The Online Dating Thread 3..**READ 1ST POST Oct 2012**

Prick!

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Or of course it's not her at all.

This.

It's not her, why else would she stop replying.

These girls probably don't get much attention IRL and want to feel like they're wanted. It's kind of sad really

cyrusdvirus

Date 1 last night went very very well.

Seeing each other again tmrw.

Daveysil15

Prick! wrote: »

I wonder why that was :rolleyes:

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Maybe she's airbrushed to perfection, looks nothing like the photos in real life she she's using the site for an ego boost. I doubt it's anything to do with you.

She had one normal photo of herself. The rest were air-brushed. She said she has not met anyone from OD yet. Surprise suprise. :rolleyes:

cloud_dancer

Daveysil15 wrote: »

Prick! wrote: »

I wonder why that was :rolleyes:

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Maybe she's airbrushed to perfection, looks nothing like the photos in real life she she's using the site for an ego boost. I doubt it's anything to do with you.

She had one normal photo of herself. The rest were air-brushed. She said she has not met anyone from OD yet. Surprise suprise. :rolleyes:

I wonder why! As soon as guys stop telling her how gorgeous she is and ask to meet she runs a mile. Why bother with it! I mean why would you go to the trouble of messaging people online when you've no intention of meeting up. It's wasting everyones time.

Mental Mickey

Daveysil15 wrote: »

Prick! wrote: »

I wonder why that was :rolleyes:

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Maybe she's airbrushed to perfection, looks nothing like the photos in real life she she's using the site for an ego boost. I doubt it's anything to do with you.

She had one normal photo of herself. The rest were air-brushed. She said she has not met anyone from OD yet. Surprise suprise. :rolleyes:

Pffft.....eejit.

cloud_dancer

gatecrash wrote: »

Date 1 last night went very very well.

Seeing each other again tmrw.

Very happy to hear it! A date for tomorrow already is a really good sign. She seems eager

cloud_dancer

Daveysil15 wrote: »

She had one normal photo of herself. The rest were air-brushed. She said she has not met anyone from OD yet. Surprise suprise. :rolleyes:

Were the photos much different?

Daveysil15

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Were the photos much different?

All the professional ones were the same with a white background. In one of them she's holding a snake. She has loads of tattoo's too. The one normal photo she has is a headshot of herself in a very dark room. She looks a bit like Imelda May, only slightly more gothic.

tatumkelly

Wow... I was mailing a guy on POF this evening, seemed normal...

I asked how long he had been using online dating..POF is his first venture into online dating as such he said, however he has used the internet to find high class escorts on escort ireland when he has been between relationships. He then sent me a link to his profile on the escort website, where he has posted reviews of 29 of his 'dates'... oh my f****** god! :eek:

KTRIC

Had date two today, not even 12 hours after finishing the last one. Spent the evening walking around a soggy Phoenix park. We managed to jump to the hand holding already :rolleyes:

Think I'll take things easy in other departments though but happy so far.

hollypink

tatumkelly wrote: »

Wow... I was mailing a guy on POF this evening, seemed normal...

I asked how long he had been using online dating..POF is his first venture into online dating as such he said, however he has used the internet to find high class escorts on escort ireland when he has been between relationships. He then sent me a link to his profile on the escort website, where he has posted reviews of 29 of his 'dates'... oh my f****** god! :eek:

:eek: How could someone be so clueless as to think that's the kind of info you reveal about yourself to someone on a dating site? :P

cloud_dancer

tatumkelly wrote: »

Wow... I was mailing a guy on POF this evening, seemed normal...

I asked how long he had been using online dating..POF is his first venture into online dating as such he said, however he has used the internet to find high class escorts on escort ireland when he has been between relationships. He then sent me a link to his profile on the escort website, where he has posted reviews of 29 of his 'dates'... oh my f****** god! :eek:

Why! oh God why would you tell any woman that!!!

njs030

There's some strange people alright! I once chatted to a man who seemed nice, attractive etc....only to be told he was also on a swingers website that was much more fun!!

tatumkelly

hollypink wrote: »

:eek: How could someone be so clueless as to think that's the kind of info you reveal about yourself to someone on a dating site? :P

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Why! oh God why would you tell any woman that!!!

I'm actually speechless. Obviously I'm not so sheltered that I don't realise some men visit escorts, but god... he reviews and rates them...

I mailed him back, and explained that I was no longer interested. He just responded to tell me that I could come with him sometime if I wanted reassurance that it's not sleazy.

I'll let you know how our first date with the hooker goes... :rolleyes:

Tchaikovsky

Tchaikovsky wrote: »

Tomorrow's first date is a no-alcohol affair.. eek!! Haha, I'm sure my killer personality will see everything go fine

Well last night went well; she was really cute and sweet and funny. Right down my alley No booze to make me feel all depressed and self-critical today either, haha.

Here's to that elusive date 2...

Tchaikovsky

tatumkelly wrote: »

I'm actually speechless. Obviously I'm not so sheltered that I don't realise some men visit escorts, but god... he reviews and rates them...

I mailed him back, and explained that I was no longer interested. He just responded to tell me that I could come with him sometime if I wanted reassurance that it's not sleazy.

I'll let you know how our first date with the hooker goes... :rolleyes:

Wow, some men really haven't got a clue, have they?

tatumkelly

Tchaikovsky wrote: »

Wow, some men really haven't got a clue, have they?

No.. they really don't. There are exceptions however, the guys who know just what to say... they're the good ones...now to find them!

Tchaikovsky

tatumkelly wrote: »

No.. they really don't. There are exceptions however, the guys who know just what to say... they're the good ones...now to find them!

Apparently they're all in relationships :P

AnnyHallsal

Great to see good dates and good news round these parts!

Tchaikovsky

AnnyHallsal wrote: »

Great to see good dates and good news round these parts!

Yeah, it's turned all sunshine, lollipops and rainbows!

Mental Mickey

I for one, wouldn't go near an escort agency.

cloud_dancer

Tchaikovsky wrote: »

Tchaikovsky wrote: »

Tomorrow's first date is a no-alcohol affair.. eek!! Haha, I'm sure my killer personality will see everything go fine

Well last night went well; she was really cute and sweet and funny. Right down my alley No booze to make me feel all depressed and self-critical today either, haha.

Here's to that elusive date 2...

Great stuff have you asked her for a second date yet?

Tchaikovsky

cloud_dancer wrote: »

Great stuff have you asked her for a second date yet?

No- the fear has me gripped at the moment so I'd rather wait for the bad news
I made an effort to look a bit dapper than most first dates I go on, so hopefully it had a positive effect!

Mental Mickey

I need to take up drinking, going to nightclubs, and generally acting like a "lad". I think that's the only way i'm gonna meet women!!!??:D

And I DETEST going to nightclubs:(

ANOTHER night sitting in...........

Daveysil15

tatumkelly wrote: »

I'm actually speechless. Obviously I'm not so sheltered that I don't realise some men visit escorts, but god... he reviews and rates them...

I mailed him back, and explained that I was no longer interested. He just responded to tell me that I could come with him sometime if I wanted reassurance that it's not sleazy.

I'll let you know how our first date with the hooker goes... :rolleyes:

:eek: God what an odd thing to say to someone on a dating site. Maybe he likes to be watched. "Whoo hoo, look at me, I'm riding a hooker. Fancy going for a coffee after this?" What a charmer. :rolleyes:

tatumkelly

Mental Mickey wrote: »

I need to take up drinking, going to nightclubs, and generally acting like a "lad". I think that's the only way i'm gonna meet women!!!??:D

And I DETEST going to nightclubs:(

ANOTHER night sitting in...........

I'm the same... I despise nightclubs to the point where I refuse to go. I don't drink, and whilst I'm not shy, and have no problem being in the company of those who do drink... I've no interest in hanging around for the stage of the night where people are messy drunk, and men are likely to spill their pints on me as the struggle to maintain their balance.

Daveysil15 wrote: »

:eek: God what an odd thing to say to someone on a dating site. Maybe he likes to be watched. "Whoo hoo, look at me, I'm riding a hooker. Fancy going for a coffee after this?" What a charmer. :rolleyes:

Oh yeah... I'm still swooning :rolleyes:

mood

tatumkelly wrote: »

Wow... I was mailing a guy on POF this evening, seemed normal...

I asked how long he had been using online dating..POF is his first venture into online dating as such he said, however he has used the internet to find high class escorts on escort ireland when he has been between relationships. He then sent me a link to his profile on the escort website, where he has posted reviews of 29 of his 'dates'... oh my f****** god! :eek:

It's good that he is not hiding it. Imagine if you did end up going out with him! You would need the STI clinic on speed dial. I'm sure there are plenty of men who might have done the same but would never admit it.

tatumkelly

mood wrote: »

It's good that he is not hiding it. Imagine if you did end up going out with him! You would need the STI clinic on speed dial. I'm sure there are plenty of men who might have done the same but would never admit it.

That's a fair point. While I respect honesty, some things are best kept a secret....

Mental Mickey

tatumkelly wrote: »

I'm the same... I despise nightclubs to the point where I refuse to go. I don't drink, and whilst I'm not shy, and have no problem being in the company of those who do drink... I've no interest in hanging around for the stage of the night where people are messy drunk, and men are likely to spill their pints on me as the struggle to maintain their balance.

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Being a person with a disability, I usually get all the drunk eejits coming over and talking to me, giving me the "Ah poor you" line. Do me a favour mate, f**k off.

I don't mind being with people who do drink either, as long as they can handle themselves...........I don't like hanging around for the messy part of the night either. Don't like looking at people making idiots of themselves.

HellFireClub

I was chatting to a girl on POF a few weeks ago and after a bit of yapping, she said she called off her imminent wedding after catching her husband to be on an adult/swingers website, swopping intimate pictures some woman. What scared her most of all, and this is as true for guys who use escorts, is that you don't need to even get off your sofa now to cheat, (assuming you are in a relationship).