Do You still fancy your partner ?

Bullchomper

strobe wrote: »

I think 'fancy' usually just means 'find sexually attractive' to most people...

Fair enough.... but

fan·cy/ˈfansē/
Adjective:
Elaborate in structure or decoration.
Verb:
Feel a desire or liking for: "do you fancy a drink?".
Noun:
A feeling of liking or attraction, typically one that is superficial or transient.
Synonyms:
verb. imagine - think - conceive - like - suppose
noun. fantasy - imagination - whim - phantasy - caprice

Turtyturd

Yep 11 years on and she is still as hot as ever.

Mink

Married nearly 10yrs.

I'm heavily pregnant at the moment & neither of us are comfortable with shagging while I'm in this condition (more him not wanting to - in fairness I'm not looking that attractive right now).

But now I can't have him, he is just the biggest ride on the planet. I stalk him around the house saying "fine arse on ya".

As soon as baby is born & I'm somewhat repaired down there, baby is going to the grannies for a night!

In general terms, yes I do still fancy him.

sbsquarepants

Still fancy the pants off her to be honest!:D

cournioni

No, I hate Peugeot's. :mad:

Ruralyoke

Mink wrote: »

(more him not wanting to - in fairness I'm not looking that attractive right now).

That's awful if it's true.

CL7

Hah, this thread is nice change for AH.

Mink

Mink wrote: »

(more him not wanting to - in fairness I'm not looking that attractive right now).

Ruralyoke wrote: »

That's awful if it's true.

Sorry, that came across wrong. It's more he's worried re impailing the baby (which we both know would never happen but puts us off none the less). He'd never ever say anything re me looking a bit like an elephant at the moment that's more my hang-up

Scanlas The 2nd

Bullchomper wrote: »

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

Wow that's some convoluted rationalisation for not fancying your partner.

In what sense? Two people who live together for years and know each other backwards, probably will not want to grope each other at every given chance from what I've heard. Does that mean they should pack it in?

Didn't say you should pack it in, but the question asked was whether you still fancy your partner. Do you find them sexually arousing?

Ruralyoke

@mink

OK, fair enough.

But still, I bet you are nothing like the elephant you think you are.

Bigger, yeah of course, but pregancy does have attractions too (!)

Bullchomper

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

Didn't say you should pack it in, but the question asked was whether you still fancy your partner. Do you find them sexually arousing?

I was commenting in regards to posts following which said they should get a divorce, end the relationship etc. if they don't. Everytime I try and use that multiquote thing it goes tits up, but they are on the first few pages. I don't have a partner, which is possibly why I'm not getting this. I genuinely believe that if you are with someone a long time, just because the sex life has fizzled out, doesn't mean you should end it? But I don't understand how you could suddenly become repulsed by someone you're so close too?

Galadriel

dr strangelove wrote: »

I absolutely still do - even after all these years, she's the only one for me, and i still fancy the pants off her.












Is that good enough dear....?

Yes, I suppose that will do my darling :rolleyes: