Loungers Who Lunch - The Off Topic Thread (All Chat Goes Here!)

herisson

I had my ears pierced twice! I had the normal piercings on the ear lobes when i was 2 but my i had a really bad reaction and my ear lobes swelled up and havent gone back to normal since

Got the top of my ear pierced when i was 14 but it shattered the cartridge in my ear and again it swelled up slightly and hasnt gone back down since

ihsb

bluewolf wrote: »

i always loved ear cuffs, nice ones at the top of the ear

i actually used to think nose piercings with a chain from the nose to the earring were great my grandmother said all the women in bangladesh when they used to live there, always wore them
lol

hardly wear earrings anymore though they annoy me after a while
can't wear bracelets much either

Why oh why do I have to be allergic to piercings?! I always wanted an eyebrow, a small nose and a few ears. Nothing mad or anything that would permanently change my face but for when I wanna mix it up a bit. I have a tendency to look a bit plain Jane and very conservative. The OH says I sometimes dress like a 40 year old (I am 23).

ihsb

ihsb wrote: »

Why oh why do I have to be allergic to piercings?! I always wanted an eyebrow, a small nose and a few ears. Nothing mad or anything that would permanently change my face but for when I wanna mix it up a bit. I have a tendency to look a bit plain Jane and very conservative. The OH says I sometimes dress like a 40 year old (I am 23).

well you can go off and change that by changing your fashion
i used to dress a bit old when i was younger as well
go and experiment a bit

Fluorescence

bluewolf wrote: »

i always loved ear cuffs, nice ones at the top of the ear

i actually used to think nose piercings with a chain from the nose to the earring were great my grandmother said all the women in bangladesh when they used to live there, always wore them
lol

Keep it classy Bluewolf! :P

hardly wear earrings anymore though they annoy me after a while
can't wear bracelets much either

Yeah I can't wear bracelets or watches either. Dunno why. Just hate the feel of em on my wrists!

Ella

We should start a thread with pics of our fashion "dont's".

LenaClaire

Fluorescence wrote: »

Keep it classy Bluewolf! :P




Yeah I can't wear bracelets or watches either. Dunno why. Just hate the feel of em on my wrists!

I love bracelets and rings. What I can't wear is any kind of choker, tight necklace or any clothes that touch my neck. I instantly feel like I can't breathe.

Fluorescence

Fluorescence wrote: »

Keep it classy Bluewolf! :P

I didn't actually wear them

Yeah I can't wear bracelets or watches either. Dunno why. Just hate the feel of em on my wrists!

i think it's cos we're musicians :cool:
definitely can't wear a watch

jujibee wrote: »

What I can't wear is any kind of choker, tight necklace or any clothes that touch my neck. I instantly feel like I can't breathe.

me too!!
i was clearly strangled in a past life

ihsb

bluewolf wrote: »

well you can go off and change that by changing your fashion
i used to dress a bit old when i was younger as well
go and experiment a bit

I dress professionally in work, then on my days off I wear what I like. But he gives out if I wear a longer then mini denim skirt, he cannot see my legs then ans says I look middle-aged:D At least I don't wear ill-fitting camouflage shorts.

Fluorescence

jujibee wrote: »

I love bracelets and rings. What I can't wear is any kind of choker, tight necklace or any clothes that touch my neck. I instantly feel like I can't breathe.

Only tight necked t-shirts bother me. I love love love wearing scarves! I've billions of em :P

bluewolf wrote: »

i think it's cos we're musicians :cool:
definitely can't wear a watch

Probably - Would get in the way a lot playing piano! Not flute so much though

Fluorescence

Fluorescence wrote: »

Probably - Would get in the way a lot playing piano! Not flute so much though

oh i wouldnt mind something on my wrists when playing the flute

*cough*


scarves are nice, i have a couple of pretty silk ones
they're loose enough i don't mind them

i borrowed a necklace once and it was a long pearl one (yes) and so i did a double loop
but it kept tightening a bit at my neck so i kept tugging at it (i know)
anyway the string snapped and pearls went everywhere

LenaClaire

bluewolf wrote: »

me too!!
i was clearly strangled in a past life

That is too funny, I used to tell people I must have been hung in a past life

And, yeah. I can handle scarves but they have to be loose. I can't wear turtlenecks or t-shirts with a high neck.

krudler

ihsb wrote: »

I dress professionally in work, then on my days off I wear what I like. But he gives out if I wear a longer then mini denim skirt, he cannot see my legs then ans says I look middle-aged At least I don't wear ill-fitting camouflage shorts.

I'd fully expect a bollocking if I dictated what someone I was seeing would wear like that.

ihsb

krudler wrote: »

I'd fully expect a bollocking if I dictated what someone I was seeing would wear like that.

Don't worry. I give as good as I get:p

Ella

krudler wrote: »

ihsb wrote: »

I dress professionally in work, then on my days off I wear what I like. But he gives out if I wear a longer then mini denim skirt, he cannot see my legs then ans says I look middle-aged At least I don't wear ill-fitting camouflage shorts.

I'd fully expect a bollocking if I dictated what someone I was seeing would wear like that.

Damn right. I'd wear them to spite him.

Acoshla

krudler wrote: »

I'd fully expect a bollocking if I dictated what someone I was seeing would wear like that.

My ex used to do that, actually he'd just be like "You're wearing that are you? Grand, I just don't really like it" :mad: Just a few days ago I wore a cute black shirt with white hearts on it, size 10, that I love. The day I bought it and tried it on at home to show my ex he said "Hmm I dunno, it makes you look a bit chunky" :rolleyes:

Lucyfur

bluewolf wrote: »

oh yeah mine was the gun as well in that dodgy place in grafton arcade
i don't know how my nose didn't rot and fall off, the place is well known... i was young and innocent then
i had a couple extra holes in my ears but got bored with them pretty quick, just have the main ear piercings now that i've had since i was a kid and probably won't ever heal over
never did hoopy gold ones though
hoopy goldberg ha ha
(sorry)

Oh I loled:D:D

I dress how I want. I don't have an opinion on how anyone else dresses, tis all personal choice. I wish people weren't looked down on for dressing a certain way/having facial piercings etc.

krudler

ihsb wrote: »

Don't worry. I give as good as I get:p

Still though, you don't an issue with him telling you not to wear stuff?

krudler

Acoshla wrote: »

My ex used to do that, actually he'd just be like "You're wearing that are you? Grand, I just don't really like it" :mad: Just a few days ago I wore a cute black shirt with white hearts on it, size 10, that I love. The day I bought it and tried it on at home to show my ex he said "Hmm I dunno, it makes you look a bit chunky" :rolleyes:

ha, there's a tactile way you can tell someone something may not suit them, telling them it makes them look chunky aint it :pac:

herisson

Funny enough i was suppose to meet up with a guy last weekend!
But then the friday night he text me saying what to wear and i said no! This lead to a bit of a fight and me getting rid of him!

Good thing i did, he was a control freak and told me that a man like him should be respected by the woman and be she should be obedient!

Piss off you psycho!!! :mad:

I couldnt let a man dictate my life in any way what so ever!!

ihsb

krudler wrote: »

Still though, you don't an issue with him telling you not to wear stuff?

He doesn't tell me not to. He just slags me for it. I tell him what to wear in certain situations but I am a bit of a professional when it comes to mens clothes so it is a bit different.

I like to know what he likes me wearing. I dress firstly for me but wouldn't you want to please the OH?

awec

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Lucyfur

I always ask for my bf's opinion on clothes and hair and stuff. Just cos he's all hot and yummy:cool:

Ella

awec wrote: »

After the talk of what people wear, I'd just like to point out that I'm an incredibly fashionable and fussy individual when it comes to clothes (and hair). :cool:

Doesn't mean you look good tho

awec

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krudler

krudler wrote: »

ha, there's a tactile way you can tell someone something may not suit them, telling them it makes them look chunky aint it :pac:

tactile way? like pawing at them?

RacoonQueen

krudler wrote: »

Still though, you don't an issue with him telling you not to wear stuff?

I'd say you're reading too much into it. What he seems to be saying is ''you're legs are sexy, please don't cover them up as I like to look at your hot sexy legs''

krudler

ihsb wrote: »

He doesn't tell me not to. He just slags me for it. I tell him what to wear in certain situations but I am a bit of a professional when it comes to mens clothes so it is a bit different.

I like to know what he likes me wearing. I dress firstly for me but wouldn't you want to please the OH?

well yeah its nice to look good for people and put in the effort but I wouldnt want to be told not to wear certain things if I liked them, tis a thin line all couples must tread at some point. the "I've already decided I like this top but I'm gonna ask you what you think anyway, your answer will determine how the weekend pans out" dilemma :pac:

ihsb

krudler wrote: »

well yeah its nice to look good for people and put in the effort but I wouldnt want to be told not to wear certain things if I liked them, tis a thin line all couples must tread at some point. the "I've already decided I like this top but I'm gonna ask you what you think anyway, your answer will determine how the weekend pans out" dilemma :pac:

Ah yes. That dilemma. I love that one!

lilmissprincess

Just joined an OD site to see what all the fuss was about, and am currently talking to two seemingly nice guys

Coffee with friend in an hour and its sunny, today will be a good day!

Das Kitty

Pixie-Fairy wrote: »

Funny enough i was suppose to meet up with a guy last weekend!
But then the friday night he text me saying what to wear and i said no! This lead to a bit of a fight and me getting rid of him!

Good thing i did, he was a control freak and told me that a man like him should be respected by the woman and be she should be obedient!

Piss off you psycho!!! :mad:

I couldnt let a man dictate my life in any way what so ever!!

Maybe he was reading the 50 Shades of Grey manual.

Piercings: I once pierced the cartilage of my ear by hand using an earring from a piercing gun I found in a drawer in my Aunt's. I don't know how my ear didn't fall off.

Chokers: Used to hate anything round my neck, now... yeah I quite like it. :P