Have you ever made love to a married woman/man?

prinz

syndeyfife wrote: »

I want a shag? Not an engagement ring....

If all you wanted was a shag, you wouldn't be getting off on the thrill of sleeping with a married man, because there'd be no difference between a married man and an unmarried man. The fact that you specifically mentioned the thrill of shagging a married man in your earlier post indicates that it's more than just sex. Ask me, it's a self-esteem issue.

mauzo

prinz wrote: »

If all you wanted was a shag, you wouldn't be getting off on the thrill of sleeping with a married man, because there'd be no difference between a married man and an unmarried man. The fact that you specifically mentioned the thrill of shagging a married man in your earlier post indicates that it's more than just sex. Ask me, it's a self-esteem issue.

I wasnt asking you, and trust me...theres nothing wrong with my self esteem! :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Wadi

This thread is driving me crazy!! Havent had any action since December..pathetic?!

Nothingbetter2d

shopaholic01 wrote: »

Syn, I think we're the boards bikes;):D

tour de boards event on lads..... get your cycling shorts on

shopaholic01

aaronjumper wrote: »

Hello ladies, how you doin?

Your signature says it all really;)

prinz

syndeyfife wrote: »

I wasnt asking you, and trust me...theres nothing wrong with my self esteem! :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Yet you go on radio chat shows and here desperate for attention.

BeerSteakBirds

Yes but she didn't tell me. I wasn't serious about her and it didn't last for long but she didn't tell me and even worse her sister didn't tell me either. I pity the spouse in these situations. If hes reading this then sorry for your troubles.

Johro

syndeyfife wrote: »

I want a shag? Not an engagement ring....

You can get a shag from single guys. Can't be too difficult.

K-9

syndeyfife wrote: »

I wasnt asking you, and trust me...theres nothing wrong with my self esteem! :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Class.

Scioch

Wadi wrote: »

This thread is driving me crazy!! Havent had any action since December..pathetic?!

Get yourself a wedding ring.

mauzo

prinz wrote: »

Yet you go on radio chat shows and here desperate for attention.

Hahaha dont make me laugh, they asked a question and I answered it.

I was the only female to admit to it as well.

Im open, if you see that as looking for attention then thats fine by me. I couldnt give a monkeys what you think. Hope you enjoyed the show, I wont the tickets that night too

Wadi

LordSmeg wrote: »

Get yourself a wedding ring.

And that makes what difference?!

Nothingbetter2d

syndeyfife wrote: »

Hahaha dont make me laugh, they asked a question and I answered it.

I was the only female to admit to it as well.

Im open, if you see that as looking for attention then thats fine by me. I couldnt give a monkeys what you think. Hope you enjoyed the show, I wont the tickets that night too

fair play to ya... now all ya need do is send in a cv to rte radio and u might get your own show

Scioch

Wadi wrote: »

And that makes what difference?!

Bitches love married men.

mauzo

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

fair play to ya... now all ya need do is send in a cv to rte radio and u might get your own show

It would be on very late

Nothingbetter2d

syndeyfife wrote: »

It would be on very late

pervert shift eh?

tightropetom

Mikaela Low Mind wrote: »

Making love and f*cking are worlds apart OP, as different as night and day.

Yes, "making love" is what a woman does when a man is f*cking her.

Varied

Lovely people in here.

Johro

And they say romance is dead.

Varied

Bein cheated by someone who is supposed to love you is the worst feeling in the world.

I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

Doc

I was with a married woman once when I was about 22 she was about 26 I met her in a club and we went back to a friend of her's house I didn't know until after she had a husband. She was smoking hot and I was a horny single young fella I didn't really think about the husband. I didn't have an afar with the girl just a one off tryst so I don’t really fell guilt towards the guy. Obviously there is something wrong with a relationship if someone is cheating. She decided to do it I didn’t force her into it. The one who the married person cheats with is in my opinion far less to blame then the cheater.

BeerSteakBirds

Doc wrote: »

I was with a married woman once when I was about 22 she was about 26 I met her in a club and we went back to a friend of her's house I didn't know until after she had a husband. She was smoking hot and I was a horny single young fella I didn't really think about the husband. I didn't have an afar with the girl just a one off tryst so I don’t really fell guilt towards the guy. Obviously there is something wrong with a relationship if someone is cheating. She decided to do it I didn’t force her into it. The one who the married person cheats with is in my opinion far less to blame then the cheater.

I find it interesting how the friend covers up for her. I have seen that many times before. A lot of the time the friend is also having affairs and using the other one as a cover story in the same way.

Jen Pigs Fly

DID YA EVER RAAAAPE SOMEONE!

Johro

One of my (ex)mates cheats on his missus, I fell out with him over it. She'd do anything for him, thinks he's great. I think it's lousy and I couldn't respect anyone who cheats, male or female.

Johro

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

DID YA EVER RAAAAPE SOMEONE!

No but I murdered me dinner. Ffs.

Johro

syndeyfife wrote: »

I was the only female to admit to it as well.

You're so honest.:rolleyes:

Wattle

Yes but never again. Way too much trouble and I lost a few friends over it.

John Doe1

Only if I really hated the guy she was married to, otherwise could not be bothered with it

mauzo

Johro wrote: »

You're so honest.:rolleyes:

It wasnt this question they asked.....it was something else.

Which is making me wonder if whoever said they heard me, actually heard me or someone else....

Jen Pigs Fly

Johro wrote: »

No but I murdered me dinner. Ffs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dyuxRA2gis

dark crystal

Yeah, I had a brief affair with a married man a few years back.

I was lonely, had bad self-esteem issues after a break up and he was somebody to help me forget how low I was feeling at the time.

Didn't work, though. I felt guilty as hell throughout the affair and broke it off after a couple of weeks. Went for councilling instead which helped a lot more.

I certainly didn't do it just for kicks, nor was I proud of it. It was a fukcing shameful thing to do.

Johro

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dyuxRA2gis

Ah... Got ya.

Johro

dark crystal wrote: »

Yeah, I had a brief affair with a married man a few years back.

I was lonely, had bad self-esteem issues after a break up and he was somebody to help me forget how low I was feeling at the time.

Didn't work, though. I felt guilty as hell throughout the affair and broke it off after a couple of weeks. Went for councilling instead which helped a lot more.

I certainly didn't do it just for kicks, nor was I proud of it. It was a fukcing shameful thing to do.

I can see how that could happen, when like you say you're at a low point in your life, or you feel you need some love and attention and it's there on offer, or you get pissed at a party and end up in bed together, it's the people who carry on affairs for ages and think they're real clever or the ones who get their kicks from 'stealing' husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends I really don't care for.

Vicar in a tutu

No i wouldnt do it. If you want a thrill have a danger ****
I think it is self esteem. Proving to yourself you can have someone thats unavailable. I would feel absolutely devastated for the guys wife. There are plenty of single men out there.. you can find your '' thrill'' other ways.

Sleepy

Been there but was never proud of it...

dark crystal

Johro wrote: »

I can see how that could happen, when like you say you're at a low point in your life, or you feel you need some love and attention and it's there on offer, or you get pissed at a party and end up in bed together, it's the people who carry on affairs for ages and think they're real clever or the ones who get their kicks from 'stealing' husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends I really don't care for.

Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.

policarp

It's a fantasy or a fetish for a lot of married people.If you want to do it, do it.But be careful, it can lead to financial ruin. . .

Doc Ruby

Yeah, husband was a Honger gangster, I make no apologies.

mauzo

dark crystal wrote: »

Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.

Jeez, I have no self esteem issues....no daddy issues, no issues.

I wish people would stop trying to make excuses for the crappy things i do, because I dont!! Sometimes in life, people are just sh*tty. I must be one of those people.

StinkySocs

One of my mates had an affair with a married man for about 6 months, about 9 years ago...she hated his wife, the opportunity arose :rolleyes: and she took it.
9 years later...I don't think she'd do it again or else I don't think we'd be friends too much drama that went with it!

RDM_83 again

syndeyfife wrote: »

Jeez, I have no self esteem issues....no daddy issues, no issues.

I wish people would stop trying to make excuses for the crappy things i do, because I dont!! Sometimes in life, people are just sh*tty. I must be one of those people.

I don't think they were were making excuses for you? If it makes you feel any better though I believe you* and just think your a bit of a b@tch/sociopath.



*I don;t actually believe you about the issues thing though really either but it doesn't change the other part!

ps presume I'm getting an infraction/ban for this
hat its at its not

mauzo

RDM_83 again wrote: »

I don't think they were were making excuses for you? If it makes you feel any better though I believe you* and just think your a bit of a b@tch/sociopath.



*I don;t actually believe you about the issues thing though really either but it doesn't change the other part!

ps presume I'm getting an infraction/ban for this
hat its at its not

Nope, still no issues....maybe Im not looking deep enough?? :rolleyes:

Spread

For about 2 years virtually every night
For about 30 years twice a week
For about 10 years once a week
And now - just whenever I get the urge

All this with the same married woman

RDM_83 again

syndeyfife wrote: »

Nope, still no issues....maybe Im not looking deep enough?? :rolleyes:

Everybody has some issues about something, knowing what they are and dealing with them is a lot healthier than denying them.

Like I know the men involved are the ones that are actually doing wrong but do you honestly have no empathy at all for their partners?

How do you feel about your friends that are in relationships?

This post took me 5 minutes to type and my rates are $200 an hour so that will be a tenner please

Edit: I'm up too late my maths skills have gone to Shiite

mauzo

RDM_83 again wrote: »

Everybody has some issues about something, knowing what they are and dealing with them is a lot healthier than denying them.

Like I know the men involved are the ones that are actually doing wrong but do you honestly have no empathy at all for their partners?

How do you feel about your friends that are in relationships?

This post took me 5 minutes to type and my rates are $200 an hour so that will be a tenner please

Edit: I'm up too late my maths skills have gone to Shiite

I have absolutely no issues. I have no self esteem problems, at all.

I am care free, laid back, happy as a pig in sh*t. Love my life, wouldnt change a thing!

Like i said I feel bad for the wife at home sometimes, but its never been an on going affair, not that that makes it any better, I know.

I dont see why everything has to be caused by someone having issues. It gives me a little extra thrill. Forbidden fruit. End of!

RDM_83 again

syndeyfife wrote: »

I dont see why everything has to be caused by someone having issues. It gives me a little extra thrill. Forbidden fruit. End of!

But you doing married men isn't even really that "forbidden" for yourself there's no potential repercussions for you , in the case of one night stands that your talking about its the men that are really having the breaking the rules thrill, or is the thrill the fact that these guys would cheat on their partners to be with you the thrill? If it is thats a pretty unhealthy way to get validation in my 'completely unprofessional and rather lacking in life experience' opinion.

mauzo

RDM_83 again wrote: »

But you doing married men isn't even really that "forbidden" for yourself there's no potential repercussions for you , in the case of one night stands that your talking about its the men that are really having the breaking the rules thrill, or is the thrill the fact that these guys would cheat on their partners to be with you the thrill? If it is thats a pretty unhealthy way to get validation in my 'completely unprofessional and rather lacking in life experience' opinion.

Bit of both, are we done assessing me now? Can we settle on the fact that I like cheap thrills, have no issues but am a bit of b*tch??

mauzo

Or how about, I now realise the errors of my ways!! I wont do it again, Im sorry, I feel terrible etc...?

RDM_83 again

syndeyfife wrote: »

Or how about, I now realise the errors of my ways!! I wont do it again, Im sorry, I feel terrible etc...?

Thats perfect would you like to be the first guest on the tv show I'm trying to sell TV3, I've already legally changed my first name to Dr. in preparation and practiced a very judgmental face and now I've proved I can browbeat people into my point of view.

ps can you cry on demand?

mauzo

RDM_83 again wrote: »

Thats perfect would you like to be the first guest on the tv show I'm trying to sell TV3, I've already legally changed my first name to Dr. in preparation and practiced a very judgmental face and now I've proved I can browbeat people into my point of view.

ps can you cry on demand?

No I dont cry, ever.

Sh*t maybe I do have issues?!? Can I get priority on that show and be the first guest? Ill set the bar really low, I promise!