Have you ever made love to a married woman/man?

RDM_83 again

syndeyfife wrote: »

No I dont cry, ever.

Sh*t maybe I do have issues?!? Can I get priority on that show and be the first guest? Ill set the bar really low, I promise!

Thats great! Do you have a sister who hates you too? failing that its a diet of Frey Bentos pies for the next month.

Now I'm off too get upto some illegitimate shenanigans with a highly inappropriate woman just like my idols.

Dr Phil had an affair with one of his clients and Jeremy Kyle has been accused of perving on a 16 year old (and as far as I know never sued for libel over it)

crimsonshadow

I am married. 32 years old and had an affair lasting about a year with a 19 year old. A year before that we had texted each other for a full year but never met up until i had an overnite for work and she had no place to stay. We had sex and met up many times after for amazing sex.
We were far too close in that we knew each other so much from constant texting and it was just like a relationship except of course it was all hiding in the shadows etc.
Today its over 7 months. I pulled away and stopped texting her as much cos i realised i started to like her too much and started to get jealous of her goin out and having sex with other guys (id had children so getting none at home). Why did i do it? Loneliness, midlife crisis, self esteem plus Im a man and the sex was great. Why did she do it? I think she liked the excitement and it was the attention from men and her friends she craved. From our texting she was promiscuous and secretly had sex with guys in their mid 20s when she was like 15/16 who were friends with her older sisters. She also had father issues which i learned from her texting. As i say its over now and to be honest i dont regret cheating. I did it because mainly i was lonely and felt left out at home. Im working on my home life and i realise i need to be there for my children.
If i had my time again id never get married i honestly think its unnatural and that we are animals at the end of the day. Please dont talk about "love" either thats like the tooth fairy. And people fall in and out of "love" all the time at different times

GoldFour4

syndeyfife wrote: »

Or how about, I now realise the errors of my ways!! I wont do it again, Im sorry, I feel terrible etc...?

Fat chance of that. Your either a troll or an absolute bitch. Seriously how can you not have any thought for the wife of the men your sleeping with? Your in for the sex only but do you not realise that a fellow woman is being left broken hearted because of your actions.

Theres plenty of single men out there who could give you anything you wanted. Give them a try, you'll make yourself a lot less enemies. Keep your legs closed to married men even if they want it too. Treat others as you would like to be treated. You wouldn't like your future husband to be sleeping around with some slut.

Rabies

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I haven't to the best of of my knowledge, but I'd say it would be quite exciting banging another man's wife for example.

If you have, did you enjoy it and did you or the cheating spouse feel any guilt or remorse. Or was it a case of who cares you only live once?

Sort of.
Have been with a girl that was engaged to be married. And one of my ex's was married, but separated. So that doesn't really count does it.

IrishEyes19

Horrible thing to do to the person you apparently love and devestating for the partner when the truth finally comes out. id have more respect for a person who admits they did wrong and needs to work on issues. but theres nothing to be proud of coming on a public forum believing that because your a cheater whose open about it, that it makes you different or special!! IT DOESNT!!!

IrishEyes19

crimsonshadow wrote: »

I am married. 32 years old and had an affair lasting about a year with a 19 year old. A year before that we had texted each other for a full year but never met up until i had an overnite for work and she had no place to stay. We had sex and met up many times after for amazing sex.
We were far too close in that we knew each other so much from constant texting and it was just like a relationship except of course it was all hiding in the shadows etc.
Today its over 7 months. I pulled away and stopped texting her as much cos i realised i started to like her too much and started to get jealous of her goin out and having sex with other guys (id had children so getting none at home). Why did i do it? Loneliness, midlife crisis, self esteem plus Im a man and the sex was great. Why did she do it? I think she liked the excitement and it was the attention from men and her friends she craved. From our texting she was promiscuous and secretly had sex with guys in their mid 20s when she was like 15/16 who were friends with her older sisters. She also had father issues which i learned from her texting. As i say its over now and to be honest i dont regret cheating. I did it because mainly i was lonely and felt left out at home. Im working on my home life and i realise i need to be there for my children.
If i had my time again id never get married i honestly think its unnatural and that we are animals at the end of the day. Please dont talk about "love" either thats like the tooth fairy. And people fall in and out of "love" all the time at different times

Sorry to hear how unhappy your marriage has been but i dont agree. marriages can be very happy and rewarding and blaming it on having kids is silly. it takes effort to keep the fire burning and if you let that slide of course the marriage will suffer as a result.

Corvo

syndeyfife wrote: »

dark crystal wrote: »

Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.

Jeez, I have no self esteem issues....no daddy issues, no issues.

I wish people would stop trying to make excuses for the crappy things i do, because I dont!! Sometimes in life, people are just sh*tty. I must be one of those people.

It would be hilarious if you eventually got married, decided to surprise the husband one day and come home early and he is balls deep, grunting and sweating over your sister. Wonder how that would go down with you?

P.S...How many men have you slept.with?

irelandspurs

The wife's best friend is better

toexpress

I was going out with a guy for a bit some years back, I was young and impressionable when this happened but I eventually discovered that he was married with kids. I stopped seeing him at that point

mauzo

Griffin1988 wrote: »

syndeyfife wrote: »

dark crystal wrote: »

Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.

Jeez, I have no self esteem issues....no daddy issues, no issues.

I wish people would stop trying to make excuses for the crappy things i do, because I dont!! Sometimes in life, people are just sh*tty. I must be one of those people.

It would be hilarious if you eventually got married, decided to surprise the husband one day and come home early and he is balls deep, grunting and sweating over your sister. Wonder how that would go down with you?

I'd be in bigger shock when I realised I had a sister!!!!!

hattoncracker

About half a dozen men have come on here and admitted they've had affairs, and the only person You all seem to attack is the woman who admits it..

I've slept with a guy who had a partner, I was single, why not? He knew what he was doing in bed, and I hadn't actually done anything morally wrong, he did.

When he started to pretend it was a relationship and and not just a casual thing I ended it.

dodzy

hattoncracker wrote: »

About half a dozen men have come on her.....

not simultaneously I hope ?

Shenshen

I have... not because the other person was married, just because I fancied him really.
I can't say I felt guilty, at the end of the day it was his decision, he had made the first moves.

I'm married myself, but neither my partner nor I are the jealous type, we both find it a turn on to hear about what the other one gets up to occasionally

mauzo

Shenshen wrote: »

I have... not because the other person was married, just because I fancied him really.
I can't say I felt guilty, at the end of the day it was his decision, he had made the first moves.

I'm married myself, but neither my partner nor I are the jealous type, we both find it a turn on to hear about what the other one gets up to occasionally

RUn while you can....

Shenshen

syndeyfife wrote: »

RUn while you can....

What from?
Or should that be where to?

hattoncracker

dodzy wrote: »

hattoncracker wrote: »

About half a dozen men have come on her.....

not simultaneously I hope ?

Lol..

Fixed it!!

HalloweenJack

Does divorced count?

Scanlas The 2nd

Shenshen wrote: »

syndeyfife wrote: »

RUn while you can....

What from?
Or should that be where to?

The judgmental type, prinz will be giving you a lecture any minute now. He'll be enquiring about your self esteem too.

strobe

syndeyfife wrote: »

hondasam wrote: »

Until you become the wifey.

Keep them happy in the bedroom and they wont cheat.....they wont get any better elsewhere

That's extremely naive of you. People don't just cheat because the sex is unsatisfactory with their partner and just because someone is cheating with you certainly does not mean you are necessarily better in bed than their partner.

Wibbs

hattoncracker wrote: »

About half a dozen men have come on here and admitted they've had affairs, and the only person You all seem to attack is the woman who admits it..

Yea noticed that one myself H. Must... resist hitting the rolleyes smiley.

Haven't myself, though have had affairs with women with boyfriends alright. Personally I'd draw the line at married.

Shenshen

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

The judgmental type, prinz will be giving you a lecture any minute now. He'll be enquiring about your self esteem too.

Ah well... it's the internet. Where would be the fun of it without your stuck-up, judgmental armchair psychologists?

mauzo

strobe wrote: »

syndeyfife wrote: »

hondasam wrote: »

Until you become the wifey.

Keep them happy in the bedroom and they wont cheat.....they wont get any better elsewhere

That's extremely naive of you. People don't just cheat because the sex is unsatisfactory with their partner and just because someone is cheating with you certainly does not mean you are necessarily better in bed than their partner.

It was tongue in cheek....

no

no interest

strobe

syndeyfife wrote: »

It was tongue in cheek....

Ah, fair enough.

Cork Lass

I make love to a married man on a regular basis. It's great being married:D

Pompey Magnus

Nah, I am unfortunately burdened with an ability to consider the feelings of other people apart from myself.

Scanlas The 2nd

Pompey Magnus wrote: »

Nah, I am unfortunately burdened with an ability to consider the feelings of other people apart from myself.

You can get counselling for that.

flutterflye

Oh my god!
The amount of people who admit to doing this on this thread alone is quite scary.
It makes me quite sad

kfallon

Yes I have had sex with a married woman.....however her and her husband were seperated at the time (still are btw) so technically she was still married but available!

smash

I hate when people say 'made love'...

Bad Panda

syndeyfife wrote: »

Keep them happy in the bedroom and they wont cheat.....they wont get any better elsewhere

It's not about not having good sex...ya know the saying 'show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you the guy tired of banging her'...

It's more about variety.

nevertell

I'm married and recently kissed someone else, nothing else happend but I feel like absolute ****. I can't sleep for the guilt and I'm really ashamed of myself. I had drink on me and thats no excuse, I made vows and a promise and I'm gutted that I broke it. I couldn't even post under my real username as I'd be afraid someone would recognise me. I have considered telling my husband but I don't think I could live with the consequence that he wouldn't forgive me and how much it would hurt him. To think I could risk my relationship with him for a cheap thrill of feeling attractive and sexy and that, I'm a f**king idiot.
So I'm just going to try drink less, never get in a position like that again and make it up to him. I know I could never sleep with someone else ever after how bad I feel now.

stovelid

nevertell wrote: »

So I'm just going to try drink less, never get in a position like that again

I thought you only kissed him?

smash

nevertell wrote: »

I couldn't even post under my real username as I'd be afraid someone would recognise me.

Cross checks IP address...

well I never would have guessed :eek:

Nothingbetter2d

nevertell wrote: »

I'm married and recently kissed someone else, nothing else happend but I feel like absolute ****. I can't sleep for the guilt and I'm really ashamed of myself. I had drink on me and thats no excuse, I made vows and a promise and I'm gutted that I broke it. I couldn't even post under my real username as I'd be afraid someone would recognise me. I have considered telling my husband but I don't think I could live with the consequence that he wouldn't forgive me and how much it would hurt him. To think I could risk my relationship with him for a cheap thrill of feeling attractive and sexy and that, I'm a f**king idiot.
So I'm just going to try drink less, never get in a position like that again and make it up to him. I know I could never sleep with someone else ever after how bad I feel now.

if you love your partner don't tell him... you'll destroy your partner's trust in you. your relationship will go down hill from there.... not worth losing over a kiss.

nevertell

smash wrote: »

Cross checks IP address...

well I never would have guessed :eek:

As Jim Diamond would say I should have known better than to post something like this in AH!

ps just as well my ip comes from a NAT

nevertell

stovelid wrote: »

I thought you only kissed him?

The position where I could end up snogging some geezer.

Nothingbetter2d

smash wrote: »

Cross checks IP address...

well I never would have guessed :eek:

is she your wife smash?

nevertell

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

if you love your partner don't tell him... you'll destroy your partner's trust in you. your relationship will go down hill from there.... not worth losing over a kiss.

Thanks for that

Dravokivich

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

tour de boards event on lads..... get your cycling shorts on

Don't you mean off?

nevertell

Anyway sorry dont want to derail thread, back to hot sex topic with other peoples husbands/wives with you all.

Nothingbetter2d

Dravokivich wrote: »

Don't you mean off?

not if your a bloke Nothingbetter2d dont swing the way thats gay :P

now ladies if ye want to take your cycling shorts off i have no objections

sbsquarepants

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I haven't to the best of of my knowledge, but I'd say it would be quite exciting banging another man's wife for example.

If you have, did you enjoy it and did you or the cheating spouse feel any guilt or remorse. Or was it a case of who cares you only live once?

I've done it, didn't feel any remorse. If a woman gets married she promises to stay away from other men, all the worlds men don't promise to stay away from her. She was the one doing the cheating, not me!

Now that i'm a bit older and wiser, i see it slightly differently. I still wouldn't feel any remorse, but i also wouldn't bother sleeping with a woman who would be willing to casually cheat on their husband. I don't like cheaters.

Hardonraging

syndeyfife wrote: »

Keep them happy in the bedroom and they wont cheat.....they wont get any better elsewhere

I generally agree with this statement .. however ! it's not the sole reason people cheat . .but it is a rather large contributing factor ..

Nothingbetter2d

Hardonraging wrote: »

I generally agree with this statement .. however ! it's not the sole reason people cheat . .but it is a rather large contributing factor ..

most people cheat when they are drunk.... damned booze

pickarooney

nevertell wrote: »

As Jim Diamond would say I should have known better than to post something like this in AH!

ps just as well my ip comes from a NAT

Outing yourself as a girl who understands networks - way to keep anonymous :pac:

Nothingbetter2d

pickarooney wrote: »

Outing yourself as a girl who understands networks - way to keep anonymous :pac:

that narrows it down to a select few hehe

Hardonraging

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

most people cheat when they are drunk.... damned booze

Well i was making more of an "underlying issue" point shall we say as opposed to a contributing factor one..

But yes a few pints of sauce and the ould inhibitions go out the window and she's on her knee's scrubbing the floor before you can say " Bang and the dirt is gone"

sbsquarepants

Hardonraging wrote: »

I generally agree with this statement .. however ! it's not the sole reason people cheat . .but it is a rather large contributing factor ..

Hardonraging wrote: »

Well i was making more of an "underlying issue" point shall we say as opposed to a contributing factor one..

But yes a few pints of sauce and the ould inhibitions go out the window and she's on her knee's scrubbing the floor before you can say " Bang and the dirt is gone"

Hardonraging discussing the reasons why people cheat?
Eh, because of the raging hard on perhaps??:D

Hardonraging

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Hardonraging discussing the reasons why people cheat?
Eh, because of the raging hard on perhaps??:D

Obvious humour is obvious ?? but i'll give you a 4 out of 10 for effort ok