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At what age does someone being a virgin a dealbreaker for you?

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    #62
    Mr Benevolent
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    Today I had a conversation about someone saying they were still a virgin and that they think they'll always be one.

    That's virgin on the ridiculous.


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    #63
    I_smell_fear
    Closed Accounts Posts: 378 ✭✭I_smell_fear


    So OP is 26 and a virgin


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    #64
    cocoshovel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭cocoshovel


    Novella wrote: »
    Really? I think that's a bit patronising.

    For me, I can't put an age on when a person being a virgin would be a deal-breaker. The reasons behind it are what's important. If they're a virgin because they think sex is bad or dirty, then it probably wouldn't work for me. If they just wanted to wait for what they thought was the right person, I'd respect that decision.

    What happens if they just never got it? no other reason.


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    #65
    validusername1
    Registered Users Posts: 283 ✭✭validusername1


    I think for a guy it'd start to get weird after 25/26. But it depends on their reason why, like if it's just been lack of opportunity then it'd just make me think there must be some odd reason for it.. If it's cause he doesn't believe in sex before marriage, I guess it's understandable to have principles but that'd make him seem conservative & I don't like conservative people!


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    #66
    toexpress
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    I would find a guy over 20 saying he is still a virgin odd ... that could be a gay thing we are easier

    I was 13 :-)


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    #67
    Faith+1
    Registered Users Posts: 3,674 ✭✭✭Faith+1


    toexpress wrote: »
    I would find a guy over 20 saying he is still a virgin odd ... that could be a gay thing we are easier

    I was 13 :-)

    You do know that's rape?


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    #68
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Faith+1 wrote: »
    toexpress wrote: »
    I would find a guy over 20 saying he is still a virgin odd ... that could be a gay thing we are easier

    I was 13 :-)

    You do know that's rape?

    I find that a lot more odd than a guy over 20 being a virgin.... 13?! That's a bit gross...


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    #69
    toexpress
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭toexpress


    Faith+1 wrote: »
    You do know that's rape?

    Well I think we have passed the point where we can do something about it am 31 now, was 13 at the time so therefore it's been nearly 20 years I can't see the Gardai taking me to seriously if I tip in to make a complaint about it now especially since I was willing


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    #70
    SharpshooterTom
    Registered Users Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭SharpshooterTom


    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.


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    #71
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Gnobe wrote: »
    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.

    Let's get him!!!


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    #72
    Gummy Panda
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    toexpress wrote: »
    Well I think we have passed the point where we can do something about it am 31 now, was 13 at the time so therefore it's been nearly 20 years I can't see the Gardai taking me to seriously if I tip in to make a complaint about it now especially since I was willing

    Wait a minute... aren't you gay? Did you and a lad give each other a hand shandy and are now calling it sex?

    Its not a competition :mad:


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    #73
    hondasam
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    Gnobe wrote: »
    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.

    Is having sex important to you or do you just think you should be having it because everyone else is or saying they are?


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    #74
    validusername1
    Registered Users Posts: 283 ✭✭validusername1


    Gnobe wrote: »
    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.

    Suicidal? :O I know I'm one of the ones who said 25/26 but it's not THAT bad. I think there's too much emphasis surrounding virginity these days anyway. You're not a goner.. What's your reason? Like are you too shy to try, have tried & didn't work etc? Do you go out much, like bars/clubs? Seem to be a good place for that sorta thing..


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    #75
    celtictiger32
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    sorry, thought this was the priests forum!:p


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    #76
    John Doe1
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    Gnobe wrote: »
    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.

    escort?


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    #77
    Dravokivich
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    Gnobe wrote: »
    I wont hold back this thread is making me feel suicidal.

    It confirms my worst fears.

    My maybe my time is up. I have no choice since I'm heading to be 26 without a girlfriend ever.

    Looks like I have no hope as I've written off 60%+ of women. I'm a goner basically. My time is up now probably.

    Not really. When you cut out the jokes, I've seen more positive responses than negative ones.
    hondasam wrote: »
    Is having sex important to you or do you just think you should be having it because everyone else is or saying they are?

    That kind of "logic" has no bearing on anyone who hasn't done it.


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    #78
    Seth Brundle
    Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 39,742 Mod ✭✭✭✭Seth Brundle


    What's too old?
    Maddie then: Yaay
    Maddie now: Nay


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    #79
    [Deleted User]
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    syndeyfife wrote: »
    No way....I like older men purely because they are more likely to know their way around the bedroom.


    Weird
    I like older woman purely because they are more likely to know there way around the kitchen


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    #80
    prinz
    Registered Users Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    hondasam wrote: »
    Is having sex important to you or do you just think you should be having it because everyone else is or saying they are?

    Most important bit in bold :pac: Jay from the Inbetweeners has a lot of competition in real life I find.


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    #81
    toexpress
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    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    Wait a minute... aren't you gay? Did you and a lad give each other a hand shandy and are now calling it sex?

    Its not a competition :mad:

    No it was a bit more than that but not the full monty


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    #82
    frag420
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    I know of a girl in her late twenties, stunning and has never been with a guy. Not even been kissed. She gets loads of attention but according to one of thew other girls she is not bothered about it and thinks she is too far gone to lose her virginity now and is resigned to that fact and thus makes no effort with guys.

    There is an innocence about her too so I would feel guilty for shagging her evern though she is hitting 30.

    I did take a girls virginity once and it didnt go well. She was eager but had no clue what she was doing. In hindsight I think the camera in the corner made her nervous. ;)


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    #83
    SharpshooterTom
    Registered Users Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭SharpshooterTom


    John Doe1 wrote: »
    escort?

    Suicides better. Its permanent anyway I wont know any better because I'll be dead which imo is a good thing.

    Like I said this thread confirms all my worst fears.

    I'll do what I have to do. My life is over I knew it. Theres no point anymore continuing with this immense pain and the failure that is me.

    Do I want to die? Nope. Do I feel its inevitable at some point this year? Yep. I'll do it because I have to. I'm a failure to my family and humanity. I'm scared of the pain but it wont last long and if I have to go through with it I will.


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    #84
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Gnobe wrote: »
    John Doe1 wrote: »
    escort?

    Suicides better. Its permanent anyway I wont know any better because I'll be dead which imo is a good thing.

    Like I said this thread confirms all my worst fears.

    I'll do what I have to do. My life is over I knew it. Theres no point anymore continuing with this immense pain and the failure that is me.

    Do I want to die? Nope. Do I feel its inevitable at some point this year? Yep. I'll do it because I have to. I'm a failure to my family and humanity. I'm scared of the pain but it wont last long.

    I can take one for the team and teach you a few things if its that bad!!!


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    #85
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Gnobe wrote: »
    Suicides better. Its permanent anyway I wont know any better because I'll be dead which imo is a good thing.

    Like I said this thread confirms all my worst fears.

    I'll do what I have to do. My life is over I knew it. Theres no point anymore continuing with this immense pain and the failure that is me.

    Do I want to die? Nope. Do I feel its inevitable at some point this year? Yep. I'll do it because I have to. I'm a failure to my family and humanity. I'm scared of the pain but it wont last long and if I have to go through with it I will.

    Have you tried plenty of fish?


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    #86
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Gnobe wrote: »
    Suicides better. Its permanent anyway I wont know any better because I'll be dead which imo is a good thing.

    Like I said this thread confirms all my worst fears.

    I'll do what I have to do. My life is over I knew it. Theres no point anymore continuing with this immense pain and the failure that is me.

    Do I want to die? Nope. Do I feel its inevitable at some point this year? Yep. I'll do it because I have to. I'm a failure to my family and humanity. I'm scared of the pain but it wont last long.

    I feel incredibly sad reading that. I have had two suicides in my family and I can tell you now I wish they were still here with us.
    It's very hard for families to understand the reasons why anyone takes their own lives.


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    #87
    KeithM89_old
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    We have to stop this thread but see here for a list of very useful links:
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056241245


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