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I just came out to someone on Facebook!

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  • #52
    Chucky the tree
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,341 ✭✭✭✭Chucky the tree


    thorny.rose wrote: »
    That is nothing.

    Last year I met man through online dating. A real charmer he was. Between one thing or another and only after a very short while, we jumped into a hotel room and yadeyadeya.

    blah blah.


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  • #53
    December2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    thorny.rose wrote: »
    That is nothing.

    Last year I met man through online dating. A real charmer he was. Between one thing or another and only after a very short while, we jumped into a hotel room and yadeyadeya.

    Afterwards, a week or so later. He lied to me and it took a while to come to light. He betrayed my trust and he never rectified it nor did he care. So lying to me after he got what he wanted - using and abusing me. He tried to pass it off onto me as if it was all in my head.

    He could have just left it after our night together but he stepped it up a notch and ****ed with my head.

    All that crap had an impact on my mind. I felt so used and awful.

    Through google and facebook I found his real name and his wife too. Anyways fake facebook account set up with a fake email and I messaged his wife. Told her that he was on an online dating site and gave her his username. Nothing else.

    It was just done and I went WTF did I do that for. And I ended up deleting that facebook account. I don't know if it was deleted quick enough before she read it. Facebook has a two week thing.

    I highly suspect that she did get the message. I don't know if he knows that she knows. He is still online having the craic on the forums so his wife is clearly not digging into him and if she is he is not displaying it.

    I'm coming to some sort of peace with what I did by thinking that what happened to me probably wasn't a once off and he's probably doing the same to others and it could be anyone that outed him.

    Edit: I read your op wrong. I thought you asked someone out on facebook but no you are gay and came out.

    I hope it goes well for you and sending good wishes. Gay people in this country and indeed the LGBT are treated rotten in so many ways ignorance from people mainly.

    WHy would you not tell his wife?


  • #54
    GLaDOS
    Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 23,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭GLaDOS


    Honestly if someone came out to me on facebook I'd assume it was one of their friends messing with their account :P

    Cake, and grief counseling, will be available at the conclusion of the test



  • #55
    southcentralts
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 833 ✭✭✭southcentralts


    Fu*k it, if you cannot embrace who you are in this life....


  • #56
    petes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,382 ✭✭✭petes


    southcentralts wrote: »
    Fu*k it, if you cannot embrace who you are in this life....

    ...what happens??


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