Could you stay with your partner if you found out they used to be a hooker?

Special Agent Oso

Lets just say for example the hooker that slept with Wayne Rooney up sticks and moved to America/Australia - somewhere that nobody knew who she was and you ended up going out with her or somebody with a similiar past as her and you found out through a mate/the internet whatever that she (or for the girls out there he) was previously a hooker. Could you stay with them? or would it be to much and you would have to leave them?

smash

Special Agent Oso wrote: »

Lets just say for example the hooker that slept with Wayne Rooney up sticks and moved to America/Australia

The granny?

biko

But... I don't live in America/Australia?

Zulu

It'd depend when you found out.
If I found out now, I'd imagine it would be too much. Not because they were previously a hooker, but rather that our relationship was very different to what I thought, ie: open & honest. That'd have been a whopping secret to hold back to be fair.

foxyboxer

I'd stay with ma ho and pimp that sh1t yo.

Zulu

...also, it's worth clearing up: would I be libel for a massive outstanding invoice if I left her? It might make more economic sense to stay with her.

haminka

If they have a clean bill of health, don't do the business anymore and if they still do, they charge loads and then spend the money on me, why not?

Gummy Panda

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

Special Agent Oso

smash wrote: »

The granny?

lol - no, no the one after that. The one thats been in the papers this week for sleeping with Mario Balotelli and the dwarf actor dude. But if you like your grannies thats ok to. Its the idea of it that im on about not any one actual person.

CardBordWindow

Depends on how much she charges.

Sunnyisland

Love conquers everything and if you love someone it shouldn't matter what there past is as living in the past will hinder both your life,s going forward. But to answer this question I wouldent in my bullox.

krudler

Gummy Panda wrote: »

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

Gummy Panda wrote: »

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

so big theres an echo

Special Agent Oso

Gummy Panda wrote: »

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

i can honestly say i've never heard it described like that before - i must write that one down and use it again later

smash

Special Agent Oso wrote: »

i can honestly say i've never heard it described like that before - i must write that one down and use it again later

Are you serious or did you forget your " :rolleyes: "?

Special Agent Oso

smash wrote: »

Are you serious or did you forget your " :rolleyes: "?

nope, i've heard it called a lot of things but never a hippos yawn and yes i will be using that one - when such an occasion comes along

Dyr

Special Agent Oso wrote: »

i can honestly say i've never heard it described like that before - i must write that one down and use it again later

Clowns Pocket, Wizards Sleeve etc etc

You could be writing for a while

Immaculate Pasta

Aah hell no.

I'd never be happy sticking with a girlfriend if she used to previously voluntarily suck dick for a living. :cool:

phill106

Immaculate Pasta wrote: »

Aah hell no.

I'd never be happy sticking with a girlfriend if she used to previously voluntarily suck dick for a living. :cool:

involuntary is cool though!

MugMugs

*presents OSO with a well used lady*

foxyboxer

Special Agent Oso wrote: »

Lets just say for example the hooker that slept with Wayne Rooney up sticks and moved to America/Australia - somewhere that nobody knew who she was and you ended up going out with her or somebody with a similiar past as her and you found out through a mate/the internet whatever that she (or for the girls out there he) was previously a hooker. Could you stay with them? or would it be to much and you would have to leave them?

I'd have her do a multi page interview with an erotic photoshoot in a leading Irish Sunday paper.

You stay classy, Sunday Independent. :cool:

Immaculate Pasta

phill106 wrote: »

involuntary is cool though!

I said it because I predicted some PC-mad poster would jump on me and say what happens if they were forced. Bla bla bla.

Saying that though I wouldn't go with an involuntarily hooker either because she'd probably be a basket case and have some severe issues. It's not fair of course but life's not fair. Couldn't be doing with any of that that like :cool:

xsiborg

sure, we all have a past in fairness and as long as she had no STI's etc, i wouldnt care what she did in her past, i'd say the same about any girl tbh.

ronan45

Depends on what sorta hookin that der ho be working wif,

Water-sports!?! Defo a keepa in ma humble opinions, sir

rambutman

well i did find out exactly that but only after the damn ho was pregnant with my son (no paternity issues either )

Worse still i married the ho

Doesn't do much for your self respect.................cue 8 years later, a daughter, a seperation and a hefty maintenance payment every month.

Almost soiled myself sitting there with our respective solicitors last year with her solicitor telling me she was worthy of such hefty maintenance payments as she'd put her career on hold for the marriage........i was like "FFS have you told your solicitor what you used to do" - obviously not.

My mates were going to print up a t-shirt for me "hood-winked by a ho". No question she saw me coming - what a 4ucking eejit

Kids are all that matter at this stage and the only way i can justify my stupidity (to myself). I'd never tell them - can you imagine finding out that about your mother

Funglegunk

Bambi wrote: »

Clowns Pocket, Wizards Sleeve etc etc

You could be writing for a while

'Bat Cave'. As in, bats fly out of it when she opens the doors.

Carter P Fly

no way, Prostution irrepairably damages people IMHO.

howamidifferent

Personnaly, if she liked playing rugby I dont see why it would matter to me...

44leto

So yore mah is emmigrating.

AskMyChocolate

Used to be? USED TO BE?

Did ya hear that luv?

Oh well, Mr.fcukin' lah-de-dah.

Gyalist

rambutman wrote: »

well i did find out exactly that but only after the damn ho was pregnant with my son (no paternity issues either )

Worse still i married the ho.

Ouch! That's an awful situation to find yourself in. Pity this advice from Snoop Dogg to Kris Humphries wasn't around when you were thinking of marrying her:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG7vlecw5_I

Transcript:

"The first advice is, you dumb ass n****, you shouldn't have tried to wife the bitch. She's not that type of a ho. She gets around, man."

rambutman

Gyalist wrote: »

Ouch! That's an awful situation to find yourself in. Pity this advice from Snoop Dogg to Kris Humphries wasn't around when you were thinking of marrying her:

Damn straight!!!

Personally loved Biggies tune "Make It Hot"

The line "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife"

So true

Ah 4uck it....it is what it is....as they say "ya can't polish a sh1t"

Fizman

What I find a little funny is the perception that prostitutes and the like, are perceived to have such gaping love caves. Even Mary-Jane Rottencrotch who has gone long periods of time being voluntarily single, can be labelled as 'well used'!

Whereas nothing is said about Betsy who has been in long term relationships all her life. Provided she has been having sex regularly, chances are she is having WAYYY more sex than your average single girl who likes to go out on the pull once a week.

Guys and girls, at a guess, have sex a couple of times a month while on the single scene. (This is being very kind to most cases of singledom!).


EDIT: I've just noticed that I may have gone a little off topic, and this may very well be a thread in its own right.

tripe man

Fizman wrote: »

Guys and girls, at a guess, have sex a couple of times a month while on the single scene.

Fixed

davet82

Could you stay with your partner if you found out they used to be a hooker?

Meh, I'd see it as a form of extra income in these tough times

ShadowHearth

If you really love your partner, then you won't give a **** about her past.

Cee-Jay-Cee

Special Agent Oso wrote: »

Lets just say for example the hooker that slept with Wayne Rooney up sticks and moved to America/Australia - somewhere that nobody knew who she was and you ended up going out with her or somebody with a similiar past as her and you found out through a mate/the internet whatever that she (or for the girls out there he) was previously a hooker. Could you stay with them? or would it be to much and you would have to leave them?

Anne...is that you? Has Frank been at the prozzies again???

Logical Fallacy

Zulu wrote: »

It'd depend when you found out.
If I found out now, I'd imagine it would be too much. Not because they were previously a hooker, but rather that our relationship was very different to what I thought, ie: open & honest. That'd have been a whopping secret to hold back to be fair.

The difficulty there is that I would imagine it would require a certain timeframe to build trust...it's not the kind of thing you would find out on the first date.

Unless you paid her.

Zulu

ShadowHearth wrote: »

If you really love your partner, then you won't give a **** about her past.

Even if in their past they did something so abhorrent to your personal belief, it completely, and irreparably changes how you see them as an individual?

Huummm, maybe all those songs and fairy tales about love are accurate.

Zulu

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

The difficulty there is that I would imagine it would require a certain timeframe to build trust...it's not the kind of thing you would find out on the first date.

Unless you paid her.

That was kinda my point when I asked "it'd depend when you found out".

later12

I would hope that I'd be logical enough to see beyond it. In fact, I would hope I'd be logical enough to allow her to keep doing it.

But I wouldn't bet on it.

IM0

yep, wouldnt bother me at all. It would help explain her 'appetite'

JohnMarston

I'd ask her what its like to work from home

Dubhlinner

Used to be seeing a girl who told me after a while she previously did lapdancing/stripping whilst travelling. think it was a major contributing factor for going off her and ending things

So obviously prostitution would be next step up and a definite no-no.

Though there may be exceptional circumstances. The girl I was seeing didn't have to do what she did. She just found it preferable to getting sh*t wages in a pub. Basically I saw that as pathetic. Showed she was a slave to money. Reducing herself to the lowest common denominator and taking advantage of pathetic men who have more money than sense. It would be like going out with someone who cold-reads people with dead relatives for 50quid an hour

Maybe if a girlfriend had previously had no choice. eg her kids starve unless she finds the money or was homeless as a child/teenager and turned to it. that would be completely different.

However if she's the typical prostitute who does it simply because she wants more money.. then no. definitely no.

stupidusername

eek. do men ever get paid for sex by women? cause if he said he'd been a hooker, I'd be a little worried.

but seriously, as zulu said the only real important thing i can imagine would be when you get told. but at the same time, i could maybe understand someone feeling they couldn't say something like that very early on.

I would have to say no.
The most i could go for ever is 2 previous owners and nothing more than 100,000 miles.

44leto

It would not bother me in the slightest.

CL7

44leto wrote: »

It would not bother me in the slightest.

Me neither.

Doc Ruby

Yeah wouldn't concern me.

up for anything

Zulu wrote: »

It'd depend when you found out.
If I found out now, I'd imagine it would be too much. Not because they were previously a hooker, but rather that our relationship was very different to what I thought, ie: open & honest. That'd have been a whopping secret to hold back to be fair.

It would be far more upsetting to find out that she'd been hiding the fact that she'd been a solicitor.

Gummy Panda wrote: »

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

Considering the vagina is composed of elastic muscle I'd imagine the hypothetical vagina in question would be tighter than that of a woman with a single partner all her life and a few kids under her belt. A false anaology.

Gummy Panda

up for anything wrote: »

Gummy Panda wrote: »

No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

Considering the vagina is composed of elastic muscle I'd imagine the hypothetical vagina in question would be tighter than that of a woman with a single partner all her life and a few kids under her belt. A false anaology.

Hey you're not Wibbs! I only listen to him about the elasticity of fannies! :mad:

up for anything

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Hey you're not Wibbs! I only listen to him about the elasticity of fannies! :mad:

Please, please, please, call a flange a flange. The word 'fanny' makes me bilious.