Have you ever experienced "love at first sight"?

amacca

bennyineire wrote: »

I know that feeling your talking about,

it's that special feeling you get when you see a lovely cute girl,

it's that feeling where you would do anything to bone her

ah yes...me too

the feeling that usually succeeds it in my case is the crushing disappointment of the gradual realization she is being boned by someone else and/or does not want to be boned my me...

followed by despair

followed by hope

before the cycle repeats itself

life, its just one cruel joke after another eh?

Gentelman_dub

foleypio wrote: »

jesus man, did your balls drop off or something. First dont facebook stalk or try or contact her. Just get on with your life and find better things to do with your time.

Love is reciprocal not a one way street. What you have is an infatuation, the best way to get over something like that is by getting out more and doing more positive things with your life.

People are fairly straightforward underneath all the BS. Nobody wants anyone or anything that they can have easily. I think probably this was the case with you. Next time dont be so keen to ask someone you like out, to start going out with her.

You should have taken your time, had a laugh with her and then maybe after a while when she gets her **** together make a move. Now its pretty much fu**ed

Thanks man for your advice, I'm not sitting at home all day and thinking of her....that's not the case. I have a very busy life myself but this girl just pops up in my head once in a while and especially after any dates that I went to, I ended up thinking about the girl instead of my dates. I have no difficulty in dating girls ( I'm not a cocky guy, I'm just confident :-)) but I always want what I can't have:-@...still I can't believe I had a very short time with her but she left a good feeling in my heart.

Out Of The Night

I fall in love on the spot every time I walk outside the door. And not just with members of the opposite sex. I'm talking everything! It is so annoying. I get butterflies in my stomach and my head feels all fuzzy..... :rolleyes:

leonidas83

Gentelman_dub wrote: »

Thanks man for your advice, I'm not sitting at home all day and thinking of her....that's not the case. I have a very busy life myself but this girl just pops up in my head once in a while and especially after any dates that I went to, I ended up thinking about the girl instead of my dates. I have no difficulty in dating girls ( I'm not a cocky guy, I'm just confident :-)) but I always want what I can't have:-@...still I can't believe I had a very short time with her but she left a good feeling in my heart.

I get the feeling you may have a soft spot for south east asian girls. They are gorgeous, i was there not too long ago & would definitely recommend you go there especially if u havent been. Vietnamese & Cambodian girls in particular are meant to be stunning and great girlfriends too

Gentelman_dub

leonidas83 wrote: »

I get the feeling you may have a soft spot for south east asian girls. They are gorgeous, i was there not too long ago & would definitely recommend you go there especially if u havent been. Vietnamese & Cambodian girls in particular are meant to be stunning and great girlfriends too

Cheers Leonidas83, hope you had a great time there. I've been to Vietnam, Lao, HongKong, Japan before. I never had a thought about South east asian girls until I met this beauty. She is taller than most asian girls I know, her great granddad is French so she has beautiful big eyes and lips but she is also incredibly smart and funny. I will be back to the South East for the charity work maybe, but not for the girls man...plenty of beautiful girls in Ireland >>>>> please don't ask me where are they :-0

Crimbouser

Brinimartini wrote: »

I once spotted a cream cake in a bakers window and it was love at first sight

that kind of love i understand! The purest kind.

IsaacWunder

starlit

Kinda but only a fleeting of fancy kind of thing not necessary love at first sight as I haven't really experienced much of it to be honest. I haven't really been in love much or not at all really so hard to know. Lust at first sight is more realistic though than love at first sight for me.

beano345

at least 20 times a day to and fro on the subway home

Hill runner

Hey mate, check this out.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8705728/Men-fall-for-Miss-Right-after-a-single-date.html

Staggeringly, nearly one in four men said they believed in 'love at first sight' and knew whether a girl was 'the one' within seconds. YOU ARE ONE in four.

The study found a large percentage of men claim to have loved someone who didn't love them back. YOUR CASE.

Wibbs

Nope.

swimming in a sea

Gentelman_dub wrote: »

I changed my return flight to be on the same flight back to Dublin with her and I wished It was a long haul flight.

How much did that set you back? You did not even bang her yet and she was already bleeding you dry... lucky escape you'd have being broke within the month.

You should have told her to switch her flight, then you'd have known if she was a keeper

orchidsrpretty

Not sure if I believe in love in first sight, but I do think there is something more than just lust(maybe infactuation)
I met my bf one night and became totally obsessed with him almost straight away after we left eachother. I was thinking about him constantly etc until we met up for our first proper date two days later. He must of felt the same way because he didn't dump me for being a stalker/weirdo.

CruelCoin

Gentelman_dub wrote: »

I met this beautiful Vietnamese girl

You give me one pound, i make you make big sound!

BunShopVoyeur

Nah. I'm not a teenage girl.

Anything you might mistake for "love at first sight" will vanish the moment you ejeculate.

danslevent

“Juliet and Romeo be damned, you can't be in love until you've flossed your teeth next to the person at least three hundred times...”
― Marisha Pessl, Special Topics in Calamity Physics

Maybe you feel a strong connection with someone but not love. I think people throw that word around way too much, it makes it lose meaning.

ShelleyJ

J'ai une âme solitaire

Hill runner

ShelleyJ wrote: »

J'ai une âme solitaire

C'est pour toi que je suis là.