The Online Dating Thread 3..**READ 1ST POST Oct 2012**

Novella

Larianne wrote: »

Was he messing? Like did he say "I think I love you" after you said something such as "I love Die hard, making lasagne and hate shopping?"

How? I mean.. wut?

He said, "Hey Novella?" except he used my real name, and I said, "Yeah?", to which he replied, "I love you".

Earlier on he'd told me he thought I was someone he could fall in love with. Just... whaaaaaaaaat?

I always get the crazies.

Hardonraging

Novella wrote: »

But... I love him too!

Nah, I'm kidding. I've ran.

When's the big day out ? i need to order my top hat now !!

Larianne wrote: »

Was he messing? Like did he say "I think I love you" after you said something such as "I love Die hard, making lasagne and hate shopping?"

How? I mean.. wut?

I like to slip it in after the lasagne ... :eek:

Maybe he's just lonely, or perhaps it was a missunderstanding, what if instead of " I love you" he typed in " I love it when you talk to me about movie's, what you do in the kitchen, and shoe shopping" , but accidently said " I love you"

Or !! it could have been sarcastic .. .. as in the example above..

MarkyTheLips

Hardonraging wrote: »

I like to slip it in after the lasagne ...

FNARR FNARR!!!! Ahem

Larianne

Novella wrote: »

He said, "Hey Novella?" except he used my real name, and I said, "Yeah?", to which he replied, "I love you".

Earlier on he'd told me he thought I was someone he could fall in love with. Just... whaaaaaaaaat?

I always get the crazies.

Oh. After reading the "someone he could fall in love with" bit, I would have said "nice chatting with ya but erm, that's a bit quick for me" or blocked him, depending on the vibes I was getting.

Feckin eejit.

Novella

Larianne wrote: »

Oh. After reading the "someone he could fall in love with" bit, I would have said "nice chatting with ya but erm, that's a bit quick for me" or blocked him, depending on the vibes I was getting.

Feckin eejit.

It's awful but I was really giving this guy a chance 'cause, quite frankly, he was HOT! :rolleyes:

herisson

Novella wrote: »

He said, "Hey Novella?" except he used my real name, and I said, "Yeah?", to which he replied, "I love you".

Earlier on he'd told me he thought I was someone he could fall in love with. Just... whaaaaaaaaat?

I always get the crazies.

I get the sex perverts....ive been offered a threesome twice by two different guys

and the nice guys dont seem to like me and the guy i really like lives in germany and havent seen him in over a year...this having feelings thing is bull!!

Hardonraging

Novella wrote: »

It's awful but I was really giving this guy a chance 'cause, quite frankly, he was HOT! :rolleyes:

wimmen ye are all the same judging us fella's on looks as opposed to profile length , I for one an sick of it :rolleyes:

Novella

Pixie-Fairy wrote: »

I get the sex perverts....ive been offered a threesome twice by two different guys

and the nice guys dont seem to like me and the guy i really like lives in germany and havent seen him in over a year...this having feelings thing is bull!!

Oh don't worry, I get 'sexy' messages too! Have a read of this beauty :

"We decide to meet for a drink after chattin online for a while. We meet in d pub and get on well plenty of jokes and alot of flirting and it's not long till it turns a little naughty u get up tellin me u need to use d ladies room and shoot me a cheeky smile as u walk away. U walk into the toilet but as u enter a cubicle your quickly forced inside and spun around till your lips are inches from mine I look u in d eyes and kiss I softly it's not long till I move down to your neck gently kissing lickin and nibbling soon I have u gently moanin again I look u in d eyes smile and drop to my knees!!!! Shall I continue? X"

Sorry the guy you like is in Germany, that sucks

Hardonraging wrote: »

wimmen ye are all the same judging us fella's on looks as opposed to profile length , I for one an sick of it :rolleyes:

I don't know if you're just kidding or not!

I always would've said I wasn't the kind of person who thought looks were important but I guess they are. I mean, if you're not physically attracted to someone, you're just friends.

herisson

Novella wrote: »

Oh don't worry, I get 'sexy' messages too! Have a read of this beauty :

"We decide to meet for a drink after chattin online for a while. We meet in d pub and get on well plenty of jokes and alot of flirting and it's not long till it turns a little naughty u get up tellin me u need to use d ladies room and shoot me a cheeky smile as u walk away. U walk into the toilet but as u enter a cubicle your quickly forced inside and spun around till your lips are inches from mine I look u in d eyes and kiss I softly it's not long till I move down to your neck gently kissing lickin and nibbling soon I have u gently moanin again I look u in d eyes smile and drop to my knees!!!! Shall I continue? X"

Sorry the guy you like is in Germany, that sucks

I also got the i want to fcuk you in a carpark and then in the bushes in a busy park......how romantic :pac:

yeah i know and i havent been able to talk to him since thursday and i kinda miss him....i didnt think i would...he's guy 3 btw

MarkyTheLips

Novella wrote: »

Oh don't worry, I get 'sexy' messages too! Have a read of this beauty :

"We decide to meet for a drink after chattin online for a while. We meet in d pub and get on well plenty of jokes and alot of flirting and it's not long till it turns a little naughty u get up tellin me u need to use d ladies room and shoot me a cheeky smile as u walk away. U walk into the toilet but as u enter a cubicle your quickly forced inside and spun around till your lips are inches from mine I look u in d eyes and kiss I softly it's not long till I move down to your neck gently kissing lickin and nibbling soon I have u gently moanin again I look u in d eyes smile and drop to my knees!!!! Shall I continue? X"

My browser must have frozen, only half of your post loaded! *shifty eyes*

Ankhyu

So I haven't really been using POF since I met the last two lovely guys, I just lost interest in it, the same faces, the impersonal "Hey" messages etc... But an evening in with nothing to do, and curiosity got the better of me, and I signed up to OKC.
Must say it's way nicer to use! And I didn't get the volume of messages I got when I signed up to POF, but the messages I did get all had effort put into them, which is a nice change
Chatting away to a couple of nice guys that I have plenty in common with already. To be honest though I'll probably see how things play out with my last two dates before I get too involved in OKC.

MarkyTheLips

Ankhyu wrote: »

So I haven't really been using POF since I met the last two lovely guys, I just lost interest in it, the same faces, the impersonal "Hey" messages etc... But an evening in with nothing to do, and curiosity got the better of me, and I signed up to OKC.
Must say it's way nicer to use! And I didn't get the volume of messages I got when I signed up to POF, but the messages I did get all had effort put into them, which is a nice change
Chatting away to a couple of nice guys that I have plenty in common with already. To be honest though I'll probably see how things play out with my last two dates before I get too involved in OKC.

How much are they paying you?? I put OKC on hiatus as I was a little tired of seeing great profiles only to find the last time they'd logged in it was still too soon to make jokes about 9/11. It'd be interesting to find a site that has the "jump through hoops" of OKC spliced with the "devil-may-care" of POF. Sadly message is to POF as status is to FaceBook :-P

Hardonraging

Novella wrote: »

I don't know if you're just kidding or not!

Yet another problem with POF... sarcasm is often lost in text ... altho we can attribute this to the internet in general


I was joking

The Big Red Button

MarkyTheLips wrote: »

Ankhyu wrote: »

So I haven't really been using POF since I met the last two lovely guys, I just lost interest in it, the same faces, the impersonal "Hey" messages etc... But an evening in with nothing to do, and curiosity got the better of me, and I signed up to OKC.
Must say it's way nicer to use! And I didn't get the volume of messages I got when I signed up to POF, but the messages I did get all had effort put into them, which is a nice change
Chatting away to a couple of nice guys that I have plenty in common with already. To be honest though I'll probably see how things play out with my last two dates before I get too involved in OKC.

How much are they paying you?? I put OKC on hiatus as I was a little tired of seeing great profiles only to find the last time they'd logged in it was still too soon to make jokes about 9/11. It'd be interesting to find a site that has the "jump through hoops" of OKC spliced with the "devil-may-care" of POF. Sadly message is to POF as status is to FaceBook :-P

You can change the settings though so that it only shows people who last logged in in the last day/week/month etc!

MarkyTheLips

chatterpillar wrote: »

MarkyTheLips wrote: »

Ankhyu wrote: »

So I haven't really been using POF since I met the last two lovely guys, I just lost interest in it, the same faces, the impersonal "Hey" messages etc... But an evening in with nothing to do, and curiosity got the better of me, and I signed up to OKC.
Must say it's way nicer to use! And I didn't get the volume of messages I got when I signed up to POF, but the messages I did get all had effort put into them, which is a nice change
Chatting away to a couple of nice guys that I have plenty in common with already. To be honest though I'll probably see how things play out with my last two dates before I get too involved in OKC.

How much are they paying you?? I put OKC on hiatus as I was a little tired of seeing great profiles only to find the last time they'd logged in it was still too soon to make jokes about 9/11. It'd be interesting to find a site that has the "jump through hoops" of OKC spliced with the "devil-may-care" of POF. Sadly message is to POF as status is to FaceBook :-P

You can change the settings though so that it only shows people who last logged in in the last day/week/month etc!

EFFFFFORT!!! :-D I kid, I kid.. I know, guess I was just making a roundabout point..

G-Money

Novella wrote: »

I started talking to a guy on POF a few days ago.

He told me he loved me last night.

We've never met. :eek:

I get the opposite. I get "I hate you" and the strange thing is, I usually haven't even mailed them! :pac:

I'm joking.... sort of...

Honey-ec

So, I FINALLY went on a date last night with a guy from POF who asked me out back in April, but I just had so much stuff on that it didn't happen til now. It was amazing - we got on like a house on fire, I fancy the pants off him and the feeling appears to be heartily mutual.

Downside is that he works really awkward shifts, so God only knows when we'll manage to get to date #2, but here's hoping...

Galvasean

Despite myself I managed to trawl through POF for about half an hour yesterday and een sent out a couple of mails. Now we play the waiting game...
The waiting game sucks! Let's play Hungry hungry Hippos!

CastorTroy

As long as it's not the Crying Game.

I was looking at Okcupid after seeing it mentioned here. The total number of results for around my area was 4

Honey-ec

POF keeps logging me back into the phone app after I've logged myself out, it's driving me fooking BATSH!T.

Galvasean

Honey-ec wrote: »

POF keeps logging me back into the phone app after I've logged myself out, it's driving me fooking BATSH!T.

Weird. When using computer it logs me out every five minutes, even when I'm actively using it. Odd.

Snowie

Galvasean wrote: »

Honey-ec wrote: »

POF keeps logging me back into the phone app after I've logged myself out, it's driving me fooking BATSH!T.

Weird. When using computer it logs me out every five minutes, even when I'm actively using it. Odd.

That's site protocall if you leave your computer unattended to stop potential fraping like behaviour!

I don't like this oooo girl says no pic no reply ooo wait you haven't got a picture to start with why would I or any body else send one ?

Hardonraging

Snowie wrote: »

That's site protocall if you leave your computer unattended to stop potential fraping like behaviour!

I don't like this oooo girl says no pic no reply ooo wait you haven't got a picture to start with why would I or any body else send one ?

Straight off the bat, i've nvr reply those kind of profiles, or if i do, i sent a cut picture, like an eye, or an ear .. as a teaser

Snowie

Hardonraging wrote: »

Snowie wrote: »

That's site protocall if you leave your computer unattended to stop potential fraping like behaviour!

I don't like this oooo girl says no pic no reply ooo wait you haven't got a picture to start with why would I or any body else send one ?

Straight off the bat, i've nvr reply those kind of profiles, or if i do, i sent a cut picture, like an eye, or an ear .. as a teaser

It's just plain rude and really anoys me that just because ooooooooo I see you have a vagina I play to your rules :mad: it's so fvckin rude...

I dont care if she ignores me it's not that upsetting but.......... Demanding a picture when your showing none is a little on the ignorant side :mad:


People are mad

I'm not tho I'm sane....

Herrick

Start talking to a girl on one site she's 24 and from one county. Spotted her on another site just now, 21 and from a different county.

:pac:

Herrick

Galvasean wrote: »

I think it's to do with the recent surge in popularity of OD. I think an awful lot of people are there 'for the craic' rather than any real sense of wanting to actually get a date. I can't help but feel many are simply there to fuel their own egos and see how many messages they will get.

My sentiments exactly. I actually believe a very high percentage of people on the likes of PoF for example could be filed away under messer/ego booster/sleaze etc.

I'm not just basing this on my own experiences but on numerous experiences I've read from both male and female users on there.

I'm trying a few different sites, but PoF and Tagged are the worst. But I don't want to give up on them as I'm convinced one of the days some decent gal will turn up on there :pac: I have a profile on OKC but didn't bother putting up pics or using it cause there are only four active profiles within my region :eek:

It's a shame really as there are obviously some really genuine users and these people ruin it for them.

mood

Herrick wrote: »

My sentiments exactly. I actually believe a very high percentage of people on the likes of PoF for example could be filed away under messer/ego booster/sleaze etc.

I'm not just basing this on my own experiences but on numerous experiences I've read from both male and female users on there.

I'm trying a few different sites, but PoF and Tagged are the worst. But I don't want to give up on them as I'm convinced one of the days some decent gal will turn up on there :pac: I have a profile on OKC but didn't bother putting up pics or using it cause there are only four active profiles within my region :eek:

It's a shame really as there are obviously some really genuine users and these people ruin it for them.

Have you tried a paid site? I think there are less wasters etc on paid sites. Why would anyone use a paid site if they had no intention of actually meeting people.

Snowie

mood wrote: »

Herrick wrote: »

My sentiments exactly. I actually believe a very high percentage of people on the likes of PoF for example could be filed away under messer/ego booster/sleaze etc.

I'm not just basing this on my own experiences but on numerous experiences I've read from both male and female users on there.

I'm trying a few different sites, but PoF and Tagged are the worst. But I don't want to give up on them as I'm convinced one of the days some decent gal will turn up on there :pac: I have a profile on OKC but didn't bother putting up pics or using it cause there are only four active profiles within my region :eek:

It's a shame really as there are obviously some really genuine users and these people ruin it for them.

Have you tried a paid site? I think there are less wasters etc on paid sites. Why would anyone use a paid site if they had no intention of actually meeting people.

Because they have tight pockets

Daveysil15

A lot of the women on POF are of the opinion that if a man is single and needs a dating site then there's something wrong with him. Whereas if a woman is single she just hasn't met the right guy yet.

VinLieger

Daveysil15 wrote: »

A lot of the women on POF are of the opinion that if a man is single and needs a dating site then there's something wrong with him. Whereas if a woman is single she just hasn't met the right guy yet.

Where did you get this from?