Fat Fetish? Yay or Nay?

DitzyPoo92

I remember reading in a magazine a few days ago about people who have fat fetishes. I must admit that the thought did sicken me very much. But the things these people liked was horrible. There's people out there that loved getting sat on by fat people and getting smacked in the face with their bellies and all. Just....eww... Well anyways does anyone have an opinion on this or hear about this and think it's as sick as I think it is. Opinions and smart posts welcome:D

token101

Boards.ie is not a place for you to validate your fetishes. Take it to a psychiatrist.

Pedant

Live and let live. If people like BBW (or BBM) let them to their own. Why should they conform to society's views on aesthetics?

Thrill

Given the level of obesity today, there's never been a better time to have that particular fetish.

Aoifey!

If it exists there is a fetish for it/porn of it.

Biggins

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

I remember reading in a magazine a few days ago about people who have fat fetishes. I must admit that the thought did sicken me very much. But the things these people liked was horrible. There's people out there that loved getting sat on by fat people and getting smacked in the face with their bellies and all. Just....eww... Well anyways does anyone have an opinion on this or hear about this and think it's as sick as I think it is. Opinions and smart posts welcome:D

Naa... I'm not willing to come on a public forum and bash people just because they are fat.

I have known heavy set people and they were the best people I knew over various times in my life - some were very sexy too!
Its all in the mind with perception, not in the body.

DitzyPoo92

Oh I have nothing against big people! It's just what I read in the magazine about them sitting on people and having people feed them like animals in the aim of getting bigger and stuff. Found it a bit horrible tbh.

44leto

Yeah I like the big ladies or small ladies, not fussy really, more gagging.

Biggins

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

...It's just what I read in the magazine about them sitting on people and having people feed them like animals in the aim of getting bigger and stuff. Found it a bit horrible tbh.

I'm sure it is for those that are irritated by such people showing a lack of consideration for others.
Sadly however, thin and medium builds also have irritating habits/actions too that piss others off, be they also sexy or not.

Snowie

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

I remember reading in a magazine a few days ago about people who have fat fetishes. I must admit that the thought did sicken me very much. But the things these people liked was horrible. There's people out there that loved getting sat on by fat people and getting smacked in the face with their bellies and all. Just....eww... Well anyways does anyone have an opinion on this or hear about this and think it's as sick as I think it is. Opinions and smart posts welcome:D

never seen fat-slapping fetish on youtube...

Nooob :pac:

batistuta9

there's guy who get women as their girlfriends then fatten them up - really fatten them up like the people you see in them shows that can't get out of the house etc. - sick fúcks

Archeron

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

There's people out there that loved getting sat on by fat people and getting smacked in the face with their bellies and all.

This one time, a remote control I'd been looking for for weeks fell out.

DitzyPoo92

Biggins wrote: »

I'm sure it is for those that are irritated by such people showing a lack of consideration for others.
Sadly however, thin and medium builds also have irritating habits/actions too that piss others off, be they also sexy or not.

Yeah of course they have irritating habits! But the reason I mention the one above is because I recently read about it in a magazine and personally found it a bit horrible if I'm honest. And of course not all big people are like that the same as slim and average size people wouldn't have the same habits. I simply want people's opinion on something I read.:)

Maldesu

batistuta9 wrote: »

there's guy who get women as their girlfriends then fatten them up - really fatten them up like the people you see in them shows that can't get out of the house etc. - sick fúcks

Just like in the film Feed
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0445965/

Mental stuff.

saa

Mhmm yes definately this BBW lark goes a bit freaky past a certain point.
In reality its fine to like someone who is bigger but creepy to seek women out only because they are bigger. But it really is just a category of porn and if someone gets turned on by something thats their thang, and part of me feels like the women are some kind of victims in this but they choose to gain the weight to please their fans.

But also with porn there is a woman who is a slightly overweight and the tag line is bbw and then there is a 350 pound lady to me thats like the difference between seeing someone in porn who is slightly underweight and someone who is drastically underweight I wouldnt be able to look at the latter and feel comfortable.

Jesus Shaves

Fat people try harder in bed

MadYaker

There are rules to be followed here.

If you can't hide her don't ride her.

DitzyPoo92

MadYaker wrote: »

There are rules to be followed here.

If you can't hide her don't ride her.

If ye can't lift her, don't shift her.

TerrorFirmer

Maldesu wrote: »

Just like in the film Feed
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0445965/

Mental stuff.

That was definitely a pretty disturbing film. Some of the concoctions of pure fat/sugar he was feeding them were hauntingly grotesque....

MadYaker

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

If ye can't lift her, don't shift her.

Exactly. This lad knows what I'm on about. I write this stuff on my hand before I go out incase I forget after having a few.

DitzyPoo92

MadYaker wrote: »

Exactly. This lad knows what I'm on about. I write this stuff on my hand before I go out incase I forget after having a few.

I'm actually a girl but yeeeeaaaah I know what you're on about haha:pac:

MadYaker

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

I'm actually a girl but yeeeeaaaah I know what you're on about haha:pac:

Oh right.... well thats awkward

Gummy Panda

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

MadYaker wrote: »

There are rules to be followed here.

If you can't hide her don't ride her.

If ye can't lift her, don't shift her.

What if you got a bit of strength?

stateofflux

a friend of mine came up with a great idea that all night clubs should have a doorway that is only wide enough to fit thinner people....i reminded him of the potential issues with large chested ladies gaining entry

girl2

batistuta9 wrote: »

there's guy who get women as their girlfriends then fatten them up - really fatten them up like the people you see in them shows that can't get out of the house etc. - sick fúcks

I seen that show. It's called fat women and feeders. Sick sick fukkers. It gets to the point where it's abuse cos the women can't leave home and are so reliant on these men. Baaaaaad.

Owen_S

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

If ye can't lift her, don't shift her.

I can deadlift over twice my bodyweight

ew...

moonlighting

Bruthal

Gummy Panda wrote: »

DitzyPoo92 wrote: »

MadYaker wrote: »

There are rules to be followed here.

If you can't hide her don't ride her.

If ye can't lift her, don't shift her.

What if you got a bit of strength?

Then give her a length

minidazzler

Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK.

Deus Ex Machina

The phrase BBW has always induced hilarity in me. So if you're a fat freak you're allowed to proclaim yourself beautiful in a way that no other group in society does? Cool.

Bipolar Joe

I find tubby chicks more attractive than thin chicks, generally.

You think feeding is fucked up, go check out the pro-ana boards that are out there.

MadYaker

Owen_S wrote: »

I can deadlift over twice my bodyweight

So you like to ride fat birds is what you're saying?

Min

Fat suggests the person is unhealthy, more disease prone and able to do less than what a person should be capable of.
I don't get why anyone would find that attractive.

I was watching a 21st girls guide to sex last week and the whole thing about having sex when you're overweight came up. They said that if it was too difficult to have "normal" sex, that the man could penetrate her folds of fat.

Now. Enjoy your breakfasts.

smallBiscuit

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

I was watching a 21st girls guide to sex last week and the whole thing about having sex when you're overweight came up. They said that if it was too difficult to have "normal" sex, that the man could penetrate her folds of fat.

Now. Enjoy your breakfasts.

That image is going to stay with me for days, thanks :pac:

nibtrix

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

I was watching a 21st girls guide to sex last week and the whole thing about having sex when you're overweight came up. They said that if it was too difficult to have "normal" sex, that the man could penetrate her folds of fat.

Now. Enjoy your breakfasts.

Just found that motivation to diet that I've been looking for...

smallBiscuit

smallBiscuit wrote: »

That image is going to stay with me for days, thanks :pac:

nibtrix wrote: »

Just found that motivation to diet that I've been looking for...

Two words.

Belly Button

:pac:

Dudess

Pedant wrote: »

If people like BBW (or BBM) let them to their own. Why should they conform to society's views on aesthetics?

Because it's extremely unhealthy?

Gummy Panda

I remember when BBW meant a girl with massive tits, slightly bigger waist and plump ass.

Now it's like massively obese.

Dudess

Biggins wrote:

Naa... I'm not willing to come on a public forum and bash people just because they are fat.

I have known heavy set people and they were the best people I knew over various times in my life - some were very sexy too!
Its all in the mind with perception, not in the body.

But there's nothing wrong with saying morbidly obese (as opposed to a bit chubby - can't understand the way both are spoken of on these debates as if they're the same thing; moreso by those who are defensive of fat people actually) like 30 stone is unhealthy and unattractive.

The fetish though - meh, once it doesn't cause harm, each to their own. Fairly niche I'd say though.

Dudess

Dudess wrote: »

The fetish though - meh, once it doesn't cause harm, each to their own.

The problem with the fetish, is the feeder side of it, which does cause harm.

And I say this as a chubster

Dudess

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

Dudess wrote: »

The fetish though - meh, once it doesn't cause harm, each to their own.

The problem with the fetish, is the feeder side of it, which does cause harm.

And I say this as a chubster

Yeah it's well dodge but the squashing and belly into the face stuff doesn't always incorporate the feeder aspect - although they'd need to be very careful when squashing! :eek:

Dudess

Dudess wrote: »

Yeah it's well dodge but the squashing and belly into the face stuff doesn't always incorporate the feeder aspect - although they'd need to be very careful when squashing! :eek:

True, I wouldn't say the eat and ride and the same time. Although......

Gummy Panda

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

And I say this as a chubster

PICS OR GTFO :pac:

Gummy Panda

Gummy Panda wrote: »

PICS OR GTFO :pac:

Do you really trust me to link you to a picture of myself? Really?

There's also the non-fetish chubby chasers... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hogging_(sexual_practice)

HalloweenJack

I tend to go for girls who have more flesh, some of these have been relatively big. I don't get the women clothes sizes thing but my ex was a size 12 and I don't think I've been with anyone bigger than that.

I do get a bit of slagging from my mates for it and I have a rep for going for bigger girls. It's irrelevant to me but shows that some guys won't look twice at a girl who's "fat".

When I hear fat fetish, I think of someone who is attracted to obese people and I wouldn't be into that. It's not attractive and I can't see how someone would consider it so. In the other extreme, I can't stomach model-thin girls.For me, both extremes look unhealthy and it's a turn off.

mike65

Don't attack fatties, David Mitchell did.

Dudess

HalloweenJack wrote: »

I tend to go for girls who have more flesh, some of these have been relatively big. I don't get the women clothes sizes thing but my ex was a size 12 and I don't think I've been with anyone bigger than that.

I do get a bit of slagging from my mates for it and I have a rep for going for bigger girls. It's irrelevant to me but shows that some guys won't look twice at a girl who's "fat".

When I hear fat fetish, I think of someone who is attracted to obese people and I wouldn't be into that. It's not attractive and I can't see how someone would consider it so. In the other extreme, I can't stomach model-thin girls.For me, both extremes look unhealthy and it's a turn off.

If you've a rep for going for bigger girls - to the point that your mates slag you - I'm very surprised the biggest woman you've been is size 12. That's slim.

Snowie

Dudess wrote: »

If you've a rep for going for bigger girls - to the point that your mates slag you - I'm very surprised the biggest woman you've been is size 12. That's slim.

sise 12 is like the sexist side ever :cool: