shallow? most likely

ekans

really like this girl, only thing is she is carrying a few extra pounds. does this act as a deal breaker for many others? just to note i am trying to look past this myself

Dravokivich

If your problem is with looking past it, can't you just, close yer eyes?

RoboRat

what difference does it make, once you get married she will cut her hair and put on a few pounds anyhow...

runs before the lynching mob gets in :pac:

danniemcq

just be sure you put it in her and not the fat folds

frag420

So what if she is carrying a few extra pounds. Just because she is richer than you, it shouldnt matter.

Get her to spend those few extra pounds on a few cream buns to fatten her up. Then she will be reliant on you as no other guy will want her.

whistlingtitan

Shallow … yes

Hardonraging

Just brown bag her and move on brah...

biko

Shallow is basing your own opinion on the opinions of others.

Man up and ask her out.

grindle

danniemcq wrote: »

just be sure you put it in her and not the fat folds

Fück that - if the folds work, she can't get preggers.

Eathrin

If you like her, what externals think is irrelevant. Go for it OP.

LETHAL LADY

If you can get her to look past your superficiality then ye will make a great couple. Good luck OP.

NiallFH

How many is a few is the important question here imo

Duggy747

The extra few pounds bother you because you don't like it or because others would take the piss out of you?

Ask her out, whaddya got to lose?

Standard Toaster

One day when you're all old and alone, you will learn to see what a person is really like instead of what they look like, and find that character is far more important in the long run.

I can see why female Boardsies come here for love.....:pac:

Hardonraging

RVP 11 wrote: »

I can see why female Boardsies come here for love.....:pac:

Witty banter and men who know everything about DS9 ?

Hardonraging

Hardonraging wrote: »

Witty banter and men who know everything about DS9 ?

I was gonna say the amount of cocks, but ok.:D

chin_grin

OP, is your name 'Hal'?

Big Nasty

I would rather a bird with a bit of weight on her than a scrawn, especially if she's got big titties!

danniemcq

grindle wrote: »

Fück that - if the folds work, she can't get preggers.

True its not like women can have orgasms like us men.

grindle

danniemcq wrote: »

True its not like women can have orgasms like us men.

Eugh. He doesn't want it to last THAT long, she's a sperm whale.

Genuinely though, OP, get over yourself.
If you fancy her, but what other people think stops you, you're a sad prick.

Dravokivich

Hardonraging wrote: »

Witty banter and men who know everything about DS9 ?

Wait, that's a trick right?

DS9 was shíte.

Micky Dolenz

Tell her you'll be willing to take her out if she loses a bit of weight. She'll appreciate your honesty and it will give her that loving nudge she needs.

Post back here after.

Raven_Melody

ekans wrote: »

really like this girl,

No, you don't.

stargazer 68

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Tell her you'll be willing to take her out if she loses a bit of weight. She'll appreciate your honesty and it will give her that loving nudge she needs.

Post back here after.

If you are still able to see out of the good eye!

BigFatGiant

If ya can't lift her don't shift her. A rule to live by!

mauzo

How much is a few extra pounds?! Just interested to know....

In fairness my friends with a few extra pounds are nice and funny, the skinny ones are full of themselves and bitchy...

Go for it, the fat ones are always more grateful anyway....

OldNotWIse

Why dont you show her this thread and let her make an informed decision before she goes out with you?

Hardonraging

syndeyfife wrote: »

How much is a few extra pounds?! Just interested to know....

In fairness my friends with a few extra pounds are nice and funny, the skinny ones are full of themselves and bitchy...

Go for it, the fat ones are always more grateful anyway....

+1 Quality for sure

Cuddly is cuddly, however, if she cannot lift her leg, and have her asscheeks spread during the motion there maybe an issue ..

That being said everyone needs loving...

blacklilly

Don't do it. she'll probably get comfortable with you and put on more weight and then one day you'll wake up beside something that resembles a hippophant! (half hippo, half elephant)
or she could just remain at her current weight and make you the happiest man alive

Rabidlamb

In my varied experience you'll find the more self conscious lady far more obliging in the bedroom department

One word of concern, if she's a bit of a heifer & a frigid Brigid then abort, get out now man for the love of god

Hardonraging

blacklilly wrote: »

Don't do it. she'll probably get comfortable with you and put on more weight and then one day you'll wake up beside something that resembles a hippophant! (half hippo, half elephant)
or she could just remain at her current weight and make you the happiest man alive

The number of hippophant related death's keep rising each year.. wont somebody think of the childers !!!

Teyla Emmagan

RVP 11 wrote: »

I can see why female Boardsies come here for love.....:pac:

Seriously, the more I read AH the more of a wonder it is that I even have the self confidence to get out of the bed in the mornings!

Teyla Emmagan

Teyla Emmagan wrote: »

Seriously, the more I read AH the more of a wonder it is that I even have the self confidence to get out of the bed in the mornings!

AH = how men think the world is when the missus isn't watching.;)

stargazer 68

Just throwing this out there OP but - ever consider that she might think you are a troll and not want to touch you with a barge pole?? :eek: :rolleyes:

Feisar

ekans wrote: »

really like this girl, only thing is she is carrying a few extra pounds. does this act as a deal breaker for many others? just to note i am trying to look past this myself

If you're "trying to look past it" don't bother wasting her time and yours.

Diamond_Ninja

ekans wrote: »

really like this girl, only thing is she is carrying a few extra pounds. does this act as a deal breaker for many others? just to note i am trying to look past this myself

God bless you for trying to look over her 'few extra pounds', why aren't all men like you?!

Get. Over. Yourself..

Lux23

If I like someone, I find it really easy to overlook their faults from being overweight to severe mental illness. You can't really like some or be attracted to them if their belly puts you off?

Catxscotch

What size is this girl? I mean a few extra pounds could be half a stone, or 10 stone.

the_syco

ekans wrote: »

really like this girl, only thing is she is carrying a few extra pounds. does this act as a deal breaker for many others? just to note i am trying to look past this myself

How many extra pounds? Are we talking liking the odd bun, or "HARPOONS, MAN THEM!!" ?

Personally, I don't like the stick insects, and don't like the hipplephants; prefer something inbetween.

Fiona

Meh, you need more cushion for the pushin

dsmythy

If you're not attracted to her but like her then that's called friendship. You aint lovers if you can't stand the sight of each other.

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

If you can get her to look past your superficiality then ye will make a great couple. Good luck OP.

Standard Toaster wrote: »

One day when you're all old and alone, you will learn to see what a person is really like instead of what they look like, and find that character is far more important in the long run.

At least the OP is honest. I'd like to think that when I'm old and grey I'd still find my partner attractive. Standard Toaster can say he's/she's full of character. Wonderfully patronising

Kev_2012

If you like her then I fail to see a problem?

Carson10

not to be a c*unt, but if your dating a girl now and shes a bit of a snack box fan then shes not goin to get any better. Shes only going to get bigger. Unless your the same size? but if your thinner than her then she will stand out.

If she hasnt made an effort while she was single to loose weight in the hope of meeting someone then shes not going to care about her weight with you.

TwoShedsJackson

ekans wrote: »

just to note i am trying to look past this myself

What a trooper.

validusername1

Well if I was her, I know I wouldn't want to go out with someone who had to ask on an Internet forum if he should go out with me..
So you may be doing her a favour if you don't.
But if you do like her then it could be worth giving it a shot, but you can't like her that much if something like this is bothering you already.
Like a lot of people already asked though, just how many extra pounds is it?

Latchy

Nothing wrong with a few extra pounds and I would much prefer a healthy look with a bit of meat on her bones rather than pencil thin ie,Victoria Beckham ... anyday

Feeona

'Ekans' spelt backwards is snake


(I always look out for things like this ever since I was sucked in by Evian :mad:)

Madam_X

Rabidlamb wrote: »

In my varied experience you'll find the more self conscious lady far more obliging in the bedroom department

The two things contradict each other I'd have thought?

If he really likes her but she's too overweight to be physically attractive to him, well then it's straightforward. But I get the feeling he likes her in every way and she's not particularly big, however he needs approval from strangers.

Standard Toaster

dsmythy wrote: »

At least the OP is honest. I'd like to think that when I'm old and grey I'd still find my partner attractive. Standard Toaster can say he's/she's full of character. Wonderfully patronising

I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking.
And I plan on finding out what that is.

FloatingVoter

OP, unless you happen to be George Clooney or Brad Pitt, the odds of scoring a supermodel are nil.
The fact you're in AH looking for relationship advice makes me think you're not Noam Chomsky or Stephen Hawking.
Bill Gates or the Google twins would be playing with their eh....computers
Therefore you are neither handsome, brainy, or rich.


Go for it and forget this ever happened.