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Inlaws

Airhead21 · 2012-03-29 00:05:04

Ahhhhhhh my head is melted My husbands birthday was a few weeks away due to friends weddings and other commitments we have not been down the country to see his family since. We decided this morning we would go down this weekend and i would text this mam and sisters that we get on wit and invite them to come out for dinner…

29-03-2012 1:05am

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Airhead21

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Ahhhhhhh my head is melted My husbands birthday was a few weeks away due to friends weddings and other commitments we have not been down the country to see his family since.
We decided this morning we would go down this weekend and i would text this mam and sisters that we get on wit and invite them to come out for dinner on sunday so that was perfect. They all text back and said they would be delighted to go. I booked a table for all of us and that was fine. Until, his mam rang this evening to know why his youngest sister (evil cow) was not invited he explained that due to her ruining my hen and our wedding he did not want to see her! Once a year is enough to see her xmas!!! His mother gave out and said well if she wasnt invited none of them were going!
I find this very annoying as his sister offen have bbq and lunchs and never invite us but we dont kick up. Im so angry!!!

What to do..................

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#2 29-03-2012 1:08am

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Don't go

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#3 29-03-2012 1:12am

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Just head home or leave your husband and you won't have to deal with them anymore.

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#4 29-03-2012 1:13am

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Why do people hate their inlaws, and why do inlaws hate them?

Is it just some childish defence mechanism based on the notion of "I don't want this outsider coming in and shagging my precious family member" and its retaliation?

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#5 29-03-2012 1:15am

Airhead21

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Leaving him is looking like a good option at least then i wouldnt have to deal wit this sh*t

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#6 29-03-2012 1:16am

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Airhead21 wrote: »

Leaving him is looking like a good option at least then i wouldnt have to deal wit this sh*t

Ask yourself in all honesty is he worth the hassle, if the answer is no then go and live your own life.

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#7 29-03-2012 1:18am

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Yep. Definitely leave him.

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#8 29-03-2012 1:19am

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we all have family problems.
deal with it.

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#9 29-03-2012 1:20am

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Remind her why you're not inviting her daughter then tell her you won't be coming down to see them again if that's how she wants it.

If she wants to start giving ultimatums out then give her one back. You'll regret it if you give in.

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#10 29-03-2012 1:20am

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First off so what your sister in law "ruined" your hen party and wedding. You still had your hen party and you're still in a loving marriage. Seriously grow up and act more mature. So what your sister in law will be there but she will be for the rest of your life so you can't avoid her forever. You married your husband not his family but his siblings and parents are important to him too. So just go and smile through gritted teeth if you must.

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#11 29-03-2012 1:21am

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Airhead21 wrote: »

Leaving him is looking like a good option at least then i wouldnt have to deal wit this sh*t

Then she wins

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#12 29-03-2012 1:23am

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Tigger wrote: »

Then she wins

There are no winners, why hasn't hubby stood up to his family?

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#13 29-03-2012 1:25am

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Airhead21 wrote: »

ruining my hen and our wedding

We need details....

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#14 29-03-2012 1:27am

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He hasnt stood up to them because he hates confrentation and rows! And they think if they push it they will get there own way! Not this time they can all stay at home and we will have a nice meal together!!!!

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#15 29-03-2012 1:34am

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OP I noticed you only have 3 posts in AHs, all in this thread.
Try the Personal Issues forum.:)

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