How to get out of friend zone?

Tesco Massacre

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Strong enough to cry myself to sleep when i seen her with another guy..............

That's manly.

Kensington

*follows thread* :cool:

Mugatuu

Bad Panda wrote: »

Mugatuu wrote: »

Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

Balls? Balls would've been speaking to her directly.

You've known her all these years and you send a frackin' text?!

I hope it works out for you!!

True speaking to her directly would have been more ballsy!

Did she text back yet?!

TheBegotten

You couldn't have phoned? At least then it's more personal, and she's under pressure to go with her primary instinct, instead of getting nervous and saying no :P but good luck

Bad Panda

hairyprincess wrote: »

It really is gas! If only those poor unsuspecting knew :eek:

I hear ya!

OP, I hope she doesn't peruse boards much and finds out that this whole episode (which could potentially ruin her friendship of 5 years) is on the interwebs for the depraved people of AH's entertainment!

meor

I pity this poor girl, basically getting a text saying "I LOVE YOU PLEASE LOVE ME BACK".

Tesco Massacre

meor wrote: »

I pity this poor girl, basically getting a text saying "I LOVE YOU PLEASE LOVE ME BACK".

Shut up, you.

I'd love to get a text like that...I mean, one that's not from my mum.

bleg

If she's not answering your text you should just ring her and tell her you love her.

Skuxx

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Strong enough to cry myself to sleep when i seen her with another guy..............

Never tell that to another soul as long as you live OP!!

meor

Tesco Massacre wrote: »

Shut up, you.

I'd love to get a text like that...I mean, one that's not from my mum.

Maybe get in touch with the OP then.

Tesco Massacre

Is it wrong that I'm masturbating through this?

Shryke

OP, tell us what you said in the text! This is serious business.

Skuxx

Is this gona take much longer OP, I've work at 8 in the morning and was hoping for an early night, I'm already loosin an hrs sleep as it is!!

The King of Moo

Tesco Massacre wrote: »

Is it wrong that I'm masturbating through this?

If you do it while repeating the words of the OP's text out loud in your most earnest voice over and over, it's ok.

SureYWouldntYa

I really dont know what to do, im speechless................ the **** replied "nice one (insert name) , you're so funny making fun of (insert my name)
God knows what that means

bleg

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

I really dont know what to do, im speechless................ the **** replied "nice one (insert name) , you're so funny making fun of (insert my name)
God knows what that means

Who was the first name?

It means she wants to ring her to explain yourself.

Mugatuu

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

I really dont know what to do, im speechless................ the **** replied "nice one (insert name) , you're so funny making fun of (insert my name)
God knows what that means

???

Give up OP ..

meor

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

I really dont know what to do, im speechless................ the **** replied "nice one (insert name) , you're so funny making fun of (insert my name)
God knows what that means

It means you lose.

cormy

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

....... Iv decided i want to let my feelings be known but how do i do it when im so far in the friend zone?

Ummmm .... Blast Her With Piss!!




(have I missed something - I mean 8 pages so far and no-one's said this. Are people not saying this any more? If so .... )

hairyprincess

FFS, what the hell is wrong with that biatch. A good slap across the face with a wet fish is what she needs :mad:

The King of Moo

Jesus OP, get a grip and ring her right now and tell her how you feel!

Bad Panda

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

I really dont know what to do, im speechless................ the **** replied "nice one (insert name) , you're so funny making fun of (insert my name)
God knows what that means

OK, it's not good that she's trying to laugh it off, or she could be afraid that you're joking and she does actually like you, unlikely, but possible.

I think you should call her and record the transcript and post it here. Thanks.

Bad Panda

hairyprincess wrote: »

FFS, what the hell is wrong with that biatch. A good slap across the face with a wet fish is what she needs :mad:

Jesus. Remind me not to cross you!

Friel

Does she think someone else sent it? Ring her you must.

Bad Panda

Friel wrote: »

Does she think someone else sent it? Ring her you must.

Yeah! As Yoda said - ring her!!

Tesco Massacre

Fu*k it, ring her.

Tell her how you feel, then at least you'll know where you stand. Pining over someone isn't healthy...especially for as long as you have.

Skuxx

Friel wrote: »

Does she think someone else sent it? Ring her you must.

You've come this far dude, you gota call her!! Time to take that set of balls out of the shrink wrapping, strap em on and step up to the plate!! And if it all goes wrong, you got all of after hours behind ya! Surly someone here has a sister you could have!!

Shryke

She finds it so hard to believe... or she is a ****. It's one or the other. If you're in the friend zone she probably knows you fancy her. This kind of stuff back means she's being mean or she thinks very little of you, which is hard to swallow. It's no reflection on you though. Only that you fancy a bitch,
I'd still go with the ring her advice. Best thing you can do. Either way it will clear your head and let her know how you feel. As long as you keep pretending you're cool with things you'll only feel like crap. A bit of heart break can be good for the soul, we all go through it. Just don't do nothing!

eth0

If you don't ring her OP you'll be forever known as a wuss

SureYWouldntYa

I did ring her. She said she doesnt want to talk over the phone and to meet her tomorrow at a local sandwich shop. I dont know what to make of it. Just rang, said it was me, she said to meet her there at 1