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The C&H relationshippy lovey dovey thread of love

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    #272
    LoonyLovegood
    Registered Users Posts: 6,068 ✭✭✭LoonyLovegood


    LOL single again. Except I ended it. But yeah. Trying to find someone to give a cute ass valentines card to so they can give to their boyfriend so you don't just throw it out is a PITA.


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    #273
    wnolan1992
    Registered Users Posts: 14,009 ✭✭✭✭wnolan1992


    LoonyLovegood wrote: »
    LOL single again. Except I ended it. But yeah. Trying to find someone to give a cute ass valentines card to so they can give to their boyfriend so you don't just throw it out is a PITA.

    Alternatively, just send it to me so I can feel special for once. :( :P


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    #274
    LoonyLovegood
    Registered Users Posts: 6,068 ✭✭✭LoonyLovegood


    wnolan1992 wrote: »
    Alternatively, just send it to me so I can feel special for once. :( :P

    Already gave it away, bbz. But now there's nothing standing in the way of our love?


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    #275
    Insect Overlord
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,892 Mod ✭✭✭✭Insect Overlord


    So, eh, I've been single since about a week after this thread was last posted in. :pac:
    I think (emotionally speaking) that a break from relationships is probably good for me at this stage. I'm re-discovering myself as a single man. It's not all good, but it's an interesting adventure.


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    #276
    LoonyLovegood
    Registered Users Posts: 6,068 ✭✭✭LoonyLovegood


    I don't even miss relationships at the minute. Ask me again in a week, I might have a different answer though!


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    #277
    MauraTheThird
    Registered Users Posts: 818 ✭✭✭MauraTheThird


    Part of me would love to be in a relationship, but only if I didn't have to do the months of "should I text him??", "does he like me?", "am I being too clingy/needy/obvious?".. The effort of all that is too much


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    #278
    Junco Partner
    Registered Users Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    One of the women I work with said to me the other day "I found you on Tinder Junco, we didn't match though"

    "Am I not worth a right swipe no? :p"

    "I did go right!"

    Came across her on it, swiped and it was indeed a match.

    Not mentioned again, bar her saying
    " glad to see you matched me " in a kind of jokey tone of voice.
    No blatant flirting, but you can't really be to blatant at work anyway.

    We have different positions so I probably shouldn't pursue it but I'm leaving in a few weeks and we do get on very well so I'm conflicted.

    The main thing is I'm terrible at reading signals so I'm not really sure if it's just a case of she seen someone she knows on tinder and swiped for the Craic so she could say it to me. Is that a thing people do? Only thing that makes me wonder if I should make a go of it is a friend of hers once drunkenly starting but not finishing a sentence "Junco, X thinks you're....."

    Normally I'd say feck it and just try but with it being a work colleague ,different positions etc etc I'm wary.

    Ladies of C+h what is the signal she's sending me?


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    #279
    LoonyLovegood
    Registered Users Posts: 6,068 ✭✭✭LoonyLovegood


    If she brings it up again, go casual. Like if she mentions ye matched, then go "Well, fancy a drink some evening then?"


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    #280
    Junco Partner
    Registered Users Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    LoonyLovegood wrote: »
    If she brings it up again, go casual. Like if she mentions ye matched, then go "Well, fancy a drink some evening then?"
    They sacked her today. Over something silly. Sickening.

    *poof*

    Gone


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    #281
    Junco Partner
    Registered Users Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    HugsiePie wrote: »
    Now youre not coworkwers. So it wont be awkward if you ask her out. And you wont have to see her afterwards if it doesnt work out (Who needs a shift and drift when you can just ride and glide :pac:)

    Meh the job is like sixty hours a week plus three hours travelling everyday. My time off is non existent. Logistical nightmare so it would be. There is talk of a going away session for the few who are gone this week.



    Riding and gliding is fun and all but ****boys have ruined casual sex. It's really hard to not to be labelled as one when you are "emotionally artistic" to quote the IT Crowd. I rather not put it the wrong way and have that hanging over my head at work.

    I guess the best way to find out is ask but I can't exactly go "hey now that you got sacked I can talk to you on tinder and not get in trouble. Are you looking for a ride,a buddy or a bf?" Can I?


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    #282
    Junco Partner
    Registered Users Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    Any suggestions as to phrasing? :pac:


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    #283
    HugsiePie
    Registered Users Posts: 11,156 ✭✭✭✭HugsiePie


    Junco Partner wrote: »
    Any suggestions as to phrasing? :pac:

    Can I stick my willy in ya?


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    #284
    Junco Partner
    Registered Users Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    That might work if I was better looking.
    I don't think I could pull off that level of directness though. Even being as charming as I can be.

    I'd either get points for guts or some headbutts.


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