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Should I Cheat On My Girlfriend?

  • 14-04-2012 8:30pm
    #1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭_Gawd_


    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    No. If the relationship isn't going anywhere, bite the bullet and end it.

    If things are good, appreciate what you have.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    You care about her but to want to fúck others?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?

    Boohoo, get real, if you feel that way, either propose a three way or break up with her.


  • Registered Users Posts: 788 ✭✭✭marty1985


    Think very carefully dude. And then stay home tonight.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭decisions


    Akward moment when the GF comes across this thread...


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  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Madalynn Cold Treble


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?

    Sure, maybe you can pick up some of those gorgeous women with your "look at my trolling skills on AH - I'm so impressive"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    If you are unhappy get out of the relationship but I think you just want your cake and to eat it.

    The grass isn't always greener is very true in my experience, a lesson I learned the hard way.

    Make a decision but remember you are dealing with a person that has been in your life for 7 years that is a big hole to fill and she will find someone to fill it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,298 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    You want us to massage your ego for you? Tell you that you are absolutely right? She doesn't deserve you, you could get any woman you wanted and so on and so forth?

    Maybe we should have a poll :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    You make it sound like you can't decide weather to have your usual white bread with your supper tonight or try some brown ...just for a change like .Having you cake and eating it to comes at a price so no ,you shouldn't .


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?

    7 year itch eh?

    If you want a bit of strange then break up with the lass. Playing around on her kind of implies you don't care about her.

    I reckon you just kind of want her as a fall back shag, as you'll head out later, fail to score some random bird and then go home and have a weepy ****.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    7 year itch eh?

    If you want a bit of strange then break up with the lass. Playing around on her kind of implies you don't care about her.

    I reckon you just kind of want her as a fall back shag, as you'll head out later, fail to score some random bird and then go home and have a weepy ****.

    Don't all good **** end with a bit of weeping


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,968 ✭✭✭✭Praetorian Saighdiuir


    Yes


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Don't all good **** end with a bit of weeping

    It all depends on the level of vigour.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda



    7 year itch eh?

    If you want a bit of strange then break up with the lass. Playing around on her kind of implies you don't care about her.

    I reckon you just kind of want her as a fall back shag, as you'll head out later, fail to score some random bird and then go home and have a weepy ****.

    Thanks for the image *shudder*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,081 ✭✭✭GetWithIt


    Dude, what you thinking? Premier Soccer Saturday is on late. It starts at 9:30 and is followed by mother fupping BOWFINGER!!

    Give it a week.

    This is how it starts.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    The Weeping **** Willow.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭maiden


    Is she going out tonight too with her friends??

    How would you feel if she was having the same thoughts about cheating on you tonight??

    I'd say, you go girl!!! You have a **** boyfriend!


  • Registered Users Posts: 713 ✭✭✭tatumkelly


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?

    Wow your girlfriend is so lucky to have you :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Thread is a troll. There is no gf.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    GetWithIt wrote: »
    Dude, what you thinking? Premier Soccer Saturday is on late. It starts at 9:30 and is followed by mother fupping BOWFINGER!!

    Give it a week.

    This is how it starts.
    That's it ...I'm off out but I shan't pull ...nope
    Thread is a troll. There is no gf.
    You saw that to .


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  • Registered Users Posts: 832 ✭✭✭harvester of sorrow


    Go for it bro..you only live once.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭_Gawd_


    maiden wrote: »
    Is she going out tonight too with her friends??

    How would you feel if she was having the same thoughts about cheating on you tonight??

    I'd say, you go girl!!! You have a **** boyfriend!

    What she doesn't know, won't hurt her.

    I wouldn't want her to be upset.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    Shoot its a free country, do what you wish, go out click the first one you can and F her if that is what you want to do.

    But don't come on here looking for approval for the choices you are going to make, its your life.

    PS; you are not missing that much.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    What she doesn't know, won't hurt her.

    I wouldn't want her to be upset.

    No, what you mean is - you wouldn't want her to be upset with you.


  • Registered Users Posts: 92 ✭✭Evie90


    Do the girl a favor and break up with her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,629 ✭✭✭TheBody


    You might as well op. I've been riding your girlfriend for months now!! :D


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭_Gawd_


    Evie90 wrote: »
    Do the girl a favor and break up with her.

    Why do women in general, defend women? You don't even know her...

    I feel like I'm missing the good times....


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Why do women in general, defend women? You don't even know her...

    I feel like I'm missing the good times....

    Then spend less time trolling.

    You'll enjoy life more.


  • Registered Users Posts: 100 ✭✭Jimmyhologram


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    What she doesn't know, won't hurt her.

    This is a myth. You dishonour her (and yourself) by cheating.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Latchy wrote: »
    You saw that to .

    Anything I can do for you?

    Mis-read your post as "You saw to that" :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 713 ✭✭✭tatumkelly


    You know what, if there is a girl (which presumably there isn't)... it doesn't matter if you cheat or not, she'll eventually see the real you and find someone 100% more deserving.

    You on the other hand, will end up alone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    tatumkelly wrote: »
    You know what, if there is a girl (which presumably there isn't)... it doesn't matter if you cheat or not, she'll eventually see the real you and find someone 100% more deserving.

    You on the other hand, will end up alone.

    But in the other hand..


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭_Gawd_


    tatumkelly wrote: »
    You know what, if there is a girl (which presumably there isn't)... it doesn't matter if you cheat or not, she'll eventually see the real you and find someone 100% more deserving.

    You on the other hand, will end up alone.

    Hang on for a second, I haven't done anything yet...how would she see through me? :confused:


  • Registered Users Posts: 92 ✭✭Evie90


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Why do women in general, defend women? You don't even know her...

    I feel like I'm missing the good times....

    If it was another guy you were going out with I'd be telling you to break up with him, I'm not 'sticking up for my own' I'm stating a fact you should do her a massive favor and break up with her because you clearly don't care about, so what's the point in going out with her?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Hang on for a second, I haven't done anything yet...how would she see through me? :confused:

    If she was real, you would display guilt and she would see through it. Real women are smart creatures, You coming on here all guilt-ridden before you even do something shows you are not cut out for your plan.

    Assuming she is real.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,530 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    You care about her but to want to fúck others?

    A randy Panda, now I have seen everything. ;)


  • Registered Users Posts: 713 ✭✭✭tatumkelly


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Hang on for a second, I haven't done anything yet...how would she see through me? :confused:

    You're thinking of doing something, that makes you a terrible boyfriend. You shouldn't be with someone unless you're 100% with them. Cheating/considering cheating is utterly disrespectful to her.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I care about her but I just feel as though "life is getting away from me"....

    For example, I've been extremely loyal and I've never so much as looked at another woman in 7 years but the fact remains that I won't be able to get gorgeous women when I'm older so it's logical to get in while the going is good so to speak...anyone else feel like this?

    Plenty of women in town tonight so thinking of maybe heading in - what say ye?

    Do her a favour and break up with her


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Anything I can do for you?

    Mis-read your post as "You saw to that" :D
    Well...

    (spits into sawdust)

    you gotta watch out for them dar Trolls cuz the sneaky B'stads will sometimes ...well ...sneak up on ya

    ( spits into dogs face and cocks the shotgun ) :cool:


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭_Gawd_


    If she was real, you would display guilt and she would see through it. Real women are smart creatures, You coming on here all guilt-ridden before you even do something shows you are not cut out for your plan.

    Assuming she is real.

    I'll never know if I never try...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Latchy wrote: »
    Well...

    (spits into sawdust)

    you gotta watch out for them dar Trolls cuz the sneaky B'stads will sometimes ...well ...sneak up on ya

    ( spits into dogs face and cocks the shotgun ) :cool:

    Why spit at the dog?
    The dog is innocent in all this.
    Shotguns don't worry me, I fought in the war.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    _Gawd_ wrote: »
    I'll never know if I never try...

    Go for it, let us know how you get on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Why spit at the dog?
    The dog is innocent in all this.
    Shotguns don't worry me, .
    The dogs name is Troll !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Latchy wrote: »
    The dogs name is Troll !

    Latchy you worry me, have you been hit on the head with something?


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,073 ✭✭✭Xenophile


    Ask for an open relationship for awhile. Tell your girl friend that you feel it is your real need...............just the freedom to meet and be intimate on all levels with other women. Be brave enough to be up front. The feelings you are experiencing generally just don't go away, better to live your own life now and learn from the experience. I wish you luck and admire your honesty in first being honest with yourself. Live your life with integrity and like Frank Sinatra.......do it your way..................regrets he has had a few but then again to few to mention........life comes good in the end......a few storms and disappointments, yes, ....but......like he................."I did it My Way"............I wish you luck ............do not cheat.........as you are only fooling yourself in the long run.

    The Forum on Spirituality has been closed for years. Please bring it back, there are lots of Spiritual people in Ireland and elsewhere.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Latchy you worry me, have you been hit on the head with something?
    Yeah ..it's called amusement . I would be worried to with a userename name like yours.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,263 ✭✭✭3rdDegree


    Do you have kids?

    Ah question: is your gf hot and if so, what time are you going out at and what is your address?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Latchy wrote: »
    Yeah ..it's called amusement . I would be worried to with a userename name like yours.

    Why would I be worried with a username like mine?

    Amusement?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Why would I be worried with a username like mine?

    Amusement?
    Thread was amusing ...

    Oh look ...there's a spider walking across the floor .:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Born to Die


    Latchy wrote: »
    Thread was amusing ...

    Oh look ...there's a spider walking across the floor .:eek:

    This thread?

    I like spiders


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