**MOD NOTE UPDATED**Limerick woman complains about living in 3 bed house with 4 kids

token101

WindSock wrote: »

Contraception isn't a solution to an accident.

So the state has to shell out for her 5 'accidents'? Is anyone accountable for their actions anymore? She's on welfare, supposedly a temporary stop gap, a temporary refuge for people. It's not meant as a lifestyle choice. She's got a 3 bed semi out of it plus countless other benefits. She's got enough. She wants more? Do what everybody else has to do; save money or get a job. Not possible? Well tell her the same thing they tell tradesmen and sole traders who can't get dole; tough sh*t. Surely they should be a higher priority than people who just keep leeching and bleeding the SW dry?

As an aside, why doesn't the 18 month old sleep in her room and leave the other kid sleep?

micropig

Could her or the childs father not have completed a FAS course in plastering and done it themselves if it was that bad?


Free to do and they'd still be able to keep their entitlements

Battered Mars Bar

“When we moved in here, the condition of this house was deplorable. There was no plaster - it was only last year we were able to plaster the front room."

Could have been done a lot sooner if she went out and bought the plaster herself like any normal person would do or maybe even hire a plasterer since there's no mention of a father.

dj jarvis

mconigol wrote: »

Another example of everything that is wrong in society today.

Saying that, the vile garbage being spouted by some people here who ironically seem to think they are superior is disgraceful. You're no better.

Boards has really gone to the dogs lately.

pointing out what is obviously wrong with this state does not make anyone superior - standing up for cretins who don't deserve our help makes them culpable

so so many people who really need help never get heard , so when oxygen thieves like her get press space they should be shouted down until they never raise their resource grabbing heads again ....

dont forget why she is giving out - she wants extra space so all her kids can have a room :mad: boo hoo

i grew up in a small council house in dublin with 9 of us , father and mother worked , with good role models we all grew up to own our own houses and business , NONE of my family are on the dole or have children we cant afford
why - becasue we were not hand out knuckle dragging scum
dont like what i call her - well tough , becasue that is what she is to me

breadmonster

We need some mandatory community service for people like these. 10 hours a week for each rugrat or something.

mfceiling

I know how she feels...there was 15 of us in a 14 bed house...tough times indeed...

YFlyer

Gingernuts31 wrote: »

Its quiet simple, she lives in moyross, possibly the worst scumbag estate in Limerick, isn't that where dundons live?

They live in Weston. Some of the MacCarthys AFAIK live in Moyross tho.

washman3

If anyone that reads boards.ie has ever wondered how the "great" Willie O'Dea always topped the poll in Limerick City over the years,this thread is your answer.:mad:

mike65

I feel a Beyond the Fringe sketch coming on

up for anything

micropig wrote: »

If the complaint is the man is a looser etc...stop having sex with losers and get to know them first.

Looser than what? In my experience a lot of men are quite practised at hiding their loserness until it's too late for all concerned.

arse..biscuits wrote: »

I went to work there thinking I would feel good for helping people but I left after a few months because of the attitude of the people there.

Probably the worst and most naive reason for doing voluntary work. Most people don't use voluntary work to make themselves feel good. They do it because they want to help people and not to prop up their self-esteem. :rolleyes:

cherub rock wrote: »

What annoys me most is that she doesn't seem to have any idea of how lucky she is to be in a council house in the first place! The kids I work with are in inner city flats, the whole bottom floor all boarded up... place falling apart. Whole families in one/two bed flats. Cases of parent(s) sleeping on fold out couches in the sitting room. All the kids in one bedroom, 3 boys sleeping in a double bed in one family.. Another family with a little boy who has 3 sisters, so he had to leave the bedroom and he's on the couch. New baby keeping him up at night too. Poor lamb. She's so ungrateful! Other families with newcomer kids, Roma especially might have 3 or 4 families in one apartment! There is extreme poverty in this country - she is not a priority imo.

Perhaps then they should, like people have suggested, have their vaginas sewn up/stapled/glued shut or perhaps be shot/hung/forcibly sterilised, or should have kept their legs crossed or even waited 20 years to make sure that the father of their children wasn't a loser.* I admire your nerve in bringing up the travail that the Roma might suffer, in AH. Waits for the string of abusive posts about them which will more than likely follow.



I don't subscribe to any of these solutions.

celticcrash

14 of us grew up in a 1 bedroom house.
I used to love when the rats came in at wintertime.
They would sit on my chest and keep me warm.

johnayo

I wonder if she might be able to get a mortgage and buy a house herself for her family. That way, she would be able to select her own house.

micropig

washman3 wrote: »

If anyone that reads boards.ie has ever wondered how the "great" Willie O'Dea always topped the poll in Limerick City over the years,this thread is your answer.:mad:

Willie O'Dea..What ya gonna do for me
Are you the minister for hash,
Are you the minister for gee:pac:

up for anything wrote: »

Looser than what? In my experience a lot of men are quite practised at hiding their loserness until it's too late for all concerned.

Looser than his woman's flaps:P once maybe but 5 times :eek:

up for anything wrote: »

I don't subscribe to any of these solutions.

What would be your final solution?
Godwinned

Battered Mars Bar

Any links to that facebook campaign she's starting so I can send her a heap of vile abuse.

Logical Fallacy

I say fair play to the OP.

Played the card, drew in the numpties and boom, a thread full of outrage from people who can't read an article.

5 stars.

D1stant

celticcrash wrote: »

14 of us grew up in a 1 bedroom house.
I used to love when the rats came in at wintertime.
They would sit on my chest and keep me warm.

Luxury.

We used to dream of furry rats. All we had were 2 hedgehogs and me grannies corpse to keep us warm

The King of Moo

"Get a job." - genius.

We know for a fact that she hasn't thought of that, that she definitely isn't looking for work, that she'd have no problem finding a job in a recession that would enable her to afford childcare, do we?

the level of hatred towards this woman is just :eek:and the assumptions she is scum etc etc maybe her sense of entitlement is inflated however without seeing the house who knows what her living conditions are like .

Also with all the young leaving the country maybe we need more woman having babies to fill the gap

i do agree though that kids are expensive and where possible be carefully planned to have 4 children and one on the way isnt very smart however i dont think this woman is equilvalant to stalin nor do none of us know if she is a slut .

D1stant

Maximilian Flaky Nose wrote: »

the level of hatred towards this woman is just :eek:and the assumptions she is scum etc etc maybe her sense of entitlement is inflated however without seeing the house who knows what her living conditions are like .

Also with all the young leaving the country maybe we need more woman having babies to fill the gap

i do agree though that kids are expensive and where possible be carefully planned to have 4 children and one on the way isnt very smart however i dont think this woman is equilvalant to stalin nor do none of us know if she is a slut .

LOL. Bravo!

Larbre34

Sleepy wrote: »

This is the fruit of our welfare system. Those that won't contribute out-breed the rest of us and whinge when we can't afford to provide for them in the manner they'd like.

ADHD my arse, gob****e of a mother more like!

For ADHD read boldness. I know education professionals who dont believe in it

micropig

I was disadvantaged

5 of us in a 7 bedroom house, gold taps, granite worktops and marble staircase, we had 6 servants but 2 of them where children and a limo to get to pick up the labour, me ma & da never worked, never had to as the social picked up the tab for everything

Thrill

I cant believe the level of hatred on this thread over a woman who just wants extra room for her growing family.

You'd think she was some kind of vile killer and child abuser judging by the drivel in this forum.

Crann na Beatha

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Logical Fallacy

Maximilian Flaky Nose wrote: »

the level of hatred towards this woman is just :eek:and the assumptions she is scum etc etc maybe her sense of entitlement is inflated however without seeing the house who knows what her living conditions are like .

Also with all the young leaving the country maybe we need more woman having babies to fill the gap

i do agree though that kids are expensive and where possible be carefully planned to have 4 children and one on the way isnt very smart however i dont think this woman is equilvalant to stalin nor do none of us know if she is a slut .

Not that shocking. It's AH, where the outrage is always barely held in check and a reasonable percentage of the people who post here are really just trying to find a way to make themselves feel better by looking down on others.

It's ****ing hilarious once you get used to it.

byhookorbycrook

"With Jordan suffering from fits due to his attention deficit hyperactivity disorder"

ADHD does not cause fits. People like this give the parents of children with genuine ADHD a bad name.
There were 4 children to two bedrooms when I was small -I got my own rooom when I left home and started earning a wage.

micropig

Aquila wrote: »

AH justice at its finest.
STONE HER
FLOG HER
FCUK THAT JUST BURN HER

BLAST HER WITH P1SS

Galwayguy35

hairyprincess wrote: »

Funny with all the crowds jeering for her to have her 'gee sown up', her 'gee stapled' and shouts for her to keep her legs together, not one person has suggested that the father(s) of the children take care of his children. Does he have no responsibility? I only know of one immaculate conception; after that I do believe it takes two at minimum.

This woman has come from a disadvantaged area, and is doing the best she can. She hasn't given her kids away to be taken into care.

There for the grace of God I go

I may be wrong but I didn't see any mention in the article where it said the father(s) wern't contributing maintainence.

Galwayguy35

Born to Die wrote: »

There is more to the article than the opening line. The LL is another rag that is imo trolling this story from both angles.

Whether she has 10 children or 1 she is entitled to a safe house to raise the children. The housing in alot of Moyross is poor quality and the reason the regeneration was started and more or less abandoned as our Government bail the banks.

Why couldn't the people of Moyross pay for their own houses if they want them like most of us.

micropig

Galwayguy35 wrote: »

Why couldn't the people of Moyross pay for their own houses if they want them like most of us.

Because they're disadvantaged

Most* of them stem from generations of parents who didn't think of the consequences before having children, have allowed the state to pick up the tab, with no personal responsibility expected in return



*I know some lovely people from Moyross aswell, not brandishing everyone

Eric Cartman

byhookorbycrook wrote: »

"With Jordan suffering from fits due to his attention deficit hyperactivity disorder"

ADHD does not cause fits. People like this give the parents of children with genuine ADHD a bad name.
There were 4 children to two bedrooms when I was small -I got my own rooom when I left home and started earning a wage.

ADHD is a school guidance Councillors favorite cop-out for parents of disruptive children, it makes all the gacinta's and chantelle's out there feel better about pissing away the day watching jeremy kyle instead of looking for a job or looking after the kids.

If there are genuine cases of ADHD then I feel sorry for the parents of those children, but Id even go as far as to say 90% of the ADHD 'cases' in Ireland are false

Jarren

Battered Mars Bar wrote: »

Any links to that facebook campaign she's starting so I can send her a heap of vile abuse.

Google her name

WindSock

No I am not trolling, no I never said all 4 with one on the way were accidents. I already stated perhaps some were planned, perhaps she got pregnant on the pill (yes and it happens....often) perhaps she is ignorant of getting pregnant with the pull out method (yes,a lot of people still think this works...)

I don't know the circumstances of the woman that she is soon to have 5 kids in a house that she deems unfit for raring them in. And neither does anyone else but it seems easier to condemn her and hurl abuse before considering them.

Then people here are saying they want a 5 bedroom house in Killiney, then others complaining that she wants to stay in Moyross. So she's damned if she does/doesn't

Either way, the pitchforks are a truely alight in this one.

Nodin

Eric Cartman wrote: »

If there are genuine cases of ADHD then I feel sorry for the parents of those children, but Id even go as far as to say 90% of the ADHD 'cases' in Ireland are false

Based on......?

Logical Fallacy

WindSock wrote: »

No I am not trolling, no I never said all 4 with one on the way were accidents. I already stated perhaps some were planned, perhaps she got pregnant on the pill (yes and it happens....often) perhaps she is ignorant of getting pregnant with the pull out method (yes,a lot of people still think this works...)

I don't know the circumstances of the woman that she is soon to have 5 kids in a house that she deems unfit for raring them in. And neither does anyone else but it seems easier to condemn her and hurl abuse before considering them.

Then people here are saying they want a 5 bedroom house in Killiney, then others complaining that she wants to stay in Moyross. So she's damned if she does/doesn't

Either way, the pitchforks are a truely alight in this one.

Windsock, if you thought about it for a second I think you would understand that this woman should be dragged into the street and shot, her house burned and her children sold on the black market.

It's the only thing that makes sense and to say otherwise is insane.

Nodin wrote: »

Based on......?

Eric doesn't base his opinions on anything...he just hovers over the keyboard, thinks about the "lower classes" that he hates so much then pushes one out on the internet.

It's an interesting act but the entertainment value has dulled with his refusal to change his game.

Also, you will be a gay, bleeding heart, pinko, Commie, PC Brigade leftist for not instantly agreeing with the stuff he makes up and then instantly decides is fact.

micropig

WindSock wrote: »

No I am not trolling, no I never said all 4 with one on the way were accidents. I already stated perhaps some were planned, perhaps she got pregnant on the pill (yes and it happens....often) perhaps she is ignorant of getting pregnant with the pull out method (yes,a lot of people still think this works...)



Either way, the pitchforks are a truely alight in this one.

Planned 5 kids-Why she can't afford to support 5 children

as for the rest :pac::D:pac: would she not have found this out after the first time it happened?

Eric Cartman

Nodin wrote: »

Based on......?

even when I was in school it was happening around 2003-2004 our school just went mad with diagnosing, Anyone who had ever been to see the principal for bullying or being disruptive was having their parents called down to hear about ADD & ADHD and how their child probably has it, talking to other people who went to other schools, similar stories.

Every time you hear about somebody with ADHD using it as a court defense in the news its some scrote from a council estate who has a few criminal convictions.

micropig

Nodin wrote: »

Based on......?

It is a real condition but I believe it is over diagnosed in Ireland

TENS of thousands of children are being misdiagnosed with ADHD because they are the youngest in their class and their immaturity is being mistaken for hyperactivity, a study has suggested.

This is a Canadian study but could apply to Ireland also

mikom

Still, at least we will get a household charge out of her...............

Eric Cartman

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Eric doesn't base his opinions on anything...he just hovers over the keyboard, thinks about the "lower classes" that he hates so much then pushes one out on the internet.

It's an interesting act but the entertainment value has dulled with his refusal to change his game.

Also, you will be a gay, bleeding heart, pinko, Commie, PC Brigade leftist for not instantly agreeing with the stuff he makes up and then instantly decides is fact.

Ive never been homophobic

also I wonder does this count as personal abuse.....

WindSock

Nodin wrote: »

Based on......?

His 'expert' opinion of course

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Windsock, if you thought about it for a second I think you would understand that this woman should be dragged into the street and shot, her house burned and her children sold on the black market.

It's the only thing that makes sense and to say otherwise is insane.

Actually yeah I did think about it and then realised the STATE WHICH IS YOU AND ME HERE will have to pick up the tab for the bullets, the person to shoot her and funeral :mad::mad::mad:


Hell, I will do it for free if it rids this cursed land from the scourge of parents. Bloody mother infested hell hole. Bring back the priests I say. No procreatin in dem.

Logical Fallacy

Eric Cartman wrote: »

Ive never been homophobic

also I wonder does this count as personal abuse.....

Report it and find out.

Personally i reckon it would be a bit of a stretch and I am surprised that you're being so sensitive. I mean, I completely predicated what your response would be (anecdotal evidence and mention the lower class) so don't get butthurt because your act is old.

mikom

WindSock wrote: »

Bring back the priests I say. No procreatin in dem.

Mmmm, Body-building priests

D1stant

D1stant wrote: »

LOL. Bravo!

thanks but consider it for a minute our poulation is ageing the young are leaving do babies come from storks where your from . lol bravo!!

dj jarvis

As usual the " oh poor lamb - comes from a deprived background " brigade come charging in on their high horses

lets get one thing straight , no one argues that if the house was sub standard , or dangerous then straight away she should have re furb work done ,
but she is looking for A EXTRA ROOM , when either the 13 month old should be in her room or in a bunk bed - it is that simple

truly the stupidity of some people fails to astonish me - along with the plebs sticking up for this rubbish ,
i know of at least 3 family's that are living in what could only be described as flea pits who have been waiting YEARS to be re homed , yet this woman feels she is entitled to waste space and time over her want of more space ???
she wants a bigger house ??? SO DO I - but im not putting my hand out and stamping my feet

she has water , electricity , heating , walls and a roof - compared to some in this banana republic she is on the pigs back

this is why she is getting dogs abuse

knowing when to keep your mouth shut is a skill some people should learn

mconigol

dj jarvis wrote: »

pointing out what is obviously wrong with this state does not make anyone superior - standing up for cretins who don't deserve our help makes them culpable

so so many people who really need help never get heard , so when oxygen thieves like her get press space they should be shouted down until they never raise their resource grabbing heads again ....

dont forget why she is giving out - she wants extra space so all her kids can have a room :mad: boo hoo

i grew up in a small council house in dublin with 9 of us , father and mother worked , with good role models we all grew up to own our own houses and business , NONE of my family are on the dole or have children we cant afford
why - becasue we were not hand out knuckle dragging scum
dont like what i call her - well tough , becasue that is what she is to me

Yeah maybe actually read my post next time? :rolleyes:

I wasn't condoning her.

byhookorbycrook

The issue with ADHD is that there is no brain scan/blood test or whatever. It's is diagnosed on the word of the parent and possibly the school, by filling in a form called the Connors rating scale.I know a number of genuine cases, likened by one mam as "Tigger on speed."You'd need to see the same children in action, ants in the pants and going non-stop, no question at all that they are not genuine.

I do know a friend in another school was put under intense pressure to put a number of children from the same extended family forward to be diagnosed with ADHD as one mother found out about the DCA ( domicillary care allowance.)

ejmaztec

Excuse me, I've somehow found myself in the Daily Mail readers' lynch-mob department comments section, can someone please direct me to Boards.ie?

cloud493

I work a job, i pay my tax, I pay my rent, I don't go to the state asking for hand outs, like seemingly a lot of the outraged people, yes I do have the right to feel aggravated when someone like this comes along and expects the nation to foot the bill.

The King of Moo

dj jarvis wrote: »

As usual the " oh poor lamb - comes from a deprived background " brigade come charging in on their high horses

lets get one thing straight , no one argues that if the house was sub standard , or dangerous then straight away she should have re furb work done ,
but she is looking for A EXTRA ROOM , when either the 13 month old should be in her room or in a bunk bed - it is that simple

truly the stupidity of some people fails to astonish me - along with the plebs sticking up for this rubbish ,
i know of at least 3 family's that are living in what could only be described as flea pits who have been waiting YEARS to be re homed , yet this woman feels she is entitled to waste space and time over her want of more space ???
she wants a bigger house ??? SO DO I - but im not putting my hand out and stamping my feet

she has water , electricity , heating , walls and a roof - compared to some in this banana republic she is on the pigs back

this is why she is getting dogs abuse

knowing when to keep your mouth shut is a skill some people should learn

I don't think anyone's said anything like that.
I've just seen some posters quite reasonably suggesting that some of the hatred expressed in quite disgusting terms from people who don't know her is a bit unseemly, and a poor way of debating.
Though unfortunately, such a level of "discussion" is all-too common around here lately.

micropig

byhookorbycrook wrote: »

I do know a friend in another school was put under intense pressure to put a number of children from the same extended family forward to be diagnosed with ADHD as one mother found out about the DCA ( domicillary care allowance.)

:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

People who try and get their children diagnosed with a condition for money??:mad: