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Approaching women in random places

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  • #202
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    paky wrote: »
    i never said i had a problem with picking up women. i said there are generally acceptable places where and where not you can pick up women. i cant help you with your weight but you could try developing a personality and not be so rude and it may well be the balancing factor in your life :cool:

    Actually, I'm young, hot and smart. And I have a great personality. I can pick up anyone I want.
    Also, I love my life:)
    But all of that is ****ing irrelevent, because judging people on looks is unfair, and abusing randomers on the internet about being fat (when you've no idea if they even are) is just rude.

    You are a rude person.

    :P


  • #203
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    Jorcky wrote: »
    Actually, I'm young, hot and smart. And I have a great personality. I can pick up anyone I want.
    Also, I love my life:)
    But all of that is ****ing irrelevent, because judging people on looks is unfair, and abusing randomers on the internet about being fat (when you've no idea if they even are) is just rude.

    You are a rude person.

    :P

    Everyone is in a rush on the streets anyways...if I saw you I'd probably think, yeh not bad, but we'd both be rushing somewhere.

    That's modern Ireland for ya!


  • #204
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    plasmaguy wrote: »
    Everyone is in a rush on the streets anyways...if I saw you I'd probably think, yeh not bad, but we'd both be rushing somewhere.

    That's modern Ireland for ya!

    I don't care that guys don't do it, I just think if you want to, nothing should stop you. Plus, I think it'd be an improvement on the way things work now. :P
    paky wrote: »
    is this a serious question or are you just really that narrow minded?

    you have to keep in mind that if your a fat ugly cow men are less likely to approach you

    It was this I was getting annoyed at. Sure, it wasn't aimed at me, but it was still unnecessarily rude.
    :mad:


  • #205
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    True Jorcky...but only if all the women were forced to wear badges saying they are single or in a relationship!!


  • #206
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    I can nearly guarantee that if an Italian clothes designer ever has that idea, they all will. :)


  • #207
    paky
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,138 ✭✭✭paky


    Jorcky wrote: »
    I can nearly guarantee that if an Italian clothes designer ever has that idea, they all will. :)

    i thought they invented the wedding ring for that?


  • #208
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    You can be unmarried and still not single though.


  • #209
    Ficheall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,034 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    Jorcky wrote: »
    You can be unmarried and still not single though.
    YOU WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY! :eek:


  • #210
    paky
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,138 ✭✭✭paky


    Jorcky wrote: »
    You can be unmarried and still not single though.

    well be smart then and wear a ring.


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  • #211
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    It's very risky Jorcky!

    I mean lots of people around if things go wrong!!

    I just came up with an idea though...run after the girl and tap her on the shoulder and say you dropped this...could be a fake letter or something you have for the occassion!

    And she turns around and says, I don't think so! And then yee both have a laugh..ice broken...


  • #212
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    paky wrote: »
    well be smart then and wear a ring.
    ...


  • #213
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    Jorcky wrote: »
    ...

    Don't heed him Jorcky, put him on ignore or something!


  • #214
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    plasmaguy wrote: »
    It's very risky Jorcky!

    I mean lots of people around if things go wrong!!

    I just came up with an idea though...run after the girl and tap her on the shoulder and say you dropped this...could be a fake letter or something you have for the occassion!

    And she turns around and says, I don't think so! And then yee both have a laugh..ice broken...

    Aw, that'd TOTALLY work!

    Edit: Although if she does take the fake letter off you and looks at it, you'll have some explaining to do. :/


  • #215
    srvhead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 171 ✭✭srvhead


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    As long as you don't do it using those obnoxious Pickup Artist techniques then it's fine.

    Explain Ciptin :P


  • #216
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    Jorcky wrote: »
    Aw, that'd TOTALLY work!

    Edit: Although if she does take the fake letter off you and looks at it, you'll have some explaining to do. :/

    Yeh that's true...never thought of that...

    What about if I wrote something sweet in it ;)


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  • #217
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    plasmaguy wrote: »
    Yeh that's true...never thought of that...

    What about if I wrote something sweet in it ;)

    Phone number? That way it might still work as a pick-up.


  • #218
    plasmaguy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,683 ✭✭✭plasmaguy


    Jorcky wrote: »
    Phone number? That way it might still work as a pick-up.

    Genius Jorcky! :)


  • #219
    blacklilly
    Registered Users Posts: 2,687 ✭✭✭blacklilly


    I would love if a guy approached me in a random place. Even if I wasn't attracted to him it'd still be nice and I would take it as a compliment obviously.
    You guys should do it more often!! I don't know any girl that wouldn't be cuffed about it


  • #220
    Ficheall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,034 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    Jorcky wrote: »
    Phone number? That way it might still work as a pick-up.
    My most recent ex gave me her number hidden inside a chocolate muffin. That approach might not work for your average randommer on the street though.


  • #221
    Smidge
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,541 ✭✭✭Smidge


    Ficheall wrote: »
    My most recent ex gave me her number hidden inside a chocolate muffin. That approach might not work for your average randommer on the street though.

    She put the number in a muffin:D
    Funniest thing I've ever heard:D


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  • #222
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    Ficheall wrote: »
    My most recent ex gave me her number hidden inside a chocolate muffin. That approach might not work for your average randommer on the street though.

    True, it's the whole don't take sweets off strangers thing... Still though. It's a sweet idea.


  • #223
    Smidge
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,541 ✭✭✭Smidge


    Jorcky wrote: »
    True, it's the whole don't take sweets off strangers thing... Still though. It's a sweet idea.

    Ah yeah but still though,,,,,,,,,,
    A muffin:D


  • #224
    Varied
    Closed Accounts Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Varied


    Doesn't work for us hermits unfortunately. :(


  • #225
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    I'm sure it would if you tried:)


  • #226
    jayteecork
    Site Banned Posts: 5,676 ✭✭✭jayteecork


    Katgurl wrote: »

    Edit : btw before I get accused of being Samantha Brick I was making the point it is bizarre because I'm no stunner and think I must just look approachable. Plus, when I say multiple approaches, that is spaced out over a decade. Just wanted to clear that up before any "thinly veiled - oh check me out, i'm so hot" replies.


    You mean you're so plain random men see you as being so desperate you'll have sex with complete strangers.


  • #227
    Varied
    Closed Accounts Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Varied


    Jorcky wrote: »
    I'm sure it would if you tried:)

    Oh I have. It's tough!


  • #228
    Jorcky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭Jorcky


    jayteecork wrote: »
    You mean you're so plain random men see you as being so desperate you'll have sex with complete strangers.

    Wow.

    @Varied: It's tough for everyone. Chin up:)


  • #229
    Chickabic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭Chickabic


    My boyfriend of nearly fours years approached me when he was at work - as the head door man in a nightclub. It took me nine months of him chatting me up, asking me for my number and meet him for a drink that I finally gave in.

    But we did have the odd sneaky kiss??? during them months. lol


  • #230
    jayteecork
    Site Banned Posts: 5,676 ✭✭✭jayteecork


    Chickabic wrote: »
    My boyfriend of nearly fours years approached me when he was at work - as the head door man in a nightclub. It took me nine months of him chatting me up, asking me for my number and meet him for a drink that I finally gave in.

    But we did have the odd sneaky kiss??? during them months. lol

    A fine catch.

    A stalking Gorilla who lacks the basic sense to differentiate between yes and no.


  • #231
    Chickabic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭Chickabic


    jayteecork wrote: »
    A fine catch.

    A stalking Gorilla who lacks the basic sense to differentiate between yes and no.


    Hahaha, I do sometimes say that to him, stalking me like a weirdo but honestly best decision I made. I should have said it sooner.


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  • #232
    ToddyDoody
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,417 ✭✭✭ToddyDoody


    Looking over the toilet cubicle is probably a no no


  • #233
    Ficheall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,034 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    ToddyDoody wrote: »
    Looking over the toilet cubicle is probably a no no
    I dunno - women seem to like tall guys.


  • #234
    Richard Hillman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    My ego is far too big and fragile to approach a female about a possible rendezvous. I go for the unsuccessful counter attack tactic. Plus it is rather creepy to approach strangers. A big thumbs down from me.


  • #235
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    Chickabic wrote: »
    My boyfriend of nearly fours years approached me when he was at work - as the head door man in a nightclub. It took me nine months of him chatting me up, asking me for my number and meet him for a drink that I finally gave in.

    But we did have the odd sneaky kiss??? during them months. lol

    Nine months? Why?


  • #236
    Chickabic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭Chickabic


    Andy Carroll wrote: »
    Nine months? Why?


    I wasnt ready to hook up with anyone at that time. We flirted and would have a kiss in the corner and he would drop me home but as far as giving him my number or meeting outside the club, I didnt want to. I was happy being single.


  • #237
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    Chickabic wrote: »
    My boyfriend of nearly fours years approached me when he was at work - as the head door man in a nightclub. It took me nine months of him chatting me up, asking me for my number and meet him for a drink that I finally gave in.

    But we did have the odd sneaky kiss??? during them months. lol

    Wow talk about playing hard to get. I don't think I'd have the patience to pursue someone for nine months.


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