not only stuck in friendszone but also wimpzone.

    If she says no i can say someone took my phone :)
    If she says yes.........


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    #63
    hairyprincess
    Registered Users Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    Send that text, and report back your findings here. Immediately


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    #64
    bleg
    Registered Users Posts: 5,848 ✭✭✭bleg


    Take her out to dinner and ask is this a date, Lyons tea ad style!


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    #65
    hairyprincess
    Registered Users Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    Tesco Massacre wrote: »
    Drunk people are a hoot!

    I'm not so sure the families in Al-Anon would agree!


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    #66
    Tesco Massacre
    Registered Users Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Tesco Massacre


    hairyprincess wrote: »
    Send that text, and report back your findings here. Immediately

    Agreed.

    I want to know what happens now. I don't want to have to wait until you speak with her face-to-face.


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    #67
    Mugatuu
    Registered Users Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Mugatuu


    Mugatuu wrote: »
    Have you asked any of your friends if she has said anything to them about you? If you decide to tell her how you feel you're better off telling her in person that you have feelings for her don't text her!

    Yes and she always changes the subject



    Well if that's the case honestly now OP I wouldn't tell her! Id say she's already aware you have feelings for her and that she just wants to be friends. No point ruining your friendship :)


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    #68
    mattjack
    Registered Users Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    mattjack wrote: »
    If it doesn't work out PM me .
    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    Send me a pic first




    Here's hoping your a Swedish Lesbian.


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    #69
    SureYWouldntYa
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    Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while


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    #70
    TheBody
    Registered Users Posts: 5,624 ✭✭✭TheBody


    You should lash up a few pics of this bird so the good prople of After Hours can ridicule decide if she is hot enough for you.


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    #71
    The King of Moo
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    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

    *grabs popcorn*


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    #72
    AboutTwoFiddy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 216 ✭✭AboutTwoFiddy


    Body to body... Funk to funky....


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    #73
    mattjack
    Registered Users Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    While we're all waiting ,I'd just like to make a few comments.
    From September to now I 've had to do a number of college assignments and I managed to to them all while being on boards and do quite well .
    So I'd like to take this opportunity to thank you all for keeping me entertained and amused during the long days and nights.
    So far, a C ,an A and an A plus.

    Also on the Saturday show doesn't Mary Byrne look like Jabba the Hut.


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    #74
    Mugatuu
    Registered Users Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Mugatuu


    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while


    Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L


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    #75
    hairyprincess
    Registered Users Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    The King of Moo wrote: »
    *grabs popcorn*

    I've got me jellybabies :P. OP she better hurry up, I'm DYING with man flu and I need to go to bed soon


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    #76
    TheBody
    Registered Users Posts: 5,624 ✭✭✭TheBody


    And so the waiting begins. This kinda reminds me of the legendary thread of the kid that thought his grinds teacher fancied him.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055760092


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    #77
    Herrick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 903 ✭✭✭Herrick


    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

    Good luck :)


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    #78
    SureYWouldntYa
    Registered Users Posts: 7,739 ✭✭✭SureYWouldntYa


    Mugatuu wrote: »
    Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

    Not really too ballsy when i have an escape route (my friend done it)
    Still no reply :(


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    #79
    Tesco Massacre
    Registered Users Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Tesco Massacre


    Come on, OP!

    Tell her people on the internet are waiting for her response.


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    #80
    Logical Fallacy
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    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    The dilemma is simple: Girl iv known for 4/5 years, always kinda fancied her, got to know her during last year and find myself madly in love with her. She's probably out of my league to be honest. There is no doubt i am in the friend zone, she even said it while we talking one time. Iv decided i want to let my feelings be known but how do i do it when im so far in the friend zone?

    Hate to break it to you, but if you haven't said **** for 5 years then you probably don't feel as strongly about her as you think.

    Ask yourself this...how many times have you gotten laid over those 5 years? If it's zero or single digits then your just really want to **** her.


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    #81
    bleg
    Registered Users Posts: 5,848 ✭✭✭bleg


    SureYWouldntYa wrote: »
    Not really too ballsy when i have an escape route (my friend done it)



    Don't pussy out and say your friend did it, she won't believe you.


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    #82
    TheBody
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    I recommend burning her house down if she turns you down.


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    #83
    TheBegotten
    Registered Users Posts: 541 ✭✭✭TheBegotten


    In my limited experience, it doesn't exist. Just be casually suggestive/ lightly flirty for a while beforehand so it doesn't come out of the blue. Even better, ask her out to someplace as friends, with mutual friends, and slightly imply that you're into her. Or, if in a club, dance, etc :P Just give her the inkling before.

    EDIT:
    And so the waiting begins. This kinda reminds me of the legendary thread of the kid that thought his grinds teacher fancied him.
    loved that xD


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    #84
    Mugatuu
    Registered Users Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Mugatuu


    Tesco Massacre wrote: »
    Come on, OP!

    Tell her people on the internet are waiting for her response.

    Yeah and creep the sh*t of her, I'm sure the girl would love that ;)


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    #85
    beco2010
    Registered Users Posts: 245 ✭✭beco2010


    TheBody wrote: »
    I recommend burning her house down if she turns you down.
    yes i second that, plus you can say your friend did that aswell


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    #86
    Bad Panda
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    Mugatuu wrote: »
    Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

    Balls? Balls would've been speaking to her directly.

    You've known her all these years and you send a frackin' text?!

    I hope it works out for you!!


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    #87
    flatty
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    This is very funny.:D


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    #88
    Bad Panda
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    flatty wrote: »
    This is very funny.:D

    I love when people's happiness/friendships are at stake for our amusement! :pac:


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    #89
    SureYWouldntYa
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    Logical Fallacy wrote: »
    Hate to break it to you, but if you haven't said **** for 5 years then you probably don't feel as strongly about her as you think.

    Ask yourself this...how many times have you gotten laid over those 5 years? If it's zero or single digits then your just really want to **** her.

    Strong enough to cry myself to sleep when i seen her with another guy..............


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    #90
    Shryke
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    This thread is getting refreshed a **** load now. It's on! Best of luck lad.


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    #91
    hairyprincess
    Registered Users Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    Bad Panda wrote: »
    I love when people's happiness/friendships are at stake for our amusement! :pac:

    It really is gas! If only those poor unsuspecting knew :eek:


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