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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    Eton is a private school for the elite. Uncapped fees mean that Oxbridge can charge what they please thus excluding all but the wealthiest applicants generally speaking. The term "boys club" refers to the network that wealthy young men build attending these places. David Cameron is a prime example.

    Something that equally applies to exclusive girls schools and their behaviour thereafter in life.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Piliger wrote: »
    Beautifully put.

    But not quite true though .


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    Piliger wrote: »
    Something that equally applies to exclusive girls schools and their behaviour thereafter in life.

    Not that I'm aware.

    It's well known that, in the UK at the very least, most prime ministers, CEOs, journalists and the like attend private schools and universities such as Oxbridge, Imperial College London, etc... This enables them to make the connections they need to gain traction in their respective fields.
    marienbad wrote: »
    But not quite true though .

    Care to elaborate?

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Not that I'm aware.

    It's well known that, in the UK at the very least, most prime ministers, CEOs, journalists and the like attend private schools and universities such as Oxbridge, Imperial College London, etc... This enables them to make the connections they need to gain traction in their respective fields.



    Care to elaborate?

    If you need me to elaborate that 'the west' for want of a better expression was a massive patriarchy for thousands of years then I really can't help you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    marienbad wrote: »
    If you need me to elaborate that 'the west' for want of a better expression was a massive patriarchy for thousands of years then I really can't help you.

    Oooo, another vapid canard. What is "the West". Please do tell. Where is the west, Who is the west and where do I contact its leader?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    marienbad wrote: »
    But not quite true though .

    Exquisitely true actually.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    Not that I'm aware.
    Well we are hardly responsible for that.
    It's well known that, in the UK at the very least, most prime ministers, CEOs, journalists and the like attend private schools and universities such as Oxbridge, Imperial College London, etc... This enables them to make the connections they need to gain traction in their respective fields.

    The fact is that women do not seek high office, either in public life or commercial life in the same way and in the same numbers as men. They make different life decisions, have different priorities, different dreams and different self images.

    This is the insult to how real women want to live their lives that extreme feminism peddles to society nowadays.

    Where women do chose to work and socialise, they network and give advantages to those from their own schools and clubs and backgrounds just as much as men and it is a joke to think that they do not. Anyone who has worked in business sees it on a regular basis and I myself have encountered it being discussed by women in prominent middle management positions in marketing, in publishing and in financial services.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    Piliger wrote: »
    Well we are hardly responsible for that.

    You would think.
    Piliger wrote: »
    The fact is that women do not seek high office, either in public life or commercial life in the same way and in the same numbers as men. They make different life decisions, have different priorities, different dreams and different self images.

    I don't understand your point here. Are you saying that women don't aim to be successful?
    Piliger wrote: »
    Where women do chose to work and socialise, they network and give advantages to those from their own schools and clubs and backgrounds just as much as men and it is a joke to think that they do not. Anyone who has worked in business sees it on a regular basis and I myself have encountered it being discussed by women in prominent middle management positions in marketing, in publishing and in financial services.

    I was specifically talking about the upper echelons of the financial sector, the media and politics. My point is that the vast majority of those who have succeeded in those areas have had a leg up thanks to people they met due to their background.
    I've seen a whole nursing department staffed entirely by nepotism and cronyism so I know fpr a fact that it does happen in other sectors.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,408 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Mod note - marienbad, if you're not prepared to back up your statements they will be treated as trolling.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Pawwed Rig wrote: »
    Mod note - marienbad, if you're not prepared to back up your statements they will be treated as trolling.

    Bit surprised that I need to - but here goes .

    Patriarchy - here is one definition .

    a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.

    Female suffrage 1918- 1924 approx.
    First woman US president - never
    First woman Taoiseach - never
    First Woman Prime minister in the World 1960
    First Woman CEO IBM 2011
    First Women Secretary General United Nations -Never.

    This despite women being the majority of the population most if not all of the time .

    And this is before we even go into inheritance rights marriage rights property rights etc. This is just basic history 101 and I am surprised we are even going into it .

    Look I agree that aspects of feminist movement have lost their way in recent decades and there is a massive problem in this country with fathers rights ,male suicide etc but to pretend that their wasn't an imbalance heretofore is as perverse as the US Supreme Court saying racism is no longer a problem in the USA.

    I will leave it at that as I had no intention of derailing the thread


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    marienbad wrote: »
    Bit surprised that I need to - but here goes .

    Patriarchy - here is one definition .

    a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.

    Female suffrage 1918- 1924 approx.

    The average man didn't have the vote long before that if my info is correct.
    marienbad wrote: »
    This despite women being the majority of the population most if not all of the time.

    Source? I doubt many would argue that women haven't suffered more than men throughout history but most men, ie the lower classes didn't fare all that much better.
    marienbad wrote: »
    And this is before we even go into inheritance rights marriage rights property rights etc. This is just basic history 101 and I am surprised we are even going into it .

    Source? I'd hardly call it basic history 101.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    The average man didn't have the vote long before that if my info is correct.



    Source? I doubt many would argue that women haven't suffered more than men throughout history but most men, ie the lower classes didn't fare all that much better.



    Source? I'd hardly call it basic history 101.

    Your info is correct - the average man (or catholic until 1829) didn't have the vote either- but the point is he could achieve that 'honour' women never could until the 20th century .


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 194 ✭✭GalwayGuitar


    marienbad wrote: »
    Your info is correct - the average man (or catholic until 1829) didn't have the vote either- but the point is he could achieve that 'honour' women never could until the 20th century .

    Well hey now you've got equal rights AND crazy rape laws, completely unfair divorce and custody laws, gender quotas, and an army of rabid men-hating femanazsi. So you can really stick it to the evil patriarchy thats oppressed you for so long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,966 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    ... femanazsi.
    Oh oh.
    You uttered the unmentionable. This doesn't bode well.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 194 ✭✭GalwayGuitar


    Zulu wrote: »
    Oh oh.
    You uttered the unmentionable. This doesn't bode well.

    Made a balls of the spelling too...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    This issue of history is only raised when feminists find themselves void of any real justification of the female privileges that modern feminism has established and is fighting to increase.

    The only justifiable relevance of history is to talk about how things 'used' to be.

    The only possible other reason is that feminism is making the case that because men treated women unfairly in the past, then that justifies men being badly treated now.

    And if that is their argument then it would be nice if they showed a bit of honesty and truthfulness and admitted it instead of lying about the real motives.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,174 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Zulu wrote: »
    Oh oh.
    You uttered the unmentionable. This doesn't bode well.
    Yep, because it's incredibly lazy a tag and not up to the standard we aim for in this forum, so GalwayGuitar, no more of "feminazi" stuff, thanks. Make the better argument.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Piliger wrote: »
    This issue of history is only raised when feminists find themselves void of any real justification of the female privileges that modern feminism has established and is fighting to increase.

    The only justifiable relevance of history is to talk about how things 'used' to be.

    The only possible other reason is that feminism is making the case that because men treated women unfairly in the past, then that justifies men being badly treated now.

    And if that is their argument then it would be nice if they showed a bit of honesty and truthfulness and admitted it instead of lying about the real motives.

    You might think it is all just 'used to be'' , but here is an interesting article listing 10 things women could not do in the 1970's-

    http://www.advertiser.ie/galway/article/57301/ten-things-an-irish-woman-could-not-do-in-1970-and-be-prepared-to-cringe

    You might think that is a long time ago but there is a good 25% of the population still alive that lived through those years . And not one single change was given without immense struggle .

    So lose the chip and lets talk about equality for all without denying the past.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    marienbad wrote: »
    You might think it is all just 'used to be'' , but here is an interesting article listing 10 things women could not do in the 1970's-

    http://www.advertiser.ie/galway/article/57301/ten-things-an-irish-woman-could-not-do-in-1970-and-be-prepared-to-cringe

    You might think that is a long time ago but there is a good 25% of the population still alive that lived through those years . And not one single change was given without immense struggle .

    So lose the chip and lets talk about equality for all without denying the past.

    Eight things that women couldn't do in the 1970s, one that neither sex could do (contraception), and one which is of dubious note as being a thing against "women" (pubs refusing right to admission). Some 40 years ago.

    So the next question is; and how is any of what has long since been overcome relevant to today's narrative? Would you like to continue navel gazing with your talk of the 70s, the ever-mythical boggyman "patriarchy" of one thousand years (apparently), and that rallying cry of socialists everywhere when you've got no credible argument to make; "the west". Ah, sure while we're at it we'll throw in mention of the illuminati for giggles.

    Or instead of navel gazing, would you like to talk about equality of opportunity and equality of responsibilities between men & women?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    marienbad wrote: »
    You might think it is all just 'used to be'' , but here is an interesting article listing 10 things women could not do in the 1970's-

    So let's see ... 1970's is not the past .... right. So up is down and left is right and right it wrong. That sounds exactly like the kind of feminist nonsense that us men are having to fight nowadays.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,923 ✭✭✭Playboy


    Loath as I am to post something from the Daily Mail I have to make an exception for this story. Truly frightening the situations men can find themselves at the whim of a woman.

    Father is banned from seeing his children and entering his own home or street for ten years after wife launched 'Kafkaesque' legal proceedings against him in secret

    • Father banned from seeing his children and entering home for ten years
    • Order issued after wife complained she was a victim of domestic assault
    • Man, named only as Mr R, had no prior notice of the non-molestation order
    • Slapped with order arriving home from work after wife requested it secretly
    • Judge said Mr R, who cannot be identified, could have been forgiven for feeling like Josef K - the protagonist in Franz Kafka's 1925 novel The Trial


    Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2874882/Father-banned-seeing-children-entering-home-street-ten-years-wife-launched-Kafkaesque-legal-proceedings-against-secret.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    The Daily Mail is the only media that is giving any coverage to the appalling injustice being meted out to men.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,895 ✭✭✭iptba


    Letter in the Irish Times, Tuesday, Dec 16

    http://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/letters/gender-bias-and-science-1.2038586
    Sir, – Prof Nancy Hopkins (December 10th) writes about “unconscious gender bias” at the top in science. I would argue that by far the most notorious example of gender bias in Irish universities is the existence of a number of women’s and gender studies centres, several of which have existed for more than 20 years and which are overwhelmingly staffed by women. According to the US writer Daphne Patai, they are more concerned with political activism than with scholarship and the pursuit of knowledge. They share a common ideology, central to which is the notion that gender is socially constructed and that biology has little or nothing to do with gender; openness to any challenge to this ideology or to criticism appears to be at a minimum. This is all the more extraordinary since science has refuted its central tenet and has shown biology plays an undoubted and perhaps a major role in gender construction.

    An example of how the pretensions of gender studies can be exposed occurred in 2012 when the NIKK Nordic Gender Institute was closed. The decision was made after Norwegian state television had broadcast a documentary in which the unscientific character of the NIKK and its research was exposed. The whole enterprise was based on ideology with no basis in evidence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,907 ✭✭✭LostinBlanch


    Playboy wrote: »
    Loath as I am to post something from the Daily Mail I have to make an exception for this story. Truly frightening the situations men can find themselves at the whim of a woman.

    Father is banned from seeing his children and entering his own home or street for ten years after wife launched 'Kafkaesque' legal proceedings against him in secret

    • Father banned from seeing his children and entering home for ten years
    • Order issued after wife complained she was a victim of domestic assault
    • Man, named only as Mr R, had no prior notice of the non-molestation order
    • Slapped with order arriving home from work after wife requested it secretly
    • Judge said Mr R, who cannot be identified, could have been forgiven for feeling like Josef K - the protagonist in Franz Kafka's 1925 novel The Trial


    Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2874882/Father-banned-seeing-children-entering-home-street-ten-years-wife-launched-Kafkaesque-legal-proceedings-against-secret.html

    I know, I read that, Kafkaesque is right. At least the court of appeal threw it out, but what about the lawyers and courts that brought this about? Is there any sanction for them?

    Of course not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,981 ✭✭✭KomradeBishop


    iptba wrote: »
    Letter in the Irish Times, Tuesday, Dec 16
    Sir, – Prof Nancy Hopkins (December 10th) writes about “unconscious gender bias” at the top in science. I would argue that by far the most notorious example of gender bias in Irish universities is the existence of a number of women’s and gender studies centres, several of which have existed for more than 20 years and which are overwhelmingly staffed by women. According to the US writer Daphne Patai, they are more concerned with political activism than with scholarship and the pursuit of knowledge. They share a common ideology, central to which is the notion that gender is socially constructed and that biology has little or nothing to do with gender; openness to any challenge to this ideology or to criticism appears to be at a minimum. This is all the more extraordinary since science has refuted its central tenet and has shown biology plays an undoubted and perhaps a major role in gender construction.

    An example of how the pretensions of gender studies can be exposed occurred in 2012 when the NIKK Nordic Gender Institute was closed. The decision was made after Norwegian state television had broadcast a documentary in which the unscientific character of the NIKK and its research was exposed. The whole enterprise was based on ideology with no basis in evidence.
    http://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/letters/gender-bias-and-science-1.2038586
    That's a bit of a random thing to post - it's also heavily inaccurate; there is no indication that the institute was closed due to the documentary (there's also a lot of criticism around, of the accuracy of the documentary - with many people having the opinion that it had a predefined political slant to it).

    Daphne Patai is also a member of the right-wing think-tank 'Foundation for Individual Rights in Education', which is (yet another) right-wing think tank, promoting anti-feminist views (including opposing policies aimed at tackling sexual harassment in US colleges) - a think-tank also staffed by Christina Hoff Sommers, who is associated with other right-wing think tanks like the American Enterprise Institute, who promote things such as global warming denial (among many other things).

    It's ironic that Daphne is accusing them, of being "more concerned with political activism than with scholarship and the pursuit of knowledge" or that "openness to any challenge to this ideology or to criticism appears to be at a minimum", when she associates with these politically-motivated, ideological propaganda institutes.

    The debate on 'nature vs nurture', where it comes to gender, is also far from settled - and there's not any evidence that gender studies courses in general, deny the part that biology plays (there may be debate about how much it has to play, but there isn't any obvious indication, that all these courses deny its role altogether).

    Apart from that, it just comes across as whataboutery as well "lets ignore gender bias at the top of many fields of science, because one non-science course (that has been spawned from the feminist movement), has a lot of women participating in it".


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Piliger wrote: »
    So let's see ... 1970's is not the past .... right. So up is down and left is right and right it wrong. That sounds exactly like the kind of feminist nonsense that us men are having to fight nowadays.

    By that definition everything is the past , including what happened last week . If you think events of the 70's are irrelevant to today then there is little point having a discussion with you.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    marienbad wrote: »
    By that definition everything is the past , including what happened last week . If you think events of the 70's are irrelevant to today then there is little point having a discussion with you.

    I don't understand your point. Last week is as remote as the 1970s?

    There have been huge advances in women's rights since the 1970s. In any case, why has this come up in the Men's Rights thread?

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    marienbad wrote: »
    By that definition everything is the past , including what happened last week . If you think events of the 70's are irrelevant to today then there is little point having a discussion with you.

    So in short, you've got nothing to say and don't want to admit to it instead trying to pawn your lack of argument off on others.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,966 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    marienbad wrote: »
    By that definition everything is the past , including what happened last week . If you think events of the 70's are irrelevant to today then there is little point having a discussion with you.
    Well that's a little disingenuous. To be fair, the 70's are 40 years ago. How many generations is that?

    (I never know how the calculate generations, what with the human lifespan ever increasing)

    Salient point: There is a massive leap between "last week" and 40 years, and you know it.


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    Lemming wrote: »
    So in short, you've got nothing to say and no answer to the question of why you think what was the status quo in the 1970s is relevant to the status quo as it exists in teh second decade of the 21st century.

    Not being able to back points up tends to go hand-in-hand with the propensity to use the misnomer "patriarchy" in my experience.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    I don't understand your point. Last week is as remote as the 1970s?

    There have been huge advances in women's rights since the 1970s. In any case, why has this come up in the Men's Rights thread?



    You and other seem to be implying that the 1970's were as remote at the distant past . They are not and their affects are still working through the system today .You accept that there have been huge advances in womans rights since then - does that mean you accept we are emerging from a 'patriarchal society' - which is the whole point of this tangential discussion.

    It came up because of post 1799 ( I think)


  • Registered Users Posts: 252 ✭✭Seriously?


    marienbad wrote: »
    It came up because of post 1799 ( I think)

    Post 1799
    Piliger wrote: »
    Beautifully put.


    Its post 1815
    Piliger wrote: »
    This issue of history is only raised when feminists find themselves void of any real justification of the female privileges that modern feminism has established and is fighting to increase.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,427 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    marienbad wrote: »
    You and other seem to be implying that the 1970's were as remote at the distant past . They are not and their affects are still working through the system today .You accept that there have been huge advances in womans rights since then - does that mean you accept we are emerging from a 'patriarchal society' - which is the whole point of this tangential discussion.

    It came up because of post 1799 ( I think)

    The problem with patriarchy is that children are primarily raised by women, from mothers to teachers childrens earliest interections are with women so at what point does patriarchy come into effect.

    You also need to examine the responsibilities that came with rights in the past.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,461 ✭✭✭tritium



    Daphne Patai is also a member of the right-wing think-tank 'Foundation for Individual Rights in Education', which is (yet another) right-wing think tank, promoting anti-feminist views (including opposing policies aimed at tackling sexual harassment in US colleges) - a think-tank also staffed by Christina Hoff Sommers, who is associated with other right-wing think tanks like the American Enterprise Institute, who promote things such as global warming denial (among many other things).

    It's ironic that Daphne is accusing them, of being "more concerned with political activism than with scholarship and the pursuit of knowledge" or that "openness to any challenge to this ideology or to criticism appears to be at a minimum", when she associates with these politically-motivated, ideological propaganda institutes.
    ".
    I'm not sure why their membership of a right wing think tank should diminish their opinion. They're right wing, many feminists are left wing. Its inevitable that they'll disagree, big deal. Neither have a monopoly on common sense.

    Anti feminist views? What exactly is that? It seems any criticism of feminism could fall under that umbrella. Given that I'm told feminism isn't a hive mind surely the term anti feminist views is contradictory no? What universally agreed feminist position do they disagree with? The reason I point this out is that Christina Hoff Sommers, to whom you've made a tenuous guilt by association link here, is also an established feminist thinker, just one who happens to sit to the right of the ideological divide.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Seriously? wrote: »
    Post 1799



    Its post 1815

    It was post 1793 I hand in mind from Lemming and the dismissal of 'patriarchy'


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    marienbad wrote: »
    You and other seem to be implying that the 1970's were as remote at the distant past . They are not and their affects are still working through the system today .

    What are these effects and how are they still working through the system today?
    You accept that there have been huge advances in womans rights since then - does that mean you accept we are emerging from a 'patriarchal society' - which is the whole point of this tangential discussion.

    An increase in rights != patriarchical society in existence.

    A small elite circle of people - both men & women - in power concerned with holding onto said power & influence has nothing to do with any notion of 'patriarchy'. It's about holding onto power. Nothing that comes from it is benevolent, it's by accident. And the fact that it is men who still do the dangerous and dirty jobs, it is men who are most likely do die, die violently, or kill themselves due to lack of mental support says something for "patriarchy". It's not worth the supposed paper it was written on by feminists.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    marienbad wrote: »
    It was post 1793 I hand in mind from Lemming and the dismissal of 'patriarchy'

    And no, it was you that brought up one thousand years. And just to refresh your memory, here's the offending quote:
    marienbad wrote: »
    If you need me to elaborate that 'the west' for want of a better expression was a massive patriarchy for thousands of years then I really can't help you.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Lemming wrote: »
    And no, it was you that brought up one thousand years. And just to refresh your memory, here's the offending quote:

    this is just going round in circles- it was you that brought the whole patriarchy buzz word into it and it kicked off from there , This is just descending into he said I said you said but it is not really revevant to the discussion.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,408 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Mod note - Address the points raised rather than each other


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    marienbad wrote: »
    You and other seem to be implying that the 1970's were as remote at the distant past . They are not and their affects are still working through the system today .You accept that there have been huge advances in womans rights since then - does that mean you accept we are emerging from a 'patriarchal society' - which is the whole point of this tangential discussion.

    It came up because of post 1799 ( I think)

    Listing the things that made life worse for women in the past is not proof that the "patriacrchy" was the cause of this treatment. No one is refuting womens lives have improved, they are refuting your assumption that the cause was patriarchy. Mens lives have also improved from past generations. Since inferior treatment is caused by the patriarchy do you believe the patriarchy was responsibile for the inferior treatment men received in the past? If so then you are proposing the patriarchy was men maintaining control of society so they can make the lives of men worse which is not the definition of patriarchy.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,148 ✭✭✭✭Lemming


    Pawwed Rig wrote: »
    Mod note - Address the points raised rather than each other

    She ain't answered any questions I've put to her.
    marienbad wrote: »
    this is just going round in circles- it was you that brought the whole patriarchy buzz word into it and it kicked off from there , This is just descending into he said I said you said but it is not really revevant to the discussion.

    And no, it wasn't me that mentioned patriarchy actually. Someone else did. I merely pointed out that the word had about as much meaning as a banal pop-song's lyrics.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Lemming wrote: »
    What are these effects and how are they still working through the system today?



    An increase in rights != patriarchical society in existence.

    A small elite circle of people - both men & women - in power concerned with holding onto said power & influence has nothing to do with any notion of 'patriarchy'. It's about holding onto power. Nothing that comes from it is benevolent, it's by accident. And the fact that it is men who still do the dangerous and dirty jobs, it is men who are most likely do die, die violently, or kill themselves due to lack of mental support says something for "patriarchy". It's not worth the supposed paper it was written on by feminists.

    What are those effects and how are they still working their way through society you ask ?

    Equal pay act 1974 - womens still paid 13% less in 2013

    Marriage bar removed 1973- women still only 25% of senior grades in 2013

    Number of women in the Dail 25

    Limited sale of contraceptives 1979 - limited access to abortion 2014

    There are loads more but that should be enough for now.

    It is like the Ashbourne act in 1885 and the other great land reforms in Ireland. They may have been passed in the 1880's but their effects were still working their way through the system 50 years later. I don't know why we are even discussing these issues .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,427 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    marienbad wrote: »
    What are those effects and how are they still working their way through society you ask ?

    Equal pay act 1974 - womens still paid 13% less in 2013

    Marriage bar removed 1973- women still only 25% of senior grades in 2013

    Number of women in the Dail 25

    Limited sale of contraceptives 1979 - limited access to abortion 2014

    There are loads more but that should be enough for now.

    It is like the Ashbourne act in 1885 and the other great land reforms in Ireland. They may have been passed in the 1880's but their effects were still working their way through the system 50 years later. I don't know why we are even discussing these issues .

    Wasnt the pay gap debunked as it ignores hours worked?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,388 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    marienbad wrote: »
    What are those effects and how are they still working their way through society you ask ?

    Equal pay act 1974 - womens still paid 13% less in 2013

    Marriage bar removed 1973- women still only 25% of senior grades in 2013

    Number of women in the Dail 25 .

    I would suggest you read up on 'correlation versus causation' and apply it to the issue of gender pay in the workforce.

    Basically what your argument says is this;
      Overall, women's salaries are lower than mens.
    • Therefore there is a gender pay imbalance which must be addressed

    When in actual fact, it's more like this;
      Overall, women's salaries as lower than men. This can be caused by factors such as;
    • Choice of career (what kind of roles do women chose to go into when compared to men.)
    • Choice of maternity (if X person decides to go on maternity, then her peers will pass her out and climb at a higher rate)
    • Life goal - how do life goals between each gender affect their desire to climb the corporate ladder?
    • Levels of risk - which gender is willing to take on a larger risk (health, financial etc)to achieve more pay?

    Obviously there are billions of people on the planet so it's utterly futile to try and fit them all into the above buckets. However, what I'm trying to point out is the absolute depth of questions which need to be looked at when analyzing something like this.

    Simply stating that 'men earn more than women' ignores a multitude of factors which add to the causation. So much so that I wince whenever I see it brought up via 'gender quotas' and the like.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    Wasnt the pay gap debunked as it ignores hours worked?


    link please.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    marienbad wrote: »
    link please.

    You've not provided any links proving the existence of the paygap.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    Wasnt the pay gap debunked as it ignores hours worked?

    It ignores masses of FACTS.

    SkyNews Kay Burley is ranting on about it all this afternoon. Unfortunately no one has the balls to stand up and ask where all these women are that are being paid less than their equivalent male.

    Why ? Because the mostly don't even exist. The mythical 'pay gap' is a facet of statistics arising from women's choices and women having different priorities and interests in life.

    There is no pay gap.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    Piliger wrote: »
    There is no pay gap.

    I would have thought that most men wouldn't have jobs if women could be paid less.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭marienbad


    o1s1n wrote: »
    I would suggest you read up on 'correlation versus causation' and apply it to the issue of gender pay in the workforce.

    Basically what your argument says is this;
    • Overall, women's salaries are lower than mens.
    • Therefore there is a gender pay imbalance which must be addressed

    When in actual fact, it's more like this;
    • Overall, women's salaries as lower than men.
      This can be caused by factors such as;
    • Choice of career (what kind of roles do women chose to go into when compared to men.)
    • Choice of maternity (if X person decides to go on maternity, then her peers will pass her out and climb at a higher rate)
    • Life goal - how do life goals between each gender affect their desire to climb the corporate ladder?
    • Levels of risk - which gender is willing to take on a larger risk (health, financial etc)to achieve more pay?

    Obviously there are billions of people on the planet so it's utterly futile to try and fit them all into the above buckets. However, what I'm trying to point out is the absolute depth of questions which need to be looked at when analyzing something like this.

    Simply stating that 'men earn more than women' ignores a multitude of factors which add to the causation. So much so that I wince whenever I see it brought up via 'gender quotas' and the like.

    There are not my arguments , simply look it up on any reputable website .

    The gap is closing on wages , but on higher representation in the top jobs in the civil service , Dail , general business it is still along way to go.

    I was asked to point out how condition in the 70's are relevant today and I did so . Now you have a different set of questions !

    Does any deny that for most of this century women in Ireland were second class citizens ? The fact that things are improving enormously does not change that .

    Nor does it in any way minimise the terrible problems facing men today ( as I have already said) in family law, divorce , suicide etc . Why is it so adversarial in here ?

    It is interesting though that it took a woman in the job a wet week to state her intention to open up those courts to more public scrutiny , which is more than a succession of male ministers have signally failed to even comment on.

    With that I am out of here .


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 39,917 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    marienbad wrote: »
    There are not my arguments , simply look it up on any reputable website .

    Ie, one which agrees with you without any sort of data.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



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