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How to get out of friend zone?

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    #242
    SirDelboy18
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,988 ✭✭✭SirDelboy18


    I wouldn't keep pursuing, you made the move, she couldn't match your maturity by giving you a straight answer and turned it into a home-and-away-esque scene.

    Move on and don't let her occupy your thoughts any longer.


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    #243
    HazDanz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,300 ✭✭✭HazDanz


    Sofiztikated wrote: »
    It's not me, it's you?

    ****, that's harsh.

    Least you tried, OP. Try not to let that scathing retort bother you.

    What does that even mean? Real bs talk.

    At least you were straight with her in the end OP. Job well done, you can do no more on your end


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    #244
    Jammy Donut
    Closed Accounts Posts: 606 ✭✭✭Jammy Donut


    Give her space..... If she values your friendship she will explain what she meant by it.

    If not, Go **** her Mum and Sister (If she has one)..... at the same time.


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    #245
    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    HazDanz wrote: »
    Sofiztikated wrote: »
    It's not me, it's you?

    ****, that's harsh.

    Least you tried, OP. Try not to let that scathing retort bother you.

    What does that even mean? Real bs talk.

    At least you were straight with her in the end OP. Job well done, you can do no more on your end

    Tis a more offensive version of the standard it's not you, it's me.

    Basically, she thinks the OP is hideous, or strange in some way, so much so, that the thought of them being together repulses her so much, it drives her to tears.


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    #246
    Dyr
    Registered Users Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    You should have ran after her, given her the old shoulder to cry on then said "it's okay.. you were right, it is you"

    popped the shades on (its sunny out there today) and strolled off ...

    if you had a theme tune it should then kick in


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    #247
    firedancer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 125 ✭✭firedancer


    Bambi wrote: »
    You should have ran after her, given her the old shoulder to cry on then said "it's okay.. you were right, it is you"

    popped the shades on (its sunny out there today) and strolled off ...

    if you had a theme tune it should then kick in

    i think to be fair 'it's not me,it's you was a typo on behalf of OP , as further down he repeats this only the other way around, even tho' I am a woman, it sounds to me like she is a total drama queen and you're better off not going there , unless she really has a deeply troubling issue (maybe she's pregnant and alone ) in which case OP this is just the beginning, maybe, if you're the knight in shining armour type.:)
    That was in any case a horrible thing to do to you, running off like that...


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    #248
    DonkyPlonk
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9 ✭DonkyPlonk


    get her drunk, drop your wallet in front of her, bingo bango! Your married!


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    #249
    busyliving
    Registered Users Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭busyliving


    Sorry to hear OP...At least you had the ball's to do it


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    #250
    Mickey Dazzler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 586 ✭✭✭Mickey Dazzler


    Put your penis in her hand as you guys are walking down the street.


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    #251
    Ellis Dee
    Registered Users Posts: 2,512 ✭✭✭Ellis Dee


    "Getting out of her friend zone" is a new expression to me, especially since it seems that what you actually want is to get into her knickers. Good luck with that, and remember that there's no reason you couldn't still be friends afterwards as well.:):):)


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    #252
    Tesco Massacre
    Registered Users Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Tesco Massacre


    The King of Moo wrote: »
    I'm sorry to say it, but I think she might just not have feelings for me.

    But well done for telling her. I think now it might be best to try to move on and put this behind you, even at the cost of your friendship.

    'For me'? You're not in this story, Moo.

    God, get over yourself!


    Edit: sorry to hear about how things went, OP. But don't you feel slightly liberated after telling her how you feel?


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    #253
    Friel
    Registered Users Posts: 190 ✭✭Friel


    Time to move on OP. Sorry that you befriended a bitch.


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    #254
    beco2010
    Registered Users Posts: 245 ✭✭beco2010


    why does this just sound made up


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    #255
    Skuxx
    Registered Users Posts: 2,370 ✭✭✭Skuxx


    beco2010 wrote: »
    why does this just sound made up

    Less of it!!! Have some respect for the OP, he's a hero round these parts!


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    #256
    beco2010
    Registered Users Posts: 245 ✭✭beco2010


    alan1990 wrote: »
    Less of it!!! Have some respect for the OP, he's a hero round these parts!
    come on if its real then fair play to him, but why does it seem like the script of home and away


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    #257
    The King of Moo
    Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    Tesco Massacre wrote: »
    'For me'? You're not in this story, Moo.

    God, get over yourself!


    Edit: sorry to hear about how things went, OP. But don't you feel slightly liberated after telling her how you feel?

    Ssh!

    I'm trying to get my hands on her, and I'm pretending there's nothing between us!


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    #258
    tok9
    Registered Users Posts: 7,160 ✭✭✭tok9


    Am I the only one who doesn't understand what happened? :confused:

    Why the hell did she go away crying! Anyway everyone's advise seems sound enough, she seems like she could cause some drama!


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    #259
    frozenfrozen
    Registered Users Posts: 7,882 ✭✭✭frozenfrozen


    post her number and i'll have a chat with her about how to treat boardsies.


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    #260
    TheBody
    Registered Users Posts: 5,624 ✭✭✭TheBody


    She had her chance op. Get the jerry can and go burn her house down!!


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    #261
    Friel
    Registered Users Posts: 190 ✭✭Friel


    TheBody wrote: »
    She had her chance op. Get the jerry can and go burn her house down!!

    Don't give a disgruntled man ideas.


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    #262
    Zascar
    Moderators, Motoring & Transport Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 12,778 Mod ✭✭✭✭Zascar


    http://lh6.ggpht.com/-KJHubntvO7c/Tv3CrxaxZzI/AAAAAAAAuvg/5yskDoSsTEA/friend-zone-job-4_thumb.jpg?imgmax=800
    http://lh4.ggpht.com/-3gXU0L2JKNQ/Tv3CsrbsvOI/AAAAAAAAuvw/658RXOiFpaw/friend-zone-job-5_thumb.jpg?imgmax=800


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    #263
    paddyandy
    Site Banned Posts: 2,037 ✭✭✭paddyandy


    O.P. People quickly see the intention in other peoples eyes .5 years in the Friend Zone ?


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    #264
    leahyl
    Registered Users Posts: 14,281 ✭✭✭✭leahyl


    I think OP is making this all up:) "it's not me it's you"?! Surely no one is that heartless!


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    #265
    Tesco Massacre
    Registered Users Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Tesco Massacre


    The OP's profile says he's 17. So he's been pining after this girl since he was 12.

    This is going to be one of these weird, life-long unrequited crushes, isn't it?


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    #266
    LH Pathe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    .. friend zone. Where the concept of you being sexy is 'ewww...'


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    #267
    TheBegotten
    Registered Users Posts: 541 ✭✭✭TheBegotten


    leahyl wrote: »
    I think OP is making this all up:) "it's not me it's you"?! Surely no one is that heartless!

    This is a typo, right?? Otherwise, you're well shot of it.


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    #268
    lisaface
    Registered Users Posts: 291 ✭✭lisaface


    Well that was some anti-climax! :( I honestly thought it was going to be a happy ending,considering she asked him to lunch. Although lunch is an ovbious friend-zone! Hard luck OP, but fair play on putting yourself out there. I'm sure you'll find a girl that makes you just as happy in the near future :)


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    #269
    FGR
    Registered Users Posts: 2,455 ✭✭✭FGR


    lisaface wrote: »
    Although lunch is an ovbious friend-zone! :)

    So now you let me know our lunch was friend-zone!

    /runs off crying


    :pac:


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    #270
    Motorist
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 892 ✭✭✭Motorist


    OP I just read through this thread.

    Pick yourself up, brush yourself off, move on. Now you should have a healthy dose of cynicism toward the world and a certain contempt for everything in it. That's healthier than the idealistic fairy land you were in obsessing over one girl. Never obsess over a girl unless you've banged her at least 20 times.


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    #271
    Immaculate Pasta
    Registered Users Posts: 1,663 ✭✭✭Immaculate Pasta


    I'm refusing to let this thread die. Yer man didn't even tell us how his sandwich was :mad:


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