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Thinking of doing porn. Is it all that bad?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    How do you know ................... smash, the stunt dick:eek:.
    yep, just get paid and don't even have to appear in the credits!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,311 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Ok I might as well reply to this today. One think I won't be insulted on is my dick. I'm 5.3 inches mid shaft so obviously I'm thinker at the base. Over 5.5

    Sorry if my cock isn't up to porn standard so says the dick expert but yeah it is.

    I bet my girth is nearly your length. But yes it means I look longer than what I am which has amazed a lot of people.

    You really do get all types of topics in AH. :D All shapes and sizes welcome.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Bring back Feeky and his crush.. there was some entertainment value there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,005 ✭✭✭Creature


    1ZRed wrote: »
    One think I won't be insulted on is my dick.

    LMAO troll of the year, every year!



    Good on you, if there's anything I can't stand it's when someone insults a harmless innocent dick. You should challenge him to fisticuffs to restore the honour of the poor dick.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Ok I might as well reply to this today.

    Oddly you appear to have hit QUOTE on my post and then not replied to any of it. Was this intentional in some way? Or was some part of your post directed at me that I can not find?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Oddly you appear to have hit QUOTE on my post and then not replied to any of it. Was this intentional in some way? Or was some part of your post directed at me that I can not find?


    Perhaps it was an accidental quote, not unlike when one is having sex with a lady and accidentally it goes in the wrong way.....


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭TheStook


    This has legendary thread potential.
    OT- I thought the OP was a female based on his first post and I'm sure the second poster thought so too, go for it man and let us know how you get on. Personally there is no way I could do Gay Porn for money, Im not a homophobe, far from it, but it just seems wrong for money if you're not gay


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I haven't even told the guy I'm kind of with what my intensions are.



    Let the record show that the OP is in fact GAY, so the chances of reaching epic thread status has not been defunct


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    OP has caught quite a few on this expedition.
    http://farm1.staticflickr.com/24/42719871_aed8227898.jpg


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    This thread has got very deep since last night. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,171 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    This thread has got very deep since last night. :(

    How deep has it gone?? :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Oddly you appear to have hit QUOTE on my post and then not replied to any of it. Was this intentional in some way? Or was some part of your post directed at me that I can not find?

    Nope didn't mean to. My iPad seemed to pick it up somehow when I qouted the other guy.

    I'm well aware it takes about 3 hours to do a 20-30 minute scene. But all the porn I see and all the studios I'm applying to is just plain straight into it fucking. No script no bullsh!t. Tbh, if I had to act in a porn movie, I think that would effectively kill my hard on for the day out of pure embarrassment.

    Yeah I realise the slight irony of that but if I'm going to do this the less talking , the more fucking the better.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    How deep has it gone?? :pac:

    Balls deep Joe. Balls deep!

    This is a hilarious thread. OP is clearly a teenage troll with a tiny weenis.:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Balls deep Joe. Balls deep!

    This is a hilarious thread. OP is clearly a teenage troll with a tiny weenis.:eek:

    It seems my cock shots will be pulled into play to keep my credibility soon.

    If you want them, just ask. Enough people have seen it for me to be shy.


  • Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Nope didn't mean to. My iPad seemed to pick it up somehow when I qouted the other guy.

    I'm well aware it takes about 3 hours to do a 20-30 minute scene. But all the porn I see and all the studios I'm applying to is just plain straight into it fucking. No script no bullsh!t. Tbh, if I had to act in a porn movie, I think that would effectively kill my hard on for the day out of pure embarrassment.

    Yeah I realise the slight irony of that but if I'm going to do this the less talking , the more fucking the better.

    Coupla things, iPad but you can't afford free college courses? Second, unless you're going to self-produce I'd be surprised if you get to debut as the pitcher.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Coupla things, iPad but you can't afford free college courses? Second, unless you're going to self-produce I'd be surprised if you get to debut as the pitcher.

    Generally when you have a big dick, good body and a domineering attitude in bed they have you as the top not the catcher.

    And my iPad was a present for my 18th from my sister in Australia. Don't make such assumptions about me again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    How deep has it gone?? :pac:

    Knee deep. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Nope didn't mean to. My iPad seemed to pick it up somehow when I qouted the other guy.

    You have an iPad? Sell that instead of your arse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    1ZRed wrote: »
    It seems my cock shots will be pulled into play to keep my credibility soon. If you want them, just ask. Enough people have seen it for me to be shy.

    Did you get yours out in the middle of Stade de France?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Generally when you have a big dick, good body and a domineering attitude in bed they have you as the top not the catcher.

    They do porn in beds now? How tame...
    1ZRed wrote: »
    And my iPad was a present for my 18th from my sister in Australia. Don't make such assumptions about me again.

    Why? Whatcha gonna do about it?:cool:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Generally when you have a big dick, good body and a domineering attitude in bed they have you as the top not the catcher.

    And my iPad was a present for my 18th from my sister in Australia. Don't make such assumptions about me again.

    Is your sister not in college? I thought the other full thread was about your sisters going to college and you not?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Is your sister not in college? I thought the other full thread was about your sisters going to college and you not?

    I have more than two sisters. That's the one in Australia, the other two are in college.

    What relevancy does that have to me doing porn? I haven't even started and I seem to have a following already.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Generally when you have a big dick, good body and a domineering attitude in bed they have you as the top not the catcher.

    So you're the catcher?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,568 ✭✭✭candy-gal1


    Bit late in on this thread methinks, but fair play OP, i say do it, as long as your single/your oh doesnt mind it etc! Give it a go anyway, never know you could make it big in the industry :)
    Thats just me though :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    1ZRed wrote: »
    What relevancy does that have to me doing porn? I haven't even started and I seem to have a following already.

    Are you going to have a pornstar name? 1ZRed isn't catchy enough.

    May I suggest: Tiny McStuffin-Ladds? (double barrel....classy)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I have more than two sisters. That's the one in Australia, the other two are in college.

    What relevancy does that have to me doing porn? I haven't even started and I seem to have a following already.

    Eh, Are they hot?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I have more than two sisters. That's the one in Australia, the other two are in college.

    What relevancy does that have to me doing porn? I haven't even started and I seem to have a following already.

    How many brothers do you have?
    What's your favourite cereal?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    candy-gal1 wrote: »
    Bit late in on this thread methinks, but fair play OP, i say do it, as long as your single/your oh doesnt mind it etc! Give it a go anyway, never know you could make it big in the industry :)
    Thats just me though :D
    Would you be interested in calling over for a chat on the couch in my back room?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    Are you going to have a pornstar name? 1ZRed isn't catchy enough.

    May I suggest: Tiny McStuffin-Ladds? (double barrel....classy)

    Perhaps... notorious B.I.G. :cool:


  • Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Generally when you have a big dick, good body and a domineering attitude in bed they have you as the top not the catcher.

    And my iPad was a present for my 18th from my sister in Australia. Don't make such assumptions about me again.

    Sell it, that's a year's worth of Pot Noodles, that's your entire first year covered. Each time you get a present like that, sell it, it'll get you through college without a big moral dilemma.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    candy-gal1 wrote: »
    Bit late in on this thread methinks, but fair play OP, i say do it, as long as your single/your oh doesnt mind it etc! Give it a go anyway, never know you could make it big in the industry :)
    Thats just me though :D

    Well that's the thing my kind of boyfriend doesn't know anything about this. But he's in New Zealand atm.
    I suppose it couldn't hurt to send some pics off to the studios?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    ColeTrain wrote: »
    What's your favourite cereal?

    Up the coco pops


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 948 ✭✭✭Muir


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Well that's the thing my kind of boyfriend doesn't know anything about this. But he's in New Zealand atm.
    I suppose it couldn't hurt to send some pics off to the studios?

    He probably wont be your kind of boyfriend for long if her finds out. Also, it could affect future relationships if they find out too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,568 ✭✭✭candy-gal1


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Well that's the thing my kind of boyfriend doesn't know anything about this. But he's in New Zealand atm.
    I suppose it couldn't hurt to send some pics off to the studios?

    Well id say let him know etc, just to avoid any awkward him looking over certain sites ;) and maybe seeing you (who knows, could happen :D) and then all kinds of questions and crap could and probably would start imho.
    if you really really want to do it, just be honest with him, its easier in the long run! :)
    After that then sure, send them off, why not like, again thats just imho.

    As long as your being safe, looking after yourself and either single or your oh knows fully and doesnt mind at all then fair play.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Pedant


    I actually cannot believe you're going ahead with this 1ZRed. You will regret it. It may effect your employment prospects elsewhere in the future. Also, you're not going to be young forever and they don't like people over 30 (if not over 25) in gay porn so what are you going to do after that? Also, because of the fact that there's so much free porn out there, people don't make money off the videos they make, rather they use it as advertisement for escorting. If you want to make money in that industry then you're also going to have to be a rentboy. Do you really think it's worth it?
    1ZRed wrote: »
    I have no problem with barebacking, never did it in real life but I'm not going to start on film and I won't have to.

    Tbh , I don't know why so many of you are calling me naive and stupid

    You're okay with barebacking and you're wondering why people are calling you naive? FFS 1ZRed! What's with all these destructive thoughts and action. I've see you've been posting in the "LETS ALL LAUGH AT PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION" thread and on the LGBT forum. TBH, OP, I think you're going through a lot at the minute trying to come out, fear of rejection and with getting into college, etc... I know, it's very tough. I didn't like the attacks you were getting from people on your other thread about college the other night, don't pay any heed to them. I think you should try to get some counselling to help you through all of this. It won't hurt. Just stay away from the porn industry, please, for you own sake. You're not merely a sex object.

    Also, stay the fuck away from barebacking unless you want to get yourself in serious shit, especially if you're having sex with randomers from gay dating apps.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 865 ✭✭✭MajorMax


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I'd have to swallow some of my morals

    Son you'll be swallowing more than your Morals. :rolleyes:

    Take 10 cent worth of advice and grow up. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    MajorMax wrote: »
    1ZRed wrote: »
    I'd have to swallow some of my morals

    Son you'll be swallowing more than your Morals. :rolleyes:

    Take 10 cent worth of advice and grow up. :(

    You're about 11 hours late on that joke buddy


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Well OP, if you go through with it be sure not to lie about it if you ever decide to give blood.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    We need a poll - show of hands - who actually thinks OP is for real?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Pedant wrote: »
    I actually cannot believe you're going ahead with this 1ZRed. You will regret it. It may effect your employment prospects elsewhere in the future. Also, you're not going to be young forever and they don't like people over 30 (if not over 25) in gay porn so what are you going to do after that? Also, because of the fact that there's so much free porn out there, people don't make money off the videos they make, rather they use it as advertisement for escorting. If you want to make money in that industry then you're also going to have to be a rentboy. Do you really think it's worth it?



    You're okay with barebacking and you're wondering why people are calling you naive? FFS 1ZRed! What's with all these destructive thoughts and action. I've see you've been posting in the "LETS ALL LAUGH AT PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION" thread and on the LGBT forum. TBH, OP, I think you're going through a lot at the minute trying to come out, fear of rejection and with getting into college, etc... I know, it's very tough. I didn't like the attacks you were getting from people on your other thread about college the other night, don't pay any heed to them. I think you should try to get some counselling to help you through all of this. It won't hurt. Just stay away from the porn industry, please, for you own sake. You're not merely a sex object.

    Also, stay the fuck away from barebacking unless you want to get yourself in serious shit, especially if you're having sex with randomers from gay dating apps.

    What else do I have? It's so unbelievably easy to say go get a "boring part time job". Do you think I haven't tried?! Do you think this is better than working somewhere normal to me?

    No it's not and I'm under a heap of pressure from all directions and I want to secure my future for myself.
    And I would sooner do porn full time than become a rentboy. Even though I could because I wake up with 3 or four messages from guys wanting to have sex pretty much daily. so it's not a case of slow business because the demand is there and they're on the hook if I want to bite. But that's disgusting.
    This will prob just be a temporary thing for a year or less depending on how I fair. I might not even make it passed a solo. But if it gets me through college when those grants and links have failed me then yes, it's something to consider.

    I'm not even going to fight with you about the barebacking thing because I'm too tired for it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    1ZRed wrote: »
    What relevancy does that have to me doing porn? I haven't even started and I seem to have a following already.

    Are you going to have a pornstar name? 1ZRed isn't catchy enough.

    May I suggest: Tiny McStuffin-Ladds? (double barrel....classy)

    Judging by his stats "Pencil Dick" seems appropriate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 948 ✭✭✭Muir


    1ZRed wrote: »
    What else do I have? It's so unbelievably easy to say go get a "boring part time job". Do you think I haven't tried?! Do you think this is better than working somewhere normal to me?

    No it's not and I'm under a heap of pressure from all directions and I want to secure my future for myself.
    And I would sooner do porn full time than become a rentboy. Even though I could because I wake up with 3 or four messages from guys wanting to have sex pretty much daily. so it's not a case of slow business because the demand is there and they're on the hook if I want to bite. But that's disgusting.
    This will prob just be a temporary thing for a year or less depending on how I fair. I might not even make it passed a solo. But if it gets me through college when those grants and links have failed me then yes, it's something to consider.

    I'm not even going to fight with you about the barebacking thing because I'm too tired for it.

    I didn't like how people were treating you in these threads, but I've given you good advice on things you could do instead & you completely ignored it. Pedant is trying to give you good advice too but you clearly don't want good advice. You seem to want people to just feel sorry for you.

    If you wanted help with college, you could get it. If you wanted help with your self destructive behaviours you could get that too. You're looking at doing something that will probably ruin the rest of your life, your future relationships and career prospects.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,062 ✭✭✭al28283


    Muir wrote: »

    If you wanted help with college, you could get it. If you wanted help with your self destructive behaviours you could get that too. You're looking at doing something that will probably ruin the rest of your life, your future relationships and career prospects.

    He's just looking for attention


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭mikemac1


    Have seen a few of your posts OP and you're a naive and sensitive soul

    You saw nothing wrong with leaping behind a bar counter and stealing. Could not understand why posters were pointing out what you did.
    You're lucky you didn't get a hammering from bouncers or the staff!


    But then got mighty upset as local lads gave you abuse that night, what were you expecting?



    You want to put yourself in front of a camera yet get upset in your local pub


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Pedant


    1ZRed wrote: »
    What else do I have? It's so unbelievably easy to say go get a "boring part time job". Do you think I haven't tried?! Do you think this is better than working somewhere normal to me?

    Look OP, I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I'm an unemployed student too and looking for work during the summer but I can't find any. I'm not contemplating going into porn though and I would never. I'm also gay and not out yet, so I now what it's like too. But OP, you have to stop thinking the way your thinking, things will pull through eventually. I just honestly think, from reading a lot of your other posts, that you've a lot on your plate at the minute, both emotionally and with college, and it looks like you have to deal with it all by yourself. We're only human, 1ZRed, and sometimes we need help. I think you need some counselling to help you through. Maybe if you want to talk, PM me if you want.
    1ZRed wrote: »
    No it's not and I'm under a heap of pressure from all directions and I want to secure my future for myself.
    And I would sooner do porn full time than become a rentboy. Even though I could because I wake up with 3 or four messages from guys wanting to have sex pretty much daily. so it's not a case of slow business because the demand is there and they're on the hook if I want to bite. But that's disgusting.

    Keep away from both porn and being a rentboy. They're both disgusting. Doing porn is only advertisement for escorts, lots of pornstars nowadays are doing to escorting because tube sites have taken off on the internet in recent years making porn freely available. Even if you only do one video it could effect your longterm employment prospects in the future if someone happens to fall upon the video.

    Escorting is, as you rightly say, disgusting and will lead you down all sorts of dangerous roads so stay clear of it.
    1ZRed wrote: »
    This will prob just be a temporary thing for a year or less depending on how I fair. I might not even make it passed a solo. But if it gets me through college when those grants and links have failed me then yes, it's something to consider.

    OP, it doesn't matter if it's only one video you do, if it goes viral you're fucked because it could effect your career prospect if a potential employer finds out you were doing porn they wouldn't hire you.
    1ZRed wrote: »
    I'm not even going to fight with you about the barebacking thing because I'm too tired for it.

    I not going to fight with you about it either but you have to understand that it's very hazardous. Don't mind what guys tell you about it on those dating sites, they're just looking for a good time and they'll probably end up fucked because of what they're doing. All I can tell you is stop it before it's too late. You can't trust anyone.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Pedant


    al28283 wrote: »
    He's just looking for attention

    I think it's very easy to brush it off as him just looking for attention. From reading a lot of his posted I think what he's going through is something little a deeper than that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭cocoshovel


    Well OP, if you go through with it be sure not to lie about it if you ever decide to give blood.

    Oh god thats disgusting. This is from the same guy who posted the thread "should I get the Hep C vaccination", and said things like "I would date a guy with HIV".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,268 ✭✭✭BunShopVoyeur


    So dramtic these teenagers...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Pedant


    cocoshovel wrote: »
    Oh god thats disgusting. This is from the same guy who the posted thread "should I get the Hep C vaccination", and said things like "I would date a guy with HIV".

    Getting a Hep A/B vaccine is very common actually. You have to get it when you go on holidays to some countries where there's a poor water supply and lots of people get it done when they do an STI test, not because they had it but for added protection in the future. There's nothing wrong with that and it's very much common practice.

    As for his idea of dating someone with HIV, firstly he didn't suggest that he has and secondly if he doesn't have unprotected sex his chances of getting HIV are decrease. Personally I'm personally very much again dating someone with HIV (as I displayed on a recent thread on the LGBT forum), but I honestly think he meant any harm when he said that. Obviously, no-one who's had sex (either protected or unprotected) with someone with HIV should donate blood to be absolutely safe.

    As for lying to donate blood, he was referring to the gay blood ban. If you're a man who's had sex with another man (even if you use protection and it was only oral) you are not allowed to donate blood. This rule does not apply to men who only have sex with the opposite sex, even if they've had unprotected sex in the past. So the rule is illogical, very much discriminatory and reduces the supply of healthy blood. The gay blood ban is a remnant of the days when people didn't understand HIV/AIDS (some even thought it only effected gay men) and doesn't make since in this day and age when HIV/AIDS effects both straight and gay people almost in equal proportion. The gay blood ban has already been removed in some countries including the UK. If the OP donated blood, the blood is still tested for any infection before it does into generally circulation then it's okay.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Pedant wrote: »
    Look OP, I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I'm an unemployed student too and looking for work during the summer but I can't find any. I'm not contemplating going into porn though and I would never. I'm also gay and not out yet, so I now what it's like too. But OP, you have to stop thinking the way your thinking, things will pull through eventually. I just honestly think, from reading a lot of your other posts, that you've a lot on your plate at the minute, both emotionally and with college, and it looks like you have to deal with it all by yourself. We're only human, 1ZRed, and sometimes we need help. I think you need some counselling to help you through. Maybe if you want to talk, PM me if you want.



    Keep away from both porn and being a rentboy. They're both disgusting. Doing porn is only advertisement for escorts, lots of pornstars nowadays are doing to escorting because tube sites have taken off on the internet in recent years making porn freely available. Even if you only do one video it could effect your longterm employment prospects in the future if someone happens to fall upon the video.

    Escorting is, as you rightly say, disgusting and will lead you down all sorts of dangerous roads so stay clear of it.



    OP, it doesn't matter if it's only one video you do, if it goes viral you're fucked because it could effect your career prospect if a potential employer finds out you were doing porn they wouldn't hire you.



    I not going to fight with you about it either but you have to understand that it's very hazardous. Don't mind what guys tell you about it on those dating sites, they're just looking for a good time and they'll probably end up fucked because of what they're doing. All I can tell you is stop it before it's too late. You can't trust anyone.

    I said I haven't barebacked and I never would with hook ups. I'm not stupid. That said I eventually will end up doing it with a boyfriend when we're in a healthy monogamous relationship at some point. There's nothing wrong with that and loads of guys do it and I understand why because it's a close thing emotionally and physically to do in a relationship. Until then, I'm gonna keep wrapping it up.
    Like I said I don't want to fight for once. Thanks for the advice though.

    cocoshovel wrote: »
    Oh god thats disgusting. This is from the same guy who posted the thread "should I get the Hep C vaccination", and said things like "I would date a guy with HIV".

    If you read my post properly I said I would be cautious and ill at ease with the whole situation. But if I got to know him, like and could trust him, and if all necessary precautions were taken, yes I would consider dating someone who was HIV possive. They're not disgusting. They're people themselves and they are not all drug addicts, bed hoppers and bug chasers. They might have contracted the virus in ways beyond drugs and sex so I think that's a really harsh and elitist attitude to have on someone with a fairly serious disease.
    Would you say the same about somebody with cancer?


    Anyway, I appreciate the advice and help some of you have given me but I think
    I'm just done with this site for a while.


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