Where to take someone on a date?

Canis Lupus

tempura wrote: »

When did all this " Dating " lark begin in this country ?

A Generation raised on American Tv, I think.

Back in my day, you usually met in pub, college or some random house party, got on well and then just continued to hang out in the pub, college, randon house party. This advanced to each others houses, where you'd watch a video, yep a video and make cheese on toast. No one had to try so hard, we were all on the same page !

Sex just happened, no one had to overthink the how or when is it going to happen, or the how will I impress this person enough to make them want to sleep with me.

Whatever about 'dating' one look in the relationship issues forum makes me scratch my head in wonderment. It's full of when should I call, when should I text. Should I play hard to get or I don't want to seem too keen.

All that bolloxology complicating something straightforward.

starlit

Not the cinema unless ye going out on a few dates. Coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, beach or something different or more activity like bowling or skating or something like that. Be spontaneous!?;) or just keep it simple...cook for them!?

Biggins

Op didn't say where he lives approx.
Dependable on her interests and likes, places can vary.
For example one girl I dated, I took to the writers museum in Dublin as a day out.
While not exactly romantic, it was personal to her, she though it was a nice thought that I took her there as she was into that said of life and it was something new to her as a place to actually visit.
A novel idea - no pun intended.

I gained eventually, short term and long. I got to marry her.

tommyboy2222

Orgasmville!

ibarelycare

If you're looking to get her in the sack without wanting to come across as sleazy then I suggest this:

Tell her you'd like to cook her dinner and then bring her out to a comedy gig afterwards. That way she's going to be in your house but she knows that it's only going to be for a couple of hours and there's a plan afterwards so she's not expected to stay. Cook her a nice meal (doesn't have to be fancy, something simple such as nachos could be successful because you're sharing and eating with your fingers so it'll make you both more comfortable). Then head out for the comedy gig. Lay on the charm a bit and go for a few kisses at the end of the night. Because she's already been in your house she'll feel comfortable at the idea of going back there and won't see any threat and might very well be open to the idea of going back for some sexytime.



This is actually an exact recap of a third date I went on with a guy. It was successful in so far as I did go home with him. However he was a bit of a douche so things ended soon after....

Fiona

A spin and a bag of chips and I would be happy out

Cassidy28

Take her to the dogs, she'll be a different person.